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Politics › Re: Fayemi: Service Chiefs Want To Retire But Buhari Hasn’t Give Them Directives by josite: 6:25am On Dec 07, 2020
Buhari has fears .he was once removed from presidency.that event is shaping his fear of the service chiefs.again he may have a strategy to remove them after he has successfully got them thoroughly disliked by the rank and file so they no longer has any influence on the services by reason of their long overstay.
Family › Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by josite: 5:49pm On Dec 06, 2020
ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?
be an advocate.warn people about sex with a girl they dont love
Politics › Re: I Am The Wrong Person To Comment On Insecurity - Jonathan by josite: 2:55pm On Dec 06, 2020
yet another mediocre statement from a mediocre ex head of state
Family › Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by josite: 2:29pm On Dec 06, 2020
bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .
marriage is enjoyable if you are prepare for the worst.list your expectations and ask your proposed wife to list her expectations from the marriage.both of you should state the events that will make you walk away from the marriage.if you both start out as a christian couple.you may wish to let her know her first visit to native doctor will be the end of the marriage for you or a confirmed fact that she had sex with another man will be the end.both of you should state the expectations u can meet now,later or will never be met.call your parents and siblings to witness what both of you are agreed upon.let it be known eg since she brings no child to your house,any child born in your house during the marriage ,she cannot take away from your house.

dont underplay what you presently see or hear about your spouse.believe me some people dont know how to say sorry if they are wrong and some women will have sex with other men to get money when they are broke and some men must Bleep another woman and some humans are irredeemable liars.lying is second nature to them.find out if your spouse is pro prostitution.if she is .don't ever expect a happy marriage. above all pray diligently.you will not be able to stop people from changing into another person and therefore if you dont want to die prematurely accept marriage is not padlock and the law of man and GOD allows you to walk away if your spouse is ruining your health and your life.

the greatest gift i can give u is to hear your wife to be speaks when she is not even aware you are hearing and to see her doing things when she doesnt know you are watching.use spy technology before and not after the marriage is contracted,.
Celebrities › Re: Tope Alabi Blocked Ayomiku’s Father From Seeing Her – Mayegun Olaoye’s Brother by josite: 2:52pm On Dec 05, 2020
The biological father should accept his fate.he is a sperm donor and respects the choice of the lady who is now of age and who has chosen a father for herself.

It is one of the inevitable results of a child not being there for you ,the parent to bond with in his/ her formative years.

The grown up child should be allowed to enjoy her choose father in peace.

This one child will never be omo there to him
Properties › Corporate Tenants Needed For Block Of Flats@off Oba Akran Avenue,ikeja by josite(op): 3:16pm On Dec 04, 2020
Very very new flats of 2 and 3 bedrooms.almost like new.

Only corporate tenants please.
Call 08033043242
Business › Re: Court To Restrain GTB From Deregistering As A LLC To Avoid ₦32 Billion Debt by josite: 7:50pm On Nov 30, 2020
This is what a bank gets when with the moneys she has ,she won't court wisdom spiced legal directions.pride they say goes before destruction.md's will now learn to.monitor closely the quantity and the quality of their legal departments.
Politics › Re: OJBEST Footwear: Osinbajo Sends Delegates To Man Who Offered To Be His Shoemaker by josite: 3:43pm On Nov 29, 2020
And what will he now sent to the families of 40 farners just killed by Boko Haram in borno.woe to then who are at ease in Zion when the righteous perish !.
Romance › Re: Should I Advice Her, Play Along Or Leave Her? by josite: 3:40pm On Nov 29, 2020
Engrgabi:
I met this pretty damsel before the covid19 outbreak around Jan, 2020. We didn't meet until September. I paid her a visit at her apartment.

The rest is history. I am in love with this girl. She went through my WhatsApp few days ago, we had a light argument and matter was settled.

Tonight out of curiosity i accessed her whatsapp undecided undecided and my head has been spinning, well from experience am not really suprised with the stuffs I found out while going through her phone. So, I am thinking if I should advice her about her lifestyle, more of her chats with guys/girls were all about sex and member of 3 sex related WhatsApp groups. The people she didnt really have sexual related chat with are probably her relatives or not too closed friends.

I didn't read any intellectual discussion or something relevant to show this lady wants to grow. She has this particular s*gar daddy that every single reply from him is attached with a sexual sticker. Of course she is a ms.c holder and she recently bought Phd form.

