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Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 9:42pm On Mar 04, 2023
Ok. Bye

advanceDNA:


Lol....i no know say e don enter insult level....nor vex
Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 9:33pm On Mar 04, 2023
Oga shove your epistles to yourself and stop quoting me! You drink kerosene? Or is my input the cause of your problems or Nigeria's problems? Abeg, Waka pass!
You sound like a broken record! If you quote me again, it means you need psychiatric intervention!



advanceDNA:


U can post all the theories here speaking generally on spec and even jump into conclusion about me....but all im doing is speaking from existing realities

And the reality is..When we ask u women for ur spec...u all start screaming tall, rich, pink lips and handsome..like u are doing now with all ur thoeries on spec....

i have never seen a woman say a short, ugly man with no money is her spec....so who is loving all the not so pink lips, 5ft 8 and below in height , not so rich men out there ??

"I was not interested in him b4 cos he was not my type but i later developed feelings for him." .does this line sound familiar.??
...is that not a common line from u women that claim ur spec is tall rich, pink lips and handsome??

My point is...Spec is factor of so many rubbish, holywood movies, pòrn, internet videos, and all manner of superficial standards......but the heart falls in love without notice with real values and the person inside.....
..yes... there is room for lust which the op is doing now with big yansh women, which he may have picked up from pornográphy..

.. tomorrow it can be big breaśt women...thats men for u...and thats why i said from the start u dont know how the mind of a sexually undisciplined man works...

Politics / Re: It's Time To Abandon Politicians & Face Your Life- Deji Adeyanju Tells Nigerians by joyousever(f): 2:02pm On Mar 04, 2023
What do you mean by trickish,? Hope you're okay??[quote author=royalfly post=121465535][/quote]
Politics / Re: It's Time To Abandon Politicians & Face Your Life- Deji Adeyanju Tells Nigerians by joyousever(f): 1:45pm On Mar 04, 2023
So true! Reason, I've since moved on! Personally, I don't meddle in political affairs, but these immediate past presidential elections concerned us all and we were super optimistic of a credible ruler to emerge who had the support of majority of Nigerians. But unfortunately, Nigerian old cargoes and illiterate power brokers, manipulated it to their choice candidate! Life happens and some of us have moved on!

What matters now is for whoever that is incoming to change Buhari's order of government and bring in positive energy and changes.

I have no issues with who ever wins an election. What I'm interested in, is a free and credible election that is devoid of manipulations. If one is confident of winning, why would you hire thugs to beat, intimidate electorates and snatch ballot boxes? It's a clear case of lack of confidence.
Thy only way Tinubu can redeem his image is to simply erase Buhari's evil order of governance and revamp Nigeria's economy and appoint intelligent and pro- democratic cabinet members that can give Nigeria a positive colouration!



Johnthum:
We sane Nigerians will not rest until our stolen Mandate is restored 💯
Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 1:27pm On Mar 04, 2023
Yes, you don't have a spec, but majority of humans have specs! Not everyone settles for whatever life dishes them! Get that and know peace,!
And who says because it's unnatural for my gender to ask men out also means they settle for just any man that comes along? I'm not to school you on the fact that women are always attracted to the good, bad and ugly. So out of this lot, a woman has her spec to choose from or settle for! Got it?


advanceDNA:


Its an irony this is coming from the gender that doesnt do the asking out but will have to settle for the guy that comes their way...


I say again ....we all have to settle one way or another and make do with discipline....cos nobody partner has exactly what they want....and thats the real meaning of of there's nothing like spec
Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 1:22pm On Mar 04, 2023
advanceDNA:


Its an irony this is coming from the gender that doesnt do the asking out but will have to settle for the guy that comes their way...


I say again ....we all have to settle one way or another and make do with discipline....cos nobody partner has exactly what they want....and thats the real meaning of of there's nothing like spec
Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 1:14pm On Mar 04, 2023
I disagree with you on " there's nothing like spec". Everyone has a spec, reason, some people can never date or marry certain people who are closest and compatible with them as friends, no matter how nice, because they don't find them sexually attractive! You're entitled to your opinion, but it doesn't apply to everyone.

