₦airaland Forum

Deeprooted:
I opened a business for my wife,to the glory of God, the business is doing good.

All of a sudden, money start missing. All efforts to balance the account at the close of business were all abortive. We thought our workers were the one stealing but they are innocent. My wife has been crying after the recent one which was 110k. A friend who had experience same, advise her to put a piece of charcoal in the vault where she keeps money. But that doesn't go down well her even me.

The business is quite competitive but God has been really good to us.

What do you suggest I do?


Note: She opens and closes with prayers

Some of the business competitors are diabolic. Be careful with them

Abbertee2:
Gaskiya ne hausa basa yawon zina . Saboda tarbiyyar hausa ta banbanta da sauran kabilu a nigeria . Mace bahaushiya itace kadai zaka zauna da ita ku haifiyara 10 kowanne danka ne ba maganar zargin zuwa DNA

Malam ka yi kerya

Southernigbo:
Well we all know that these women unlike many other tribes don't cheat. The reason for this is mostly because of their upbringing and religious inclination. By nature they are so shy as well and hardly wanna expose their nudity except to their husband, even at that many only practice intimacy with their husband in the darkness of the night. Their shyness is really out of the world. They are also very obedient and submissive and will hardly ever disobey their parents, husband and imams

Guy, I was born and brought up in the North. They cheat more than Satan himself.

CastingCrowns:
Ever Modest

Beautiful as ever.

siofra:
We were eating at a restaurant and 3 seeds of ricle dropped from my mouth when he said I lack table manners.

I feel hurt that this is coming from him

Yes you even lack nairaland manner too.

IamDora:
Good day Nairalanders, So as the topic implies, post your picture so a fellow Nairalander can Rate you!

Let me lead by example

Caption: In anything life throws at you, don't forget to Wear a Smile.

You all should Rate Me
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Hmmm!!

Babe you fine.

Make I marry you?

samonak:
Hmmm, the perils of Flying. No airforce is exempt from stuff like this.

Honestly

God1000:
lol, you are married na bro, abi you wan do polygamy?

I never marry na.

Last time I tok say make we hookup for Texas u no even answer me.

God1000:
they are big bullies, and that's not democracy at all

You this IGEDE guy again?

Guy, you never fulfill your promise to me o.
You say u go give me one IGEDE to marry and I still dey wait for u.

Abi u don bekom buhari wey no dey kip to promise?

ThatrealestApex:
Why are Nigerian girls like this? They are so full of themselves, very Proud and Arrogant like they've got it all.

I was trying to inquire something from this girl, I actually called her and she said she'd get back to me but never did, I texted her on Whatsapp to inquire about the said stuff and it took her forever to reply my messages yet she'll be online posting statuses. This is someone I can just text once in a year, I barely knew she even existed on my WhatsApp!

The most annoying part of it all is that they form for everybody, even the ones that doesn't give a Fvck about them They always think every guy wants them

I really do not blame them, it's those Perverts and Sex-Starved Male folks that when a girl Sneezes on social media, you'll see 10,000 likes and comments as "Awnn, I love your Catarrh” That causes all these. Those number of ''Likes" they get on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok etc keeps getting into their head and making it swell so big. RUBBISH!

Give us her number make we bash her. Lol

headbasher96:
Cult for benue na normal thing especially north bank and wadata

Na North bank dem plenty pass.

Fairmedia:
This is the time for Nigerian army to do clearance job. Kill them all.

they're doing it and its paying. A lot of them have been killed.

Malory:
And they allowed him to continue breathing

They'll extract more information from him for Intel's purposes.

That's how its done Bro.

dboY1123:
Nothing.. She said I want to pray, meaning please excuse me.

Very now now, not very soon o, they'll take over your shop.

Malory:
Same way sane Nigerians ordered for Peter Obi but Yoro Muslims brought Buhari

heydays:
Good day , good people of this forum, i am going to go straight to my worrisome oral health condition, which is threatening my wellbeing,my psychological balance and i am so scared because i don't want something fatal and horrible happening to me.

I had tooth abscess operation done on my lower jaw teeth, i believe that is premolar and molar(2),subsequently the operation was done at a federal university teaching hospital and i have been relieved despite 2 months of being bedridden and transfixed.

