₦airaland Forum

Nggs121:
Tell your Jamaican friend the reason he is not currently living in a cave is because of white people.

He should shut the fvck up

This is so funny on so many levels because the last people who the who world acknowledged wholly lived in caves are white people. I bet you think that the builders of the pyramids are also white

blogger10:
Someone out there (or persons) getting it for free are the ones getting the best out of her and of life.

Don't be ridiculous, absolutely no one gets it for free. The only difference between the oloshos and the others is that the oloshos have their price publicly displayed on their doorsteps. For people who are not sex addicts, oloshos are way cheaper.

JUICYPINEAPPLE:
NO COMPETITORS.

I learnt my lesson, I do not date beautiful girls because the beauty gets old with time. I date girls with brain, people who are capable of feeding my soul when I am down, girls who are capable of initiating an intelligent conversation whether it is politics, finance, history etc. Girls who make you better and not bitter. That's why beauty will probably not be a priority for me, most pretty girls that i have known lack a lot upstairs.

Hmmmmm. Baba, enjoy your life. It's too short. Just be protected

baba, marry intelligent ugly looking girl, so that you fit live in peace

This is why you go only 50% into relationships. The moment you feel bad vibes, move on.

forget about this scholarship. go ahead with your lives because it is a sick scam

It is pathetic how black girls reason. Most of them are starving and broke but they will be forming boss online. The biggest ambition they have, 98% at least, Is marriage. Yet they can't cook, clean, raise children, no manners, no respect, can't take care of a home, can't do anything but wear make up and sit down watching brain draining programs like nollywood everyday. And they will tell you that they want a made man, go and get the Made man then, oloburuku. Girls that can't treat a broke man right or even keep him wants a made one

Sundarita:
Barawo, what is your business with what she does with her 350kNGN?
Are you not a man? Do you want to be dependent on your a woman throughout your lifetime?
That is how they will be creating issues out of no issue, see him entering heated argument.

I swear it when the day I blow and finally comes decide to date a girl and then few weeks, few months, few years, few decades later she asks me that stupid question, 'are you not a man'. I will break whatever relationship we have so help me God. Where were you when I was striving, sleeping in car parks, traveling night journey, reading 24 hrs, going broke on my dreams just to put a decent plate of meal on my family's table. Arrant nonsense, rubbish black starving broke nigger mentality

They usually think that having a breast and fat ass with a lot of makeup to go with it means that you have made it. African girls have very little value to me

MummyIMadeIt:
Women always tend to nosedive at every silly thing called "Trend", but should the blame go to them alone?

No! The men, Moral institutions(Churches, Mosques), leaders (Religious, Government), and even the societal groups have all contributed their own part to these absurd trend.

Do you know that these had contributed more to population explosion in the country, and If left unchecked could hamper the growth of the nation's economy.

I propose that the government need to sway into these ugly trend and find a way of curbing these to minimum, if properly handled could raise the IGR and create employment for teaming youths wondering the streets, thus getting them Engaged properly.

Achieving this isn't a problem but the self will.

Of course, why would women take responsibility for anything. It is always somehow the man's fault

Disagree, it's not the finance. I know lots of Nigerian guys who are doing well but still single. It's the quality of the who I am to settle down with, not the how are we going to survive. Why would I want to settle down with someone whose highest ambition is to marry or own a shop. Do you want to reduce the IQ/EQ of my children

Hmmmm. It can be difficult to stomach, I know. But if the sex is great and you're not looking forward to marrying her, FIRE ON

A mentor for what? What is he/she going to be mentoring?

Hahahahahahahahahaha. Shit, what women want my foot. Why would any man put in the effort to understand creatures that can't even understand themselves. Guys, go out there and conquer the world, that's the only kind of message women understand

Ahhhh. Guy, move on. She's into someone else. Forget about her and focus on your self. Last week I was in your shoes while living in warri. Today, I am in the beautiful city of Aberdeen and the thought of her barely cross my mind. Remember this, all of those qualities that attracted you to her is being possessed by a girl someone else who would kill to have you. Always remember to focus on your self

Poor parental upbringing, environmental influences, the black man's plague, poverty etc

This bride price thing tire me o. I go still pay you for me to carry responsibility comot from your head. We should abolish this rubbish. It's nothing but exploitation. If I come for your daughter and you give me list that's more than 30k, I japa

Angela777:
They walk and don't even look at you, afraid of being accused of sexual harassment, neither they talk to you or make a first step to meet you or know you better. They also are afraid of commitment and marriage because a lot of legal and financial issues are involved and many just prefer to hit online and talk to you dirty masturbating. Cowards.

You need to meet them through friends, church or a dating site and date in real life knowing you both have the real date, then they go for you. Online American men any color, if he is not meeting you in real, he will be slutty for to get from you a free sex chat and satisfy himself, means nothing hitting on you, means baby, give me free sex chat

Well, can you blame them? When the richest man in the world is about to lose half is wealth to his wife.

Not true. I know two beautiful ladies who are very intelligent. A petroleum engineer and an accountant, both presently working in the banking sector. Those girls are rare though

Can't blame you for seeing things from this perspective. The white women, a lot of them, view a relationship, not even marriage as a partnership. They influence their men, help them with the necessary emotional, physical, psychological and if possible financial support so that their men can go out and conquer the world. In return, he brings the spoils home in any form be it finance, post, status, etc for the family to plunder. This usually go both ways, this also applies to certain black people who understood how the world should work in order to be successful, so many of them; the Obamas, Oprah Winfrey etc.

