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queencalipso:
I have read a lot of thread here on nairaland that talk about girls keeping their virginty and some guys even insult those that are not. But my question is this, is it only girls that are meant to keep their virginity? What about guys. And again how will a lady be able to keep her virginity when guys are always asking for sex then turn around and insult her for loosing it. In my opinion if a guy doesn't ask for sex I don't see a lady loosing her virginity it is not only women that are expected to be pure, guys too are. You want a lady to be pure yet u won't stop asking for sex if she refuses u try all you could to make her weak in her defence yet you will come to nairaland and shout about girls keeping their virginity until marriage. Guys are not imunne to virginity.


So guys stop asking we ladies out, and even when we accept to date you don't ask us for sex help us to keep our virginity until marriage and stop putting the whole virginity and purity struggle on us alone.


Thanks.

ammyluv2002:
Seconded, Agreed & Supported

Well the thing is, guys were not created with tamper proof (Hymen) like women so there's no way you can prove a guy virgin.

Also why make it look like its only guys that demand sex. Come on girls are as guilty as guys.

Well this may sound different and to some ignorant people it may sound out of order but the fact iis that I won't go with the band wagon of condemning the girl.

She might in actual fact be a virgin but could have had semen discharged on her privates during pre-intimacy with her guy. The semen could trickle through the tiny hymen hole thereby making her pregnant without breaking the hymen. I've read that somewhere.

DrAify, Kingtom what's ur take

dkronicle:
D guy dat snapd that picture must b a member of boyscout. But which fone camera is that..

Chuukwudi:
Jiiiiz! what type of phone did he use to take that picture? It's just too good. Motion wasn't noticed in the picture but our common sense will tell us that. Imagine, just look at the suspended slippers. 100 gbozaaa for that camera.

ifyan:
Supported.

Only one phone I know that can do this. Its Iphone. Get it and try it especially Iphone5 and above. I've used it so I know what I'm saying.

aflyingbird:
u didn't give ur wife d chance to explain , she said she could explain but u shunned her. u saw her phone n immediately jumped to d conclusion dat she was having an affair, u left her mother's house n told her not to come back into urs .

ur MIL didn't do anything wrong . pple's native language is always going to be their default language , esp when with family members , meaning dat is wat came natural to her . u cud hv nicely asked her to speak english , i'm sure she wud've done dat but again u got up angrily .

ur problem is dat u jump to conclusions too soon without giving pple d chance to explain their side of d story . d same thing u did to ur wife is what u did to ur MIL. u need to learn to be more patient n hear what pple hv to say

A potential cheater spotted.

Please explain what? Is that not the usual cliche. You caught your husband exchanging s*x chats, nude pictures and saying how they enjoyed each other the last time they had s*x, with another lady and he tells you he can explain. Your Mumu no be now. Na until they record video give you?

Peoples native language in front of the Husband(a family) with such a sensitive matter at hand?

Madam please say something better.

aflyingbird:
u didn't give ur wife d chance to explain , she said she could explain but u shunned her. u saw her phone n immediately jumped to d conclusion dat she was having an affair, u left her mother's house n told her not to come back into urs .

ur MIL didn't do anything wrong . pple's native language is always going to be their default language , esp when with family members , meaning dat is wat came natural to her . u cud hv nicely asked her to speak english , i'm sure she wud've done dat but again u got up angrily .

ur problem is dat u jump to conclusions too soon without giving pple d chance to explain their side of d story . d same thing u did to ur wife is what u did to ur MIL. u need to learn to be more patient n hear what pple hv to say

A potential cheater spotted.

Please explain what? Is that not the usual cliche. You caught your husband exchanging s*x chats, nude pictures and saying how they enjoyed each other the last time they had s*x, with another lady and he tells you he can explain. Your Mumu no be now. Na until they record video give you?

OP please I will like to see the picture of the green scorpion you killed cos am sure I've never seen or heard of a green one before.

Justfollowit:
. I would rather be a goat

Thank you for not putting me through the stress of proving to you that you're a Goat. So can you please find your way out of my mention page? Its not a grass field.

midolian:
you are very correct but that still doesn't invalidate omotola's points.

