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soldiers will continue this style in jos unless the indigenes and their govt find a way to police their society and insist soldiers must come in when invited by the civil authority.

jos is perhaps the most militarized society in nigeria

remele2:
And dey agreed to come!!!!

OLord help me see chance to leave diz place and punish me if i agree to comeback no mata what....

calm down.send ur cv

Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

why dont u just asked GOD to call him since to u and the family he is a useless man.but does he do good sex for ur mum ccus sex is health o.

sarrki:
Real madness the money contributed to convid would have used to cushion the people that will lost their jobs


What happened to the profits made in year in year out

we paid it year in ,year out as dividends to shareholders of the bank.dont u get ur own dividends from ur investments

one thing is clear,

chatinent:
Reminds me of our tour to Snake Island and one of our crew members was saying 'let's go down and become adventurous' only for the support crew to reprimand us only if we wanted to get dead because every inch lives a snake.

it is a big lie.ask any Mao o war.we camp there and slept there and no one was bitten by a snake.

cheating is what we all do in different measures .obviously she is cheating.i would have love u to catch them red handed first.which i dount because u have let the secret out.if a human wants to cheat,can u really stop him or her?

a woman with no focus,give her appointment as chief of chefs to white house she go accept.a confused woman

dont confuse yourself,go see a lawyer and pay him and get an advice u cant rely on.it is the law by which a marriage is done that will also provides for the dissolution of the marriage,

Why will a son be blamed for acting like his dad and this run away presidential candidate,doesnt she has better things to do than online noisemaking

98percent,almost 24 7

it is all about immunity.if u have reason to believe ur immunity is weal,please exercise caution.

WE DON'T NEED men of god opinions.let then give us what exactly GOD is saying right now and give specific directions from GOD just like PAUL did when the ship he was on,wrecked.

title licking pastors toally disconnected form GOD are being revealed.

onidodo oni moin moin,igba ti o ta o gbegba kale

ewa wo ja ni lafiaji

THIS GUY IS A REAL CHRISTIAN.DANIEL KNEW THE CONSEQUENCE OF OPEN WORSHIP AND HE OPEN WORSHIPED AND WAS CAGED AND HIS GOD SHOWED UP.

IF YOU ARE SURE YOUR GOD will surely deliever you ,open your church,this is really the time for congregational prayers to save the situation.

i note this MAN.

DANI ELEBO-wole soyinka says hapi birthday

yes.if the man can be sincere about it and if whenever he is able get then a means by which they can earn their own money.
polygamy is the way to go but it is unfortunate it is not for lazy men or women.

my sister,if u dont have the grace of living in one room .leave him cus if u stay and start complaining,he may get annoyed one day and cut your head off.

im impressed ,na the son of fire they send to fire.

this question shows u will regret it if u go ahead into the phd

this is what is called a common law marraige ,though not officially contracted.it is a legal marriage and you need to approach the court for a proper divorce,not necessarily the high court .

What is Common Law Marriage: A Definition. A common law marriage is one in which the couple lives together for a period of time and holds themselves out to friends, family and the community as "being married," but without ever going through a formal ceremony or getting a marriage license.


Key Takeaways

Only nine states and the District of Columbia still recognize common law marriages.
People who meet their state's common law marriage requirements will be eligible for most of the financial benefits—including federal benefits—of a married couple.
Those who move outside a state in which they established a common law marriage should check with an attorney regarding their status after the move.
A formal divorce is necessary to end a common law marriage.

Legal Marriage

In many jurisdictions, getting married requires being wed by an ordained minister or other person who has recognized authority to carry out a legal marriage. This can be done either in a religious setting or in a non-denominational or secular setting such as a city hall or court house. Here, a marriage license is issued and officially recorded. In the U.S., most states require a legal marriage in order for spousal benefits such as filing a joint tax return, sharing financial accounts, and so on.
Common Law Marriage

A common law marriage, on the other hand, will recognize a couple as equivalent to legally married even if the couple never said their vows in a civil or religious ceremony and don’t have a marriage license. While states don’t have official rules on the books regarding common law marriage, there are certain conditions that have to be met for a couple to be considered married by common law. They must:

