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BoredBerry:
Hi!

My name is boredberry... I'm 19... And I need a boyfriend... He must reside in Abuja or be willing to travel to Abuja if he resides in other state... I don't discriminate but I would prefer a southerner, esp from these south-south states (Delta, Edo, Port Harcourt) or a south westerner excluding those from Ogun and Osun...

He must be tall... I'm 5.5 so he must be above 5.7...

I prefer dark men... Who doesn't love chocolate? But if he's fair and attractive I might consider...

He could be a Christian or a muslim... But I don't want someone who's too religious... I'm not really a believer but I'm very tolerant... I hate fanatics...

I need a man who's a lover of science! And mythology, astrology, history and so on...

A pan-African...

An avid reader...

He must be creative... Someone who sees things from many perspectives... Thinks outside the box...

He must be funny! And polite enough to laugh at my lame jokes...

Be considerate and kind... I need someone with a heart... Emphatic and with a vision to change the world in his own little way...

I need a man who is a lover of life! Drinks, smokes, enjoys going out and meeting new people...

Someone who takes risks... Loves adventures... Anything but common...

He must enjoy travelling... Excited by foreign cultures, esp those that are African...

Be a foodie...

I love public display of affection! So he should love holding me and being held... Kissed... Etc...

Be a dog person... Love the idea of having pets... I grew up with dogs and cats even chickens! So I love animals!

Someone who's childish and fun to be with... Silly and cute... I love men who are boyish...

He shouldn't be an alpha... He should love himself and all that... But I like men who are sensitive... So he shouldn't think feeling sad or even crying is a sign of weakness...

I'll continue...

Am available. So write application letter.

OUR WOMEN HAVE MADE MARRIAGE LOOK LIKE A SCAM TO ME.

When they are dating, you see them paint their walls with pictures of their boyfriends in the name of yeye love. But, when a man gather his hard earn money to pay their bride price, everything changes. Hardly will you see a married woman paint her walls with their husbands pictures.
When dating, a lady will give her boyfriends all the sex style in this world and will hardly say no when the guy demand for sex. But once a man marries her, she will start saying sex na food?
The kind of affection , submission, care and understanding young ladies shows to their boyfriends, you will never see them show half of it to their husbands.
Paying huge amount of money to marry a lady is more like paying just to have children. There seems to be nothing like love in marriage. It looks contractual.
Most women have finished their emotions while dating. In fact, I don't think there is anything a man will enjoy more in a woman that he married that will equal what her boyfriends have enjoyed.
It looks enjoyable to date a lady and have fun than to marry her.
I know many will come for me with this write up but deep down , we all knows it is the bitter truth. Something is absolutely wrong somewhere.

Why u dey lie. The picture of the snake wey u show na d room be that? U go snap picture from somewhere kom dey show us say na for room dem kill am because u want make we go click that link.

Guy, we don wise pass d level wey u no

Heathrow44:
He still loves u, but u are not giving him the attention he deserves, so he's notifying u that he's noticed ur unruly behaviour and if u re no longer interested in the relationship kukuma tell him on time..

Gbam!!!!

Prettygirl200:
Thank God u are sensible enough to know that.

Are you OK now ma'am?

Prettygirl200:
shey u are a redpiller ni

none of the above ma.

Am too matured and cultured for that.

Prettygirl200:
Am sure u are one of them. Sorry ooo

wat I do now?

sarrki:
I am vindicated that this guy is clueless

which man?

Prettygirl200:
Oops tears of joy. Haaaa redpillers will not be happy with this oooo men are getting married everyday chaii. Una redpill na for nairaland e end oooo sorry ooooo wannabe redpillers dem.

If the North think the middle belt are with them this time around they're lying.

We the middle belt will join hand with the igbos because the killing in our region have opened our eyes.

Munzy14:
Na only yam your in-laws go chop?

. Wetin you want tell me make I bring kom.

