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Politics / Re: Uk 'cocaine Capital Of Europe' by JJYOU: 11:26am On Jun 25, 2009 |
think of a 2012 headline titled Nigeria 'cocaine Capital Of Africa' we are showing signs the uk was showing just 20yrs ago so why you rejoice dont think it stops here. it is a global headache. majority of the money you cant trace its source in nigeria are drug money. back2back:are you by any chance a supplier? how do they go after the demand and let the supply route open? well wellcome to world without frontiers. the use of drugs is not only uk problems. we have our own set of junkies including our senators and govs. JustGood:you know u are too clever to come out with things like this. this is one vile business. who advertised to all the alhajas and drug barons to come get gullible innocent minds become jubkies? sadly nigerian youths has money to feed this habit now. many of the smaller african nations are already having drug problems so how is our nigeria going to be immuned? |
Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by JJYOU: 11:16am On Jun 25, 2009 |
truly-opal:amen and God bless you for telling it. some people make being human being difficult. |
Romance / Re: Which Of Them Should I Marry by JJYOU: 10:54am On Jun 25, 2009 |
8inch+:you are so funny. she said truth tho. very soon you will get question like should i eat with my right or left hand? accept i am man or woman, continue saying hi to my mum and dad on NL. |
Properties / Re: Urgent Sale! 2 Single Plots Of Land(c Of O) Opp Rhythm 93.7fm,lekki Beach.-18m by JJYOU: 3:01pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
opetutu:opetu long time i heard that word. you are funny |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam And My Profession - I Need Help by JJYOU: 2:54pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
Jarus:how then did you misss this one below? [size=18pt]"a true follower of jesus [/size]. . ."[quote][/quote] |
Romance / Re: A Choice Between The Man I Love, And My Love For My Future Kids! by JJYOU: 2:50pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
toff one |
Music/Radio / Re: Reuben Abati Vs Banky W: A Must Read! by JJYOU: 2:48pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
rapjunkie:i am not a fan of abati and his type but what most of you here seems to ignore is that nigeria has nothing in place for the drugs, hopelessness and moraly vacum that goes with the lifestyle he is condemning. take europe as a case study. majority of the price europe is paying today are the result of the stupidity and free love generation of the 60s and 70s. lets not do america today. what is in place to bail out nigerians when the bottom cave in? you wish the music and entertainment industry will give you the solutions. |
Romance / Re: True Love Does Not Necessary Guarantee Faithfulness(My Story Part 2) by JJYOU: 2:29pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
mm |
Romance / Re: Everybody Please What Do I Do In This Situation. by JJYOU: 2:27pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
shinaidowu:i have always said most bankers are hookers by name and nature. sadly i have to advice you take what you have and thank your lucky stars you didnt loose the lot. what if she brings your mrs into this will it still be worth the money? whatever you do pls dont tell the bank manager cos that willl result in something else. this is another naija woman learning how not to be a house wife cos there is always "free easy money" to be made outside the home. most of you say these girls are hookers cos of no job. do people work in the bank for free in naija now? |
Business / Re: How Can We Combat Fraud In Nigeria? by JJYOU: 2:14pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
train all to be criminals |
Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by JJYOU: 2:11pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
apreshe8:you make me see why nigeria will always have polygamy and mostly weak and struggling relationships. religious societies are supposed to have strong marriages not nigeria where everyone is wired to think or have plan B just incase. Theblessed:u wish NL was a special audience to do opinion polls on |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam And My Profession - I Need Help by JJYOU: 1:34pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
Jarus:you think it is okay to delete peoples post becos they ask questions on islam can i ask why you think it is okay for the OP to say things like "a true follower of jesus . . ." the idiot came here talking about christian gamblers you didnt remember u were supposed to be a moderator did you? you guys keep blaming those in govt for being dictators and evil but you people are not better cos the likkle power seun dose out to you on NL your true colour comes out |
Family / marry a blind man? Uncommon Love by JJYOU: 1:19pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
