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SabrinaTravel:
Drop your flight ticket inquiries here. I will be here to check your flight ticket fares for you. Also, I will assist to check the authenticity of your flight tickets to avoid any issue or embarrassment at the airport.
Please note: I am not here to sell flight ticket, only to confirm fares for you and/or the authenticity of what you've bought.

Provide the following when making inquiries:

1. your departure city/airport and arrival city/airport

2. if your travel dates is flexible, just provide a tentative date or month or period.

3. let me know if its only adult or child or infant or all of these(family)



Thank you all.

Compliments Sabrina Travel! I commend you for your help in providing information about flight tickets here. I plan to travel from Lagos to Seoul, South Korea in February 2018. Departure date is being scheduled for 17 Feb and I plan to return on the 21st of February. Could you please help provide cost of round trip tickets of Airlines that fly from Lagos to Seoul? Also, are there Airlines that fly from Lagos to Seoul directly or there will be a stopover enroute to Seoul? Bless you.

despam:
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The best education you will ever get is travelling. Nothing teaches you more than exploring the world and accumulating experiences. In both business and personal life, I've always found that travel inspires me more than anything else I do. Travel makes a wise man better. Samuel Johnson, an English writer once said, “All travel has its advantages. If the passenger visits better countries, he may learn to improve his own. And if fortune carries him to worse, he may learn to enjoy it.”

I was privileged to travel to Seoul, South Korea courtesy of West African Power Pool (WAPP) and Korean International Cooperation Agency (KOICA) in 2009 for a course on Designing the Basic Concept of Information Coordination Centre (ICC), a study that was carried out by Korea Electric Power Corporation (KEPCO).

We visited a lot of places during the trip namely: Namgansol Korean Traditional Village - Culture Preservation / Traditional Villages, 765 KV Transmission Substation, President’s Private Home, Hyaundai Car Manufacturing Plant, Power Research Institute, Power Museum, Samsung Innovative Centre, NANTA Theatre, Technology Park, 2002 Seoul World Cup Stadium, Namsam Tower etc.
I learnt a lot of things during the trip but four (4) major ones has stucked with me over the years.

1. Capturing ideas

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On my first day of training in KEPCO Academy, Seoul – South Korea, I was surprised to find pens, pencils and jotters in the toilets. At first, I wondered what anybody will need a pen or pencil and jotter for, in the toilet. I later realized that an idea can pop up from anywhere and you need a pen and paper to capture it. As a writer, I’m addicted to ideas. I feed off on them. And nothing makes me more upset than having a great idea and losing it. Ideas never happen at opportune times, and having the proper idea capture tools can make sure that you’ll capture all your ideas for later processing.

The problem with ideas is that they’re situational. You don’t only have ideas while you’re in front of the computer, or while walking. Ideas happen all the time. This poses an interesting problem when you’re trying to capture all your ideas.

After this trip, I started keeping a notebook and always go out with a notebook and pen wherever I go. I invested US $533, four (4) years ago in Samsung Galaxy Note 8.0. It really was a good investment because I can write wherever I find myself using the Samsung SNote. If you rely more on technology for capturing your ideas and thoughts, be sure to back up your notes regularly. I lost some ideas I captured recently when my Samsung Galaxy Note 8.0 suddenly developed a problem and had to be wiped at a Samsung Service Centre.

Pencils and papers are also great alternatives to your phones. I remember so much more if I write it down. Be sure to tuck a notebook under your arm and pencil behind your ear before you head out if you prefer old school to new technology.

Now that I’ve launched my blog, I find myself writing more than I ever have. Blog posts, email newsletters and random ideas pop into my mind at inopportune moments. I have developed the habit of capturing everything important that crosses my mind, when it crosses my mind.
I use Evernote more to capture ideas, clip pictures, links and videos, set up to do list and goals. It also helps in tracking my goals and to-do list. The good thing about it is that it syncs with my laptop and other devices.

2. Have Backup Plans

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While in Seoul, we visited the Shin-seosan 765KV Substation. When Korea Power Company (KEPCO) embarked on the 765kV project, it was hoping to achieve the following:

1. Transportation capacity increase.
2. Efficient use of land.
3. Construction cost savings.
4. Reduction of transmission loss.

During the planning phase of the project, KEPCO came up with four (4) plans: A – D. Should one plan fail, they were to switch to the next plan and replace the one that failed with another one until the project was successful. Luckily, Plan A succeeded and the project was commissioned in May 8, 2003.