I can do anything for u my in-law

Kobojunkie:
Your coward of a friend can't face his wife but he comes in to offload on you? Why do you folks sign up to be friends with these kind of folks for Pete's sake?

bird of the same feather

Munzy14:
Oya come and pay extra bride price

I'll bring more extra tubers of yam. Trust me, am from Benue.

kingsolomonjnr01:
Wow.. ur wife is my sister then.
I'm from mbaitolu

my in-law my in-law

nnol:
mbieri people are very nice people, my late mum is from mbieri.

are you kidding me?

Maximum respect to you my in-law.

I Duff my hat for you

Amayabor1:
It depends on where your wife grew up. Those that grew up outside Igbo land (like growing up in the north, Lagos or any other non-igbo state) are generally good.

You see those ones that were born and bred in Igbo land (especially Imo and Anambra ladies)? Fear them!

Like seriously, my wife was born and brought up in imo state.
I met her in school. We were staunch enemy in school lo and behold I never knew life have something in stock for us.

Anyway, its the Lord's doing.

Leemekzy:
am an igbo guy married to a Benue lady (igede) una ladier na confirm.

thanks Bro

BarrElChapo:
Hope say you no carry our sister go use aleku put am for bondage

capital no Sir

YinkaOlusesi16:
what happen to benue ladies?

they're good as well

YinkaOlusesi16:
That is why i dey fear igbo girls.

Am from Benue and I married an Igbo Lady from mbieri, imo state and I can confidently tell you that they are awesomely GOOD.

triple996:
Biafra or death

death

Tonero5200:
Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.

I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored.
his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.
Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.
Seun
Lalasticlala

Na your type I dey cut cane dey flog.

Your carwardice na India film.

You're SIMP raise to power 17

OBAOMO01:
December came, Usman was not apprehended, only for me to hear that Alhassan (Accomplice) has been released and my prosecutor knew about it and didn't even bother to inform me. All of a sudden, Alhassan and the prosecutor became so close that I can't even differentiate if the prosecutor is working for me or with Alhassan. Before December, the family of Usman brought in another #200,000 and that was how they started paying this money in pieces like #50,000... and I have to travel down to Kano everytime the case is supposed to be heard. Now, I barely survive because have been out of business since last year August and even suffers from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
January 2022, the same story of adjournment set in, Usman was nowhere to be found, the prosecutor doesn't even pick my calls most time again, my damages no longer a discussion again, they stopped talking about the balance of the main money, instead it has been adjournment upon adjournment knowing fully well I travel a long distance to Kano whenever the case is to be heard. It's either the Magistrate is not sitting, the prosecutor is not around or another story altogether and I have to risk my life, spend money to travel and still get this disappointment or the other. So, I looked at it and told myself January the Magistrate was not around, February the prosecutor told me he is not around because the court didnt notify him of the sitting after I called him and told him myself of the sitting, March the accomplice was not around and the prosecutor is still saying the Court didn't notify him of the sitting (after I called and told him myself ooo) again but he came eventually but the accomplice was not around so the case was adjourned again. At this point, I studied the chain of event since December when this adjournment became so pronounced and said to myself this will keep on like this till I'm tired of coming for the case, so I would loss my business money, money spent on the case, damages and an attempted murder on my life by someone at large will just all slide like that? Is that the country I was born into? Is that what have been happening to numerous Nigerians that didn't voice out? What is the fate of Usman's next victim? Is Usman close to another person's life as we speak? What went wrong in this justice system I was following gently? What is the fate of my business have been building since 2019? Where will I pick it from? Family and friends looking up to me? Banks and ROI staring at me even in my dream? What can I do? So that's why I'm here in the media to seek for help from meaning Nigeria to help me with this case and help my mental health. I'm at the verge of losing EVERYTHING!!! LIKE, EVERYTHING including MY SANITY!!!
The truth is, I still have so much zeal and ambition to keep fighting for my right... I can't go and do business and almost lost my life, lost my money, still risking my life and just walk away like that... I lost everything!!! All the years of my labor, all the sweat, all the prayers... I just don't know how to bring myself down to believe I will just lose everything.