I agree with the discipline and caution part of your assertion, for in everything, discipline is key. But be reminded that men can cheat for no reason or for adventure, but that doesn't mean they hate their spec at home.
The point here is, marrying your spec and friend, limits one's level of misbehaviour in marriage. And it is this consciousness that prevents very disciplined and conscientious men from even attempting adultery.


advanceDNA:


You Dont know how the mind of man with testosterone in his veins works.... all the men committing adultery upandan ..u think its becos they dnt marry their spec.?? .the desire of we humans is like grave....it cannot be satisfied until discipline is applied....

nothing lie spec in this world...u ull always meet someone new that have what ur partner does not have.....discipline and contentment is key....

Family / Re: Help: Big Backside Ladies Have Made Me No Longer Have Feelings For My Partner by joyousever(f): 11:03am On Mar 04, 2023
If you're already married, you should be questioned why you went after her when she's not your spec in that part of the body.
But if you're just dating, and your love for her doesn't supercede this particular longing, I would advise you let her go. But don't ever tell her the real reason because it might break her. It's advisable to marry your spec in order to avoid a marriage of misery. Don't mind those castigating you. The heart wants what it wants. If you go ahead to marry her based on pity or people's biased opinions, you'll cheat on her so mercilessly and eventually defeating the essence of the marriage.


farous:
Please kindly advise for I have been trying to manage this challenge. Honestly I have fallen into the category of men that have a higher sex.ual feelings with women with very massive backside(yash) than the tiny or slim one and my partner did not fall into such category of my choice.This has made me no longer have sex.ual feelings for her anymore and I don't want her to know the reason behind this.

I quickly got aroused on sighting ladies whose backside is atleast times three to four of her own as I feeling like touching and bouncing on extra large size booty alone puts me in the mood. Infact nothing that my partner do again that put me in the mood and she is worried about my non sex.ual feelings from me to her anymore but I don't want to tell her the reason. Atimes I think whether I should jokingly tell her about booty enlargement but i prefer it natural than artificial

Even when moving together with her and I sight this group of women,I will almost lose control but will conceal it from her.

One may ask whether I never see her like that before going to her,please don't ask so for that's a long story,all I needed is advice/opinion to go about this challenge.

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Politics / Re: Moment INEC Officially Declared Tinubu President-Elect (Video) by joyousever(f): 3:49pm On Mar 01, 2023
What a sad day indeed! In fact, the declaration was greeted by mortuary cold reception, as no one in the hall jubilated, just a few faint claps. What a shame to be rejected by a whole country and still force yourself on them!!! Tue!!






kaycshine:
Have you ever heard that a man is declared a president of a country and 90% of the citizens mourns instead of rejoice? Well that is the current situation of my country Nigeria. Oh wat a sad day
Politics / Re: Moment INEC Officially Declared Tinubu President-Elect (Video) by joyousever(f): 3:40pm On Mar 01, 2023
Chai!! See how dead- cold the hall is! Nobody celebrated! This is a pointer to the fact that Tinubu is rejected by majority of Nigerians! The cap doesn't fit !

The worst injustice to one's self is to impose yourself on a population that doesn't want you! What a shame!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy For Communication Officer by joyousever(f): 12:22am On Feb 28, 2023
How much is the salary with all these requirements?


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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vacancy For Communication Officer by joyousever(f): 12:21am On Feb 28, 2023
How much is the salary with all these requirements?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Have Ever Lost A Job Opportunity Because Of Age? by joyousever(f): 9:36pm On Feb 22, 2023
Lol grin grin forgiveness and peace are not an option.


amuwo1980:
Years back I passed first bank aptitude test and was screened for the interview but unfortunately I was 27 and they want a maximum of 26 , I tried to explain to them that it is the numerous strike thing but this man Alex otti vehemently refused and even called me a thief , forward 15/20yrs later same Alex otti now unsure of his LGA of origin kept jumping from Ngwa to arochukwu in his bid to be the governor, this same guy that accused me of doctoring my age is now doctoring his LGA of origin and I was just to happy to put a nail to his ambitions and am I will still do it again no matter his party
Romance / Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by joyousever(f): 12:25am On Feb 21, 2023
Mr. Man, stop beating about the bush! You're attracted to beauty and you've already made your choice in Judith, the most beautiful one according to your description! So why are you disturbing us with questions?



Britishcoins:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.


Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Cannot Take Up That Job, N150,000 Monthly Salary Is Too Small! by joyousever(f): 10:30am On Feb 18, 2023
Such a sensible and inspiring piece!




