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why go all this length when the laws of Nigeria provides a legal way out if your marriage has become an eternal endurance race.this lady must be evil.she should go and learn what Joseph did when she found that his bride to be was pregnant.being a decent man Joseph wanted to dissolve the union very quietly so that Mary is not put to public disgrace.this woman is evil,it is now that she knows he is gay.MAY GOD HEAL the unemployable hubby,why wont he masturbate or malfunction when marrying you led him to a state of unemployable.everybody wants to seduce her,the sponsor,the ex minister ,even me the nairalander.SHIO.

danot1030:
People like Ricky Tarfa and the judge should be suspended from the bar and their certificate of practice withdrawn.

is it american bar OR WHICH BAR will suspend the guy?.wish someone can really do an independent investigation/research into all the tentacles of this ugly scenario.it is far much more deeper that it is thought and it is a corrupt system deeply entrenched and has been on for decades.they operate more like a mafia and has wide tentacles.ONLY GOD FIT CATCH THEM.

serves u right.next time u find out about the job hazards of journalism before embarking same.who wants to be videoed in uncomplimentary situations.receive sense in jesus name.next time do it with sense.it is called citizens journalism.

fulanis cannot be the problem,when they almost wipe out your tribe ,u will wake up and teach them the lesson of their lives,if they wont wait for any government befoe they attack u,u are simply stupid and cowardice by waiting for government before they attack u.im still proud to be a remo man,the hausa man now knows he is a stranger in sagamu.banza.

modath:
You saw crazy & ridiculous used to qualify someone but the sarcasm still flew over your head! Bravo.

dont obfuscate the issue by making meaningless and unintelligible statements,many of us here are way out of your level.senorita.call a spade a spade not a spado.

modath:
Rickey Tarfa is a great lawyer...

He will defend his position to the point of death, no matter how crazy & ridiculous it is.

cant u see the obvious in your own statement,your own brand of greatness is linked with the ridiculous and the plain and obvious indefensibles.being a smart lawyer is recognizing a superior argument and realizing there are beta alternatives than sheer forging ahead into calamity.check through similar scenarios and see where lawyers admit they are wrong and went in for far lesser offence and punishment.putting an evidence before court on a=oath and turning around to depose to contradicting facts is a sure sign of greatness abi?.even the bible says discretion is the better part of valor and the yorubas says the warriors that knows how to advvance but doest know how to embark on strategic retreats fights themselves into destruction.Before further damning revelations nailing the coffin comes out say,like clinton "im sorry,i admit a level of inappropriate conduct"

elms:
This does not add up, you call him a 41 year old king yet he got married in 2008 at the age of 31; this infers that he is/will be 39 years old this year.
This just confirms the rumour I heard last year that he was ascending the throne with a fictitious age so as to silence some opposition.

i too noticed the miscalculation.the new king must realise being an oni is a serious matter and should be mindful of little things,going for a virgin would have been more ideal than a lady married to some ex who are very much alive.he must not make the throne a laughing stock.hope the edo woman will realise how lucky she is and now learn to sit down forever with one man.all the same i say congrats to them.did the first wife bombata not gave him any kid?

RillJ:
They cohabited by consent and can equally dissolve the union by dissent, There is nothing for the court to dissolve as they were never really married.

correct,that is the position of the law.it is just a case of an ex lover chaing away a current lover and the woman has a right to complain cus she needs support for herself and her 2kids.

Freshboi:
Bro, it is not always easy. The woman and the child are already a family unit,with or without your presence. For the "worship" part, I feel it is a sense of romantic gratitude. Look around you.. Even the fine, single babes, who don marry them talk less of a single mom?

Two, many single moms don't trust easily.

u got it,they are already a family unit.and u will be in between them paying the bills and at the same time taking the heat.

Pheals:
then what's the benefit of doing good

.the benefit of doing good is be on right standing with your Creator and if u do good to those who canvreward u so if d dumb and the deaf and the poor cannot reward u,u will not do good to them.and every Sunday you ate in church aunty.akata onire ni ire ma regun si

AkumahTalk:
Don't be surprise if you're both sleeping on the bed one day and you hear "Oboy!! abeg shift small for me"....BEHOLD THE BABY DADDY

...... And this is biggest threat.God bless u.it is under the excuse of coming to check up on his child that he and your wife will start meeting and fucking .or will u say she should not go and discuss the welfare of d kids or he should not come and check his child in your house. Realise only few women are reliable and principled in the long run.d fact that u come out to naira land with this issues means u can't handle it so let her go in peace.