Now to the main point of this boring essay, a different tooth, the last on my left cheek is broken.and sometimes with foul smell, the pain from the touch gives me unpleasant feelings no one else can fathom. I have a total of 3 teeth removed, 2 on the extreme left removed during the undesirable hospital experience, and one close to the extreme one giving me headache, insomnia,unpleasant feeling and below par performance in my endeavours. I am so worried because i feel some spasm in my body system, and aside from lacking the means or wherewithal to visit the dentist, i am very wary of getting the tooth off, because it would mean i would have no tooth at both end of my cheeks.

I am worried about the implications, scared about any complications whatsoever, putting it in mind the experience i had 2 years ago. I would also like to know if there is any affordable drug or antibiotics or anything 'magical' that would stop the bacteria from eating the sinews inside the cracked,broken and rotten denture.

Please help,i am depressed and getting downcast ,almost suicidal. Medical practitioner, dentists, and people of goodwill come to my rescue.

where's your location? DM me

In mosdii's voice.....

AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

I Speak of Truth and Love.

pretydiva:
And Jesus said, it is finished

Jeon:
lagos
benin
Abuja
maiduguri
kaduna
kogi
minna
bauchi
yobe
ogun
Jos
gombe.

abuja na state??

#
He saw you and fell in love with youHe asked you to be his girlfriend and you accepted him he was so fond of you you both went to everywhere together took pictures of yourselves, spent lots of time together Weeks passed, months and everything seemed perfect He couldn't stay a day without setting his eyes on you He introduced you to his friends as his girlfriend and the woman he would love to get married to He showed you love, care and did everything to make sure you were happy You went on a date with your friends met this new guy who developed interest in you he said you were beautiful told you all the sweet things you've never heard.. I guess you fell for it you both got hooked up things started to change You start comparing him with your guy he's more handsome than your man he has a car and looks more wealthier you try all means to make your man get tired of you so you could ask for a break you succeeded you're now with the new guy forgetting everything your man did for you you never knew he's a player and has a fiancee he's intending to marry you found out you're heart broken you wanna go back to your man but it's late he has moved on now you've lost a diamond while trying to chase a stone... that's when you know the difference between LOVE and LUST..

#Notethis!!!
*Once a guy's heart gets broken.. He finds it hard to love again..
*Never compare your man to someone else
*Try to build your man to the person you want him to be..
*The fact he doesn't have a car today doesn't mean he's not gonna have one tomorrow.. Give him time!

illicit:
I won't tell

Lol. I just dey look you with one conner eye.

illicit:
Plenty in Abuja

My type of women

I don't do mummy's pet

where in abuja?

Dorwadora:
On Saturday evening I made a thread about how I'm cooking for my married boss and I'm not comfortable with it. https://www.nairaland.com/7070796/cooking-married-boss-right-wrong.

After reading many good advice and reading people reprimanding me I called the job quit yesterday evening and luckily I got a job in a laundromat today..... I've started this afternoon and the pay is 6k weekly....

Ese gan ni.... I'm grateful for every word

congratulations. Those that do not have a job may they tap into your Glory and get one too.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL. Abeg Lemme make i concentrate on the love Bubu is showing me.

go ahead but if bubu fall ur hand no come back kom meet me o

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not nice o. Make person no think say i nice when I'm no where close to nice.

If u like men u deny am na ur consin.

ALL I KNOW IS THAT YOU'RE A NICE LADY. QED.

plusfield:
Wole Soyinka is not and has never been a man of his words. Believe him at your own peril. This is the man who told the world that if Trump becomes the president of the United States, he would publicly tear his US passport. Till date, who has seen him do so.

The Afonjas can not keep to his word.

That's how all of 'em are.

Let me go and hang myself at the gallow before they'll come for my HEAD

misscongeniality. She's a nice Lady.

I can't Wait to meet her one day.

tit:
Are you joking?

He's not joking.

Pharaoh4rin:
Laye laye. Some people in Nigeria currently are angry for no reason.

Someone gave me Airtel airtime of 1k. I don't use Airtel. A young haggard looking guy wanted to buy same Airtel of 200 bucks from a shop that's close where I was buying fruit. I told him that there's Airtel airtime I gat but don't need. You may use it. Oboy! See how this guy change it for: that I look at him as abeggar or what? And that I should not judge him by his look, blah blah blah

I was shocked, including some person's within. I apologized and was about to leave before an army officer reclaim the card and thanked me loudly.

So my brother, 4get d insult but you made me laff shaa

the Guy's story made me laf too.
I was down at the office because my boss scolded me and I saw his comment and it makes me to over come my gloomy mood I was in because of my boss.

samonak:
Your death no far again oh!