₦airaland Forum

Etihadstore:
1) Physically attractive people will get respect, even if they did nothing to earn that respect.

2) Money is the only way to solve a great number of life's problems.

3) Heartbreak isn't a possibility, it's guaranteed.

4) Sooner or later you will have to stop caring. Not about your physical and mental health, but about other people. It doesn’t make sense to hang around those who aren't interested in cheering for you.

5) Teachers will love some students and won’t hesitate to criticize/insult others, and you might fall into the latter category (it happened to me). I wouldn't count on an explanation.

6) You have to honor yourself and your wishes. Nobody else will
(7) Apart from your family, nobody really cares
( Hardwork is overated, smart work is the bomb

IkpuNnu:
Only fools and idiotic people of Biafra will buy this fake story from a drug addict..

He is definitely not happy, that all the false propaganda about Herdsmen killing is dying down hence his desperation. He did with IPOB and was shamed, the same treatment awaits him on this..

hungryboy:
i was hoping to see a guy who had 2billion naira in the bank, with 1.5 billion of it in fixed deposit giving him 10 - 15% interest yearly and the other 500million in a savings account, saying this.

kokomaster3d:
I don't know why I hate GEJ. He looks too dull to be a leader. He doesn't even inspire me as a leader. He also look too weak, too 'mumuish', he doesn't have the confidence and charisma of a leader.

slimderek:
I have a question,
Is he White or Black?

slimderek:
I have a question,
Is he White or Black?

anibirelawal:
See transformation na, they were so black before, now they look like caucasian

Jesse01:
there is no God

Missali:
One of the qualities men look out out for in a woman is the ability for her to stay true by him during trying times and a woman who cannot do that is termed a non wife material and slay Queen at best and at worst, a gold digger.
It is believed that when a woman supports her man and he comes to, in turn he will respect her and share responsibilities as he should but often times, this is not the case.

Many at times we have heard experiences from family, friends, colleagues or even gone through it.
Here's mine: I had this boyfriend that was struggling in every sense of the word. We kept on despite his financial shortcomings and I would travel a long distance to see him knowing fully well that the trip expenses and all that came with it were on me. I did not hesitate to oblige favours that I could give and ensured I went out with him during his jobs just to give that moral support.

Things seemed to be going on well until the day I was sitting with some friends and one of them asked how I was enjoying with my boyfriend. I responded with a light laugh and he asked "now that your guy has made it, what is the way forward?"

Me: Made it how?
Guy: Your guy hit over one million in that online betting promo.
Me: Yes yes, it's not easy... Such an unexpected favour at a time like this.

I pretended to be aware and happy but I wasn't myself till the end of the day. Everybody knew the good news except me.
One week, two weeks, one month passed and I got no call from my estranged boyfriend to even tell me what had happened. I refused to call too.

I heard news about how he had become the man about town, declaring free drinks for people he met at our street bars, dashing money to those who came to celebrate with him etc. Whenever someone who knew us sighted me they asked, "are you not M's girlfriend?" and I mumbled any answer that came to mind.
Months later I got a call from him begging to see Me. After many refusals, I decided we meet. He went on his knees apologising, saying he knew I was aware of all that had happened but was too ashamed to contact me. He went on about how he rented an apartment for one girl, was giving out money with reckless abandon, purchased an expensive mobile phone which he ended up selling at an abysmally low price (due to hardship) and how he was popping bottles at bars et al.

The length and breadth of the story was that the money was all gone. The business idea we had brainstormed he made no use of the money to invest. All his friends and girlfriends had left him for good and he felt lonely, he remembered the one who stood by him sincerely.

At the moment he had not a penny, with an empty stomach and looking for a way to get a small job. I could tell he was miserable from his looks alone. If only he had the right company who would have advised him at such a critical time, he'd never have had to go hungry again. I took him to a restaurant and we had a nice meal. He called me a good girl, a loving friend, a confidant blah blah blah.

Ladies, they will come at you with twisted words tell you they want a good woman, a patient woman, a supportive woman etc. Some will even tell you that they can never respect a woman who does not struggle with them. Do not fall for it. Most times, what they want is someone to take their excesses while they move on to cast their net elsewhere. For tens of stories about men who stick by their women when the going got smooth, there are hundreds of untold stories about men who looked the other way.

Playing the supportive role is the case of it may work and it may not. It is not stated anywhere that after standing by him and he leaves for another woman, he will be mobbed. You will simply be remembered as 'the one who once was', that's all.