Nairalanders should I reveal to her about my late night snooping through her phone and probably advice her about engaging in more positive discussions that might have good impact in her life and way of thinking.

I know most girls survive through their s*gar daddies, but she is attached to this particular man (elder brother to a powerful politician in River state.) that reply's with the sexual sticker, should I ask her how she intends to discard the man because of our relationship??

( I no be saint myself. But trust me I rarely chat sexual stuffs or keep porn pics/Vic's in my phone ).
U are the one that has a problem.She already has Msc and therefore qualified to elect sex as a game she wants to play and with whoever she wants.go and buy your own msc and PhD form.is she not qualified enough to want sex?
Crime › Re: Lagos Police Inspector Rapes Undergraduate, Threatens Suicide by josite: 12:51pm On Nov 27, 2020
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked




In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.
Someone confessed to rape.u are talking about consent.
Politics › Re: Lagos East: APC Sues PDP Candidate, Gbadamosi For Certificate Falsification by josite: 9:38am On Nov 24, 2020
under our several criminal laws.”.soro niyen and u cant cite the specific sections of the specific laws.
Politics › Re: Albert Okumagba's Death: Obaseki Expresses Shock, Sadness Over Banker's Demise by josite: 5:27pm On Nov 21, 2020
[quote author=Willie2015 post=96286015]Dis guy put tears....
In the face of so many investors....
Wreckin their life savings...
with reckless high wickedness...
With his coy BGL and their paparazzi..
May God have mercy on his soul...[/quote.


God bless you so much for saying his story.
Romance › Re: I'm Not Attracted To Prostitutes; Is It Just Me? by josite: 9:35am On Nov 21, 2020
tobechi74:
Prostitute are normal human being. How are we sure your girl is not a prostitute.
I have met an honest, intelligent girl who ventured into d trade to help cater for her younger ones and finish her education when her dad died suddenly.
She hated the job but she love education more. She has saved enough to. Rent a shop, her younger ones sell in. She plans to stop immediately NYSC. She hated the job
If she can get a financial assistance, she will stop but men do not assist for free that is how d job began, even her uncle wanted to sleep with her before helping her.

Prostitute need someone to love them for who they are and not for their job. If you can do that, they make best friend. They know the bad boys in the hood and can help you when you get into trouble.
Never under value them. They are human like every one
are you saying it is ok for a man to go into the armed robbery he hates so as to cater for his education and his sibblings.allowing a man to have sex with u because he has money means your life expectancy is 24 hours and ritualistic death is jus waiting to happen to a girl anytime T
Politics › Re: Court Orders Arrest Of Atiku Abubakar (Jr) Over Children's Custody by josite: 3:20pm On Nov 20, 2020
Judgement debtor summons for child custody case ?
Politics › Re: Femi Gbajabiamila On Death Caused By His Security Convoy by josite: 3:16pm On Nov 20, 2020
Lawsaite:
He said security men who shot in the air. Meaning it's not only one person that fired shots.
He went on to say a stray bullet had hit a vendor.


Then he concluded the stupendous lie with, the official that fired the shot has been suspended pending investigation.

Shey the bullet has tag ni? To know from whose gun it came from.

This lie is not only horrible but bloody. That Speaker should be held accountable.

I am a law student and in law Employers are vicariously liable, under the respondeat superior doctrine, for negligent acts or omissions by their employees in the course of employment (sometimes referred to as 'scope and course of employment').

That officer should be released immediately and the speaker should bear the full brunt of the law.


But in Nigeria here, anything goes. It's always left for God to judge angry angry

Those quoting me and saying otherwise, I actually don't have your time.
I expect you to apply such daft reasoning when your relative is in such a similar situation.
And the speaker is the employer of the policeman because you saw the letter of employment and if a senior lawyer hires you and you shot the judge dead in anger,he is vicariously liable for your action and you should be allowed to go home?
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa: My First Sex Was At 13 Years Old by josite: 7:03am On Nov 13, 2020
punisha:
shocked

This one has been jobless recently.
If she isn't talking about heart breaks,
it's hymen breaks...
Her life hasn't been the same after her kpekus was scavenged by her ex Maje Ayide who the court has told her to pay 1m damages to.
Who am I to judge her.
I first made my 1million at the age of 4.
Hoeniranu!
Hoeniranu!

hi5
Culture › Re: Queen Aanu: My life Threatened For Walking Out Of My Marriage - Alaafin's Wife by josite: 12:25pm On Nov 12, 2020
you are a not a wise woman.why not leave the children that belongs to the palace in the palace,did u bring the children you took along into the palace?


why not take the proper steps like ex oni of ife wife and free yourself.
Education › Re: Oluwatoyin Ogundipe Back As UNILAG VC by josite: 7:48am On Nov 12, 2020
The VC should count himself very lucky and should ensure probity in the financial affairs of the university henceforth.