I learnt to have backup plans in whatever I embarked on; be it career, business, relationships etc.

3. Don’t Throw Your Keys Away

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While in Seoul, we visited Namsam Tower – the Love Zone of Seoul City. It is where lovers go and make a vow to love themselves forever. The Love Zone has two (2) parts:

1. Agreement Point where lovers meet and agree to always love themselves and that nothing will come in between them.

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Agreement Point

2. Hanging Point where lovers hang / lock their padlocks, attach a love note and throw their keys away into the valley below believing that they will never need the keys again. Most believe that they will live happily ever after.

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Hanging Point

Unfortunately, many lived to regret their actions. Many have regretted that decision few months or few years into the relationship. They found out that they need the keys to break away from the relationship but the keys must have been washed away by rain, buried somewhere deep down in the valley or in a mountain of other thousand keys. They become stucked up in a relationship they no longer fancy.
Based on this experiences, there is an advice for people not to throw away their keys in case, they need them.

Whether it is business, relationships, jobs or other endeavours, always have an exit strategy in case things don’t pan out as planned. Don’t throw your keys away. Don’t throw caution to the wind. Never allow emotions to becloud your sense of reasoning. Don’t let your guard down. Always remember that in life, things don’t always work out as planned.

4. Does God Exist?

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That is a question my little friend pictured above asked Mr. Femi Fajemiroukun and I eight ( years ago in Seoul, South Korea. He asked the question based on our refusal to eat lunch in a Budha Restaurant.

After site seeing for the day, our host who happened to be his father took us to have lunch in a Budha Restaurant. We were a company of six (6) including our host and his son. We got in, looked around and went to the area of the restaurant we were to have our meals. Instinctively, Femi and I got up, told our host and colleagues that we won’t eat there because it was against our religious beliefs. We can’t claim to be Christians and eat from the Temple of Budha. We refused to even drink water there.

Unfortunately, one of our colleagues who is a Christian didn’t see anything wrong in having his lunch there, so he ate with them. We waited for them outside the restaurant while they had their meals. They joined us outside after their meals.

On our way out of the area, the little boy asked, “Does God Exist?” We answered, “Yes”. He added, “If God exist, why will He allow natural disasters such as tornadoes, hurricanes, earthquakes, tsunamis, floods, fires where so many people lose all they have and some their lives to happen?” “Why will He allow the wars and all the killings in the world to happen?”

We did our best and explained to him that God really do exist. From our discussions with our little friend, I realized that they are people who don’t believe or deny the existence of God because of what they are passing through.

Because some people believe that God doesn’t exist, doesn’t make the immortal, the invisible, the alpha, the omega, the omnipotent, the omnipresent God, non-existent. Because God doesn’t show up when you need Him, doesn’t make Him non-existent and it is not enough reason to give up on Him. Don’t give up on God because He won’t give up on you. God can never give up on any man that is holding on to Him.

Conclusion

South Korea is a technologically driven society. I had a wonderful time there and I look forward to visiting there someday again. I first saw and experienced 3D glasses before it became well known. I had the privilege of checking my biological age there.
Develop the habit of capturing everything important that crosses your mind. Capture ideas in whatever means that is convenient for you; be it using pen/pencil and paper or using technology – SNote or Evernote.

Always have an exit strategy in case things don’t pan out as planned. You always have a way out. An exit strategy to make sure you don’t get hurt. You always walk away. You walk away before they can walk away from you.

Always have a backup plan. If the plan doesn’t work, change the plan but never the goal. If Plan A didn’t work, the alphabet has 25 more letters. Stay cool. In the words of Julie Andrews, an English actress, singer, author, theatre director and dancer, “Perseverance is failing 19 times and succeeding the 20th”.

That God exist is never in doubt. Don’t allow the troubles of life to make you doubt God’s existence. God will always be God. Don’t give up on God because He won’t give up on you. God can never give up on any man that is holding on to Him.
Traveling is not frivolous. We must travel to increase our understanding and caring for others in the world. Travel while you are young and able. Don’t worry about the money just make it work. Experience is far more valuable than money will ever be.

