chatinent: 2021 with life has been the most important thing! How has it been for you? Do you want to share any notable event that happened? What are your plans to end the year?
Even if you aren't hitting your dreams yet, do you want to do what's right or chase the root of all evil...no matter the odds? Benz? Rituals?
Do you want to share sth?
Good and bad....God knows best,we can only Keep trying...merry Christmas in advance
Dude397: Good evening everyone. To cut the long story short my mental health issues started in 2012 when I tried weed in the university. It's not genetic. I've also been in and out of psychiatric hospitals a good number of times. However I'm currently on medication and I've been able to manage the condition. I was also able to graduate and I've also done my nysc and my family is planning on opening a small business for me since job has not been forthcoming.
However my health condition has been kept secret by me and family and I'm currently dating a nice girl. Please should I tell her my secret. What caused most of my episodes was refusal to take my medication and all that but right now I'm very okay and for some few years now I've been going about my daily affairs without any issue. If I let the cat out of the bag I don't think she may stay cos the stigma of mental health issues is not a joke. Please I need your advice on how to handle this delicate issue. Thanks
Chai...milk brain...Na common weed burst your mendula ...since your kolomental isn't noticeable,just keep it on the low jor,if you tell her and Una get issue,she go use am attack u...
Dextre: Honestly ehn, unless the woman has been wicked to the nanny, then she shouldn’t even make a fuss about it. If person wey get papa say no problem, wetin be ur own there, even to the extent of crying and writing up a 300words essay in the name of ‘I need a suggestion’
The lady in question is so confused on what to do.
Please advise her responsibly:
(Matured Minds Only)
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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.
Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.
I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.
I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.
I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.
What a Life!
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She would be in the comment section reading.
U get problem sha...so because she's a nanny then u feel u are better...You are part of the family already,why stress over who's madam and who isn't?...u better don't make dem see u as the enemy and face your business...Start planning on how to have a happy ending instead of all this...nanny is a woman and a human like you...afterall,even your husband has no issues with his father's decision...You should aim peace instead of superiority.
damilola4162: A Ghanian pastor identified as Mensah Otabil, has reportedly lambast Christians who are in the habit of ''tapping'' into other Christians's grace, Newspremises reports.
Pastor Otabil who chastised Christian for tapping into other Christian's grace, while speaking at at a church event recently, explained that, it is unbiblical to do so as the grace of God is available for all Christians to access and that it is unwise to tap grace from a pastor and not from the source of the grace.
According to him,
''These days I hear things from some Christians and it hurts me. My heart is wounded. People say things to me like ''Pastor, I want to tap into your grace. Sometimes they come and hold your feet. I say ''Are you crazy?''. What is wrong with you?My grace? Where did you read it in the bible? My Grace? It is the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.
"How we can read the bible and still be foolish I don't get it. It is not as if the bible is a secret document. It's there. Written plain white. And then you will say you are coming to tap into my grace. Me Mensah Otabil? Are you mad?
"I live by the grace of God. If yu have to tap into grace, commensensically go to the source. What's wrong with your head. If you need grace, go to the giver of grace.''
KoladeChris24: I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.
I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.
She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
Don't marry her...she's bias and uncivilised... I'm sorry.
When they tell y'all vanity upon vanity...y'all say it's poverty....see the family already planning on how to misuse all he worked hard for...They will say invest,he used billions in investing into that structure,yet all wasted like dust in few mins...You see life ehn...What if it's even stolen or looted funds he used?,and the crash is like "NEMESIS"?....well whatever it is ...RIP to the dead.
robosky02: From left, Dolph Lundgren, Sylvester Stallone, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Jean-Claude Van Damme. Happy 64th birthday Dolph Lundgren.
Great men dem!!,men of fame and action!...but my favourite is Keanu Reeves...Can't wait for MATRIX RESURRECTIONS...I go like make 1 person follow me go cinema go see am. ...Bills on both of us
An unidentified student of Auchi Polytechnic, Auchi, Edo state revealed his handling of Nigerian N100 banknotes during the school examination.
The student cheated by writing some answers in the N100 notes and using them in the exam.
Although the identity of this student has not been confirmed, he has committed two crimes, and if he is eventually caught, it may cause him trouble.
One of his crimes was cheating to the examination room.
If he is caught by the school authorities for cheating, the school has the right to suspend or even drop him from school for cheating in an exam.
In addition to suspension, he may also be required to rewrite the exam.
Another crime committed by the student was the abuse of Nigerian currency. The Central Bank of Nigeria warned Nigerians not to abuse Naira banknotes.
The officials promised to crack down on any individual or group responsible for such actions. The Nigerian currency is a symbol of national sovereignty and the CBN Act.
