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bobchigar:
Hello Nairalanders.

I feel like seeking your advise about how I can accelerate the process of returning the money that I guess was wrongly transferred to my personal bank account.

About two months ago, I received credit alert of about ₦200k in one of my savings accounts. Based on the narration of the credit alert, it shows that It was done through ATM and I did not do any transaction to have been expecting such money.
I have been expecting to get alert for reversal of the transaction but the money is still sitting in my bank account.

I have also been expecting my banker to have contacted me for approval to reverse the transaction but I have not been contacted by my banker.

I was considering the option of complaining to my banker to trace the owner from their ends but some people discouraged me from doing so; stating that those bankers may conspire with someone and falsely claim the money.

I have been thinking of possibilities of tracing the owner by myself but credit alert did not state the details of the account from which the money was transferred to my bank account.

I am feeling concerned for the person who did the transfer because his fund has been tied down.

A banker told me that the owner must have complained to his/her bank but banks ways of attending to the customers complain is slow but definitely they will contact me for reversal.

Do I keep my legs crossed and be expecting my banker to contact me for reversal approval?
or
Complain to my banker to help me locate the owner of the transaction?

Or any other suggestions will be welcome from you but my objective is to hasten process of returning the money to the true owner.

Thank you.

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

Officialgarri:
When ESN broke prisons during the Endsars protest and recruited the criminals, punch newspaper reported it as the police force reported as well but no one took note.

As wise as Nnamdi Kanu is, he said the criminals were angels and praised them. His blind followers began to praise them any time they appeared on the streets and killed security personnel.

Today, they are done with the police and have began to eat their own brothers.

Many North Easterners who cheered Boko Haram when they were still Boko Haram have fled to lagos to be riding Okada and gateman. They once had a cheap life in Borno

JEWELofHELL666:
https://twitter.com/udujiOmefo/status/1527545248431456256?s=19[/quote]Shey una like Biafra? Make una henjoi am as the tin dey hot

Shalommy:
That's horn na.. Chaii.. You've received your mark already!

9jadonfinish:
Good morning nairalands
My names are Davo and am based in Ivory Coast , by thé special grace of God , am doing fine living well and can be proud of my own building and my shops and can brag of 6 digit regularly

I have being dating this girl since I came to the country for 10 years now and I knew her when she was just 18,

I have spent more to her and train her from primary to university with just one girl she birth for me

Now am getting old atleast am 35 and wants to get married

I told the girl of my intention but the parents are fighting me that the girl is a Muslim from djula tribe and can not be wife

I intend going to Nigeria to get a wife and she has refused and claim to run away with my daughter who I love so much and resemble me a lot

I don’t know what to do

I kindly need help and seriuos help
She has being showing me characters and threats and always report me to police after I beat her last time
Remember I have another daughter with a Christian gal staying with me presently and I lost the mother of the gal because she promise to gave birth after 5 years of hard core spending relationship
I did not know that Muslim gals still never marry Christian guys no matter what you do to them
I want to leave but she has disagreed I don’t need what to do

Channah1:
With apologies to this fellow, I make this complaint.

Please, how can I handle this situation I found myself in this shared room.

I am someone who likes and respect peoples privacy and mine a lot and this was why it took me time to opt for a shared apartment until things got out of hand and I had to settle for it due to lack of sufficient funds.

The issue is about this fellow. The first night I got there, after a few mins she just went completely unclad. In my mind, I thought it was because she wanted to bathe, that she'll probably get into a nighty once she's done but to my surprise, she didn't. And the way she goes about unclad, bending in front of me is so disturbing. I feel like telling her to cover up a bit but I know I can't.
I know the weather is hot but hey... we need to show some decency here.

The first night I did that nonsense but that was after the light was turned off but yesterday, mehn... I couldn't continue so I wore my panties and later covered up a bit with wrapper but she'll just come and open everything waaaa... And its getting on my nerves.

This has got me wondering, so this is how this students leave their bodies anyhow?

I'm still trying to absorb everything about this new lifestyle because I've never seen such before. Though, when I was living alone, I used to go to sleep the way God created me. That is because I'm all alone. Not when someone is around. I can't

I asked the man in charge if I can put a partition, he said the fan would disturb it otherwise, I planned to call a capenter to come and partition my space. Its not too late. I might still get a mobile partition by weekend if I find something nice.

What do you think, fam.?

OP, what is waaaa??

chatinent:
Comrade,

Abeg clear me this part...

Dem call their own dating marriage?






Comrade Most High, with due respect, how old is your stupidity?

Mokason288:

You came out Of near death situation and you decided to be holding and showing us breast.