Source: http://www.ofonimeessien.com/my-south-korea-travel-experience/

Happy Sunday! I love this writeup. Thanks for sharing your experience with us on this forum. I plan to travel to Seoul in January 2018. I would like to ask, please how much is flight ticket from Nigeria to South Korea? Are there Airlines that fly directly from Nigeria to Seoul or there will be stopover? Lastly, what is the average price per night of good hotels in Seoul? Bless you.

oladokuntk:
l wonder what this thick black man has done to have warranted commendation. He was president for 3 good terms, Lagos-Ilorin Express road still lies in shambles, Toll gate to Abeokuta is a dead trap. Seems GEJ was high on tombo before making that statement.
Hisses and rolls the eye.

Sir, please read the article. He wasn't commending him at all. He was talking about his political influence, he wasn't praising him for good performance as president. The issue Jonathan was talking about was Obasanjo's political influence and not about his performance in office.

waveman2:
Forget dat talk. Obsanjo lost his ward.

The last time Obasanjo contested an election in this country was in 2003. He couldn't have lost an election wherein he wasn't a contestant.

tishbite41:
wen he lost the lga elections as u confirmed was he contesting for lga chairmanship? so I'm right.

The last time Obasanjo contested an election in this country was in 2003.

tishbite41:
he was pdp bot chairman as at 2011 and he lost his ward to ACN. that was d reason he stepped down as bot chairman

That was PDP vs ACN. Not the individual Olusegun Obasaanjo vs an opponent

tishbite41:
2011, he could not win his own ward. can u beat that.

The last time Obasanjo contested an election in this country was in 2003. Chief Olusegun Aremu Obasanjo didn't contest any election in 2011 and I am sure you know that 100%

ShineuEye:
How many local govts did Obasanjo win in his state when he was President?

Why anyone would think that monkeyman is a boss is beyond me.

Boss of monkeys maybe but not humans.

Sir, you are trying to use a point that favours Obj against him, that won't work. The fact that he didn't win much local governments in his state. Now, if he didn't win much local government in his state and even the South West where he came from, but still emerged as the victor nationally, then that shows that he is a National man and not a sectional or regional politician. In fact, that's Obasanjo's strength, his network that goes beyond the south west. Then, those saying that Obasanjo didn't win much local government in his state are deliberately distorting facts. Obasanjo contested twice, in 1999 and 2003. Yes, it's true that he lost south west in 1999, but he cleared the entire south west in 2003, including all local governments in his state. Those saying that he lost his local government are talking about 1999, not 2003. Now, I understand that as humans, if we don't like someone, we hardly see their strength. Even I myself, I don't like him that much. But whether we like him or not, the bitter truth is that Obasanjo is an influential man in this country. Whom God has blessed, no man can put him down, no matter how much we hate him

Rilwayne001:
Save A Soul: A Nairalander's B.Sc First Class Certificate Was Stolen

This happened to a brother of mine in ilorin. He graduated last month and was issued the certificate few weeks ago.



ANYBODY IN ILORIN SHOULD PLEASE HELP US SHARE THIS.

Moderators, please help us push this to front page. NYSC posting is starting in a week time and he'll be needing the certificate.


Please help.

This is a serious issue and should be treated as such. Thank God a phone was stolen. You can use that to get them. Just contact IRT or STS Abuja. Both IRT and STS Abuja are elite squad of the Nigerian Police reporting directly to the IG's office. I can authoritatively confirm to you that they are the best when it comes to tracking stolen phones and getting the thieves. I know of lots of such cases. Just give them your phone's IMEI, and they will get the thief. Both IRT and STS are located at SARS office in Abuja, a place popularly referred to as 'Abattoir' here in Abuja. They will track the phone to the culprit(s) location and arrest them. After that, they will collect your certificate for you. Even if the thieve(s) have sold the phone, they will still get to the buyer and the buyer will take the police straight to the seller. Please don't say that you will take the case to the Police in Ilorin or any other division. Those places don't have tracking capability. I specifically recommended Abuja SARS because they have the technology in their office. They can even listen to conversations on any phone in Nigeria and even show you all the messages you have sent and received on your phone since you bought it even if you have deleted them.

Locked:
Hello Nairalanders,

I need serious advice on how to recover my money ASAP.

I was defrauded about 1.5 million by a clearing agent and I reported the case to the police, the police collected all together about 100K from me to trace and track down the criminal who was proving smart and trying to be elusive. Eventually he was caught.

He was asked what he did with the money and to provide the money and he started giving stupid excuses that he has used my money to clear someone else's car and sort out some other problems he had. Can you imagine?

