You should also note that generalising women as illogical or senseless is a mere fallacy! Some are damn intellectually alert while some aren't. And same goes to your gender! I'm sapiosexual and I tend to easily get bored with unintelligent conversations or people who can't hold sensible conversations. But that doesn't mean the 'dull" ones should be regarded as sub-- humans or denigrated.

Sagamite:


No, we do not detest your genders anatomy.

That said, that is the problem right there. Because if not for that anatomy (its superior aesthetic and the sweetness), honestly, there is nothing men like me will have to do with women.

I prefer the reasoning, interests and company of men when I want to hang out.

I am just addicted to looking at women and I am a confirmed ashawo, hence I need them.

When a majority of them argue. I really get irritated with the illogical, shallow and self-centred nonsense coming out from their mouths!

Bla,bla,bla! Whose side are you? I can hardly comprehend your gibberish! I have spoken and made my point and that's it!

Rayban25:


Again you're just proving him right..he stated a fact and you tried resorting to shaming tactics "are you into males or something"

Secondly the fact that we were birthed by women dosent change the fact of what he is saying....youth anatomy shouldn't permit you to be stupid..learn to take accountability for your actions when being called out...that's the main problem with your gender....what that student said was wrong and stupid and a lot of women defended her just showing how most of you all think

Are you into males or something? Since you detest women's opinion, do you also detest their anatomy? Or do you do men in the place of women? In all your logic, remember your Mama is a woman and you came to this world through a woman.

KlausMichaelson:
The sad thing is that, it's getting worse as the days go by. Imagine the thinking faculty of the female gender in the next few years. Now look at the new generation of the female gender and what they act like.

Oh my God.

Sorry for correcting your ignorance. This is the reason Nigeria has remained the way it is: allergy to correction! Duh🙄🙄

IMASTEX:

I am not writing an English exam, at least you got the message. We are talking of money, you dey talk of English. Upload your IELTS make we see something.

It's "phased out* and not " faced out".

IMASTEX:

Why shouldn't they? If banks that were supposed to be the main means through which the old notes should be faced out were still paying with the same old notes as at last week?

Yea...nice meeting you too.

marlow1962:

Yeah thanks a lot, btw nice meeting you.

Ok..... good for you. But some of us aren't cut out for faring better all by ourselves despite adoring our alone time. Anyways, cheers to you.

marlow1962:

Yeah
humans are dynamic, I prefer to stay alone and do my thing, and I’ve found loads of peace doing that.

Awww... sorry. Life is too short to wallow in boredom, regardless of loving your ' alone' time.

marlow1962:

No partner

Interesting! Why should you be bored when you have a partner and a son?

marlow1962:
Political science and education (graduated).
But for the job, ahhh let’s say no government work for now (I can’t spend heavily on sch, graduate and be paid peanuts by the government, hopefully wen I see i better government work I will key in), but for now I work privately.
I work as a customer care attendant for different private companies ( I mostly works from home, it’s fun since I got my weed,games, food and light, tho It can be borin as hell sometimes but nairaland and my PlayStation got me cover sometimes). When my son goes to sch in the morning, home can be a torment for me as there’s no one to visit me( no frnds, I hate it but I love staying alone).

The pay is good, with the grace of God with me, I can’t say I lack anything. I do not touch my main works money since I do other side hustle’s that can put food on my table.

This is weird, I think am beginning to talk too much about my finance life.

quote author=Magnoliaa post=120270219]

Like, wooowww. 😮

I was thinking something was wrong with me all along oooo.

Like how EXACTLY is this girlfriend at fault?? In this matter??

It is very very scary the way the opinions here flippantly talk about women.

Some are even saying she be girlfriend, not wife yet? Like for real?? Nor be someone you value, VALUE ENOUGH as a gf you go wife? How exactly can a gf be someone without no worth, but a wife is/will be? Where exactly is that switch going to happen?

It's one thing helping your family members, but why the constant encroaching on space? And why not with the other brother WHO IS MARRIED? Those ones nor fit collect nonsense abi?

This same situation will easily turn to "disrespect" and control of a simp boyfriend if it was the wife's brother/sister that was always coming to her place to crash whenever he has relationship issues o.[/quote]

Their narrow mentality bis the reason Nigeria is the way it is. A bunch of educated illiterates that are always learning and never understanding!