Sweetplum:
Hello everyone, meet my pet dog. Her name's Naomi. She's 3 years old n hasn't given birth.
She had miscarriage once & has been so mean to male caucasian dogs during her heat. I pay N15-N25K to get a healthy male to mate her. Last week, she nearly killed the make dog wanted to cross her with her rough play.
I really wanna v her puppies cos I learnt it's good biz too.
If anyone has suggestion on how I can calm her to mate easily and things to do to prevent the miscarriage she had earlier this year.
The pics in this thread are her pics with friends n family from 4weeks till 3years.
Thanks.

Agwotulumbe:
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tired of loss of revenue?
do you actually read what you wrote?
how do you guys reason sometimes?
chaiiii and some of you will be calling Abokis "aboki"

revenue you say?
so if government stop collecting revenues in Anambra state they'll die or their children will die.
FYI these politicians have stock up the money that'll last for their 6th generation.
will not generating revenue stop buhari and his government from looting?
will it stop Soludo children from schooling abroad?
will affect their meals?

But how about the poor and Peasant igbos that this sit at home is affecting their daily bread.
a pure water seller in Upper iweka
a grocery seller that definitely have perishables in her stocks.
all the petty traders that depends on their daily income to feed.
so you'll starve all these people for good 3 days just because you want a government that contains alot of politicians to loose revenues?
chaiiii I'm quite certain that either you're not in SE or not even in Nigeria because if you're close to South East you'll have pity on your fellow igbos who are suffering because of these senseless sit at home and terrorism.
bros check kwa this thing oo
mkpulu onye kulu ka oga awolu
ebulu ozu onye ozo n'isi...
that you can comfortably feed for days without work, there are people their mouth is tied to their daily hustle.
akalaka niine aburo ofu.

my brother check kwa ife a ofuma oo
odirokwanu mma oo

emmatex2020:
They try that rubbish in Rivers state and we boldly stood against them. Wike dealt with them very well and they all relocated to Imo state. You don`t give criminals space to operate, rather send them to their early grave. Rivers people will forever be grateful to our governor. IPOB will consume the entire south east. They will harvest your kpekus once you get to east. Ndi Biafra how market with your online country?

Miloski:
I don't know what is happening. Shootings here and there. These guys are forcing 4 days lock down on us.

The other day they attacked popular bar in onitsha, many were wounded. Military post at Federal housing estate Onitsha we're attacked but they were repelled.

Many are being robbed, kidnapped to pay ransom. Once you drive flashy car these boys will run you down. Even our roads are no longer safe. Kidnappers, ritualists and armed robbers every where in Anambra state.

Big boys are on low key now due to fear of being robbed.
This is not the way forward. I hate violence.
Today people are in door due to fear of been attacked. If this continues, many young vibrant business men may leave South-East in Mass.

Is this the Biafra they want?
Simon ekpa should call his boys to order, because people are running out of patience.
Soludo should man up and rescue us.

Brownygold002:
thank u beauty. I'm From a mixed race.

virginprincess:
Wow, congratulations.
Op are you a white lady?

Prettylitlady:
I am not angry at all. Thanks

Prettylitlady:
Thank you for your contributions

toyini1234:
Sir please

Beautygoddesss:
tell him to stay away from me and my friends

Beautygoddesss:
tufiakwa who know u.god forbid bad thing.I HATE U

aktolly54:
a whole 372 ,000 and he can't even produce receipt sent to his email address as well. That's completely sham

Lukenitheooo6:
Hostel that cannot accommodate all ND1 students of mass communication.

Upon they increase school fees. Nawa I

SIMONEKPA7:

Soludo can not deceive us, IPOB will stand ,with or without Nnamdi Kanu.
To hell with Soludo and Nnamdi Kalu. Auto pilot has come to stay.
Tomorrow is Sit at home. 16,17,18.
Be prepared

Oyindamolah:
A girl who:
- Has no pride
- Doesn't party every weekend
- Dates one guy at a time
- Doesn't go sleeping around coz she respects her body
- Has never done abortion
- Is busy chasing her dreams not men
- Is indoors right now with 0% alcohol in her body..
That's a Wife Material




A man who:
- Has no pride
- Doesn't party every weekend
- Dates one girl at a time
- Doesn't go sleeping around coz he's a man - Has never assisting or abating in doing abortion
- Is busy chasing his dreams not women
- Is indoors right now with 0% alcohol in his body..
That's a husband material

Do you agree?

toyini1234:
I'm interested

tobby20:
Lol seven years
She a virgin
Som guys sef

toyini1234:
I'll do anything legal sir