You're right but she can drive her point without the insults. It makes her look as if she sees herself to be superior to the trekkers just because she does not have the little sense to appreciate what GEJ did in the way the guy appreciated it. Also by the word "youths" that she used, it shows how proud and highly she thinks of her self. How old is she? 37. I bet she can never be 5years older than any of the trekkers. So why insult them? Is it because she's richer than them? Is it because she's popular and influential?

Not everyone wants to be rich. Some just want a comfortable
and secured life and from what people has said about the guy, he seems comfortable enough.

The first trekker (Suleiman) had to trek to fulfil his earlier vow. This shows honesty, trust and integrity. This are the kind of things we should propagate and encourage in our society. This are things even people like Omotola should be promoting but her tweet shows, Omotola, being in such a position will not fulfil her vow/pact/promise instead she would make an excuse that she can't possibly trek from Lagos to Abuja which makes her no different from the politicians.

I can go on and on about how silly, shallow and after thought her tweet is especially coming from a celebrity. Its a disappointment to say the least.

BTW am not a GEJ fan(you can go trough my posts to confirm).

[quote author=Justfollowit post=33780179][/quote]Now I get it. You want attention like your yeyebrity crush.

Well you sure got mine cos I was wondering how a goat could talk. Then I reasoned end time things goats on NL.

** Seun made a mistake when choosing the colours for NL. Now all these goats thinks it a grass field**

midolian:
Leave story for chinua achebe..omotola's msg is simple "politicians do not deserve to be trekked for. There are better things to trek for"

You think I like the politicians? But the fact the guy or anyone decides to trek for them is none of my business because there are better things I could use my time for. The fact that she had the time to make a comment on the people means she too had nothing better to do with her time and she's trying to score a cheap point and gain some unnecessary attention from it.

People with better things to do don't have time to comment on trekkers who has their own motive for doing it. Who knows how much is involved in the trekking that the guy is not disclosing (just saying) but no matter what is at stake, its the guys business and not Omotolas'

Justfollowit:
Give me one reason why you shouldn't be used as a lab experiment

Well, because I haven't seen your corpse in the lab already.

You think you're funny? Guess what you're not. Your comment is very not intelligent to say the least just like the brainless madam you keep licking her big ugly butt in the name of being a fan.

And the next time you quote me, better have something intelligent to say or else you won't like what you'll get.

Justfollowit:
Give me one reason why you shouldn't be used as a lab experiment

Well, because I haven't seen your corpse in the lab already.

You think you're funny? Guess what you're not. Your comment is un intelligent to say the least just like the brainless madam you keep licking her big ugly butt in the name of being a fan.

And the next time you quote me, better have something intelligent to say or else you won't like what you'll get.

midolian:
Dumbest reply ever..

What has being the richest woman in the world got to do with this? From this tweet, one can easily conclude this man is trekking for money and not for GEJ

#trekFor$$$

It has a lot to do with it if you can comprehend simple english instead of being fooled by Omotola's popularity. It is a very professional insult to omotola.

She that has not trekked away her future has she made it to the top of richest people in the world? No. So why insult people.

She does not know the person trekking or the motive behind his decision to trek. The guy might even be more comfortable and richer than she is (just saying).

For all I care anybody can decide to trek for any cause you feel like trekking for. Its none of Omotolas business as long as they don't come to her door step to beg for food the next day.

Being popular does not make you intelligent.

In fact am starting my own trekking tomorrow............I don't even know what to trek for but its no ones frigging biz.

So @Realomosexy should shut the f**k up.

Chiaka:
Rubbish! lots of intelligent vibrant guys from SS, hard working you think everyone is not a militant there.....

Hello! Being intelligent does not rid you of Laziness and criminal mind. In fact you have to be intelligent to be a criminal and get away with it.

So babe, if you BF be militant tell him to go find a better and Legit work to do.

lomprico:
Those peep taunting her for not giving d dude her number in the twitter are all d¡ckheads. How much was the fare d dude paid for sef, am sure its not more than 100 bucks per head, if to say na like abuja to lag or ph journey whey be like 5k per head I for cut cap for d guy. Really petty indeed, he is such a child.
And for the chick, for using d word 'punish' I suspect her, e b like say she be runs geh whey no wan shake bodi.

