Romance › Re: Nairalanders, How Are You Spending Your Cross-over Night? by Jflex07(m): 1:27pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
I go dey watch originals season 4 for house. |
Romance › Re: I Dey Find Husband by Jflex07(m): 1:22pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Searchingforbae: You are not wrong ,but i am an optimist,even if its just one person that ends up being a sensible good guy, i don't mind going through that trouble. If you consider yourself a good guy i am sure there is more of your kind here.Its a risk i am willing to bet on however i will try the radio thing. Your input is very much appreciated.thanks Its worth giving it a try my dear. Do not let any pessimist discouraged you from this brave step you have decided to embark on. The truth is that as there are nuisances here, there are still great guys with self respect and good personalities. I wish you the very best miss. |
Celebrities › Re: Twitter Slams MI Abaga For Calling Out Akon For Referring To Wizkid As “lil bro by Jflex07(m): 11:55am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Wolgrace: Hey bro! I know Akon's achievement is greater, no doubt. But Akon been and still calling wizzy "lil bro" despite waxing stronger in achievements. In soccer, we have seen or heard or read about disputes because of lil bro or related words used to address the other. E.g Messi and Maradona disputes, despite their relationship, and some others. Let Akon be addressed by his greater achiever friend in music industry and see his reaction. Forget that thing Shut up! Wizkid even addressed Akon as a big bro on his twitter page.. |
Nairaland General › Re: What was/were your most memorable moment(s) of 2019? by Jflex07(m): 11:03am On Dec 31, 2019 |
jakandeola: buhari won election and July 13 2019. Wen I got married to my beautiful wife.shes a god sent and heavenly woman to me. I pray 2020 is our year of favor in Jesus name. God sent bro.. our God should be written in capital letters always. Happy new year in advance to you and your beautiful Iyawo |
Romance › Re: Chinese Groom Plays Video Of Bride In Bed With Her Brother-in-law At Reception by Jflex07(m): 11:00am On Dec 31, 2019 |
OgunLaakaye: This what I will never do
Just marry her and use her for money rituals months after
You cant lose on both sides This afonja boy, all you type here is rituals, nothing more.. Skull miners are liable to rot in hell. |
Romance › Re: Update: My Girlfriend Has Reconsidered Me, Should I Accept In Good Faith ? by Jflex07(m): 9:22am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Some guys can be so annoying. A girl told you she doesn't love you or can't force herself to love you and you are sending her emotional message albeit indirectly begging for her love..I really feel Sorry for your in the long run. |
Nairaland General › Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Jflex07(m): 8:30am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Realtalk20: But I won't lie I am.not so strong
Twice I deeply planned my suicide to the last detail
I went looking for sniper because at that point Everytime I log on here with free basics I was seeing suicide stories so much so it looked like the best way for me .. but funny enough after planning it , I had no money to buy the sniper , then the second time u was just thinking of how I would look like a coward ..
So I increased my smoking tremendously hoping I would get lung cancer or something.. omo nothing o.. I was doing over 60 sticks a day.. one thing you need to know is down in the gutter life , they may not be able to buy for for you but one thing they can all buy for you is cigarettes... Even the abokis will give you free cigarettes when They like you .
Anyways my point is bravery is relative.. I won't claim to be brave or strong, it was just no guts to go along with the suicide or rather fear of being remembered as a coward .
Thee nairaland trolls help sometimes.. whenever I read posts on suicide and I saw how everyone abused them and called them coward I wasn't ready to be seen that way  Lol! the Nairaland trolls are something else bro, but all the same thank God you never committed the suicide even though you had suicidal thoughts.. E no easy abeg, only a few can stand up again after going through what you have gone through. Let everything you've gone through go with 2019 and let 2020 be a new chapter and please try to attend your interviews and also try to negotiate salary payment within the company's profile. All the best bro |
Nairaland General › Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Jflex07(m): 8:15am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Realtalk20: Thank you bro , wish your brother happy new year for me I will bro. Stay safe |
Nairaland General › Re: What's The Most Painful Loss You Had This Year, 2019? by Jflex07(m): 8:09am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Realtalk20: My prayer is for everyone to learn some.measure of contentment
That was my biggest undoing
I was never satisfied, I felt I always deserved better
I felt I needed more , no matter how much I had
In my.mind I justified it as wanting to make sure my family never lacked when I got married but even that so called marriage never came to pass did it ?
