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ukaface:
But is it same for female lawyers?

Make I know the advice wey I go give my cousin

Swissheart:
I was on that queue yesterday. The girl came before the guy but she was leaning on the wall. When it was her turn, she went to the machine. The guy said " if you move closer, I'll push you away" which he did. The girl fell then he went to the machine. He called her an idiot, the girl said " idiot ni eyin noo". The guy removed his slippers and slapped her with it. The girl screamed. That was why the slim girl and I confronted the guy.

That guy is an animal!

OdefaGirl:
If she didn't enjoy it, why did she go for the second one again..... and also agreed that it wasn't forceful intercourse.... hope she had her evidences before accusing someone. Remember, the guy has chats as evidence and his flatmate friend as witness....

XXLMANDIGO:
See the Law doesn't care about emotions and sentiment. The elements of crime can be inferred from the intention, which in law is called the "MENS REA", If the intercourse took place at his place (Host)and that's the first of its kind, then there might be strong suspicion that he orchestrated the whole thing and made the Lady vulnerable. Then the onus is on him to prove his intention is not to take advantage of her.

OdefaGirl:
I support you to go ahead.....after reading your story, I can't agree less that you were just a victim of your own kind heart..... some will say, why don't I hear from the lady before conclusion....my dear, you know a twisted story and real truth when you read one. Some ladies will abuse this rape issues that when the real one occurs, we will neglect the story, thinking it's fake. Don't get back at exes with rape accusations, they are our sons, brothers and lovers....they are humans too who doesn't deserve injustice. If you had s*x and there's need to move on, then do that.... moreover both of you enjoyed it while it lasted. Guys, learn from this guy too, self control is the key.....he would have been in a deeper mess if he hadn't damned s*x.

iamyemiakins:
Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages.

https://twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278937899870892033?s=20[/quote]oga dr,this is not a writ of summons,this does not come from the court .it is from a lawyer's office.and why should she pay u 10k.u too said both of u were drunk before you open her pant and out ur dick inside.can a drunken woman give consent?,next time u talk to your lawyer before replying rape allegation.u mess up but sha GOD WILL DELIVER U.

Emmacolinho:
If you have the means, travel out of this country and NEVER come back. Whoever cursed Nigeria did it from the depth of his/her heart!

dingbang:
Climb ontop the roof when he isnt around and create a hole on the zinc on his own side of the house.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

goldmatrix:
..look for another work immediately. You are already out of that company.

But come to think of it how can a man with family work for 40k monthly salary. How do you explain that to your in-laws?

gwama:
Many truths have been told here, but something is missing, for married people, avoid defecating in front of your spouse, farting in front of him, talking to him on waking with a smelly mouth, these are real love kills. It is often better to sleep apart. Never forget, your spouse is not your brother or your sister.

ProfAmaben:
When Sanusi spoke against this, he was insulted, now they are constituting nuisance everywhere they go.

Racoon:
Another corrupt act uncovered.This is the kind of corruption act uncovered by then Prof.Isaac Adewole against NHIS sec-Prof.Yusuf and the scandal @ SEC between Kemi Adeosun and Mr.Gwarzo(then SEC head).

In both cases, the former were instead kicked out while the latter were granted soft landing.Eyo-Ita was against Maina's reinstatement, pronto a corrupt act was found & she kissed the dust.

To this issue @ stake, A permanent sec.was perpetuating this corruption while then Agric minister just watched on @ his ogas @ the top corruption.Mrs.Folashade Edun, the Lord protect you as you face this battle.