omolola100: We all felt dejected, our town visiting still far from Akure, we have leave on time because of the security situation in the country, we don't know when food will be ready..
We all left the church in annoyance, they have cancelled the reception,. You have to take care of your guest separately.
Our drivers face is not accommodating at all, we did not allow him to finish the Baron, His driving was reckless throughout the journey,he was driving with anger, we cautioned him, but remain adamant, we got home safely.. It was later we got to know that the husband was forced to do the wedding, none of his family members came to the wedding, the lady is a single mother.
The woman came to school on Monday , and we are all expecting her to apologise to us but to my greatest surprise, she started yelling at us that she does have any fault, she complained we should have waited for the food to get ready before leaving, she did not even say a single sorry.. She gave everybody a bigiapple, but I returned my own drinks back to her, i requested from the social committee to give me the #500 I contributed.. It's not all ocassion that we should always attend...
Fuckyoumod: yes ooh ... Normally her husband goes out early to work, a manager in a bank.
So I decided to play around with her, I loved her like mad, I treated and pampered her like a baby, I knew what she was lacking from her husband.
At some point she wished I was her hus., She get husband but I was her command in chief. So that day we were supposed to meet around 10 a:m at my place. Hotel was too risky...
She called to know the Items we needed to keep ourselves ok without any interference. This is our routine, we made sure there is food, fruits, drinks, wines and other edibles.
I won't lie, at some point she became madly in love with me, gave me everything I needed. Kinda busy now.
Jeon: And another one [happened in saint hospital close to my area ] A Woman Selling Food Opposite.
Always purchasing food from one mama put. One fateful day, one came to buy food without paying. She asked the woman to hold on let her go back to get the money...
Mama food wait no feed back. So she went to the hospital and explain everything that a patient came to bought food without paying, the security was arguing that no one came out.
So the attendant over heard the argument, and asked her if she could recognize the person and she said yes..... So the research was going on from ward to ward, but they could not reach the person.
Madam said she's not leaving without her money.. So they proceed to the morgue.. Lo and behold they found the person, since that day the woman resigned from selling food.
AlexGrow12: I had one story with a girl who was married at the time we talked. Her whole problem was that her husband spent a lot of time at work and could not come home for days. In addition, as she told me, they were having bad sex. She wasn't happy about that. In addition, their sexual preferences were very different, because she was very fond of BDSM, and her husband was against it. But I was only happy to learn something new, so our interests aligned well at that point.
Please if the police can kindly track him and lay hold of him. It would be appreciated. Also if his location can be found, I'll appreciate.
Please let's do this as a family.
Additionally, I have added the full story below according to the mother.
Please do well to get through to me via the contact below:
09073741704
Thanks FULL STORY
Good day Sir/Ma,
I hope this outcry meets you well. A young girl named, Blessing Emmanuel Chinaza, who is just 16+ years of age has been missing since May 11 (1 month and 2 weeks now).
She left home after series of warning to her parents on previous occasions about leaving the house for a so called spiritual father named David. She had always told the parents about going to stay with a priest who she believes will teach and guide her to serve God better than staying with the parents as she believes that staying with the parents will not help her spiritual life. However, her mother disapproves of it.
*Evidence:*
The evidence here is that, there is a message by blessing to someone on her Facebook messages on April 2022 that reads:
"The mssg keeps coming for me to leave my parents or my light will quench so pls if there is any way you assist me with a token of two to three thousand to transport myself I will be glad.....DONT SEND TO MY MOMS ACCT AGAIN CALL DIS NUM IF U WANT TO SEND THE MONEY (She then dropped David's number ("
The irony of this whole thing is that this girl's father is a pastor in the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) and the mother is more like an evangelist. So the idea about leaving the parent's house for another priest was just very much out of context. The Mom had one day asked Blessing who the priest she would like to stay with is and she mentioned David saying that he is her spiritual father and God told her to stay with him. It was totally strange to them why David, a young man ih his twenties would want to mentor her daughter as a spiritual father. Both parents and David has unresolved issues and where not in good relationship at that period in time.