It is a case of driving into a place with the words "cars parked at owner's risk." Nobody will tell you not to park your car but you hold yourself liable should anything happen to it. Hence, stand by your man at owner's risk.

NoToPile:
From your mouth to God's ears, I hardly comment on posts from the romance section but I could sense the sincerity in your post.

By the way don't underestimate nairaland too, you can meet someone from here. Decent guys and ladies are on nairaland (very decent) you just need to widen your scope.

felnino:
He for dye him hair join.

zeenaman:
When people are really hurt, ethics and protocols are defied. Just imagine how that guy is addressing the VP of the giant of Africa like a normal random person. Lol

Destined2win:


That still doesn't change the fact that gay is disgusting, anti-natural, fooli.sh and self-destructive.

IamAirforce1:
Only a Pussy nigga with no taste would fall for that classless girl up her profile .

See as everything don fall finish

She don take the Hideous photo down .

FortifiedCity:
How will humans end up if everyone was gay or lesbian?

chloedogie:
Truth of the matter is if you don't have another source of income, you will be choked up. I always advise people to learn to spring up another stream of income. It reduces the load on your salary. How do you feel if you run a side business that gives you as little as 20-30k profit per week, that alone has solved most of your weekly expenses. So when the salary comes on the 25th, you have little things to spend money on.

Pidgin2:
OP, get a blog

soberdrunk:
My dear i am going to be blunt and honest with you, dont listen to all these 'aunty feminists' screaming 'give him deadline', that is what put you in this situation in the first place because no man likes to be pressured to do anything, especially 'marriage'. '6 years' is a long time to throw away and it is obvious you truly love him so read the following tips very carefully and follow them if you want to marry this year. Normally i will have charged you one crate of gulder for advice but am feeling generous----


1) kill the topic--- Dont mention anything about marriage again, dont even think of giving him deadline beacause even if it works it might still come up later in the marriage how you pressured him into marriage and whenever you guys have issues you will always hear it.

2)Operation become unavailable!!-- It is no secret that absence makes the heart grow fonder so you have to reduce the time you spend with him, let him crave you more. Let him realize how much he needs you, it is not everytime he dials ur number you will deliver like dominos pizza

3)Competition---- It is time you create competition whether 'imaginary' or 'real', show him that your 'market is selling' and that he has to fight to keep you. We men tend to take women for granted when we realize that there is no competition. Let him no there are options and he is expendable.

4) Go spiritual--- whatever way you worship, you need to talk to the higher force about it


If you do all these any he doesnt marry you in the next 6months-1 year then there is more to the situation than the ordinary eyes can see....

folakemigeh:
hmmmmmm... What is he going to regret exactly ? Accepted he made a mistake impregnating two different girls, but isnt that better for him to pay the girls off and tell them to abort it?

Persin give me belle by mistake now,,,,,, Na to Born am oo.... Gone were those days of "what will i tell my parents"

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

swiz123:
I totally disagree with number 2 Mr op.An employee must not be rewarded with a pat on the back or anything of the kind. An employees reward is his\her salary. So anyone quiting cos of such reason is completely oblivious of the Nigeria's economic situation

Evaberry:
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How did people outside know what was happening considering the girl didn't scream because of threat to life

since it was rape(forceful penetration) why the need to apply lubricant, even if his manhood was big why not penetrate forcefully.

This story is not forward and leaves room for many doubts

A good lawyer should be able to get the man off

innosaint27:



Learn to mind your biz!

simplyhonest:
M.I...just come out of the closet and disclose your sexuality if you are gay... it's nothing to be ashamed of... your job is to make music... not making laws... allow the LGBT community to state their views themselves.... thanks.
MODIFIED: as much as the sexual orientation of the next person is not my concern, I have issues when it is shoved in public space like this... I have a simple question for people who are not heterosexuals... if by chance your parents has choosed your sexual orientation, how will you have been conceived?
...and for those comparing homosexuality with adultery, pls they are wide of the mark... adultery doesn't deny a society the ability to replicate it's kind... homosexuality does that...

Ndifreke12:
Developers!

NwaAmaikpe:


Somebody should ask her to confess.

No price, no pay... She must have brought it on herself.
If you investigate well...you'd see this woman might have done some extremely terrible things in the past.

So it's karma and the repercussions visiting her.

God is not wicked to let all of these happen to a good person.
She's obviously evil.