IyaTola:
I cannot take up that job, N150,000 monthly salary is too small!

Last year, a fresh graduate rejected the job I got him

I asked him to take the job for 6 months so that he can gather experience for his next job, but he didn't listen

He is still at home trusting God

I have had to advise a lot of graduates and professionals regarding whether to take up a role where the salary is small.

Some think the salary is belittling and not up to their worth.

I have also seen a lot of people on social media advising graduates not to settle for less which I disagree.

Your decision depends on whether you have a job at hand or not.

I believe it's better to accept a job with low salary than sitting at home to do nothing.

Once the salary can cater for your feeding and transport, you are fine.

No experience is a waste and no matter how bad a job is, you will learn something even if it is tolerance and perseverance.

You have an experience to point to.

You can't ask for a lion share (Salary) with a fish brain (no experience)

At the earliest days of my career,

I was living in Mowe -Ibafo axis, Arepo to be precise, working at Yaba and the salary was small,

I do wake up as early as 4:30am to enjoy cheap transport to Ojota

And BRT to Yaba were cheaper compared to 14 seater Bus.

Then, I do take standing in the BRT bus because it is cheaper than taking a seat

Infact standing was my hobby ��

I will get to the office 6am and wait till 8am when other staff will resume.

The pay was small, I worked as late as 8pm but the experience was BIG and worth it.

Later, I joined another company with double salary.

The rest is history today,

If you are in doubt of taking a job because of the pay, accept the offer,

Give your best, learn as much as you can, don't get carried away and keep your eye on your goal.

Remember, if you are too big to do small things, you will be too small to do big things

Do you agree?
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Aigbe And Husband Enjoy Valentine Vacation In Maldives (Pix) by joyousever(f): 11:26pm On Feb 14, 2023
Local man no just get shame! The fact that she married someone's husband and be acting like a teenager with her first love is really appalling!



tammie24:
Just like the love he had for his first wife faded the same this will happen with the second

He is just a promiscuous man

He doesn't even care how his kids would feel seeing these pictures

What a man!

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Family / Re: My Husband Inspects My Private Part Anytime I Return From Work by joyousever(f): 12:34am On Feb 13, 2023
Lol @ he cried uncontrollably grin. But the man is funny, you know. What makes him think the inspection will help him know or detect any penetration? He needs a psychiatrist!
Business / Re: Nigerians Shun Supreme Court Order, Reject Old Naira Notes by joyousever(f): 12:05am On Feb 13, 2023
You spoke my mind exactly! Here in Lagos, no rejection of any notes, as the new ones aren't available to be replaced. So life and activities continue on steady gear!
Emefiele, you'll sure reap the pain you subected Nigerians to, in full measure!
You can't run away from it, even if you run to America, Karma knows your address!



Jack500 f
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This is nonsense and ct, stop instilling fear in people.


In Ile-ife, Osun state, people are still transacting with the old money.

You said people should deposit old money in bank, where is the new ones to replace them.

Na Ogun go kill Emefiele last last, useless ibo slave.
Romance / Re: Is This A Legit Reason For Being Single? by joyousever(f): 11:40pm On Feb 12, 2023
You're most welcome..
Cheers...

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Romance / Re: Is This A Legit Reason For Being Single? by joyousever(f): 1:51pm On Feb 12, 2023
Your sixth sense should notify you that your current age(26) will rarely get you a financially independent lady that's younger than you are! Most Nigerian adies within your age bracket are either in school, seeking admission, just graduated or hunting for jobs. So all you need do is to remain single till you find a working class/ independent lady.
Cheers..







ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

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Politics / Re: 'Emergency Holy Man' - Deji Adeyanju Reacts To Obi attending PFN Meeting (Photo) by joyousever(f): 7:48am On Feb 10, 2023
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by joyousever(f): 3:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
You're the capital 'werey,' a psychopathic element that you are! I'm not the cause of your bitterness and women are not the cause of your misery! If you're so pained, locate the nearest lagoon!





Rayban25:




Now with this your dumb comment you've finally proven my point...if I call you werey now you'll be foaming in the mouth.werey

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Religion / Re: God's Miracle by joyousever(f): 3:42pm On Feb 05, 2023
My own miracle was how the person that was walking by my side was robbed and I wasn't.

