₦airaland Forum

Whiteball:
It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

for conscience sake and for christ sake,tell d born again guy what u saw and GOD will reward you greatly for not allowing the elect to be deceived,it is a good seed.sow it,many of these girls abound causing confusion all over the place

SirMichael1:
What brought about who owns the house and who doesn't? Stop thinking like a bag of wet concrete.

As a matter of fact, I rented the apartment with my money. Any more stupid questions?

obviously i must have hit at a very raw point.sorry for that but the truth is here.the next time u will be here ,it will b e my wife wont Bleep me again.wife calling himself husband.

my question is who owns the house or who pays the current rent for the house? .i perceive ur wife either owns the house or pays the current rest and she is findling ways to remind u that u are presently not the husband and should mind urself by not not adding more stress to her stress.u ought to be able to arrange someone close to do the market runs and cook .i wont bother to remind anyone u dont have the money an external person will demand and that is why it must be ur wife cus she knows how to manage u and ur little money.learn some sense.find a low cost mistress who will do more than ur wife will ever and start preparing to build your own house or rent ur house as the way things are going she will soon be totally fed up wit u.guys build ur own house o.

honestly mr abiodun should know that in governance it is people first and the people need to see him stands with them in all seasons.im not a prophet,if this guy seeks reelection he will be disgraced if he continues like this.He has made the people of ogun missed Amosun.

ogas calm down.cant adults have sex in peace,cant an adult says she has sex with a guy and give him further bj.wont a guy likes to be at the receiving end of all these niceties.na GOD pic the guy call nau/no be ur modern lingo be that.relax bbniaja no be ur church annex .

GamalNasser:
Everybody is trying to dodge kidnappers on Buharis highways

Even though the helicopter is an Agusta Westland 139 , the registration number 5N-EAA is registered to a single rotor Bell 206...what's going on?

please give me the link to check another registration number

if we can move from a mono laws school to multi campus law schools,what really is the sin in the movement from a mono bar to a multi bar and it is the painful truth that the nba has being cabalised and the benefits of same enured to a few.aND NIGERIAN CONSTITUTION GUARANTEES FREEDOM OF ASSOCIATION.

any banker-customer contract that is made in breach of any applicable law i.e administration of estates law is an illegal contract.the error ur dad made was to postpone the wife'se authority to withdraw as a co signatory.till after his death .all he ought to have done in the mandate after having added her as a co- signatory is to further directs that any of the signatories could withdraw from the account and so it wont matter whether he is alive or dead.


the bank do have the right to insist on a letter of administration as whenever any one dies without a Will,all his properties becomes vested in the government and until a grant is made out to certain persons upon application,anyone who tampers with the properties of the deceased commits a tort.


in this circumstance,the bank could be helpful if they really want tosince she is made a co signatory.try not to go about it legalistically because if you do,the bank will hide under the law to deny access to the account until u produce the letter of admin.i believe this can be resolved relationship wise with the bank.

u are being on fair on this lady,swear that u dont know her reputation from the very beginning,this is what i detest about men,u know the babe vey well and go ahead to marry her and begin to drag her all around the place.

these are signs ,clear signs telling el rufai ,as intelligent as he is,as rich as he is that he is losing in the game of life.

this vc should givethen dean of law uniabuja a call awill tell him he just made a mistake by leading ASUU protest.

the governor should go and study history of warfare.which soldiers go and fight in calaber and not bring pretty calaber woman home and which one fight in gold fields and not bring gold home.soldiers are entitled to loot the goods of any where they go on campaign.even america looted kuwait oil.the governor has a case if he says the soldiers are stealing the fish and the farm.is a man not better off acquiring fish and farmland and cows instead of acquiring dead bodies. when the north is ready ,it will go and solve her own boko haram problem.

let him just attach his tax returns showing the millions he paid as tax on profit from his lucrative businesses.

Sterope:
She was taken to the teaching hospital but her treatment did not include pills for a possible pregnancy and she did not ask for it. She is either telling tall tales or the attending doctor is wicked.

bless U,are the smartest comment.

sowore needs wisdom.the thing he is attempting do is successfully done by someone with a cult follower ship in millions. somehow he has not attain that kind of personality and should therefore see if people like wole soyinka can lead the revolution.sowore means many things to even the nigerian youths.all these he has done so far is totally devoid of strategy.how can u be meeting with someone like kanu and expect to be taken serious..

nipost is full of illiterates,they are in charge of postal and are only restricted to postage stamps and only some receipts and agreements are meant t to have postage stamps affixed on them to be admissible in court..There is a law called stamp duties act and it is not to be executed by nipost but firs because they are a specie of tax and ta collection is not the function of nipost in any country.nipost is a moribund organization in the advent of dhl etc and emails and should be scrapped.

her said "We serve this stone till date" and yet complain the town lacks basic healthcare facility, water and other facilities.