This is a serious topic and these are the checklists and steps to be take.1.did she disclose it early enough.2.was the attitude like accept my child or go to hell.3 did she admit and go about the disclosure knowing the error was hers and not anybody.4.find out the attitude of the baby daddy and his personality.if u take charge of a mad man" s child expect trouble it is best if d guy is dead or highly responsible and this is the real issue, don't attempt to stepdad a child of a criminal or a violent person if u cherish peace.6.the babymama herself must be found worthy of the extra pains DAT will be yours ,is she of sound character ,hardworking or an unrepentant serial mistake making persons. 7.study the child CU's some type will stab u in d back while u Bleep their mum or do some nasty things CU's they can't accept u ,8. Do a honest assessment of yourself especially if u ar Neva married before and has not had a kid before,will u be able paying d bill of another man" son while the real dad frolicks and while a child from.the mum is not yet around and are u ready if the mother makes her child a priority over u and every other person as it is most likely to be the case with most Nigerians girls whose attitude is largely marry me and my child together or go to hell.on a final.note if u cherish peace like me and has no energy for distraction ,leave her alone.marrying someone u can't be on the same level get wahala o.thank me later.

do the affairs in such a way that it became exposed and someone might be provoked enough to cut off your head,dat way it will surely stop.eleriburuku.

nobody has a monopoly of wisdom and monopoly of violence.when fulanis kill a tribe so much then that tribe will wake and dealt the fulanis invaders a fatal blow.

let us be real.our driving habit in Nigerian is very bad and being mindful of poor conditions of Nigerian roads and the fact that in case of emergencies help is not near,why not control and reduce your speed especially when driving jeeps.jeeps because of high clearance from the ground has a high probability of somersaulting when faced with a challenge.


Again,if blessings are real,curses are also real and we need constantly do a re examination of our acts and actions.learnt the guy was chairman of a quasi judicial body,legal practitioners disciplinary committee,what his antecedents were in that role i would not know.

There is no effective prayer for the dead,may this loss streghtns those they left behind and my it also strengthen their resolve to learn the one thing that is needful in this life and do it.

i believe like every actor,they have played their part and quit the state and like awo said"weep not for me,weep for yourself"

u better thank this lady for being honest with you if indeed she is not joking.she may in another way be telling u she doesnt want to marry u because she knows what she is saying will not please your ear.

adorablepepple:
Oh please! You won't teach me how to use words or better still delete my comment and rephrase it. Bye!

leave zainab alone ,package yourself,the king of anofia is also looking for a lolo. mebo mebo.

MrMcJay:
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Anonymous 22 February 2016 at 15:29

Does this ooni know the past of this girl at all?

Dear ooni of ife is itohan the person you want to use to ruin the ife bloodline? Zainab has been married three times.
Saminu turaki former governor jigawa state. Her second marriage broke up barely 4 months ago to a Lebanese called Eli.

She has been a mistress to most notable men in Nigeria. Itohan SONIA aka Zainab is a woman who likes to be kept. She doesn't do any work. She just looks for a very rich man and glues herself to him. Nduka obaigbena, Abdul Ningi, Aliko were all her men. If 50 notable men come into that oonis palace she would have bedded 70% of them albeit codedly.

What of her scandal with her twin pregnancy with Saminu turaki? It was all over city people and encomiuon. Saminu threw her out with nothing. She opened a clothing store in Maitama and was driving a white Peugeot 206.

Saminu turaki is impotent. She got probably outside and tried to pass the babies as his. Being that he was in power and needed it to cover his shame of childlessness. He accepted. At birth the so called babies died. Saminu kicked her out like a trash can. She had been quitely sending information about their supposed marriage to newspapers etc.
she left with only what she gained materially.

She is not from any bloodline though she claims john obayuwana is her uncle. She is always using john to hide her true backgrowund.

See Zainabs gist is not here oooo. If I start fishing her tea here that oonis throne will shake. We shall certainly see then end of this marriage. 32 married thrice. Been doing runs since 17 when she was doing her diploma at Benin.