He has been in police detention for 2 days and no family member has come except his brother. No one is talking about how to refund my money, all they are doing is begging.

I have been lamenting to the police to handle the case more seriously so that the criminal would provide the money, but they have been so lenient and very lackadaisical in handling this case.

I am confused right now.

Christmas is coming and my family would need that money to survive.

The criminal must have kept the money somewhere, why not provide it

So Nairalanders, please help me with advice. I was so happy when I heard that he has been arrested. He is in police custody now, how do they recover money in cases like this?

The police are saying that they would be charging him to court and I am afraid that he might get bail. And that's it? my money gone?

No way! please advise.

Mods, please front page

Transfer the case to SARS office Abuja. I can confirm to you that as soon as he gets there, he will bring out the money. SARS Abuja knows how to handle such people perfectly and cause them to vomit the money swallowed.

iambabaG:
One of the very many benefits of using an iPhone!

But if the thief turned off the iPhone as Bovi claimed, then they could not have used the find my iPhone app he claimed they used to find the phone to locate it. Find my iPhone feature can track a phone only when the phone is switched on and connected to the internet

Is this real or just a joke. I doubt the authenticity of this story because if the thief had turned off the phone as you said, then you can't locate it with Find my iPhone. Find my iPhone only works when iPhone is turned on and connected to the internet.

OZAOEKPE:
;One thing led to another thing he told me that tinubu's main children are on the street of surulere roaming about begging and misbehaving and those ones we see on TV are not his biological children.

I am surprised that someone like you who writes English so well could believe the trash you heard from an uncivilised person. Imagine someone saying that Tinubu's biological children are the agberos roaming the streets and the ones we see in the media are not his children, and you ate such trash up! Hmmmmm, it is well.

AutoJoshNIG:
Like the name implies, Travel Health Insurance is a policy that covers any eventuality that occurs when you travel out of Nigeria to another country; be it for pleasure or business.

When have you ever travelled and kept money for a possible urgent medical intervention?

Many of us are so medically fit, and some have not been to the hospital in the past 5 years, so we really do not think that we could fall ill or get involved in an accident abroad that may require medical treatment or repatriation back to Nigeria to get treatment. We all travel with only “flex & shopping” money.

Do you even know that Travel Health Insurance (also known as InsurVisa) is now required by some embassies before you are issued a visa to their country?

If you are travelling to a Schengen country, it is compulsory for you to have a Travel Health Insurance that has a cover of 30,000 Euro.

Below is how the need for Travel Health Insurance was clearly stated on Finland’s consular website:

“Before the visa can be issued, the applicant must present an insurance policy as described below:

must be issued by an accredited Schengen insurance policy company
has to be valid in all Schengen countries
has to cover expenses caused by illness, accident, medical care and possible repatriation up to the amount of 30,000 Euro
has to be valid for the whole duration of the journey
has to be presented only if the visa has been approved”
And on the site, the Insurance Companies accepted by Schengen countries were listed – Mutual Benefits Assurance (whom I represent) is one of the four listed accredited Insurance companies that are accepted in Nigeria.

Also, Travel Health Insurance can be required if you are visiting the United States of America and Canada. You should know the health systems in these countries are presently complicated, and their government do not want to be liable for the medical care or repatriation of tourists, hence the need to have insurance cover.

Aside from the fact that Travel Health Insurance is compulsory to gain entry into some countries, the need to have this cover when travelling worldwide cannot be overemphasised. Eventualities like accidental death, repatriation, emergency medical intervention occurs.

For example, do you remember the popular Nollywood actress, Moji Olaiya, who died of Cardiac Arrest in Canada? Her family had to raise funds from public figures like APC Chieftain Bola Tinubu and Ekiti State governor Ayo Fayose for a monetary contribution to have her body repatriated back to Nigeria for burial. If there was a Travel Health Insurance policy cover on her, her family would have been saved the hassle of seeking funds from these public figures. This is exactly why the policy is important for every Nigeria travelling out of the country.

Another importance of Travel Health Insurance that is always overlooked by people who intends to travel overseas is that this policy aides their visa acquisition process. Many embassies do not categorically state that Health Insurance policy is important to get into their countries, but it is a known fact among travel agents that this insurances policy can influence your visa acquisition positively. There is a chance your visa application would be rejected if you don't have a Travel Health Insurance Policy.