bestmutiu2019:
please don't mind my bad English,please I need you to help me or advice me on what to do before I kill someone.
My name is ade second to last born in a family of 5,my mum first and second born were male follow by a girl then me and my jnr bro that is ma mum last born
The only girl of my family that is my sister married a guy this guy is so rude and mannerless I don't know maybe it was because of the little money he has,fast forward they had their first born a boy,then two years later my sister gave birth to twins she deliver the first one by herself then CS for the second one,as Almighty Allah pleases my sister died the 3rd day she gave birth to her twins that is November 2017.
Although my late sister husband lost both his parents so those little girls are with my mum she has been taking care of them since then,so one issue arise when one prophet told my mum that they should do this 1,1. tribal marks for those little girls to prevent their late mother from disturbing them in which my late sister husband decline,he came back the 3rd day September 29 2019 that he has come to claim these little girls that he has already paid for their boarding school that they are going to boarding school,twins that is not up to 2 years, meanwhile their first born is not staying with him a boy of 4 years old he says that he should go and be staying with one of his street uncle.
We accept these little twins started their boarding school in the neighboring state, like two months after then when mum go and visit the twins at the boarding school,they says my mum did not have any right to visit these twins because of the instructions their father gave them,my mum cried like say tomorrow no dey.

Meanwhile the first born that is staying with his street uncle he also order that man not to let any of us to see him.
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO,I TOLD MY SENIOR BROTHER TO TAKE ACTION THEY COME UP WITH NOTHING,PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE,COS I CAN KILL THIS MAN

the man is very right,with your stupid prophet instructions ,very soon he will be told that the twins are witches and should be constantly flogged.you are not their father or mother so you have no legal right to access them,go and birth your own children

Built2last:
Ndo

and el rufia too said he gavemoney to a fulani group to appease them and avoid a reprisal

how can a senior lawyer be heard saying he use his own funds to do prosecution of govt and who will expect a senior lawhyer to say he is aware the judge he ius appearing has interest in the company he pays 5m to and how will effcc not pay him as agreed if even he bribe a judge,pay him his earned fee and then try him if he commits a crime.

why will you in the first place start drawing me without my permission and why should u have the right to go an dead and draw me without my consent and i cannot have the right to say i dont like the artwork wihout first getting ypour consent to say so.he doesn't like it and he has said so.

and very soon she will have 3 kids from 3 men.very wise woman,beta security for her old age .are we not advised not to keep our eggs in one basket?

just take ur turn

yettymuse:
Some family sef! You marry finish, pack all your family members come the guy house and you can't accommodate yoir husband's brother. Some women matter tire me abeg!!I'm sure she's a jobless wife too! Masculine women everywhere!

it is never the wife's fault

if u are 23,pack ur things to your village and if you aree that useful to your brother,he will see reason with u and get u a house .if he doesnt move on with your life,find another master and tell him what u want so u can serve him.u have suffered enought

ukaface:
But is it same for female lawyers?

Make I know the advice wey I go give my cousin

tell her to speak and dress very hot and smart and when she meets a very very successful lawyer,try hook him and in few years time she is a partner in the law firm.thank me later.

no other profession as lucrative as legal profession but can u wait?.i mean very long wait,longest wait.if u cant wait .go join nnpc or cbn or police checkpoint right now or bank robbery gang.

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what concerns minister of justice and police with sale of items .why not hand them over bpe to value and sell

Swissheart:
I was on that queue yesterday. The girl came before the guy but she was leaning on the wall. When it was her turn, she went to the machine. The guy said " if you move closer, I'll push you away" which he did. The girl fell then he went to the machine. He called her an idiot, the girl said " idiot ni eyin noo". The guy removed his slippers and slapped her with it. The girl screamed. That was why the slim girl and I confronted the guy.

That guy is an animal!

so how will the guy knows she is on the queue when she was leaning on the wall.im yoruba,our women ar lousy with tongues.

i need to help u out end i must do so in strong terms.i must say u must really be anignorant folk.is it not GOD that instituted marriage and did your bible not tell u that marriage ends with death of the spouse.and who tells u ur mum is not already having a lover she bleeps consistently behind u and what right have u to tell a human not keep on living after u the husband die.?,if u die ,ur spouse is loosen from your laws.and her body is hers to do whatever she will with.go and die.dont marry her,she deserve a beta person like me.not a slowpoke that u are.go and DIE O

OdefaGirl:
If she didn't enjoy it, why did she go for the second one again..... and also agreed that it wasn't forceful intercourse.... hope she had her evidences before accusing someone. Remember, the guy has chats as evidence and his flatmate friend as witness....

trust me this whole episode would have been straihtaway dismissed by any judge as doubtful and most likely taken to be sex that happens in the context of an affair and which the lady is now trying to cry foul .but the stupid dr introduction of the drunk chapter into the whole story will now make the judge adjust hos glass and begins to probe the issue of consent which he wouldnt have done if he didnt make a statement.


folks must learn to lawyer legal issues before offering a public reply.the dr got the reply very wrong but if matter proceeds to court,in Nigeria he may get off because we do not convict here if there is a slightest doubt but in europe where female issues are differently considered he will be damned.

XXLMANDIGO:
See the Law doesn't care about emotions and sentiment. The elements of crime can be inferred from the intention, which in law is called the "MENS REA", If the intercourse took place at his place (Host)and that's the first of its kind, then there might be strong suspicion that he orchestrated the whole thing and made the Lady vulnerable. Then the onus is on him to prove his intention is not to take advantage of her.

how can the law not care about emotions and sentiments.take a rape case before certain male judges they will dismiss it and take a divorce case before a divorced female judge,she will not only grnat it but also damn the hubby.

the demeanour of a witness giving evidence and fighting back tears do have effect on the judge.