But in Africa,oh lord. A relationship is a money making venture. It's mostly never a WE thing but an I. They don't care about your day or what you had to go through to make them happy, all they care about are their wigs, Brazilian hair, make up, clothes, shoes, cars, house. And they expect you to provide all of it. Most usually are very happy breaking their partners down, be it financially, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically right from the home, tell me how do you expect him to fulfil his true potential with so much baggage and barrier. As if that isn't bad enough, most of them have no sense of loyalty.

Say all you will about a white lady but once she got your back, you will never be unsuccessful because she goes the extra mile for you.

Is it just me or are there others out there who do not believe in the concept of marriage. I mean why go through all of the pain to spend so much if you aren't even sure that the union will last a year. It just doesn't make sense except for the legal reasons

We valued totally different things. She wanted to be glamorous and beautiful, I wanted to be famous and super rich. We couldn't seem to be able to support each others ambition

Reminds me of my stay at nccf house in abeokuta after camp. The house went to service on a sunday, during service my trousers got ripped by the chair I sat on and I didn't know anything about it. On our way back we started discussing, when the girls behind me saw it and started mock me. As a sharp warri boy, exactly 10 seconds after they opened their mouths, I shut them the hell up.

I could tell that they feared me. Son of man bounced to the nccf, wore another pair and no body ever said anything about it. After a few days living together, they started respecting me.

Guys know your worth, you have nothing to prove to anyone except you.

I have worn worse and been made fun of a lot. That's their business, are they the ones feeding me. As long as you don't try to be dramatic about it, we got no beef. But if you pull this stunt on me, the friend who invited me and the lady in question should not even greet me till the day they die. I take being rude over nothing very personally.

I was not born to impress another person, not even my parents. As long as I achieve my set goals, I am fulfilled and happy. And this has nothing to do with money, it's a mindset. Especially in Africa where people live a packaged life

funmisticqueen:
don't get your panties in a twist, aussies have wierd customs and culture, what may fly here,wont fly there. don't use that your mentality to color your view. You end up being just as myopic. whatever made an edo boy or his parents run far far far away to Australia must be very strong. if you cant make it in your country, then you are not a truly successful person.

Madam, you are just being stupid. Have you made it now?

SonsOfLiverpool:
I didn't see this earlier, hahahahahaja I no blame you na poverty people wey full here dey beg make you think say every moniker na poor man dey behind am.

See starting bid, 10k wey men dey use play snooker on a sunday hahahahahaha poor girl

Liability international.

By the way, happy new year in advance jare, all these na fun last last

Bros, that girl can't afford 10k. Let's not deceive ourselves.

truthsayer009:
0monnak0da boiz2men SonsOfLiverpool. Honestly you guys should be Fvcking ashamed of yourselves.

If a Saffi Girl says she is British, Why is so hard for you to Fvcking believe it? I'm even shocked that someone would try to Bully another person to the point of them posting their Passports online for some idiots to verify. So as a Nigerian/British I'm supposed to talk in Certain way so I can be believed. When are we even going to stop with the stupid Stereotypes? Obviously she obtained her British status because her parents paved the way & did the hardworking & that is not uncommon at all.

If she says she is not broke, why is so hard to believe? Everyone cannot be broke please. It is on this same NL in Business section that a man I know Invested 3M in MMM few years back & that was not even upto 5% of his Financial Worth.

Someone even asked her to post the name of her primary school, Like What the Fvck? She owes you no explanation what so ever. Are you her Employer, Abeg Wetin you wan use the name of her Primary School do?

Please there are plenty Nigerians with Dual Citizenship, how that is a big deal for you guys is what me I don't understand.

Let's just assume that she's a Brit, which she is not. How does that affect my not giving in to the demands of an entitled girl. Or do you think that having dual citizenships will make any responsible guy treat her any less different.

vickatcch:
Lol,its like you want to be giving that lazy broke ass girl part of ur salary every month abi.We are still trying to rescue brother from a bitchh,and you want to shook head in saffi matter..

Hehehehehehehehehehehehe. I learned the hard way. Most guys will too especially if buhari wins again. My money is for me and my family members while the crumbs, if any, will fall down to the leeches

Saffi:
My mission is accomplished on this thread. The guys are trying too hard to keep their egos intact, but they are crumbling. Bye bye.

Delta girl claiming London babe. You have not even started life, when you are 28, come back and we can talk

pocohantas:
Go find cowbell and lick na.
I wouldn't start arguing your Cowbell and Scholarship with you, that is how non-jealous people do. You can't spend hours arguing someone's life with them in such aggressive and claim not to be jealous. Ko le werk.

Oga, change in 2019. Wish people well and move on.

Madam, I am from the ghettos, I am proud of it. My dad works with an oil company yet I toiled and sweat to get where I am today. I have always told him that his wealth ain't mine. My bros studied abroad and are still there, I don't brag about it because it's nothing special. Maybe if girls can buckle up and be woman enough to own their lives, most of y'all won't be a pity case. One more thing stupid, London no be achievement just as my cousin being a member of the house of rep no be achievement for me. Jealous my foot