According to the mother, David was someone who came to Lagos with nothing, he met Blessing's father one day after service, he introduced himself as a musician/minister and pleased that he(Blessing's Father) should please allow him join his church as a minister. Blessing's father welcomed him and gave him a chance in the church. After many months, Blessing's father gave him an accomodation in the same building for him to stay since he has no home. This is another story entirely.
According to Blessing's mother, they parked out of their home somewhere in Shibiri, Ojo, Lagos in the month of April . They moved to a place in Mowe, Ogun State. Just after 2 weeks, Blessing kept telling her parents she needs to get a job to keep her busy. The parents on a second thought made her understand that they are new in that area and feels that they all need more time to get used to the new environment they got into. She later got a POS job close to her house where she worked as a cashier; this was during the ending of April. After about 2-3 weeks later, on the 11th of May, she was sent to withdraw #200,000 from a bank. She did went to the bank, withdrew the money and returned back to her shop. Later that day, her Mom gave her younger sister to take food to Blessing at her shop which she(her younger sister) did. She forgot to bring alongside the food, water for Blessing to drink, so she went home in order to get Blessing water. When the younger sister got back to the shop to give the water to Blessing, she(Blessing) was already gone. She left her phone as well. She left with the sum of #200,000. This happened on the 11th of May 2022.
That same day, 11th of May 2022, the alleged spiritual father had left his place of residence for Anambra state and this was exactly the same day Blessing went missing. It is beleived that the young girl and this David must have planned the whole thing. Some days before that day, blessing had told her mom that she (her mom) should please permit her to attend a service alongside the spiritual father at a place in Anamara state named Nnobi. The mother declined saying that Anambra state was too far for her to go to, and that she doesn't even have the money for transportation to Anambra state. Also, she will not even allow her daughter go with a total stranger like David who claims to be her (Blessing) spiritual father. After that incidence, Blessing showed anger through out the whole of that day.
That same day, all the way from Mowe, Blessing's father had gone to find David since he believes that the daughter must have left to meet him that same day she ran away. On getting, there he was told that he travelled that same day.
*Evidence:*
The evidence to support this is a recorded call between me and David.
I recorded the call between David and I in hope that I will be able to draw out information from David knowing fully well that he is the prime suspect. David plainly told me that he does not know the where about of Blessing and that he has not heard from her ever since she left home. However, he knows that Blessing left home. This makes one to wonder why someone who claims to be a spiritual father, after about a month plus does not know where his spiritual daughter is and has not done anything to get to this young girl ? The mother told me that the day Blessing left home,
Earlier on, the mother had asked me not to call David being that it might implicate me. She said so, because she involved the police at that point. David was able to pick my call because I introduced myself clearly to him. I met David only once, and that was the day the mother invited me for a service in their church. We spoke at length just like two people meeting for the first time. After waiting for about a month plus and with being tempted to call this so called spiritual father of her's to ask about her whereabout, I ran out of patience since someone's life is at stake. The parents have given up already but not me. So I eventually called him.
Now blessing on her own end, left the phone she uses to communicate that was given to her by her boss (she does not have a phone of hers) before she ran away. It's already a month and 2 weeks since she was gone, and she is yet to communicate with anyone.
This begs the following questions: 1. Why has she not contacted anyone ever since she left? Even her friends.
This was ascertainedthrough the help of her mother. We were able to log in to her Facebook account to go through her messages to find a clue. But nothing except that she chatted the last time on the same day she left home. She was desperately asking for a friend's number, this Friend of hers is also named Blessing.
2. Is she still alive? If yes, then why is she yet to contact anyone?
3. Or could it be that she is not totally in control of herself anymore? More like being in a very bad situation where she is not allowed to communicate with anyone.
4. Could it be that this Davis knows where she is and does not want to let the parents know about it. This was because according to David, they had some misunderstanding.
5. Blessed asking her parents to get her a job in just the second week of getting into their new home could suggest that she already had the plan of leaving the house even long before it happened. All she needed was money. She had it all planned out. She had to get a job since none of her friends she requested for money attended to her.
Lots and lots of questions begs for answers.
But in all, only one person is a prime suspect *(David)* and is likely to know where Blessing is. The question here is, what motive does he have towards this young girl?