Those who misuse naira banknotes face the risk of six months in jail or paying a fine of N50,000. This means that spraying them during events is even illegal.
This student apparently abused Nigerian currency, and if his actions were punished, it would not be illegal.
Benard5050: I'm 29 yrs old, I had a breakup with the girl I've been dating for 4 yrs this year April. Since then it has been so hard for me 2 be in a relationship cos I think my ex could still come back cos I still love her.
I had a brief relationship with a lady last 2 months but didn't last long cos I'm still yet over my ex.
There's this lady that joined my working place and also my next-door neighbor, she's kind and her character has been so gud for d six weeks she started working at my place of work.
I think I'm loving her but I will not want what happened with d lady I had a brief relationship with to happen again.
Guys do u think I should go ahead and ask her out?
I'm scared of d negative that might arise cos we are working in d same establishment even though I'm a senior colleague to her there.
Guys is this advisable? I'll be on d tread to answer any question u might want to ask. Thanks.
Fahdiga: Imagine who wants to be Nigerian president. Tufiakwa God forbids bad thing. When he was busy taking and selling all sorts of hard drugs during his youthful days he didn't envisage it will end like this and now that he is 96 years he can't withstand it anymore. If Tinubu has sense he will retire peacefully and enjoy his loot
Will greed and thirst for power allow him retire from politics??
joebases: I have always seen and known Nairaland as where ideas and solutions come from very matured and experienced members hence my bringing this topic here for advice.
I currently have a job though not paying very well but I enjoy the flexibility it offers. I work 8am to 12noon Monday to Thursday having Friday and the weekends to myself.
I am very enthusiastic about learning digital skills especially Data Science and saving up for that hoping to start in the first week of January.
Please I need suggestions on what things I can do to get money in this my 'free period' pending when I am able to start my digital trainings.
All suggestions are appreciated no matter how crude as I am ready for anything not illegal to better my currently battered financial state.
NB: Location is Lagos
Similar to my kinda job,but I make cool cash from under G office hustle...during my free time,I see movies,surf the internet,smoke a blunt,gym (exercise),clean my apartment thoroughly,draw,cook,have a long conversation with a loved one,make researches,play music and write,read and try get more info and broad my knowledge,I also check my contacts on whom to call for business or whom to delete..I shark 2 small plastic pasa bitters herbal alcoholic drink then zoom...I don sleep...The day is gone.
Mynd44: FrieslandCampina WAMCO Nigeria PLC, makers of Three Crowns milk, is set to digitalize product packaging with QR code in a move to increase interaction between the brand and its customers as well as unveil the brand’s Christmas campaign.
Explaining this in Lagos, the Marketing Manager, Three Crowns, Omolara Banjoko, disclosed that with a phone camera scan, the Three Crowns QR code will give consumers an in-depth experience with the brand, beyond product consumption.
“The QR code gives our consumers more information on what the product offers plus ongoing campaigns and relevant tips for every mum as the ‘heart of the home’ all through the year. Our consumers may not be new to the concept of codes. But our QR code is the ultimate code to a mum’s heart” Banjoko said.
The campaign will be executed digitally out of home, on radio and TV. Participants are required to purchase any of Three Crowns new packs with the QR Code, scan the code with a phone camera, register and complete the task to unlock goodies.
The Brand Manager, Three Crowns, Chioma Otisi-Igwe, also confirmed that the brand will further leverage the Christmas season to pamper mums with gifts using the new QR code on the portal to access the gifts.
“The campaign will drive a deeper emotional appeal for mums to appreciate other mums. All that will be required is a purchase of Three Crowns milk, scan the QR code and nominate a mum for all her efforts all through the year with nice words from her heart to receive a gift from Three Crowns milk. The most interesting thing is that the nominator will win just as much as the nominee.”
The Three Crowns QR code Christmas campaign will run from November through December 2021.
Three Crowns is a leading Nigerian milk brand from the stable of FrieslandCampina WAMCO, Nigeria’s foremost dairy company for over 60 years. The company believes that milk is an essential nutrient for every individual. As Nigeria’s leading low cholesterol milk brand, Three Crowns has nourished mothers and their families for more than 30 years with essential vitamins and minerals that support their well-being.
Three Crowns is the first milk brand to show care for mothers and acknowledge the important role they play in the family. The brand recognizes that when mothers as primary care givers are taken care of, this positively impacts the care they give to their families. The brand has thus given itself the patriotic task of encouraging women to eat and live healthy, thereby making the family happy.
I love this milk,I love the brand...they are like tecno nig.
Chai...see cruise...ah!..God why did you forsake me by putting me in this shithole with daft comedians and Animals?...what's my offence??...bank dey lie,dey steal, government officials same,police same,armed forces same, hospitals same,schools same,..then how can a country even excel?.
