muheeb01: It's better to protect yourself first than using antibiotics constantly to weaken your system or makes the bacterias get resistant to antibiotics,and you can also get agbo asunrun or infections flushers herbs...don't let antibiotics weakens your system use condom
All of you saying condom condom....shey condom no dey burst ni?..I've used condoms in the past and they tore...Since then I don't trust condom,I can only be sure of who I fvkk with cos honestly using condom is boring,lame and not so safe...it's either total abstainance,get one or two trusted partners,do soapy or wait after marriage...
The trial of Chidinma Ojukwu, the prime suspect in the murder case of Super TV boss, Usifo Ataga, continued today November 16, at the Lagos State High Court, Igbosere after the case adjourned yesterday.
This video shows her leaving the court house yesterday with her classy catwalk
I for don torture this girl to 65%...she go confess when I chook sticks of broom inside her obocho. .....I just hate wicked,greedy, stupid and people who can kill without having human feeling...she deserve 25years in jail I swear...she wasted a foolish man's life,her life should be wasted also because she's a foolish girl too.
Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..
My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.
She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.
If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.
If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..
She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.
I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.
nairalanders, What should i do?
Don't be a failure...Pvssy...E go clear for your eyes.
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes..
I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags.
On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers.
We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply.
I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice..
I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already.
He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream
I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child.
This is super story...lol
U just saw a guy because he dresses like a yahoo boy then u tripped...mumu...Sapa go finish 2 of Una,I bet with my two balls that reasonable men have approached you but u just ate their money and left...Na yahoo boy u dey fall for,werey...e don use your pant...u go born the pikin,the boy go deny you flat...Jokes on you...Una go see better men wey dey try,but because of Una wayward lifestyle,Na yahoo boys and small boys wey dey sag Una go dey trip for...your bf so dumb,he believes more in juju than using his senses...birds of same feathers...Na Wetin fit you....Eku pregnancy.
damilola4162: A Nigerian woman has been spotted in a viral video at the beach, breaking eggs and placing a curse on her cousin who she accused of allegedly “taking advantage of her and also taking something from her body”, Newspremises reports.
The lady who identified her cousin as Emma, accused him of lying about them not seeing for the past 17 years, and also reneging on his promise of giving her money after a trip to an undisclosed place where he allegedly took something from her body.
The lady identified simply as Joy also disclosed that only her knows what she saw at the undisclosed location she was taken to. She accused her cousin of taking advantage of her and added that no cleric or native doctor can break the c*rse as she has summoned the water spirit.
She said;
“Emma don buy market wey e no go fit pay o. Emma see your name for my hand o. This one na your name. See my name. These two eggs wey dey my hand, I go scatter am. The battle line has just been drawn.
“As I take scatter this egg, if I lie against you, make my life scatter. But if I no lie against you, as I take scatter this egg, na so your life go scatter. And no native doctor go fit solve your problem. No prophet go help you. Anywhere you go, them go tell you say na wetin you do your cousin dey worry you.
“Emma you say you no see me for the past 17 years say I lie, say na person pay me make I scam you. Emma you no go know peace for your life. I lay curse upon you with this pain you put me through…”
The visibly angry woman also placed a curse on those supporting her cousin online and also insulting her.
E don cast for internet...it won't work...she made a mistake...Emma go still dey flex till she goes private behind closed doors,then agents of the other realm will give her audience....things like this isn't for the public...Demons respect privacy and idleness.
ReventifyCV: So, the question is, Does money make you happy? “how much money do you need to be happy?” Should we despise money because of its potential to cause greed and sorrow? Or should we embrace money because of its ability to get us some of the finest things of life? A tough choice to make, eh? Maybe there really is a way to eat at the table of money and be friends with happiness. Is there a way to strike a balance, or is it all arbitrary? Let’s take a walk and discuss how much money do you need to be happy.