Common sense should make the poster know that the constant invasion of his privacy by his 'elder' sister is baffling and odd. But the mentality of 'she's family" won't let him reason straight!





quote author=Magnoliaa post=120270219]

Like, wooowww. 😮

I was thinking something was wrong with me all along oooo.

Like how EXACTLY is this girlfriend at fault?? In this matter??

It is very very scary the way the opinions here flippantly talk about women.

Some are even saying she be girlfriend, not wife yet? Like for real?? Nor be someone you value, VALUE ENOUGH as a gf you go wife? How exactly can a gf be someone without no worth, but a wife is/will be? Where exactly is that switch going to happen?

It's one thing helping your family members, but why the constant encroaching on space? And why not with the other brother WHO IS MARRIED? Those ones nor fit collect nonsense abi?

This same situation will easily turn to "disrespect" and control of a simp boyfriend if it was the wife's brother/sister that was always coming to her place to crash whenever he has relationship issues o.[/quote]

So since your sister has gotten a place, so why did you bring up the issue here and what do you want us to do? To me, since the bone of contention has been resolved, there's no issue here anymore.

As for your gf, she didn't overreact and her anger was justified! Every normal lady will react negatively to the whole scenario. And yes! Me too, I've never seen an elder sister that lives with her younger bro time and again without an iota prestige! And why does she keep having relationship troubles? You need your own space abeg!

Slime7:
Hi guys,
I need your advice on this. It is causing issues in my 2 years relationship.
I came to Lagos in 2018 after my NYSC. Prior to that, I had plans for my older sister to come stay with me, considering how difficult things were.
Note that my married eldest brother was in Lagos before then. I understand that maybe he needs his privacy, but he didn't help in any way (he didn't have to).
 
When I got the apartment, I met my girlfriend while she was serving in Lagos. My older sister has yet to move in with me, but I have mentioned to her not once but twice that she will soon come and live with me.
 
I will also like to mention that my elder sister was living with her boyfriend before I came to Lagos. This doesn't seem right to me or to her.
 
She moved in, and we were living together peacefully. Along the way, she broke up with her boyfriend. About 6 months later, she got into another relationship. The man seems interested in marrying her. And they were making plans for settling down. Unfortunately, she got pregnant out of wedlock for the man. She had to move in with the man.
 
Now this is where the issues begin. After a few months (after her childbirth), they always have issues. They go on and off. Two times they had issues; she carried her bag and came to my place. Two times it happened, and she stayed with me for not more than two months put together. This didn't go well with my girlfriend. She complained that my sister is always in the picture, and she doesn't like that.
 
The third time, the man abused my sister, and he beat her up. I went to the man's house with my "married eldest brother." We fought with the man and threatened to arrest him. He pleaded, plus the neighbors and the landlord too. That night, we took my sister away from him. My sister chose to stay at my place until she gets an apartment for herself and her kid.

This really annoyed my girlfriend. She always says things like, "My family does not respect me." That's why my sister can move in to my house knowing that I am in a relationship.
"Why does she like to stay with me and not my brother?" "Why do I have to always be the one to bear the burden?" Note that my sister works, and she can take care of herself and her kid. She just needed a place to stay until she got her own apartment.

She feared that my sister could just move in with her bags when we get married, which I have assured her is not possible.
She claims she likes her space and all. She claims she doesn't like the "on and off" as sometimes she may want to spend a "lone" time with me. Spend weekends... and this won't be possible when my sister is around.
She claims that she has never seen a scenario where an older sister with a kid is leaving with younger brother.
She always give instances where she has never seen guys in relationships allow their older sister to come stay with them.
She claimed that sometimes I should "man up" and say NO to her. 
 
Is she overreacting? What did I do wrong in all of this? Am I being manipulated? Is her anger justified?
 
N.B My sister has gotten a place for herself and has moved out.

I'll contact you this week. I want to be resupplying it . So how do I clean it up like this in this photo after buying it from you? Do I cook it and soak or just soak it?

fobuele:
It has sizes. Ask her the size she wants.
We can supply you.
We have the cleaned one too, just buy,rinse and cook no need to start cleaning again.
Sending pictures of both cleaned and uncleaned one.

