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[quote author=bukatyne post=97424967]Bros 22 yr old is old enough to marry na

Her mates are done with their kids.

Seriously, she was wrong for not informing you before the visit.

She should have said 'Brother, a male friend of mine wants to visit me here.'

Na you go kana say na her boyfriend.

This would have prepared you to engage him as baba Iyawo.


and what will they be doing in the room for 3hhours,if not sex,?.

this adefuye must be a cursed fellow.if a yoruba woman birthed obasanjo then obasanjo is a yorubaman.

no keep thinking.it is the day u seee ur own head in a calabash under his bed that you will know he is ritual.foolish girl

Even the Bible says oppression makes the wise man mad.you oppressed him and cause him to be temporarily insane.is he not a human being .which stupid policy should prevent him from reaching his destination like other passengers..

Let your wife delivers a new baby in the hospital ,delay the process of her discharge from the hospital till you did three DNA test n three different lab.

Very sure it is a discovery that the kids are not his that led to all these. The internet,the alcohol and the weed smoking must lead to increase in bastards .

JayReeMai:
prenup doesn’t save you from anything. The woman just need to say she signed the prenup under duress and it will be flung out the window in the court. I don’t know the weak ass men creating the
se laws.

Not when her own lawyer also signed as a witness

the guy should appeal the nonsense judgement.the parents told him not to bring those stuff to their house.i can abate a nuisance bought into my space moreso after i gave notice for it not to be so brought.

my phone is a hand held personal computer and personal means personal.when you accept being married to a person does not mean their lives dissolves completely into yours,you will let them retain their personality and you will be ready for the time ,for no reason for good reason or for bad reason they no longer want to be married to you and will prefer to move on.whether you like it or not some man,some woman is interested in your spouse and it is left to your spouse to manage that interest.having done your best as a spouse,if your spouse even gives you the access to their phone,refuse to probe their phone.

sapphiere:
And the man too sued for breaching a contract.

The position of the law is that if this contract is an illegal one e.g prostitution in nigeria,parties cannot expect the court to assist them in their illegalities ,the parties are said to be in pari delicto.so it is more or less a fight between robbers as to the sharing of the loot in a way and if one of the robbers get shortchanged he should just lick his wound carefully.this girl deserves being taught a bitter lesson.it is clear this is not rape but failure to pay balance for a transactional sex.she could as well come to social media to say it as it really is rather than cry rape.the guy too deserves being investigated,in my own view.

this man is cursed.N200,000 FOR SEX.who gave birth to this idiot?.u agrred to give her 200k and u confessed u didnt do the 100k balance you promised to do.is this idiot a medical doctor?.and i can tbelieve his friends advised him to do this video.

HeOrShe:
Straight to the point. I recently moved to a compound where I picked one room apartment managing my life with my job. After I moved in I was shown the bathroom and toilet and kitchen am to share with another tenant.

Is one storey building which the up was taking by d landlord and the ground floor is for me and one man and his wife. So we are not much. Maybe because before I moved in, my neighbour has been staying alone at d ground floor that they don't lock d bathroom while bathing especially the woman since d husband hardly stays around.

The woman should be in her late 20s or early 30s with a son. She still appears sexy much like other young ladies.

One day I woke up late and as I move out towards d bathroom the door was open and the bathroom is calm so I was not expecting somebody inside but as I walk pass behold my neighbours wife naked bathing. I immediately turned back and left. This has continued that she don't even care.

Sometimes while am cooking she will be taking her bath while d door will be partially closed or not.

But I observed if her husband is around she will be locking d bathroom very well while bathing but once her husband is off she continues. I don't know what she has in mind and I don't know what to do about it. Am scared one day am going to have sex with the woman.

Please what will I do.

if u want it permanently stopped,tell the husband.but get ready for her to be ur enemy or tell her to stop as it is too uncomfortable for u.

Jeremiih:
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors.

I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks

move to another place or tell your brother or start fucking her and expect your head to be cut off when her hubby discover both of u are fucking

if the wall does not crack,lizard will not enter.your wife ,gave him the courage,the chamce,the encouragement to say that much to her by her actions and conduct towards the neighbor.that she didnt tell u immediately when such move was made by the neighbour .she welcomed the neighbor;s interest in her.dont die before your time because the neighbor in issue may actually be stronger than you in so many ways and confronting him may lead to your untimely death.

consider moving away from that house and consider the character of your wife,many atimes a man marry a slut and still insist on having peace,please note there is no peace to the slut marrier.shalom

if you have money and you know that you did not have the opportunity to train your kids.please send them to COVENANT UNIVERSITY BUT BE READY FOR THEM TO BE EXPELLED IF THEY STILL REFUSE HOME TRAINING.

sreamsense:
The problem with contemporary young generation is that many of you were born into your families when morality vacated your family homes. Being strict is different from being wicked, he is discipling you as his own children so your future can be better, you are here ranting he is wicked.

Many of you just like places you will not be tamed so that you can do whatever you want like forming cult groups on campus, turning campus to Olosho house. If he is not strict and people still allow to do whatever they like, these spoilt rats will still come back here to complain and cast aspersions if any bad thing goes wrong with the school. Go to Catholic schools and see descipline, you these spoilt rats.