The present situation looks like both parents have resigned to fate about their daughter. To them, they only hope that she will return someday just the same way she left. And as it stands, I seem to be the only person who is willing to help them the possible way I can. It all seems that I am the one who care more about their daughter than they do. Or maybe the shock has gotten over them so much that they can barely think straight. They are very helpless at the moment. Blessing is their first child among the three of them (all girls).
Yes, I talked about the police coming in at some point. Yes they did, but their request was more than the family can afford. I have helped them financially too but I don't think I alone can do everything.
Please we really need your help at this critical time. We don't know if Blessing is dead or alive or if she is being held hostage ever since, that no one has heard from her (it's almost 2months now).
@RoyalRoy
this is simple. Go to any DSS office around you. Give them the number of the suspect they'll monitor all his calls and his movement.
TheScientist: I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it. Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?
Thinkam: baba couldn't complete secondary and primary school due to poverty. But surprisingly could afford to travel overseas.
I thought basic education was free and encouraged in West due to Awolowo, how come Tinubu wasn't a beneficiary?
It was also speculated, Tinubu mother was a rich slave trader and business woman , how come she couldn't finance her child basic education?
Tinubu is definitely the Nigerian Version of Raymond Reddington...
This explanation is a BS
The document you just showed us of the university, confirming he attended the institution...
Why can't he also retrieve the remedial documents from Richard Dale, at least that's also abroad..
As it stands to me, this issue is still controversial...
Before you quote me unnecessarily, answer this!
If it was the requirement of a Job in your office, that I present my academic qualifications and I came with all this stories, wouldn't you press further?
Today Saturday afternoon, one of my female neighbor in her late thirties came to ask me if I have cutlass that she can use to peel the coconut that she bought. I have cutlass so I gave it to her.
I waited for her to her to peel the coconut and return the cutlass. After she finished peeling the coconut, she asked me if I would like to have a piece. I told her yes, since I happen to also like coconut.
The issue now is, I noticed that she bit both edge of the piece of coconut before giving it to me. And I know this lady is someone who is seriously searching for a husband.
Now I suspect the possibility that a spiritualist instructed her to do this to charm a man and get herself a husband.
The coconut is still with me, I would feel bad if I throw it away after accepting it, but am also worried something would happen if I ate it. Am I overthinking it?
if you don't like it give it to me lemme eat. I love coconut
Fembleez1: I was extremely stupid to have trusted someone because he called me omoluabi and the way he was treating me, I thought he was genuine and like a father, not knowing he was going to defraud me of the money.
To be candid, I was really daft to have trusted him.
do you have his phone number? If you do go to any DSS office close to you and they'll track and arrest him.
LadyD22: Is there any trustworthy dating app that you know ? I tried to check bumble but everybody is just looking for a girl to have sex with and then they lie about it too Noone should come and preach for me about God's time or go outside and search , people that are finding their partners online don't have two heads
no wahala. Am online now you can equally find me here too because nairaland is online too.
I HATE NONSENSE. HERES THE FULL GIST. NOBODY SHOULD CLICK ON THAT LINK.
A Nigerian lawyer and Facebook influencer, Olakunle Allison has revealed the reason why he neglected a lady, in spite of his affections for her. He made the post on his official Facebook page today. Read what he wrote below;
“Ghosting a lady I really liked.”
“People may not know this, but a guy can “ghost” a lady for reasons that might have nothing to do with the lady herself. It might be about someone else in her life or her family. Or it might be about her friends or some other “dumb” reasons like that.”
“And a lady can be ghosted simply because the guy isn’t just sure that she is really what he wants AT THAT POINT IN TIME. Or he might just be confused about his feelings, not knowing what to make of them.”
“Yes, guys can be indecisive especially when it comes to making that big decision. And especially if they have other options.”
“I know this because I have done something similar.”
“There was this tall, pretty and well-trained Igbo lady I used to really like. Very intelligent lady. She graduated � with a 2.1 CGPA from a University in the UK. She was and is a combination of good looks (height) and brains.”
“Amaka is her name.”