Oh, I have not crossed the thin line between sanity and depression but if this continues, I don't think I won't cross the line. I'm only surviving on God's HOPE to see me through. I love my business and how I have been pushing hard to excel in it, everyday I see opportunities pass me by to make money and here am I battling with how to survive this case and be on my feet again. I'm not lazy, I work daily to build this my company and just help others to rise while working with me. Now I'm facing the reality of our justice system that is crippling me and maybe about sending me to an early depression state and I need to voice this out now!!!

Please, if you know any human right activist, lawyer, individual that can help me with this case, I need all the help I can get... Bank interest rates keep growing daily on my neck, individual money investment also on my neck and very soon I might not be able to breath. Please, I need all the help you can render.
NB: I have pictures, videos and audio evidence to ascertain everything said so far.


You can reach me via olufemisegun21@gmail.com

can you find your way down to abuja and see a man they called ORDINARY PRESIDENT? He's the presenter of HUMAN RIGHT RADIO.

THIS IS THE KIND OF CASE HE LIKES.

YOU'LL GET #JUSTICE

Uniquetani1:
I also have birthmark on my lip

can I see it if its the same with the one on lips?

l3st3r:
Good day. I own a betking shop. I also run a POS service in the shop. One day a customer came that he wants to play virtual sports bet. He asked to use the POS cos he doesn't have any money on him. I tried his card and it was saying "insufficient funds". He says he has money in the card and I should try it again.

Meanwhile I saw he was attempting to still play the bet. I told him he should wait let's resolve the withdrawal before he plays his bet. He went ahead and play a bet of #1000. I became angry and asked him if I didn't ask him not to play that bet until we resolve his withdrawal. I asked him how he intend paying for the bet now. He says I should use his atm. I told him his atm card is still showing insufficient fund. He said why am I shouting at him if I know who he is.

I asked who are you? na you open shop for me. The whole thing broke into a shouting bout. Luckily his game won. I deducted my #1000 and asked him to leave that he won't be allowed to play game here anymore as he is a troublesome person.

He says he is going to play and if I know who he is. We got into more shouting bout again. He finally left and says he would be coming back.

He came back today one month later wearing an army uniform with two of his other colleagues. He started hitting me with belt. Says I should do frog jump and other nonsensical punishment. People around later heard the noise. They started begging. When they asked me what the problem is before I try to explain, they would hit me with the belt that I should shut up. When they are satisfied they finally left.

I checked for the name tag on his uniform but he has removed it. His other two colleague are putting on muftty. I do have a CCTV camera in my shop which they are not aware, so everything is on video.

Please, how do I proceed with this case and get justice, pls don't say police cos I took an issue to the police the other time when money was stolen in my shop. Even with video evidence nothing was done. They tasked me anyhow. One naira no come out..

I know this is not the right section for this just want somewhere with a bit of traffic. Mods pls move this to the frontpage so I can get a range of advice.

where are you staying and which of the barracks is close to you?

Ho to that barracks and ask for where the military police are and report the incident with the footage from the CCTV.

ibechris:
Buy firman generator.

The one I am using was bought 13years ago. Carries TV,two freezers three fans and all the lightnings.

what's the capacity?

[quote autho[b][/b]j r=Medianna [sub][/sub] qppost=113039340]E pain me as they no shoot one you legs. At least you won't come and be lying to us in this forum.
You're chasing arm robbers are you police?
Show me your weapon[/quote]medianna, you get bad mouth.

Juliusmomoh2:
I can't find my stocks yesterday night, so I finally arrived at this

life is all about parkaging dear.. ✌️✌️..

People don't even notice

How old is your mumu?

elantraceey:
I wonder why he hasn't done this since

no mind am. Na there type dey nairaland dey insult people