Please don't give her any money to terminate any pregnancy if at all it's true she's pregnant! Please don't! For security purposes. If she keeps the pregnancy, when the child is born, you carry out a DNA test to confirm its paternity, if it's yours, you have to co-parent the child. Provide for the welfare of the child until it's mature enough to live with you.
Never marry a woman who disrespects
you and your mother/ family. You haven't even married her yet, she's like this, how much more if you do.

Better start taking her off your mind and despise her like a bad habit.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Mature advice!

LittleBigDick p
ost=119884771:
First of all try and be fit


Improve your social skills and confidence by joining a society in uni , unit in church, book or developers club, this helps you in building connections with various women and from time to time you get to know each woman , they'll start visiting you if they find you valuable or attractive


Make yourself valuable in the eyes of women by acquiring useful skills like programming, being a plumber etc.


You can afford it , get a cool motorcycle or power bike



Make your sense of humor more dark and try to neg women
You can start watching comedies with dark humor


Dress maturely
Ditch 15 years old boy outfit and wear more chinos , senator, long sleeve shirt and a dope Nike pam

Hello... don't mind those telling you that finding love is only on the condition of being rich or having loads of money, it's not true!! All you need is to 'package' by looking neat/ presentable with your dressing and grooming. And start by being friends with the person first, before asking her out. Social media or dating Apps can also serve this purpose.

Don't feel bad about the reaction you received. Better options will come calling.
Good luck...

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

I hate dem pass you!! Left for me alone, they should be exterminated from the human race or rendered as engendered species! Lol serves him right! Dem don end him own be that!!

Johnthejohn:
That serves him right.
I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion

God bless you for sharing this and inspiring us.

DispatcherLagos:
Continued........

Having gotten to some heights in taking and delivering orders we started thinking of how to differentiate our business from the hundreds of logistics companies in Lagos. And more importantly, how to diversify and increase our revenue and profit. I came up with an idea and discussed it with my staff, customers and mentors and 90% of them endorsed it.

So we started the first warehousing cum logistics company in Lagos. We literally receive the products of businesses/ people who owns and runs businesses with serious Lagos customers while their businesses aren't in Lagos. We keep this products in our warehouse, package and deliver it to their customers anytime they have order in Lagos or Ogun states. Thereby saving the customer the cost of sending his/her orders to Lagos on every single demand. Also to make sure the goods get to the customer/consumer in good time.

We tried this on a handful of customers and we perfected our strategy before we made it open. We are currently building our mobile apps that will allow customers view their transactions and make payments. We are also looking at opening a warehouse in Iyana ipaja and Maza Maza areas before the year runs.

This is how far and how well we have come in our business. Mind you, I came to Lagos with a view of getting a white collar job, but today (by God's grace), I pay at least 6 persons and business is growing from strength to strength. If God can do it for me, he will surely do it for you. All you need to do is to think smart, pray and work hard. The business wasn't entirely rosy at the starting period, I can remember trekking miles like from ijegun-ikotun...from Egbeda-Ayobo.....from Jakande to CMS.... from Ikeja to Agege etc just to save enough money from the delivery fees I charged. If I couldn't give up, you too shouldn't.

Thanks for your time

Interesting and nice strategy!

yrhuhfy113:


I had to get nafdac approved number first, then I applied simple wisdom, over the space of 3 months I gathered 150 teenagers from church, schools and even neighbors kids.... with a promise of 500 naira for whomever finds my product lol ( this was 10 years ago) then I told them to go to all the stores and supermalls in the area and ask for my own product name.... OF COURSE I KNEW THEY WOULDN'T FIND, but they are kids, they didnt know that, I just wanted the stores and shops to wonder about the name of the product so that when I get there, they would feel I am doing them a favor...

Well, IT WORKED... but I couldn't meet the demand, because it was too much, So I kept selling till I left that area. Now, I go in person and convince the store owners.

You see am? He was just interested in getting married to her as a cover up of his sexuality. And then she ends up miserable and all alone in the marriage without being touched! In fact, she really dodged a bullet!