1. What Kind of Life Do You Want to Live? The kind of life you want to live determines what path you choose and what you do to get that lifestyle.
2. How Much Money do you Really Need Annually to Sustain That Lifestyle? Now, you have to determine how much money you really need to sustain the lifestyle that you choose.
3. The Skills You Need for the Lifestyle You Want. Now that you know the lifestyle you want, you would have to know what skills you need to achieve that lifestyle. There are some essential skills that you need to have to succeed in life and business.
4. What Do You Consider Happiness to Be? As clarified earlier, we all have different definitions of happiness.
5. Review your Decision: Now that you know the skills you have to learn to live the type of lifestyle you want, start learning them already! After a few weeks or months, you have to review your decision. Is this still the type of life you want to live? Are you happy with yourself and life in general? Would you be less happy if you don’t attain the lifestyle that you want? Take some time to reflect and answer these questions. With the rate at which you’re progressing, how soon do you think you’ll be able to live your dream life?
6. Make the Move After reviewing your decision, it’s time to make the final move. If you don’t make a move to work on your goals and dreams, you may live in regret.
Money can only give me temporary happiness,true happiness comes from withing....Only self fulfilment can Enable infinite happiness...and it's not about material Things.
Davash222: Nonsense competition Nonsense school Nonsense gender!
Don't be bitter...It's a good competition that should be welcomed globally,UNILAG is one school I wish I went to but unfortunately I settled for NOUN due to work and funds,gender...yeah without the opposite gender,I don't think you will be in existence...No gender is nonsense except transgender.
[quote author=Xenry post=107618132][/quote]I stopped opening up to people the moment I knew "No one cares"... people are too fake and temporary...U are transparent to certain ones while they hide all from you...it's best you keep things to yourself and God alone...Cos man will always fail!,but God never fails.
EBMedia: Anambra Governor-Elect, Charles Chukwuma Soludo emphasized the value of education as he shared a throwback photo of himself during his university days on his Facebook page, IgbereTV reports.
He said that education released him from what would have become a generational trap in the dynasty of poverty, and turned his life around.
Juliusmomoh: I don't even know the right section to post this..
I lost my uncle some days ago and we put him into the mortuary. Our plan to buried him by january...
What brought about thread is that the mortuary attendant called us to take our corpse on the ground that he fight with the other corpse there.
We went there early morning yesterday to comfirm ourselves. What our eye see mouth no fit talk... E shock us.
He fought other corpse there. He even hang some on the window Attendant don beat him tire, they will still wake up in the morning and see other corpse scatterd and only him enjoying the room.
We where told maybe he's a cultist or he's in some spritual stuff before he died..
They ask us to take him away but we don't want to bury him now due to some family issues. You know.
Please exprience nairalanders, what do you suggest to do now to him?
Make Una open ground throw am inside jor...why Una like dey long thing ontop dead body sef?...Muslims does it better when it comes to this...no time to waste time.
blackmamber: Hello room. I bought this Boston terrier for 450k about 7 months ago. Suddenly I started noticing discharge and blueish stuff in his eyes plus red too (only in his left eye )
I took him to the vet immediately and they gave him meds and injection but I noticed nothing changed
I have gone to different vet within this 2 weeks and they kept collecting my money and nothing is changing
Please if you’ve gone through this before I would love to know how you treated it. I don’t want my dog to go blind
In addition. I called the seller and he said the same thing happened to his mom and it disappeared but he can’t really remember what he used because he used a lot of meds and applied alovera inside her eyes
Jostoman: I just don't know why God decided to send APC and this present government to come and punish Nigerians. I hope all Nigerians both Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba are now enjoying their change and next Level?
Don't blame God blame foolish people who wanted a change they had no idea about
Impregnable101: So i decided to take to the kitchen today to treat my wife to a delicious meal, but was stunned by the way things have skyrocked in the market . Assorted-1,000 & beef 1,200
Make i kuku leave kitchen mata for madam till bubu carry him wahala comot office
greatiyk4u: This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.
Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.
I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married. There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons, You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents
Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.
Nothing will never work in Nigeria...it's just depressing and I'm angry with my mother for marrying one idiot Nigerian man instead of a German thereby giving birth to me in a shithole!!
Explorers: Just an hour before the deadly crash, Mendonça uploaded a video to Twitter and Instagram that showed her pulling her suitcase and carrying her guitar before she boarded the flight.
Screen grab of a video posted by Brazilian country music singer Marília Mendonça an hour before she and four other people were killed in the crash.
She had 22 million subscribers on YouTube, 40 million followers on Instagram and more than eight million monthly listeners on Spotify.
obembet: At 23 I got married immediately after my first degree. Had my first kid at 24, got a master's degree in my area of study, yet without a job. My ex was doing well in his business and he carried all the financial responsibilities of our home while I shoulder all the manual work; ranging from cooking, laundry, cleaning, buying groceries, making sure that every bills are paid, school runs, etc. All he does is to provide the money to carry all of those. I'm all- must -be -tidy kind of person so I made sure to maintain that.
I'll make sure I keep the house clean, prepare his favorite meals which I do by following the meal time table cos he loves three different meals for each day. Most times he will come back with a different meal to be prepared for him after I must have made dinner. This must be accompanied with fruits or nuts to crack, extract, slice and serve. As this continued I became perplex and may complain but he never listened or appreciated all my efforts.
As years come by our population increased and I begged him to buy a washing machine. This is a no go area as he believes it makes one lazy. After much begging and no compliance for about two years I stopped washing his main clothes, but washed only his inner wears. I saved some money and got myself one. He was happy I did so and gave me 25% of the amount I bought it. I later learnt that that was a bribe to start washing his clothes again. All my married life I never had a full house help. His relatives will come, stay for some time and leave. Even while they're still around I prefer to do some things myself for some reasons.
Now this is my round the clock non paid job from from year to year. I'll wake up by 4:00 am to prepare children's snacks or meal for school, wake everyone up by 5:00 am for morning prayers, bath the children and at the same time have clothes rolling in the machine while breakfast sits on fire simultaneously. By 7:15 am I'm with the children on the road to school. Keeps them at school and gets back home to continue the outstanding works. I may come back to meet ex still sleeping or brushing his teeth. I will serve breakfast, help him choose his day wear and most times look for one document or car keys.
I tried to get a teaching job which can help me continue my “rat race” at home. None of them lasted for more than four months, reasons I couldn't figure out till today cos I believe I'm very good at that.
By the time I could say “ehee, time to rest” it's already 3 to 4 pm, time to get the children back from school. Preparing dinner, helping in homework, correcting complains from teachers if there's any, bathing and feeding them. Sometimes I still find time to play and tell stories with the kids. I buy everybody's wears including ex's, especially during festive periods. I guess that's the only time I have to get new things for myself. It never bothered me cos I'm happy putting smiles in the faces of people around me. I'm always preparing home-made groceries cos I'm good at most of them.
I could remember vividly a friend advising me on improving in my outward appearance which I gave little attention to.
By the time I'll retire to bed, it's already 11 or 12:00 midnight. And so it continues.
I never received any form of appreciation; either in kind or in cash. And to worsen it all, he became so abusive; verbally, physically, emotionally and would complain and blame me in every misfortune of his life. Life was so terrible living with him. Yet, I did not complain until he pushed me out and finally left.
Most times we focus all our energy into building our homes, that is wonderful, thereby neglecting ourselves which should come first, it's not being selfish. I celebrate every member of my family every year but I was never celebrated for the thirteen years we lived together. After reading a book, “what kids need most in a mom” by a retired white nurse; Patricia Standforth, I started changing my status but things have started going sour in my marriage and I was kicked out by hubby. He got a nullification note from the church, refused me access to the children, etc. Though I'm working towards getting a civil divorce from the court.