[size=18pt]Uncommon love[/size] ‘Is it a crime to be deaf and dumb and still fall in love?’ By TESSY IGOMU Wednesday, June 24, 2009 Abiodun and Bimbo with their son Like the mythical Romeo and Juliet who remained inseparable even in death, they have vowed to stick together. Be it in the rain or in the sun, this couple have sworn that nothing, not even their persecution by some family members opposed to their union, will change their resolve to stay together till “death do them part.” Bimbo and Abiodun Oluwa’s story is like a wedlock solemnized by the gods. They are no Siamese twins, but they have become conjoined by fate. Strangely, their love found a formidable front in their disability. The lovebirds are both deaf and dumb. The love story of the Oluwas makes true the axiom that love knows no bounds. As you watch them communicate through sign language, you cannot but feel a surge of emotions coursing through your veins. The union has so far been blessed with three lovely children, among them a set of twins. One of the twins, however, passed on recently. He was about a month old. Bimbo and Abiodun’s story dates back to 2002 when they met and fell in love. Initially, there were no objections to the affair, and the duo soon became the envy of their peers and family members. The couple insist that their travails were as a result of Bimbo’s stubborn stance against an attempt to lure her into prostitution in Finland by Lola, Abiodun’s elder sister. That, they claim, has further pitched them against some members of the Oluwa family. The deaf and dumb lovebirds who can hardly defend themselves against external aggressors are reportedly facing threats and harassments from Abiodun’s siblings. If no step is taken soon to forestall the sword of Damocles hanging over the couple’s head, they may soon be thrown out of their apartment at Shogunro Estate, Ogba. Though the estate is presently a subject of litigation between the Lagos State government and the federal government, Abiodun claims his late father who was a retired major bought the flat about 30 years ago from the National Orthopaedic Hospital Igbobi. He also claims that his father owns many landed properties. But he says his mum and siblings are not giving him his share of the estate because of his state. “I am not bothered about the properties,” he tells you. “All I want is for them to leave me alone to take care of my family. Nigerians should beg them to leave us where we are in peace. Is it a crime to be deaf and dumb and fall in love”, he asks. According to Abiodun, the only antidote to his family’s fury is for Bimbo to walk away from his- life forever. “But can the cord of love be easily severed,” he asks. Abiodun Oluwa, who says he’s from the Oluwa royal family of Lagos, tells Daily Sun that their problem commenced gradually in 2003 when he was invited to Finland by his elder sister, Lola, a staff of Siemens. He disclosed that after arriving Finland, a letter of invitation was sent to Bimbo on his insistence. Abiodun noted that though he and Bimbo had their engagement ceremony before he left the country, the money he later sent home to enable both families legalise the union was seized by his mother, Faidat Oluwa. The graduate of Electrical Engineering from Technical College, Yaba, revealed that when his wife arrived in Finland, his sister wanted her to go into prostitution, but she vehemently refused. According to him, when his wife got pregnant, his sister, who all the while had ulterior motives, allegedly destroyed the pregnancy without their consent. He explained that after every effort to frustrate them failed, the death of his father in 2004 became a virile platform for his family to execute another plan to forcefully separate them for good. He recounted that his sister travelled with Bimbo to Nigeria to bury his father but returned without her. After every effort to inquire about his wife’s whereabouts from Lola failed, he reportedly set out on his own to re-establish contact with her. This move, he noted, did not go down well with Lola. “She immediately sent me to live with another of our sisters in Spain,” he says. While in Spain, his continued correspondence with his wife in Nigeria again earned him his sister’s anger. “She subsequently threw me out at the peak of winter. I was arrested by the Spanish authorities and detained as an illegal immigrant.” Abiodun revealed that during his incarceration, his disability turned out to be a great disadvantage because he could not really explain himself to the Spanish police. It was at this point that he decided to contact his father in-law, Mr. Sunday Olaitan who reportedly helped him with vital documents which proved that he entered Spain legally. Mr. Olaitan corroborates Abiodun’s words. He tells Daily Sun that when he realised that his son-in-law was in trouble, he informed the mother who swore that Abiodun would be left to rot in Spanish in jail since has refused to leave Bimbo. “Without Abiodun’s people, I was able to send the documents he requested through courier,” he explains. According to him, he wept like a baby the day Abiodun arrived in his house looking like a mad man with dishevelled hair, tattered clothes and overgrown beards. “The first thing he communicated to me was, he wanted to know where his wife was. He later narrated to me how he was deported to Niger Republic by the Spanish authorities, beaten into a pulp and robbed of everything he had, including his travelling documents.” The couple’s ability to start their relationship afresh was allegedly seen by some members of the husband’s family as an affront. According to Abiodun, immediately they moved into one of his father’s apartment in Block 10, Flat 12, LSDPC Housing Estate, Ogba, his mother came with a truck to remove everything in the house. “She did not even leave a broom for me and my pregnant wife, even though she knew that I had nothing