The benefits of travel health insurance are peace of mind and confidence that you get when you are covered and travel abroad. The covers have a limit of 30,000 Euro for any accident, medical care, and repatriation. If you need make a claim, you just walk into any designated partner of your insurance company in the Schengen countries, present your policy certificate, and get all the necessary assistance. Or simply contact your insurance company for assistance.


https://autojosh.com/what-is-travel-health-insurance-and-why-you-need-it-before-you-travel-out-of-nigeria/

As the covers have a limit of 30,000 Euro, does this mean that I have to pay €30,000 before getting the insurance?

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These are throwback Photos of Nigeria's former Vice President and next President, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar as a bubbly young man.

hakeem4:
What type of fat bullets are these?

Those are shots used in shot guns, not bullets

wizemax:
And yet sb is here saying plz come and rape me......arrant nonsene!
wat is d penalty for rape for a male in nigeria?
Women have it made in this world.
A man commits a crime and is called all manner of names, sometimes judged without a fair trial.
A woman does the exact same thing and suddenly its a joke
When will we men wake up to our rights and responsibilities as human beings, and not as the second-class citizens women dictate for us.
Later the same women will be the first to spit bare-faced lies i.e ïts a man's world"
WAKE UP BOYS!

Thanks for this. If a man rapes a woman, people calls for his head. But if a woman rapes a man, people begin to defend her with the fallacious excuse that the man enjoyed it and that's why his organ got erected. That's a lie. It is natural for a potent man to get erection if there is flesh to flesh contact with a woman whether he desires it or not. Rape is rape no matter the gender of the rapist, and the rapist should be punished according to a law.

Sarah20A:
Abeg E sweet the pastor if not how he preek take enter their honeypot

There's no need defending rapists because they are female in this case. If there was no contact between them, and the man gets erection, then I would have agreed with your argument. But in a situation where a man is rendered unclad, lay on the bed with about three unclad women holding him down forcefully, while another unclad woman climbs him and sets her bottom directly on his organ flesh to flesh, if the man isn't impotent, he is bound to get an erection. This has nothing to do with whether he desires it or not, in such a situation, the erection is as a result of nature and reflex reaction. When a man rapes a woman, people calls for his head. But when the rapist is a woman, people start defending her with the fallacious excuse that if the man didn't enjoy it, he wouldn't have gotten erection.

odiereke:
How can a man be gang raped? Without his consent, I don't expect him to have his stuff strong to be inserted into those ladies.
Except the pastor too have the motive indirectly in his mind.

I don't know why men like defending female rapists by blaming the man on the ridiculous excuse that if the man did not want it, his penis wouldn't stand erect. It's a lie. Whether a man wants it or not, flesh to flesh contact between an unclad woman and and an unclad man will immediately arouse the man. This has nothing to do with whether the man wants it or not. The only situation where your excuse holds water is if there is a good distance between the man and woman and both are fully covered up, and then, the man gets aroused in such situation, then we can say that he desired it secretly. Please, think about this, you render a potent man unclad, lay him flat on bed with about three unclad women holding him down forcefully, and then, another unclad woman climbs him and set her bottom directly on his organ flesh to flesh, let's face it, his organ will erect. In such a situation, what causes the erection is more about nature and reflex response, not the issue of desire. When a woman is raped, everyone starts blasting the man. But when a man is raped, everyone starts defending the female rapist by saying that the man had erection because he enjoyed it. Sir, that's unfair to male victims.

yemmight:
Osinbajo fall my hand. You don allow inferiority complex set in and those idiots will capitalize on same.

No, the topic is misleading. Read the complete story. He was joking and referring to body sizes (he being a physically minuscule man).

Emzyme:
Y will they sack this guy

You are funny. You saw a tweet by EFCC commending him and wishing him well, you're still asking why they "sacked him." That's not a tweet from an employer sacking an employer, that's a farewell tweet.

Amarabae:
Broke guys always crying when they spend little money on a girl.
Whats #3500? Is it a big thing to spend on a date with a girl?
And he even opened a thread for it?
Grow up pls.

Broke girls are not in position to berate broke guys because they are both broke and belong to the same class. Only a rich and financially independent girl has the authority to berate broke guys because she has what they don't have. Any girl who is depending on a man's money is a broke ass, and I am sure the girl the OP was talking about belongs to that class. I am acquainted with financially independent women, so I know about them. No matter the millions a guy has in his account, financially independent girls don't give a damn and don't need a guy's money. They can afford whatever they need without a kobo from any man.

newsynews:
Wow!