Another time was when I was the only Christian in the midst of Muslim men in a public vehicle during my service year in Maiduguri,and at the verge of a head on collision with an oncoming vehicle, I screamed the name*Jesus* and immediately, the vehicle miraculously swerved and averred the accident!
Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by joyousever(f): 3:12pm On Feb 05, 2023
You should also note that generalising women as illogical or senseless is a mere fallacy! Some are damn intellectually alert while some aren't. And same goes to your gender! I'm sapiosexual and I tend to easily get bored with unintelligent conversations or people who can't hold sensible conversations. But that doesn't mean the 'dull" ones should be regarded as sub-- humans or denigrated.



Sagamite:


No, we do not detest your genders anatomy.

That said, that is the problem right there. Because if not for that anatomy (its superior aesthetic and the sweetness), honestly, there is nothing men like me will have to do with women.

I prefer the reasoning, interests and company of men when I want to hang out.

I am just addicted to looking at women and I am a confirmed ashawo, hence I need them.

When a majority of them argue. I really get irritated with the illogical, shallow and self-centred nonsense coming out from their mouths!

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Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by joyousever(f): 2:34pm On Feb 05, 2023
Bla,bla,bla! Whose side are you? I can hardly comprehend your gibberish! I have spoken and made my point and that's it!




Rayban25:


Again you're just proving him right..he stated a fact and you tried resorting to shaming tactics "are you into males or something"

Secondly the fact that we were birthed by women dosent change the fact of what he is saying....youth anatomy shouldn't permit you to be stupid..learn to take accountability for your actions when being called out...that's the main problem with your gender....what that student said was wrong and stupid and a lot of women defended her just showing how most of you all think

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Romance / Re: Am I Gradually Becoming A Misogynist? by joyousever(f): 12:46pm On Feb 05, 2023
Are you into males or something? Since you detest women's opinion, do you also detest their anatomy? Or do you do men in the place of women? In all your logic, remember your Mama is a woman and you came to this world through a woman.


KlausMichaelson:
The sad thing is that, it's getting worse as the days go by. Imagine the thinking faculty of the female gender in the next few years. Now look at the new generation of the female gender and what they act like.

Oh my God.

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Politics / Re: CBN Extends Deadline For Old Naira Notes To February 10 by joyousever(f): 11:48pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sorry for correcting your ignorance. This is the reason Nigeria has remained the way it is: allergy to correction! Duh🙄🙄


IMASTEX:

I am not writing an English exam, at least you got the message. We are talking of money, you dey talk of English. Upload your IELTS make we see something. grin grin
Politics / Re: CBN Extends Deadline For Old Naira Notes To February 10 by joyousever(f): 12:31pm On Jan 29, 2023
It's "phased out* and not " faced out".


IMASTEX:

Why shouldn't they? If banks that were supposed to be the main means through which the old notes should be faced out were still paying with the same old notes as at last week?

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by joyousever(f): 12:23pm On Jan 29, 2023
Yea...nice meeting you too.

marlow1962:

Yeah thanks a lot, btw nice meeting you.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by joyousever(f): 11:18am On Jan 28, 2023
Ok..... good for you. But some of us aren't cut out for faring better all by ourselves despite adoring our alone time. Anyways, cheers to you.


marlow1962:

Yeah
humans are dynamic, I prefer to stay alone and do my thing, and I’ve found loads of peace doing that.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by joyousever(f): 11:00am On Jan 28, 2023
Awww... sorry. Life is too short to wallow in boredom, regardless of loving your ' alone' time.

marlow1962:

No partner
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Course Did You Study And What Do You Do Currently? by joyousever(f): 9:41am On Jan 28, 2023
Interesting! Why should you be bored when you have a partner and a son?
marlow1962:
Political science and education (graduated).
But for the job, ahhh let’s say no government work for now (I can’t spend heavily on sch, graduate and be paid peanuts by the government, hopefully wen I see i better government work I will key in), but for now I work privately.
I work as a customer care attendant for different private companies ( I mostly works from home, it’s fun since I got my weed,games, food and light, tho It can be borin as hell sometimes but nairaland and my PlayStation got me cover sometimes). When my son goes to sch in the morning, home can be a torment for me as there’s no one to visit me( no frnds, I hate it but I love staying alone).

The pay is good, with the grace of God with me, I can’t say I lack anything. I do not touch my main works money since I do other side hustle’s that can put food on my table.

This is weird, I think am beginning to talk too much about my finance life.

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