yet”, writes Abiodun. “When my wife became pregnant with our twins, my mother forcefully sublet two of the three rooms in the apartment, leaving us with the smallest room. She has been coming with different people threatening to throw us out of the house. She is not bothered about her new grandson that is barely two months old.” Abiodun who says they have been living from hand to mouth gives a graphic description of how the woman rejected by his family has been the one feeding him and their children. “She has been feeding the family from the little she makes from her hairdressing business. It is not as if I am lazy but every effort I make to do something good is destroyed by my mother. My wife is a professional hairdresser and makeup artist. I thank God for giving her to me. She has stood by me. Her advice has saved me many times from trouble and even death”, he scribbles. “The type of ill treatment given to this couple even though they are disabled should not come from their blood not to even talk of a mother,” interjects Bimbo’s dad, Mr. Olaitan. “I have been responsible for their upkeep. When Babalola, their first son was born with jaundice and was discharging blood through the nose, no family member came to help them. I carried the responsibility. It is what my daughter has been subjected to that gives me pain. “Bimbo was not born with this disability. When she was three years old, she passed out one day while playing with her friends outside the house. She was rushed to the hospital where she was given an injection. She remained unconscious for two weeks. After regaining consciousness, she could no longer talk, walk or hear. We had to teach her how to walk again. That was how she became deaf and dumb.” He then launches into an account of his daughter’s ill treatment in Finland. “Bimbo is just 30 years old, but she has been made to face tough challenges. She has been cheated out of her rights by people that should protect her. She was denied all her entitlements in Finland. Even the money Abiodun earned was not given to him.” According to Bimbo’s father, in the letter of invitation sent to Nigeria by the Embassy of Finland, Lola applied for Bimbo’s residency as a Child Help and her wages should have been 202 Euros per week. Mr. Olaitan notes that the way his daughter was shabbily treated during her father-in-law’s burial made him realise that things had snowballed out of control. “During the burial, family members and grandchildren were told to come out for a group photograph. As my daughter tried to join them, Lola, Biodun’s elder sister in Finland pushed her away. My family members were not happy but we decided to keep quiet. At the end of the day, they travelled back without her. Up till this moment, none of them have bothered to tell me why they brought her back home. I have advised my daughter to leave Abiodun alone but she said that would be over her dead body. The situation is beyond me.” As he speaks, Bimbo walks in quietly, feeding the surviving twin. “All the money I worked for in 11 months was not given to me. I was not treated well abroad,” she scribbles on a sheet of paper. So why does Abiodun still cling to Bimbo in spite of his family’s persecution, Daily Sun asks. The couple exchange a glance. Abiodun then types a message on his mobile phone and passes it to the reporter. “My mother wants me to marry somebody they can manipulate easily but I found a mate in Bimbo. It is God that gave Bimbo to me and He is the only one that can take her away. She is all I have. Everyman has his own woman, mine is this woman who has given me beautiful children.” Unless a miracle happens, this hapless couple might lose the only home they have to aggrieved family members with their two kids. They are however appealing to Nigerians to intervene and save their young family. Abiodun needs a job urgently just as Bimbo needs money to set up her own salon. They also need prayers to survive the storm presently gathering against their union. Attempts by Daily Sun to get in touch with Abiodun’s mum and siblings were unfruitful.
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Family / Re: Must I Marry Her Because Of Pregnancy? by JJYOU: 1:14pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
wbb |
Romance / Re: Prostitutes Are Better Than : by JJYOU: 12:50pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
tinkwicely:na ashewo u dey glorify so. well God help you |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Mfg Companies Relocate To Ghana by JJYOU: 12:34pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
Aloy.Emeka:it is about security not light. didnt someone say there is an airline crew that sleep over in ghana now. why invest in a place everyone think it is their God given right to steal or take by force what they didnt work for? businesses go where there is security for personel and goods |
Romance / Re: My Best Friends Fiancee Is Cheating? by JJYOU: 12:27pm On Jun 24, 2009 |
luxoire:you did right. i wont trust a "marketer with a bank" with a horse let alone human being in a hotel. some people never learn a cheater is a possible clever liar too |
Car Talk / Re: The Official Audi B5 RS4 Avant Thread! by JJYOU: 9:57am On Jun 24, 2009 |
siena, this one is audi abuse or flooding. |
Politics / Re: Ibb Grooms Son For Governor - Gov Mua’zu’s Aide by JJYOU: 9:42am On Jun 24, 2009 |
nigeria deserves another babangida dont you think? |
Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by JJYOU: 9:39am On Jun 24, 2009 |
NEVER!!!!very sad. is the money you make worth the life you lead? chaircover:maybe i cant understand how it diminishes women but how did you work out the husband gradually loses respect for her?. do men also disrespect wives when the "money making machine" fall sick or cant work?. i know we are products of money at all cost society but i find some arguments on this thread sad. SeanT21:who says a lady without career can be what she wants to be? why must you think you have a monopoly of wisdom on this matter? working and doing whatever you want may suit you but not some other people why cant you let them be? this is supposed to be seunland JustGood:you know i will gladly give you my granny for marriage for this. |
Romance / Re: What Do Women Prefer- Looks Or Money by JJYOU: 8:47am On Jun 24, 2009 |
deepword:na good look dem go take maintain their good look abi na good look dem go chop? ~Sissy~:exactly |
Family / Re: Why Do Girls Date Married Men by JJYOU: 1:35pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
mrsb:na true you talk. very sad |
Family / Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by JJYOU: 1:16pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Theblessed:mmmmmmmmmmm u wish u waz right. Secretz:always nice to hear the sensible minority on matters like this. some people cant believe one size dont fit all. it is money and money alone that decides everything. truly-opal:mostly agree. always so good to hear common sence on these matters |
Family / Re: Where And How To Meet Guys Ready 4 Marriage by JJYOU: 12:42pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Nezed:nezed match making services. if you come across any 16 -24 preferably moslem from maroko or ajegunle area of lagos dont forget lagosboy pls. she must not be more than 5ft. small reward may be available. |
Religion / Re: Now Bankrupt Evander Holyfield Paid His Tithes But Forgot About His Mortage by JJYOU: 12:00pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
KunleOshob:yea yea. right. like yours have the hating and bad belle covenant with you. go take your tablets idiot. |
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole Appoints Ex-Convict As Edo State Tax Collector General by JJYOU: 11:51am On Jun 23, 2009 |
Comrade Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State (left), with Senator Prof. Oserheimen Osunbor, former Governor of Edo State during the Funeral Service of Late Rev. Canon Simeon Osariere Adodo, father of Comrade Didi Adodo, Commissioner for Lands, Survey and Housing, Edo State at St. Paul Anglican Church, Iruekpen-Ekpoma. Photo: Lucky agie.
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Business / Lagos Imposes Tax On Food Consumption, Services by JJYOU: 11:45am On Jun 23, 2009 |
[size=18pt] Lagos imposes tax on food consumption, services[/size] Kunle Awosiyan, Lagos- 23.06.2009 LAGOS State Government, on Monday, signed into law a bill to impose tax on food consumption and services at hotels, restaurants and event places. With this, anybody who buys consumable goods or gets service at hotel and restaurant, pays five per cent of the purchase or the service. According to the Special Adviser to the Governor on Legislative and Political Powers Bureau, Mr. Abdulkareem Abdullateef, the hotels include, a motel, guest house, apartment for short-time letting, while event centres include; hall, auditorium and open spaces and all other places dedicated as public. Presenting the bill for signing, Abdullateef said that defaulter would be liable to two years imprisonment or N2 million option of fine or both. According to him, managements of the hotels and restaurants had been appointed as agents to collect the taxes, while the Lagos Internal Revenue Service would be in charge of the administration of the law. Abdullateef stated that the law stipulated that every hotel and restaurant must register with the Lagos Internal Revenue Service to effectively implement the law. He stated that government would begin to operate the law 30 days from when it was signed, calling on all to cooperate with the government. To address issue of double taxation, the special adviser said that the hotel and other affected restaurants had been exempted from sales tax in the state. “It’s not going to be business as usual, before any government ministry, agency or local government officials can enter into any contractual relationship with any hotel, restaurant, event centre, there is a condition precedence and it is that such an event centre must produce an evidence of registration with LIRS,” he said. http://www.tribune.com.ng/23062009/news/news16.html does this include mama suru bukar too? |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Want To Travel Abroad For Greener Pastures,should I Allow Her To Go? by JJYOU: 11:43am On Jun 23, 2009 |
justwise:u definately wear your name wisely. i will say dont have. sadly not even the religious ones. |
Family / Re: Im Married But In Love With Another Man by JJYOU: 11:34am On Jun 23, 2009 |
Berit:do u get to see the colour of the money he is allegedly making too? |
Family / Re: Where And How To Meet Guys Ready 4 Marriage by JJYOU: 11:18am On Jun 23, 2009 |
Lagosboy:you wont get pro-active now. dey there dey ask kwersions as if na nairalist she want eat. make i ask my own which number you dey now? |
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