Your fathers get money, but lack morality, so when your fathers finally dumb you into CU as correctional center, you begin to misunderstand 'strictness' to ' wickedness' because your fathers failed to even show you '101' of moralities before you left for school because your families lack moralities in the first place. If you like to become wayward and hates descipline, no need of going there, go to federal and state universities and do what you like. Judas Iscariots!

Somebody is sweating to make you great, you call it wickedness! Spoilt rats! Go to volatile areas in North and ask for the meaning of wickedness!

i do appreciate the discipling but the bible says there is a time and season for everything.the bible says you should train up a child in the way he should go.....'.now if it agreed that the undegraduates in CU are children,oyedepo will be right but for those who cant be called children ,the childhood training must be taken to have been done by the parents and if not done before they enter the university.oyedepo is being fooolish thinking some of these kids whose parents refuse to train will now be trained by him on how to worship GOD and how to wear pants.


oyedepo should accept university is not a secondary school.sooner or later he will accept this fact.

lets be real.many of us do not consider our entrance being blocked funny and if any car owner has sense you wont pack in such a way to block residents of a house from going in and come out of their house.and it is because you dont know whose entrance you are blocking is why you shouldnt do it.now that u have done it ,u shpuld just calmly tke the insult and drive away. that SEUN KUTI was raging on ,is not out of place .but for the issue of gun,the danger of having a gun is that you will be tempted to use it when there is a power play .bouncers etc shows there was a power play and seun kuti rightly used the gun to balance the power equation. Thats why once you are out of your home,you must necessarily engage your sense.blocking people's right of way rarely ends well.

BaddieFreak:
If he tries anything stupid, I will make sure I force my mom out of his house whether she likes it or not.

U are not a wise child

Was adjeman not the Bishop' s pa?


When money , power and sex are involved expect a change in loyalty.

MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

I've done a research on cheating and I have concluded humans are naturally cheaters and can only be supernaturally fidel.when u learn all you can do about ur wife is to be vigilant enough for her not to be the cause of your death and for her not to bring bastards to your lineage.then u will protect urself and u will do DNA and u will grant her the nnate freedom to carry her pussy to wherever she wants to carry it to.

Tieing your mind and your life to your wife's pussy will result in untimely death.write all these down.

bold it,and walk inot the vc office and say it to him as it really is

BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? I am confused and heart broken

u are a kid,u dont need the power of a good dick to ur mum that loves good dick.

Ishilove:
See his strong face. This man is the type that as he is thrusting, all the veins in his neck and forehead will be popping out like he is hell bent on destroying the vagina. He has used preek to waste Mama Pelumi'e destiny

lol,but do u know some babes warn you to hit it hardest.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

She might be all these and more .now that the error in marrying her is realised and you can't cope with her nuances,why not divorce her legally.inflicting violence on any one at will ,will.never be right.this may land him in prison and may leads to loss of job.

It is sad when a Dr cannot even have enough sense not to know u don't stay on to have the first,second,third and fourth child for a man that could be this violent in reaction to her nuances.obviously she abused the guy who surely must have lost it giving her the beating of her life.she too will eventually suffer for this video now going viral.

U provoked a man to inflict pain on u only to run to town to ruin him u will also be ruined in the process

Buhari has fears .he was once removed from presidency.that event is shaping his fear of the service chiefs.again he may have a strategy to remove them after he has successfully got them thoroughly disliked by the rank and file so they no longer has any influence on the services by reason of their long overstay.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

be an advocate.warn people about sex with a girl they dont love

yet another mediocre statement from a mediocre ex head of state

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

marriage is enjoyable if you are prepare for the worst.list your expectations and ask your proposed wife to list her expectations from the marriage.both of you should state the events that will make you walk away from the marriage.if you both start out as a christian couple.you may wish to let her know her first visit to native doctor will be the end of the marriage for you or a confirmed fact that she had sex with another man will be the end.both of you should state the expectations u can meet now,later or will never be met.call your parents and siblings to witness what both of you are agreed upon.let it be known eg since she brings no child to your house,any child born in your house during the marriage ,she cannot take away from your house.

dont underplay what you presently see or hear about your spouse.believe me some people dont know how to say sorry if they are wrong and some women will have sex with other men to get money when they are broke and some men must Bleep another woman and some humans are irredeemable liars.lying is second nature to them.find out if your spouse is pro prostitution.if she is .don't ever expect a happy marriage. above all pray diligently.you will not be able to stop people from changing into another person and therefore if you dont want to die prematurely accept marriage is not padlock and the law of man and GOD allows you to walk away if your spouse is ruining your health and your life.

the greatest gift i can give u is to hear your wife to be speaks when she is not even aware you are hearing and to see her doing things when she doesnt know you are watching.use spy technology before and not after the marriage is contracted,.

The biological father should accept his fate.he is a sperm donor and respects the choice of the lady who is now of age and who has chosen a father for herself.

It is one of the inevitable results of a child not being there for you ,the parent to bond with in his/ her formative years.

The grown up child should be allowed to enjoy her choose father in peace.

This one child will never be omo there to him

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