I was in a bus on my way home when I spotted a really nice figure 8 lady strolling in the dark. I was close to my bus stop so I alighted quickly to meet the girl. Surprisingly, she was very polite and I enjoyed the little chat we had together. It was really dark that night, so I couldn't see her face clearly. I got her number and we fixed a date to meet by the pool side of an hotel in the neighborhood.

D-day came and I called her. Her phone was switched off. Towards 6pm, she flashed then I called her again. She apologized then asked if we could still meet that late to which I obliged. That was when she chipped in that her friend will accompany her.

What?

No shaking

I told her there was no problem about that. With the new development, I decided to tell my friend to accompany me too.

I got to the hotel with my friend and still had to wait for 45minutes before they showed up. Next was a call on my phone telling me that they are outside. On getting there, what I saw was made me weak. Her face was scary but the curves tho...

Her friend was like an old woman or a vulture. They were still doing shakara that they can't enter. Perhaps, they wanted me to beg them. I just turned and went inside. No one told them to follow me in.

To shorten that episode, I bought drinks and meat worth 3200. Immediately they finished their drinks, they got up and left. Maybe they thought we were going to tell then to follow us home.

Wow, smart!

The following Sunday, she agreed to come to my house. Sounded nice till she disappointed by ensuring her line was not reachable. She did that for 2 more Sundays then I had enough. What angered me is the fact that when it's 30minutes to the time she's suppose to come, she calls to remind me. Now when it's time, her phone becomes switched off. At first, I thought it was just coincidence till I noticed that she has been avoiding to give me her friends number cos my friend had been disturbing me for it. When asked how he would deal with the vulture, he said he would use pillow to cover her face or make her face the wall.

Well, I decided it would be best I pay her in her own coin. And all though the amount I spent was small, plus the fact that part of it went into I and my friend's belly, I still felt it would be best to teach her a nice lesson. If she's not taught a lesson, she might repeat the same trick on another humble fellow.

I called her on a weekday to tell her I was having my birthday the following day and that the celebration will be at Ikeja shoprite. I also told her I will be buying her some provisions at shoprite after the celebrations and that she should come with 2 friends of hers. I could almost feel the way she was smiling, giggling and praising me by calling me baby.. sweetheart.

D-day came and I called her that I'm already there with 2 friends of mine. She first doubted cos she couldn't hear any sound of bubbly activities. But when I handed the phone to my friend who knew about the plan, she believed thinking we were really at shoprite.

Few minutes later, she called to tell me they were at the car park in shoprite Ikeja. I told her to give me a minute that I will come meet them.

Since then, she has left my phone with over 30 missed calls.

The idea is to make her vomit the amount she thought she ate from me, no matter how little it was. She was smart at first by bringing her friend to come "chop him money". Now, that amount she chopped has been spent on transporting to shoprite with the hope of eating and going home with big yellow nylon bags. Oh, I forgot to add the embarrassment she and her friends will feel when they did not See Me.

I know some people might want to call me out saying "is it because of the small money you spent?"


Well, nothing you say will stop the joy I derived from teaching a slay queen a lesson.


See Me see missed calls.

Don't mind anyone who criticizes you on this. I like what you did. To some people, if a girl treats a man unfairly, it's okay. But if a man decided to give a girl a taste of her own medicine, it's unjust. To them, if a girl rejects a man, fine. But if a man rejects a woman, bad. I do not subscribe to such ideas. However, OP you also have a lesson to learn from this. Sometimes, if a woman appears to be do easy from the beginning, that might indicate she is up to something. The moment you implied that she was easy when you approached her late at night in darkness that was so gross that you couldn't see her face (she even gave you, a stranger her number at such time), I knew she would later act the way she did.

LexngtonSteele:
I agree that criminals regardless of gender shouldn't be stripped.

But I have seen fewer males stripped for shoplifting hence the emphasis on females.

Let's face it, how many ladies do you see forcefully tearing clothes of the bodies of male criminals? There you have it...