The thing pain am na why she carry am come twitter. She even used the word punish meaning the treatment was like punishment for her.

tpiadotcom:
isn't that the same thing they did with nnpc or some other oil related parastatal.

but, if it creates jobs for the militants, cool.

Who says those militants are ready to work? They are bunch of lazy criminals who's only interest is scooping the oil and selling it. Just because it is located in their backyard.

This move has all sorts of Negative and malicious tone to it. The most disturbing of it all is the fact that the militants will be able to hold the country to ransom anytime they wish by hijacking the vessels.

itzWarner:
Didn't quite understand the story...shey the guy dey sleep for meeting dem con carry am go outside to shoot am with that big gun??

#wierd

Anyways:: iPhone 5c for sale...quote me if you're interested.gracias

How much

owobokiri:
When you willfully sign up to all sorts of slavish alliances, you should be pepared for a long life of servitude.

Ode ni e.

Gwazah:
He is one yellow card away from missing the finals so it's a precaution to remove him.

He's a striker, at worst the coach would instruct him to avoid marking or getting involved too much. Its still a good reason at the same but the real reason is stated on the URL I left in my previous comment.

Fynestboi:
Seriously. Why the guy resorted to that. Is he scared bayern will requalize.

Suarez got injured.

http://www.marca.com/en/2015/05/12/en/football/barcelona/1431462942.html

princemol:
'piece of cake...' u got t wrong

Since 1 = 4

Then 4 = 1

chukzzy1:
you tried so hard to make a point but you failed woefully..and by the way did just say that SW is advanced? Lol i hope u mean the islands of lagos and not the dirt ridden wretch you people call yoruba land.

This below is what they call being advanced not some old fools in the name of Oha***ze making noice everyday. Empty barrel makes the most noise.

Click on it and choke

https://www.nairaland.com/2308758/yoruba-spreading-scandinavia-scandinavian-schools

chukzzy1:
you tried so hard to make a point but you failed woefully..and by the way did just say that SW is advanced? Lol i hope u mean the islands of lagos and not the dirt ridden wretch you people call yoruba land.

This below is what they call being advances not some old fools in the name of Oha***ze making noice everyday. Empty barrel makes the most noise.

Click on it and choke
https://www.nairaland.com/2308758/yoruba-spreading-scandinavia-scandinavian-schools

Hermanie:
Please who's that

If you're familiar with the politics section well you will know him.

He's known as the protection seeking guy who went from being a staunch GMB advocate to his sworn enemy. He switched his allegiance to GEJ all of a sudden. With the flimsy excuse of being threatened by Nairaland APC supporters (can you imagine such an excuse). So he needed security from the ruling party.

His name is barca***ta. I hate to mention that moniker that's why I put in those stars.

TIMEISWISDOM:
Someone in Nairaland said that 2 things will happen in 2015 namely barca will win champions league and GMB will win the presidential election. His name is prophet........? He is my Nairaland person of the year already.

He would have being a Hero but he changed one of his prediction because he allowed his human emotion and personal convictions to overshadow the message of God.

And they say Islam is evil yet they keep adopting Islamic ways.
Before you quote me, go and ask people who know more about Islam first.

Demichaels:
My friend's 10 year Marriage is about to collapse.

His, my friend's genotype is AA and his wife's genotype is AS but their 4 year old daughter has been confirmed to have SS genotype by not less than 4 different medical experts. He confronted the wife and accused her of infidelity but she vehemently denied having any affair with another man. In other to prove her wrong, my friend subjected the little girl to a paternity test and there he got the shock of his life - the result showed he actually is the father of the girl. At first he accused the doctor of compromise because he is their family doctor and somehow relates to the wife. He then decided to go to another hospital to prove the paternity of the girl child there and then he got another shocker - the first result was actually correct. As It stands, my friend has consulted more than five other doctors outside the state of his residence and all Confirmed that the girl's genotype is SS and he actually is the father of the child despite his and the wife's genotype being as stated above. Even the doctor's are confused by the results as it negate conventional medical norm.