This is one of the most disheartening videos I've seen on the internet in a long time...those people collecting the money are some of the most foolish in the world.
I got a loan of 3k from them on October 21. I was supposed to repay back with #3700 on 28th of October but I couldn't due to insolvency. After 3 days of being overdue, Easy Money started sending blackmailing messages to my contacts, telling them that I am a criminal and a thief with all sort of unestablished claims. Because of the embarrassing messages being sent to my contacts, a family member help me with some fund to clear the debt, I transferred #3000 to Easy Money Their agent called me and threaten that he will not clear me and that he will keep sending those messages to my contacts after I told him I will not pay the interest on the loan It was after that I start receiving another form of threat from this agent
Pay the interest rate and get off this place...common ₦700...later u go dey form boss.
Jwonder: There's been a rise of Nigerians defaulting on Loans and coming online to form victims. Why would you take a loan you have no plans of paying back? This Loan companies don't collect collateral, so how else do expect them to recover their money if they don't harras you?
Just go through this thread and see how wicked humans are. https://www.nairaland.com/6835279/loan-app-agent-keeps-blackmailing They all forget this loan company is somebody's investment with staff to pay. If everyone keeps defaulting on the loan won't they run out of business?
WHY ARE WE NEVER STRAIGHTFORWARD AS NIGERIANS? I urge the CBN/ FG to start blocking the BVN and bank accounts attached to the BVN of loan defaulters, this will reduce the trend of evil people taking loans and refusing to pay.
I'm not in the queue...I don't owe debts...some loan apps give me VIP offer because I pay up swiftly...90% Nigerians,are thieves,greedy,cunning,and chronic liars.
Hmmmm....okay...maybe you can find some in delta state especially the huzzling type
Forwhere.....the only ones I can manage to bet my balls on are some delta girls... Because I don bang some delta girls and I will confess those girls are trying. Banged one isoko, three urhuobos, one ijaw, three kwale...they can huzzle with you with no too much of that disgusting entitlement mentality
TheFinance101: As the festive season approaches, one of the most experienced challenges with personal finances is excessive spending. To attain financial freedom, you need to find the balance between your earning, spending, savings, and investment routine. A journey towards financial freedom requires being consistent with managing your finances effectively. This article focuses on five basic steps you can take to carefully cut down on excessive spending.
Avoid Impulse Spending Impulse spending is a spending habit that can leave you poor. It is simply an unplanned purchase that is not in your budget. It can be as minute as re-subscribing your monthly data plan to buying a new gadget. When overspending happens frequently, your finances can suffer but when you consciously stick to your budget, you’ll most likely have more money to save and invest in the long run.
Stick to Your Budget The essence of having a budget is to spend on the most prioritized needs. When you spend outside of your budget, you are gradually robbing yourself of other necessities. Create a plan for your spending that you can actually stick to so you can take control of your money. To stick to your budget is to simply tell your money where to go at any given time.
Stop Using Your Credit Card A credit card allows you to buy things you did not prepare the liquid cash for at the moment. Having your credit card with you often can lead to overspending. Credit works well when balances are paid off each month, but it can be disastrous when poorly managed. The best practice for avoiding credit card fees and interest is to not spend money until you save enough to cover the purchase.
Automate Periodic Investments The best way to build your wealth and avoid excessive spending is with automation. It helps you manage your spending habits by ensuring you're contributing towards your goals first before spending. Learning how to automate savings may even help you achieve your financial goals faster.
Avoid Money Pits When you’re trying to become financially stable, you need to look out for money pits. These are the things that look like a good idea at the moment but eventually produce bigger expenses. Money pits can take away from your savings, or even worse, lead to debt. Focus on keeping your money in your own hands. Spend it how you want, save and invest it when you can, and try to lose as little as possible.
Final Thoughts Learning how to stop spending money is hard, but it is possible. It takes time and dedication to stop overspending and to reform your spending habits. Recognize what prompts you to spend too much and put safeguards to curb it before it hurts your financial well-being.
All this is rubbish,not totally rubbish sha ...what is money meant for?...You wan save then u must starve Abi,u wan save then u must eat like chicken and look unhealthy because u wan keep money for bank...you refused giving and assisting or showing love to those who asks because u wan save then when u need tomorrow,who will help u?,see,no one knows tomorrow...The little you earn,try enjoy from it,that's the purpose...life is short,the purpose is to live it,impact lives positively,leave a good legacy and fukk off...that money u are saving,when u die,one idiot will make a mess of your hard work if care isn't taken....my lil opinion though..
Politics › Re: Abdulrasheed Maina: Full List Of Properties, Money Owned Uncovered By EFCC by Johel(m): 5:51pm On Nov 08, 2021