At a point she even moved to Dubai and was doing Arabs.

zainab! Zainab!zainab! Your quest for money, fame, and power may be your downfall. You don tough all places come enter royal house Na this one fit finish you finally. Goodluck

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It is not where she is coming from that matters,it is where she is going.everyone has a past,so because she was a runs girl means she cant have a future,o ye of little minds.you think the king does not know this before he invites her for the special one night with the king.

adorablepepple:
, I just pity this oba and ife kingdom as a whole . An oba getting married to a remnant of three men. that's wonderful! She has been married 3 times,always changing her name to suit her new suitors tribe,from benin name to zainab abi aisha she is now bearing the name wuraola.
Someone who was married till December last year.
Na here we go dey. Happy married life

i am not a fan of the new king but you should be ashamed of yourself ,a woman saying this trash about another woman.and im sure you wrote this out of jealousy and the king surely knows what it taste like for him to want to marry her.if she has been married to twenty men nko?kini big deal.i can attest the older they are the sweeter the pucci.congrats to the king and his olori.GO AND DIE!

this pastor miss the point.eating meat is not a sin but if eating meat will cause someone to stumble ,refrain.is this not the pastor a lady painted a vivid picture of how he was arranging her in a uk hotel.this pastor life is not preaching christ.

brodalikeme:
Bros Ricky, how far nau? Bush meat don catch hunter ba?

u really make me laff,u know am before?

AntiMahdi:
Is it this same useless Falana that called for a serving governor to be arraigned before a military tribunal?

Anything concerning this man is dead on arrival.

love him or hate ,falana is the most fearless nigerian lawyer alive and a frontline lawyer,the only one in the class of gani fawehinmi .

didnt u hear yourself,u just said he is your best man.

maybe he became his dad by marrying his mum and dislike having to be a dad to a non biological son from the very start,single parent girls take note.many guys wants u,they dont really want the son of another man.

you must be a kid lady.the guy is commended for exposing you to his preference and you are wrong in not staying there for at least 5minutes and tells him u are feeling unwell and will rather he lets you take a txi home so his nite is not ruined and thereafter u decides never to see him again.rushing here to nairaland shows you seek vindication for your holier than thou attitude which you seems to be getting but i tell you it is in your own interest never to have anything to do with that guy again because im smelling vengeance.

buhari should remember to pray for courage so he can belong everybody and nobody and put tinubu,atiku,ibb ,obasanjo and fashoa ,amechi on trial if indicted in any criminal investigation.

Pls tell this woman to see me for urgent counseling. She is perpetuating a wrong sequence in her matrimonial life.

JideJamez:
The first wife tried to persued the Oba not to trail the path of Hell fire but he refused so ..she walked away to pave way for a fellow idol worshiper.....Nairalanders nna tii like story..gossips ehhh

i also think that is why the blessed ex wife left.she will rather have Jesus and Jesus alone.she will never regret leaving him,omo olomo.igbeyin aye e ko ni dabi ti saul,,to koko nba olorun soro to pada di aboku soro!

very interesting,thought it was a joke when informed lawyers are to be called out a court boycott over tafa's/efcc on going tussle.and i did asked"wetin concern agbero with overload'.

if this report is true,im indeed proud of the ex lagos AG,HAIRAT BALOGUN and the junior lawyers.and of course .we want a bar and bench where only merit arguments in the courtroom carries the day.

lucky and blessed ex wife. very sensible woman.. the late odemo too refused to be olori leaving the hubby to his fate.she go get beta hubby in Jesus name.

metuh is absolutely right and i commend his lawyer for this brilliant move.efcc should not spoil the anti corruption one by making it look as if while metuh and others have one heads,jonathans and the ex heads of state has two heads and cannot be made to face the law.a man says he is paid by a man for a job and you cannot call the man who was alleged to have paid the money and question him as to what job did he gave to metuh.we are watching.


we have cautioned d buhari before ,if he embarks on a selective corruption war ,he will bite more than he can chew.the war must be total sparing no body.

martineinstein:
Ooni is too young to start unnecessary controversy...the monarch that almost colonized almost the entire southern Nigeria(from Lagos to kogi to bayelsa) and part of middle belt is now under u?.. If not for British punitive expedition of 1896,ooni would have been conquered by oba of Benin....
many first class monarchs are under oba of Benin,especially oba of Lagos,obi of onitsha,asagba of asaba,olu of Warri,dein of agbo etc. Even the traditional name of Lagos,'eko' is a bini word....ooni should go and rest joor

Oba agha t'okpe e!....ise!

even the oba of lagos said that the ekos have their ancestry in bini -"ile ibinu"