“Amaka and I used to meet at the BRT bus terminal every morning on my way to work. I was working in a Commercial Law Firm in Ikoyi at the time. She too worked on the Island at Pricewaterhousecoopers LLP (PWC).”
“If you knew PWC or someone who works there, then you’d understand how much of a big deal it was that she was working there. They employ only the best and they pay extremely well. She was employed solely on merit. She told me how she got the job.”
“Since Amaka and I met every morning at the BRT terminal we gradually got closer whilst we waited for the next BRT bus. We chatted to while away time before the bus came.”
“And when the bus arrived we would sit beside each other and continued our conversation. With lots of traffic on busy, bubbling Lagos roads from Berger to Obalende, marathon gisting was guaranteed for both of us.”
“Amaka was so simple and naive in a very attractive way, in addition to her physical beauty. She also had this innocence about her that made her even more attractive. I doubt she could hurt a fly. She was that kind of a person.”
“Naturally I began to really like her even though I was with someone else at the time, but that relationship was having issues. And I think she (Amaka) began to like me too.”
“So one fateful day I asked if she would like to see a movie with me.”
“Without hesitation, she accepted.”
“So we fixed a date and time to see a movie in Silverbird Cinemas at the Ikeja City Mall.”
“The movie day came. She showed up a few minutes after I got there looking pretty as usual with all smiles.”
“We went to the Cinema premises where I bought movie tickets, popcorn and drinks for two after deciding which movie to see. We chose an American Movie. A romantic comedy.”
“I think I can say we both enjoyed the movie and each other’s company that evening.”
“As we walked out of the cinema hall, Amaka spotted her big brother in a seafood restaurant and dragged me along to say hello to him. Her brother happened to be a medical doctor. They are all well read in her family.”
“When we got to him he was seated looking quite business-like, reserved and frankly a bit too serious. She introduced me to him and him to me. I said “good evening” and he responded casually. A bit too casual. Not even a handshake.”
“A tiny part of me felt ignored, like he was not too pleased to see me with his sister. I am pretty sure I may have read his body language wrongly but that was how I felt at the time.”
“For a few minutes she and her big brother got talking while I stood there waiting for her. And soon enough they were done. We left her brother and made our way out. It was already night.”
“As we came out to the open space within the premises where cars usually park, she became a bit more playful oblivious to my sour mood. I didn’t begrudge her. She was just being herself.”
“Clearly she enjoyed the evening. But I was not feeling the evening anymore. I was mildly sour because of her brother’s perceived coldness towards me.”
“Don’t get me wrong. I was not expecting her brother to give me a big hug or smile from ear to ear at me. But look at me and my height for a second and tell me whether I look like someone anyone could ignore like that.”
“Deep down inside me I felt he was not too pleased to see me and his sister together.”
*After I said goodbye to Amaka that night, I ghosted her.”
“I hated that I did it, but I did it.”
“And I justified it by telling myself that there was already someone in my life (even though that relationship was no longer promising at the time). FYI, I am no longer dating the lady I was seeing then.”
“A year or two later, Amaka got married to a guy who works at PWC. I saw her lovely wedding photos on Instagram and I congratulated her.”
“She responded with thanks. That was the first time we spoke after that movie evening. But I was truly happy for her.”
“I think what happened to me and why I ghosted her was because I have always had this paranoia about having Igbo inlaws.”
“I always felt, whether rightly or wrongly, that you needed a lot of money and title to satisfy and please Igbo fathers and brothers-in-law.”
“So when I got that attitude from her brother at the restaurant, it worsened my fear for Igbo inlaws and i just disconnected mentally from her. That then gave me the license to feed my fear and run.”
“Unfortunately, she doesn’t know this till today. All she knows is that i went cold and quiet.”
“And if I am to be honest, a part of me is not proud that I did that to her. She didn’t offend me at all.”
“But that’s it guys. Ghosting happens and it might have nothing to do with the lady.”
“And that’s why ladies who find themselves in such situations SHOULD NOT beat and blame themselves unnecessarily because men always have their own “dumb” or whatever reasons for doing it. And you cannot blame them too.”
“Just move on like a big girl that you are. And if you can still be friends be friends without holding it against such men.
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