They're so many of them like that whose wives have been reporting and complaining bitterly about them on Facebook groups! May God not allow us to " miss road".

ednut1:
its in the link I attached na. She did an interview yesterday with sdk blog. Wait o i just read it well again. He was cheating and didn’t nack those woman , chineke . Either gay or impotent

If he wasn't attracted to her, why did he propose to her? Didn't he see the "flat chest and flat ass" before befriending her for 5 years? And when did she ever mention that he cheated on her with curvy women?
Since you knew Alex in the media space, has he ever been linked with any woman?
For 5 years, he had never been intimate with her and you think this is normal? Alex is gay!! And this is common knowledge! Know this and rest!!

ednut1:
He wasn’t attracted to her. She no get yansh or boobs. She confirmed he was cheating with curvy women. He was always a social media person so you expect him to change because of you But the guy self no try wanting big wedding wey u no wan pay. Tufiakwa https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2023/01/actor-alexx-ekubos-ex-fiancee-fancy.html

But in 2019 during her time in BBnaija House, she said she was 34! Therefore, she should be 38 now!
Hian!

Watch the video. He said he asked her to join him so that the three of them would hang out together.

HomeTutorsPro:
Anotheeeeer...
Banga!!!!
The man though.
Why not take both of 'em out?
At least she'll get to show whether she'll be a good step mum or not.
Seriously, I don't blame the lady. It's a sign that she'll be struggling for the man's attention if they eventually get married.
The man is supposed to make the lady bond with the little girl, especially during Christmas, and not leave her behind to go out with his daughter alone.
Maybe there's something about the lady he did not include in this story.

I think this question befits the free women in your neighbourhood that have never given you a second look for once!

PoliteActivist:


How about spending money to fucky? Is that alliwed?

Hello..... brush off her ingratitude and bad manners. She isn't worth it and the money you rained on her! Kindly send her your details, let her reverse the money ASAP!

Never feel inferior about your looks, because you didn't create yourself. And the One who created you created you beautifully in His own image!

What you should focus on now, is to take better care of yourself. Eat well and keep to a balanced diet. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables. Drink much milk and rest more. Pay attention to your dressing by wearing neat and well- ironed decent clothes that sit well on you and also smell good. Hang out more with your male friends and through that avenue, you'll get to meet better and reasonable females.

Never you use money to bribe a lady to date or be with you. Spend only on the one who is with you for good and not for selfish reasons.
I wish you well and remember God loves you!

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

The reason you shouldn't be spilling all your beans, no matter how close you are to someone. If you didn't tell her the whole amount, it wouldn't have resulted in the giving of attitude. If you have a way, get an alternative accommodation. I expect her to even advise you on how to manage the money meaningfully, so that you don't become a liability to anyone, but surprisingly, the reverse is the case.

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Pls I only have one responsibility which is my daughter ,my brother is not my responsible he is 24 old enough to hustle like his fellow mates [/quote]

And It all ended in praise!
Just put the past behind you and focus on your future in a new clime. May God keep healing every broken heart!

Aaaaarghmed:
January 1st 2022,I was so sad because of a big disappointment, I was supposed to get married but was disappointed by the lady.I applied for France visa,was denied,applied for Iceland, was denied..in this process I lost alot of money over 1.2m.Despite the fact that I have a good income,I was depressed and sad most times.I took alcohol every week to suppress my anger and unhealthy mood.But some weeks ago.I got a visa to an European country. DONT give up.It has being a very rough year for me,but it ended in happiness and early next year am leaving this hell hole to start a new life.I thank God.

Hello..... merry Christmas too.

Okhuadams:
Can I get ur no. Pls

Jesus is the only take home that can take us home!

Nigerian salary is like an accumulation of daily pennies. At the end of the month, a major part of it goes into bill payment and other miscellaneous. At the end of the day, one is left with nothing after feeding money. Hian!

Your best plug is to find alternative sources of income, that alll!

Nice explanation! I'll keep this in mind. Thanks a lot.

gloryhomemaker:


It's your regular pot ooooo.
Please use a pot that can close tightly without any perforation in the lid.
Perforation is that little hole in some pot lids, it will reduce the heat in of the pot. And that will affect the meat pie.
I placed a baking sheet in the baking tray.
I hope I answered you well enough.

Interesting illustration, kudos!
Please how does one get this pot oven? I didn't really understand it when I watched the video. Or is it the regular cooking pot? And l don't understand what you placed underneath it before placing the meat pie tray.
Could you please explain more?

gloryhomemaker:


Nne,it's all yours. How is your Christmas coming? I can feel mine in the air already.

Kikikiki

Reps; Madam, how much new notes were minted and circulated to the Nigerian public?

CBN deputy director: I don't know.
I laugh in spiritual powers