Be a heterosexual couple living together in a state that recognizes common law marriages.
Live together for a significant period of time. Although many people believe seven or 10 years is the requisite timespan, no state provides a specific timeframe for cohabitation.
Introduce themselves to friends, neighbors, and coworkers as a married couple, calling each other “my husband” or “my wife” and even using the same last name. Also, they must file a joint tax return and have joint bank accounts and credit cards.
Be of sound mind.
Not be married to someone else.

https://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0210/marriage-vs.-common-law-what-it-means-financially.aspx

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

if u want it fastest,file for divorce is sagamu high court.lagos courts are congested.but it is not cheap.

when it is bad enough.no one will tell any one what to do.

VERY WISE MAN.HE KNOWS WHEE HE IS OLD HE WILL HAVE HIS BED IN THE PRISON AND HE WISELY SEEKS TO HAVE THE PRISON PREPARED.

STUPID GOVERNMENT,NOWW CHINA WILL BORROW U 25 BILLION DOLLATS.NOW ALL THE BOMB THEY ATTACHED TO TTHE RAIWAYS THEY ARE BUILD FOR U WILL BE ACTIVATED 200 MILLION MUMUS MINUS ME

seunmohmoh:
Good day everyone, i need urgent advice from you guys. My Jamb centre was located at gateway poly saapade. Not knowing there are two gateway at ogun state, i went to the popular gateway at igbesa and it was too late before i discovered this.

Is there anything i can do? Can jamb reschedule the date if i complain? Please help.

so sorry,this is cause by the stupidity of the gateway poly which was foisted upon jamb,as they could have identity the particular poly by saying it is gateway poly ,wole soyinka way ,isara remo rather than saying sapade as there is no town in ogun state or remo called sapade.

its not only you ,learn sagamu was put on a school whereas the school is in a far place from sagamu

sanusi certainly has discretion problem and it is unfortunate bakare allows satanic person like el rufai to drag him into what should not be his business.cant sanusi self restrain himself into a nice quite corner?.

must a man says everything and show everything.mark my word the cocmpanion of fools will still be destroyed.

no king that is to be taken serious talks anyhow.a throne must be carried along with dignity.let him learn from the sultan.

and why will a governor leaves his own state and be doing pr work for a deposed emir because they are firends,is it not enough you have helped him regain his freedom and have him moved to lagos?

it is a shame for them to persist in showing disrespect to the suporeme court of nigeria.will paul usoro and nba reduce the fine or sanctioned the supreme court or will the nba or the two lawyers reapply to the supreme court for the review of the view.

if they have wisdom,they will allow the sad chapter to quickly close.

lawyers these days ,out of greed no longer knows where to stop.

the supreme court is right.very right.theur actions move the supreme court justice amina to tears,they must pay for those tears.

when your matter is before him ,add fasting to prayer .he is the no one defendant.very very academic

Openbusiness:
It's not about me being too sure or not too sure. It's about what the Supreme Court is and what it represents, the final arbiter! They delivered judgment and it is final, whether that judgment is correct or not. The Supreme Court cannot review a case it has already delivered judgment on. It could review another similar case in future that comes before it and deliver the correct thing, but this old case is a forgone issue. They already fined the APC lawyers 60m for daring to put the Supreme Court in a self-compromising position. They might drop a sledgehammer on PDP lawyers for not withdrawing the request for review after they set an example with those APC lawyers. Those guys will definitely get a stiffer penalty, so that no other lawyers will dare ask the Supreme Court for review of its judgment again. You wait and see

im very sure you are a lawyer.and i must say a very sound lawyer

tomorrow supreme court will do the unthinkable.will recommend lawyers for disbarments.their names will be moved to be taken of the roll of lawyers.it will not be money fines.

please can we stop wasting emotions on mr buhari,cant we just keep praying since the bible ask us to pray for those in authority.

getting the theory very right makes you a far better practitioner .medicine is research and researcher is medicine.any mbbs holder that will not go through the rigours of msc and phd should treat but not teach.