It's been two years now and alot of people could not believe it when they meet me, as a mother of five who's so young looking, energetic and sophisticated. I've got a lot of space and time to travel, learn new things, meet new friends and recently working towards getting an MBA.
And more importantly, I wouldn't want to be seen where I was left.
Edited : Obembet
They learn from their mistakes and try be a better person for the next person.
being: Young & so naive!! If u find yourself in exactly this kind of situation, don't attempt to make the foolish mistake!
@OP u need to find out more about what Russia holds for u! How is d weather, d society, d racism, d culture- are u OK with them? Are u fine staying there for 3 years? Also bear in mind that functionally, N200k in Russia might have d same purchasing power as N70k-100k in Nigeria. U should also consider 3 years of experience u would be losing vs a Russian M.S. degree. Also consider if d degree can be completed online or another one started even, from perhaps, UK, US but online.
TayoAinaFilms: Why is Nobody Traveling to the Benin Republic is a video where I share my honest review about Lagos Nigeria's neighboring country in West Africa. I spent a week here and this is an honest breakdown of my experience.
We visit Cotonou ,Ouidah Python Temple, Casa Del Papa, Ganvier and a lot more. I also explore some of the best things to do if you are visiting the Benin Republic. Do like, watch and enjoy.
Joey4321: Hello guys, So this thing has been bothering me for quite a while now and I would like to have someone else's idea on it.
In my mid 20's currently undergoing a masters program at a Russian University (Somewhere around Moscow). Online because of the pandemic. The masters is a full scholarship with a little stipend calculated by your grades. Now the borders are open and I have the opportunity of being there physically. Its kind of mandatory right now even. The scholarship is supposed to last 2 years with a mandatory third year where you will have to work for the school as payment for your scholarship. While studying you get paid, little money though, lets say 200k in conversion to naira. While working (On your third year) you also get paid but this depends on the role you interviewed for and your skill level. The masters is in Data Science and that is also my field.
But the only problem now is I just got a really good job here in the country that pays lets say about half a million. With my current projections, I could level up a bit more and settle down in 2 years
Now this current amount is more than what I will get paid in Russia both as a student or as a worker for the next 3 years (According to my projection). However, the school will cover accommodation, so the stipends are just for feeding, coffee, movies and dates, etc.
Do you think the masters is worth me giving up such a opportunity in Nigeria for the abroad?
In a nutshell, do you think having a foreign masters certificate is worth it?
Nothing good in Nigeria...I rather work as a waiter abroad than be a bank manager in Nigeria.
Dainy1: Honestly, I don't understand this. Is this an act of hypocriacy or what truth are they really hiding from us? They claimed marriage is not important, not for everyone, that you can stay single and be having children outside wedlock, so long as you can take care of them. Yet, they go about talking you down as soon as you're of age and have no wife/husband.
A girlfriend of mine in her late thirties just declared she's getting married and everyone is sharing her up, sending her congratulatory messages as if she has not been existing.
Does marriage really worth that hyping or what's so special about it that civilization is hiding from us?
Nothing special...it's just for reproduction purposes
Ewroghene1: Good day NLs I will go straight to the point First born in the family with big responsibility you know already,. Mother always demanding due to the status of the family, currently 25yrs. Occupation : Barber
Your advice shall help a long way... Have been saving but not complete, planning ahead
But my dreams are high and know I will accomplish them... stopped schooling 2015, with S.S.C.E started hustling.....
First: should I open a barbershop with my little savings Or Second: go abroad and continue my school and become a graduate. And explore other lifestyles I know opening the shop will help a long way(money) And going abroad will also help
Reminder : I have mother and siblings to take care of with the little I can support Please I need You advice And can I work with the experience I have as a barber here in Nigeria to places like Turkey or Poland
Please help forward to Frontpage
Abeg go school abroad...the future will be brighter than being a barber in a shithole