Well ambition is good but when measured
I always switched jobs as I pleased , for bigger pay checks and benefits
I didn't care how my employers felt, im my mind after all if anything happens to me.they will replace me
Anyways that is that
This Christmas was the worst in years .
It's easy to hide behind past pictures on affluence on social media that's the benefit of having lived a life of luxury since graduation..
But there was no depth to any of it, it was all shallow like a sand castle that washes away at the slightest current
All it took for my.life to come crashing down was on push the Indian lady 
Anyways that was how it all went
I have been having insomnia, for months , they say I have hypertension stage 2, though I finally quit smoking and drinking , but still haven't slept in a long while , I mean really slept in over six months .. it's been just those half awake sleeps that lasts for two hours
In Port Harcourt, now trying to clear my head and see what early next year brings , I missed alot of interviews cause of no where to stay in Lagos so I am looking at opportunities outside Lagos too
But not many are open to someone my age and with the experience I ha e sometimes they just assume you are too expensive and don't get back to you
It's been a long journey, and part of the thing that made it so had is I went through it alone..
All alone 
I don't blame.my ex though I deserve it ..
I should have listened.. I have had several nights I woke up screaming hoping this was a night mare I was trapped in and I would wake up in my third floor apartment in Abuja spread out on my couch in the sitting room. 
But nah, it's just mosquitoes and heat...
It takes an unimaginable amount of mental strength not to commit suicide or go insane I must tell you
At some point faith would mean nothing to you, you just have to dig deep down and find that strength to hold on
That was what I did Bro this your story is like a nollywood movie oh. I just showed your story to my brother and he felt so bad, even though we still have our challenges, yours is just too terrible , so many persons cannot survive this, seriously, you are a very strong man, I know it's not easy, but always know one thing in life, giving up is never an option. I really feel for your plight right now. I'm so sorry for everything that has or is happening to you right now.. Wish you a better 2020, Cheers! |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend's Birthday Is On The 1st What Should I Buy For Him ? by Jflex07(m): 9:04pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Buy him Durex condom cos I'm sure he's fucking different pussies wherever he is. |
Romance › Re: Help. My Side Chic Is Going Diabolical On Me by Jflex07(m): 5:40pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Oh! you even have a main chick. Other than sex what else do you gain from the side chick.. Some people deserve whatever they get. |
Sports › Re: How Did You Become A Fan Of Your Club (you Will Be Amazed By Responses) by Jflex07(m): 4:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mine was when I watched the champions league final between FC Porto and Monaco, even though I was a neutral fan and didn't support any club then, I was impressed by Porto and Jose mourinho in particular .During the next soccer season, mourinho left for Chelsea and i decided to stick with Chelsea FC ever since.. Chelsea as a football club has become a part and parcel of me, I follow them in almost every social media, each year I purchase full Chelsea kit for that football season . |
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Politics › Re: Security Chiefs Brief Buhari, Buratai Absent by Jflex07(m): 3:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Gathering of Abokiis. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mass Evacuation In Australia As Heat Risk Rises by Jflex07(m): 2:57pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Yewandequeen: Nigeria is really blessed yet we are not grateful neither do we make use of all benefits bestowed to us naturally. Blessed and cursed too |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo And Peter Obi Condole With Obi Ezeude CEO Of Beloxxi's Family by Jflex07(m): 2:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
RichBoy247: Who is the lord of the Igbos?
