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OdefaGirl:
I support you to go ahead.....after reading your story, I can't agree less that you were just a victim of your own kind heart..... some will say, why don't I hear from the lady before conclusion....my dear, you know a twisted story and real truth when you read one. Some ladies will abuse this rape issues that when the real one occurs, we will neglect the story, thinking it's fake. Don't get back at exes with rape accusations, they are our sons, brothers and lovers....they are humans too who doesn't deserve injustice. If you had s*x and there's need to move on, then do that.... moreover both of you enjoyed it while it lasted. Guys, learn from this guy too, self control is the key.....he would have been in a deeper mess if he hadn't damned s*x.

iamyemiakins:
Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages.

https://twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278937899870892033?s=20[/quote]oga dr,this is not a writ of summons,this does not come from the court .it is from a lawyer's office.and why should she pay u 10k.u too said both of u were drunk before you open her pant and out ur dick inside.can a drunken woman give consent?,next time u talk to your lawyer before replying rape allegation.u mess up but sha GOD WILL DELIVER U.

Emmacolinho:
If you have the means, travel out of this country and NEVER come back. Whoever cursed Nigeria did it from the depth of his/her heart!

dingbang:
Climb ontop the roof when he isnt around and create a hole on the zinc on his own side of the house.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

goldmatrix:
..look for another work immediately. You are already out of that company.

But come to think of it how can a man with family work for 40k monthly salary. How do you explain that to your in-laws?

gwama:
Many truths have been told here, but something is missing, for married people, avoid defecating in front of your spouse, farting in front of him, talking to him on waking with a smelly mouth, these are real love kills. It is often better to sleep apart. Never forget, your spouse is not your brother or your sister.

ProfAmaben:
When Sanusi spoke against this, he was insulted, now they are constituting nuisance everywhere they go.

Racoon:
Another corrupt act uncovered.This is the kind of corruption act uncovered by then Prof.Isaac Adewole against NHIS sec-Prof.Yusuf and the scandal @ SEC between Kemi Adeosun and Mr.Gwarzo(then SEC head).

In both cases, the former were instead kicked out while the latter were granted soft landing.Eyo-Ita was against Maina's reinstatement, pronto a corrupt act was found & she kissed the dust.

To this issue @ stake, A permanent sec.was perpetuating this corruption while then Agric minister just watched on @ his ogas @ the top corruption.Mrs.Folashade Edun, the Lord protect you as you face this battle.

remele2:
And dey agreed to come!!!!

OLord help me see chance to leave diz place and punish me if i agree to comeback no mata what....

Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

sarrki:
Real madness the money contributed to convid would have used to cushion the people that will lost their jobs


What happened to the profits made in year in year out

chatinent:
Reminds me of our tour to Snake Island and one of our crew members was saying 'let's go down and become adventurous' only for the support crew to reprimand us only if we wanted to get dead because every inch lives a snake.