₦airaland Forum

Prettygirl200:
Am sure u are one of them. Sorry ooo

sarrki:
I am vindicated that this guy is clueless

Prettygirl200:
Oops tears of joy. Haaaa redpillers will not be happy with this oooo men are getting married everyday chaii. Una redpill na for nairaland e end oooo sorry ooooo wannabe redpillers dem.

Munzy14:
Na only yam your in-laws go chop?

Kobojunkie:
Your coward of a friend can't face his wife but he comes in to offload on you? Why do you folks sign up to be friends with these kind of folks for Pete's sake?

Munzy14:
Oya come and pay extra bride price

kingsolomonjnr01:
Wow.. ur wife is my sister then.
I'm from mbaitolu

nnol:
mbieri people are very nice people, my late mum is from mbieri.

Amayabor1:
It depends on where your wife grew up. Those that grew up outside Igbo land (like growing up in the north, Lagos or any other non-igbo state) are generally good.

You see those ones that were born and bred in Igbo land (especially Imo and Anambra ladies)? Fear them!

Leemekzy:
am an igbo guy married to a Benue lady (igede) una ladier na confirm.

BarrElChapo:
Hope say you no carry our sister go use aleku put am for bondage

YinkaOlusesi16:
what happen to benue ladies?

YinkaOlusesi16:
That is why i dey fear igbo girls.

triple996:
Biafra or death

Tonero5200:
Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.

I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored.
his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.
Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.
Seun
Lalasticlala

OBAOMO01:
December came, Usman was not apprehended, only for me to hear that Alhassan (Accomplice) has been released and my prosecutor knew about it and didn't even bother to inform me. All of a sudden, Alhassan and the prosecutor became so close that I can't even differentiate if the prosecutor is working for me or with Alhassan. Before December, the family of Usman brought in another #200,000 and that was how they started paying this money in pieces like #50,000... and I have to travel down to Kano everytime the case is supposed to be heard. Now, I barely survive because have been out of business since last year August and even suffers from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
January 2022, the same story of adjournment set in, Usman was nowhere to be found, the prosecutor doesn't even pick my calls most time again, my damages no longer a discussion again, they stopped talking about the balance of the main money, instead it has been adjournment upon adjournment knowing fully well I travel a long distance to Kano whenever the case is to be heard. It's either the Magistrate is not sitting, the prosecutor is not around or another story altogether and I have to risk my life, spend money to travel and still get this disappointment or the other. So, I looked at it and told myself January the Magistrate was not around, February the prosecutor told me he is not around because the court didnt notify him of the sitting after I called him and told him myself of the sitting, March the accomplice was not around and the prosecutor is still saying the Court didn't notify him of the sitting (after I called and told him myself ooo) again but he came eventually but the accomplice was not around so the case was adjourned again. At this point, I studied the chain of event since December when this adjournment became so pronounced and said to myself this will keep on like this till I'm tired of coming for the case, so I would loss my business money, money spent on the case, damages and an attempted murder on my life by someone at large will just all slide like that? Is that the country I was born into? Is that what have been happening to numerous Nigerians that didn't voice out? What is the fate of Usman's next victim? Is Usman close to another person's life as we speak? What went wrong in this justice system I was following gently? What is the fate of my business have been building since 2019? Where will I pick it from? Family and friends looking up to me? Banks and ROI staring at me even in my dream? What can I do? So that's why I'm here in the media to seek for help from meaning Nigeria to help me with this case and help my mental health. I'm at the verge of losing EVERYTHING!!! LIKE, EVERYTHING including MY SANITY!!!
The truth is, I still have so much zeal and ambition to keep fighting for my right... I can't go and do business and almost lost my life, lost my money, still risking my life and just walk away like that... I lost everything!!! All the years of my labor, all the sweat, all the prayers... I just don't know how to bring myself down to believe I will just lose everything.

Oh, I have not crossed the thin line between sanity and depression but if this continues, I don't think I won't cross the line. I'm only surviving on God's HOPE to see me through. I love my business and how I have been pushing hard to excel in it, everyday I see opportunities pass me by to make money and here am I battling with how to survive this case and be on my feet again. I'm not lazy, I work daily to build this my company and just help others to rise while working with me. Now I'm facing the reality of our justice system that is crippling me and maybe about sending me to an early depression state and I need to voice this out now!!!

Please, if you know any human right activist, lawyer, individual that can help me with this case, I need all the help I can get... Bank interest rates keep growing daily on my neck, individual money investment also on my neck and very soon I might not be able to breath. Please, I need all the help you can render.
NB: I have pictures, videos and audio evidence to ascertain everything said so far.


You can reach me via olufemisegun21@gmail.com

Uniquetani1:
I also have birthmark on my lip

l3st3r:
Good day. I own a betking shop. I also run a POS service in the shop. One day a customer came that he wants to play virtual sports bet. He asked to use the POS cos he doesn't have any money on him. I tried his card and it was saying "insufficient funds". He says he has money in the card and I should try it again.