a. Olusegun Obasanjo b. Goatluck Jonathan c. Money a.k.a. Ego, Kudi, Owo d. All of the above e. None of the above Jobless yellowbar Muslim cum afonja skull miner constituting nuisance on nairaland. Have you eaten ewedu and amala today whilst mining a skull? poor wretched imp |
Crime › Re: Widow Cries After SARS Killed Her Son In Edo by Jflex07(m): 2:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
NimrodEndOfDays: I thought I was the only one.  We plenty wey dey trace that idiot.. If I ever come across that guy eh. well make I see am first. |
Romance › Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Jflex07(m): 6:56am On Dec 30, 2019 |
One Naira you no get, you dey go into serious relationship. The truth is this bro, love without finance is very boring, your girl will certainly fall for this dude, no matter what you do. She has a whole lot to gain from the other dude and besides she used to have a crush on him before. You are in a very complicated situation bro. You just graduated from school so definitely you will be in your early to mid twenties. I'l advice you focus on making money, that way you will never be an option to any girl. Goodluck |
Politics › Re: Casualties Of Ganduje, Sanusi Quarrel by Jflex07(m): 6:24pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
abluck: VANITY This has gotten stale and useless already. I'm sure you are one of these teenagers littering nairaland whilst constituting nuisance on this great forum. |
Politics › Re: Things I Have Learned On NL This Year by Jflex07(m): 1:27pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
I learnt that if Buhari kills or does anything terrible, a zombie will always praise and worship him. In essence, to a zombie, buhari is perfect, he doesnt make mistakes and he's also their lord and personal Savior.. |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Are Addicted To Blaming All Thier Presidents by Jflex07(m): 1:21pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Afamed: They are lazy youth now. That's why they blame others for their misfortune. Even those who couldn't impregnate their wives will also blame PBM Hypocrite. Didn't you also blame Jonathan while calling him unprintable names? |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Keep Seeing My Dead Nephew In My Dreams! by Jflex07(m): 1:19pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
Mere hallucinations,imaginations and wishful thinking. |
Celebrities › Re: Seyi Awolowo Celebrates His 30th Birthday With Lovely Pictures by Jflex07(m): 8:43pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Netanya:
inside life You have a very cute and succulent lips.. I'm tripping right now babe.. |
Romance › Re: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by Jflex07(m): 8:10pm On Dec 25, 2019*. Modified: 6:38am On Dec 26, 2019 |
Run nigga,!! run!! I hate to hear this shit all the time on nairaland,i love her so much, never love a girl 100% because she can change any moment. My advise for you is to break up with her as soon as possible, no one is perfect but you see anger issues? it's difficult to deal with in relationships. Good luck. |
Politics › Re: DSS Releases Omoyele Sowore by Jflex07(m): 9:42pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr
You all should save your celebration! He is not a freeman
Them go arrest am again
Sowore don't know what he has put his hand
A Man who was about to cause MUTINY, sedition, uprising, anarchy, insurgency, coup d etat, Cataclysmic revolution, putsch, rebellion, subversion, political revolt and insurrection can't go Scot free mumu nigga |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Insults Me And It’s Making me Loose My Mind by Jflex07(m): 8:24am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Bleep off OP.. You are a weak pussy, useless boy |
Romance › Re: . by Jflex07(m): 5:10pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Weak men everywhere. |
Politics › Re: Sowore Appears In Court Today (Photos) by Jflex07(m): 4:59pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Okoroawusa: His continued detention is based on the same rule of law...there are two sides to every law Says a paid zombie whose lord and personal Savior is the tyrant of daura. |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Dragged After Super Cup Loss. Pictures! by Jflex07(m): 4:14pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Africans and Nigerians are something else I swear, a man that has achieved so much in his career is been trolled by jobless never do wells who in there respective life time can never achieve or come closed to achieving what either Ronaldo or Messi has achieved. All they know is stand behind their key board to make fun of these two great soccer players who make the beautiful leather game interesting ,fun and worth while. This message is for the Messi and Ronaldo fan boys who watch soccer with bias ,envy and hatred. |
Romance › Re: Your Advice Can Save My Emotional Trauma by Jflex07(m): 12:10pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
It seems you are possessed by a marine spirit Sarah.. I pray you find a solution asap. |
Politics › Re: Apologise To Buhari, Igbo Youths Urge Nnamdi Kanu by Jflex07(m): 7:12am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Afonja youths disguising as igbo youth.. Thunder scatter all buhari supporters insha allah |