It's naturally not easy for a woman to strip a man no matter how much a perv the woman is, and you and I know that. However, my point is that the men who rush to criticize the stripping of women should also criticize when a man is stripped. I once witnessed a scene in a traffic jam. Two cars brushed each other, one car belonged to a man and the other belonged to a woman. Immediately after the cars hit each other, the woman charged out of her car and suddenly dipped her hand into the man's trouser (an elasticated sports wear), threatening to pull the man's private organ if he didn't repair her car. The most shocking thing to me was the way the men gathered there began begging the woman to please leave the man alone. Now, imagine if it was the man who dipped his hand into the woman's skirt, while threatening to touch here private part, the same men who were begging the woman would have accused the man of sexual assault and would either mob him or hand him over to police. It's good to defend women and I am all in support of defending them when mistreated, but not by discriminating against men.

LexngtonSteele:
stripping criminals especially women

Sir, I agree with you totally that stripping criminals is evil and should be outlawed. It's an uncivilized act. However, I disagree with you on the emphasis "especially women." The simple rule should be no stripping of criminals no matter the gender. I still don't understand why some men keep quiet when a man is stripped but rush to criticize when a woman is stripped. Stripping suspects is evil no matter the gender. I don't subscribe to the idea that a woman's body is special than a man's body. Both are equally special and should be respected equally and both should not be violated.

Festy4sure:
This is rubbish, it shall not go down well with whoever that did this to this woman. she is old enough to be their mother

Yes, what they did is bad and I am opposed to it. But I don't see these kind of comments when a male suspect is stripped. Is it that it's okay to strip men but bad to strip women?

mayorkyzo:
some people saying it's wrong to strip her,i don't see them complaining when a male armed robber is stripped..

That's my observation too. While I am opposed to stripping suspects, all these people condemning the act keep quiet when a male suspect is stripped, but rush to criticize when a female suspect is stripped. The simple rule should be no stripping of suspects, no matter their gender. On this forum, we usually see stories of male suspects who are stripped, and these critics keep quiet. But when they see a female suspect who is stripped, they start shouting that it's wrong to strip a woman. Are they saying that it's okay to strip a man but bad to strip a woman?

Guyman02:
Enough of this stripping naked, you dehumanize other women by exposing the private part of a suspect to children, whom it also destroys their psyche and make them to start imagining how their mothers and aunties look naked.

It is sexual perversion on the part of so many men that brings about this stripping people naked and parading them around it should stop.
You can even see one of them spreading her legs wide apart so as to see the inside of her pussy and take lurid pictures and videos on their phones
Police should also start arresting these perverts and not only the suspected criminals and kidnappers


See one of the perverts I am talking about here, he opened this thread just to see pussy and breasts and because it is censored he runs out of thread; they are the ones who strip women nude at any slight accusation even over unsubstantiated claims and without ascertaining the mental health of the accused victims.

This criminal act is so rampant that a judge in Nairobi angrily sentenced 3 men to death for stripping a woman nude accused of improper dressing, perhaps same is needed in Nigeria. See the story here on BBC News.
http://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-40654155 (Three Kenyan men sentenced to death for stripping woman)

I am 100% against stripping of suspects no matter what, and I agree with you that what those guys did was wrong and unlawful. However, folks like you make it look like it's okay to strip male suspects while it is barbaric to strip female suspects. In your comments, your emphasis was on why it's bad to strip female suspects. Sir, it should be why it's bad to strip any human no matter their gender. If it's bad to strip a woman, then stripping a man naked too should also be condemned. You guys rush to condemn the stripping of a woman while keeping quiet when a man is stripped. Whether man or woman, unclothedness is unclothedness and both should be condemned. A woman's body is in no way special than a man's body. Both should be respected equally.

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Jeezuzpick:
When you get Born Again, your nature changes such that you ought to no longer enjoy sin. That is the main thing. If you are unhappy to give up some things the Bible says is wrong, then you have a problem that must be dealt with.

That said, you can live above sin, because you should have no desire to keep sinning.

However, you can "fall" into sin (falling is from up to down; it is one who is "up" that can "fall down". When that happens, you have Jesus as a pathway to forgiveness (1John 2vs 1&2).

It is much like a child who falls down. He/she gets back up and dusts the clothes in an attempt to be clean again.

If you have a child that falls down once and sleeps there and begins to live right there on the ground, asking you to bring food to that place where he/she is lying, how will you feel?

That's how God feels when we say we cannot live above sin, thus we remain wallowing in it.

Thanks for reading.

Excellent answer. Your tone also indicates maturity. Keep it up

Afam4eva:
What sort of prisons do people go too these days that they don't even spend a year. Do celebrities now have their own prison?

It might be that she was bailed and they are reporting it as being released from prison.