Babalakin should learn lessons and never again underestimate the opponent while overstating your own importance.

Unilag can now prosper
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman: Joe Biden To Be Impeached For Harris To Be President (Throwback by josite: 10:27am On Nov 08, 2020
and which of them saw covid 19 with a global effect coming?
Politics › Re: EndSARS: Sanwo-Olu Called Me To Say Col Bello Was Shooting At Lekki - Gen Ndagi by josite: 10:22am On Nov 08, 2020
this is the point.interested parties are not supposed to be members of the panel.it is independent fellows completely neutral that should be on the panel.
Education › Re: ASUU Strike, Students And Their Landlords by josite: 8:43am On Nov 03, 2020
Vicdgreat556:
Most students won't pay, instead of them to pay for rent they didn't use at all, from what I have observed,they will use that same money to go get new accommodation, and overnight break dat door and pack away their belongings
not when you landlord is a lawyer or soldier.
Politics › Re: "People Curse Me In Mosques" - Aisha Yesufu by josite: 6:15pm On Oct 30, 2020
me and my father's and mother's lineage are not cursed,retain your curse.
Politics › Re: Corporal Omoh Arrested For Jumping ATM Queue, Flogging Bank Customer by josite: 9:54am On Oct 27, 2020
ThatFairGuy1:
Aside the assault, Nigerians should give Respect to men in uniform. You shouldn't expect them to queue like civilians, they might be on an emergency assignment
what you ought to do when time wont u to queue is to approach a bank official or the security men who will now plead on your behalf with those on the queue,u dont punish persons who are doing the right thing and demands that the right thing should be done,will an american soldier removes his belt and start flogging an american citizen?
Celebrities › Re: Wale Adenuga Blasts Governor Abiodun For Making Laycon A Youth Ambassador by josite: 6:11pm On Oct 07, 2020
this abiodun ,has he got any sense of propriety at all,will he ever get any thingsright?
Properties › Re: Well Finished 5bedroom Detach Duplex With S/pool At Lekki by josite: 11:46am On Sep 26, 2020
525,618.65 USD,will it fly?
Crime › Re: IGP Adamu Reacts To Stripping Of Hotel Staff, Vows To Get Justice For Victims by josite: 10:27am On Sep 26, 2020
and that was a former minister of education.and another ex minister said he has a short fuse and u are still wondering why a nation having these unsound minds as leaders is stagnated.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Attacks Governor Zulum's Convoy, 7 Policemen, 3 Soldiers Killed by josite: 8:16am On Sep 26, 2020
stupid news,how can it be goveernor's convoy when the governor is not there
Family › Re: "My Husband Washes My Pants" Anita Joseph Reveals (video) by josite: 4:41pm On Sep 25, 2020
lucky babe with a lovely round ass,.all the guys here will do anything to wash ur pants.do let us know when the next set will be ready for washing since u say we can wash everything down there as well.
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu: I Once Worked As A Plumber 30 Years Ago by josite: 3:35pm On Sep 24, 2020
Is he now better than a plumber?
Romance › Re: The Multi-billion Naira Sex Industry In Lagos And Its Invisible Players by josite: 3:34pm On Sep 24, 2020
Even bank managers are involved.even women schooled in universities abroad are involved.even mothers of grown up.kids in their 40s,50s are involved.even professionals are involved.i have already given up.only God can tell who is not in involved .but then has prostitution ever ceased in any generation?
Politics › Re: Regina Fani-Kayode: I’m Still Married To Fani-Kayode by josite: 9:05am On Sep 23, 2020
now that woman jus cornered his properties after his death unless he now deny her being the only legal wife.wise woman.
Politics › Re: Obaseki's Victory: Why Ambode Couldn't Fight Tinubu by josite: 6:55pm On Sep 22, 2020
Oluwo is the only follower ambode has.

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