My question now is, experts in the house, is there anything that can lead to such unconventional biological flaw? Under what condition can AS and AA couple have an SS child? Can mutation lead to such condition? My friend insists on divorce because he doesn't believe the wife. Should he go ahead based on what we all know about genotype?


Please I need matured advice on this. This is a REAL LIFE SITUATION AND NO FICTION. I WOULD HAVE MENTIONED NAMES AND ADDRESS OF THE COUPLE BUT I DON'T HAVE THEIR PERMISSION YET. THIS IS HAPPENING RIGHT HERE IN PORT HARCOURT OLD GRA WE'RE LIVING

Let them do a DNA test. It is the surest test to determine the true paternity.

If after the DNA it still comes out to be the mans own, then he should accept the outcome as God's miracle.

Demichaels:
My friend's 10 year Marriage is about to collapse.

His, my friend's genotype is AA and his wife's genotype is AS but their 4 year old daughter has been confirmed to have SS genotype by not less than 4 different medical experts. He confronted the wife and accused her of infidelity but she vehemently denied having any affair with another man. In other to prove her wrong, my friend subjected the little girl to a paternity test and there he got the shock of his life - the result showed he actually is the father of the girl. At first he accused the doctor of compromise because he is their family doctor and somehow relates to the wife. He then decided to go to another hospital to prove the paternity of the girl child there and then he got another shocker - the first result was actually correct. As It stands, my friend has consulted more than five other doctors outside the state of his residence and all Confirmed that the girl's genotype is SS and he actually is the father of the child despite his and the wife's genotype being as stated above. Even the doctor's are confused by the results as it negate conventional medical norm.

My question now is, experts in the house, is there anything that can lead to such unconventional biological flaw? Under what condition can AS and AA couple have an SS child? Can mutation lead to such condition? My friend insists on divorce because he doesn't believe the wife. Should he go ahead based on what we all know about genotype?


Please I need matured advice on this. This is a REAL LIFE SITUATION AND NO FICTION. I WOULD HAVE MENTIONED NAMES AND ADDRESS OF THE COUPLE BUT I DON'T HAVE THEIR PERMISSION YET. THIS IS HAPPENING RIGHT HERE IN PORT HARCOURT OLD GRA WE'RE LIVING

Let them do a DNA test. It is the surest test to determine the true paternity.

If after the DNA it still comes out to be the mans own, then he should accept the outcome as Gods miracle.

Demburrows:
one thing that overrides all u just said is Human Resource. The SE contain it all.

Please define what you mean by Human resource.

Is it in terms of population or in terms of resourcefulness of the population.

In terms of population, SE is no where near SW let alone North.

In terms of resourcefulness, SE may be prominent and very visible, but let's ask our selves this question and answer it truthfully.

While the SE are visible in the business world, where are the SW? Does it mean they are just sitting at home.

The fact is that the SE people are resourceful same as the SW people but while the SE people tends to concentrate on a few type of business eg spare parts, electronics imports and exports, which make them highly visible in most of their business lines. The SW on the other hand, are evenly spread across all businesses without necessarily following the band wagon. This spreading makes them quite impossible for the SW to be recognised with a particular line or form of business. This invariably means there is hardly a business line that you won't find a S. Westerner in appreciable number but such cannot be said of the S. Easterners.

So unless you have another definition for Human resource, I think the point is not strong enough.

Demburrows:
one thing that overrides all u just said is Human Resource. The SE contain it all.

Please define what you mean by Human resource.

Is it in terms of population or in terms of resourcefulness of the population.

In terms of population, SE is no where near SW let alone North.

In terms of resourcefulness, SE may be prominent and very visible, but let's ask our selves this question and answer it truthfully.

While the SE are visible in the business world, where are the SW? Does it mean they are just sitting at home.

The fact is that the SE people are resourceful same as the SW people but while the SE people tends to concentrate on a few type of business eg spare parts, electronics imports and exports, which make them highly visible in most of their business lines. The SW on the other hand, are evenly spread across all businesses without necessarily following the band wagon. This spreading makes them quite impossible for the SW to be recognised with a particular line or form of business. This invariably means there is hardly a business line that you won't find a S. Westerner in appreciable number but such cannot be said of the S. Easterners.