Meanwhile I saw he was attempting to still play the bet. I told him he should wait let's resolve the withdrawal before he plays his bet. He went ahead and play a bet of #1000. I became angry and asked him if I didn't ask him not to play that bet until we resolve his withdrawal. I asked him how he intend paying for the bet now. He says I should use his atm. I told him his atm card is still showing insufficient fund. He said why am I shouting at him if I know who he is.

I asked who are you? na you open shop for me. The whole thing broke into a shouting bout. Luckily his game won. I deducted my #1000 and asked him to leave that he won't be allowed to play game here anymore as he is a troublesome person.

He says he is going to play and if I know who he is. We got into more shouting bout again. He finally left and says he would be coming back.

He came back today one month later wearing an army uniform with two of his other colleagues. He started hitting me with belt. Says I should do frog jump and other nonsensical punishment. People around later heard the noise. They started begging. When they asked me what the problem is before I try to explain, they would hit me with the belt that I should shut up. When they are satisfied they finally left.

I checked for the name tag on his uniform but he has removed it. His other two colleague are putting on muftty. I do have a CCTV camera in my shop which they are not aware, so everything is on video.

Please, how do I proceed with this case and get justice, pls don't say police cos I took an issue to the police the other time when money was stolen in my shop. Even with video evidence nothing was done. They tasked me anyhow. One naira no come out..

I know this is not the right section for this just want somewhere with a bit of traffic. Mods pls move this to the frontpage so I can get a range of advice.

ibechris:
Buy firman generator.

The one I am using was bought 13years ago. Carries TV,two freezers three fans and all the lightnings.

Juliusmomoh2:
I can't find my stocks yesterday night, so I finally arrived at this

life is all about parkaging dear.. ✌️✌️..

People don't even notice

elantraceey:
I wonder why he hasn't done this since

bobchigar:
Hello Nairalanders.

I feel like seeking your advise about how I can accelerate the process of returning the money that I guess was wrongly transferred to my personal bank account.

About two months ago, I received credit alert of about ₦200k in one of my savings accounts. Based on the narration of the credit alert, it shows that It was done through ATM and I did not do any transaction to have been expecting such money.
I have been expecting to get alert for reversal of the transaction but the money is still sitting in my bank account.

I have also been expecting my banker to have contacted me for approval to reverse the transaction but I have not been contacted by my banker.

I was considering the option of complaining to my banker to trace the owner from their ends but some people discouraged me from doing so; stating that those bankers may conspire with someone and falsely claim the money.

I have been thinking of possibilities of tracing the owner by myself but credit alert did not state the details of the account from which the money was transferred to my bank account.

I am feeling concerned for the person who did the transfer because his fund has been tied down.

A banker told me that the owner must have complained to his/her bank but banks ways of attending to the customers complain is slow but definitely they will contact me for reversal.

Do I keep my legs crossed and be expecting my banker to contact me for reversal approval?
or
Complain to my banker to help me locate the owner of the transaction?

Or any other suggestions will be welcome from you but my objective is to hasten process of returning the money to the true owner.

Thank you.

Agabaidu1234:
My Experience With my boss at the office today.

Am a serving corps member with one company serving.

At first, I usually carry my boss bag from the office to his car whenever we close (in the evening) but in a recent time he promoted my kind gesture to always call me from the office to pick his bag in the morning not minding whether am busy or not which has being getting me infuriated before now, but I keeps being calm.

The last stroke that broke the camel's back happened today. He called me outside as usual, I picked up the bag from him and he equally went further to tell his friend to equally handed over his own to me, to bring them all to the office although the friend told me not to bother myself, which really got me really mad boldly written in my countenance � and he noticed it which he asked me at the office and I express my displeasure to him in that regard of carrying his friend bag together with his own and he attempted to defend himself by bringing in irrelevant ideas and admonishment, of which I took flimsy excuse that I was not feeling fine and left, but trust me it was still as a result of the anger.

Now, my concerns is that, am I being foolish trying to be nice and at the same time being humble to always doing that for him willingly because I started it which he took it to be daily routine,? And again I want to stop doing that to him from today's on even when am called upon, if he thinks I do them all for him as a result of ignorance or that am being naive( what do you think � that my plan may result to) .
Am talking about a guy who should be in his early thirties( 30) here.

Please �, what's actually your advise to me in this circumstance.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

Officialgarri:
When ESN broke prisons during the Endsars protest and recruited the criminals, punch newspaper reported it as the police force reported as well but no one took note.

As wise as Nnamdi Kanu is, he said the criminals were angels and praised them. His blind followers began to praise them any time they appeared on the streets and killed security personnel.

Today, they are done with the police and have began to eat their own brothers.

Many North Easterners who cheered Boko Haram when they were still Boko Haram have fled to lagos to be riding Okada and gateman. They once had a cheap life in Borno

JEWELofHELL666:
https://twitter.com/udujiOmefo/status/1527545248431456256?s=19[/quote]Shey una like Biafra? Make una henjoi am as the tin dey hot

Shalommy:
That's horn na.. Chaii.. You've received your mark already!