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ambient:
Your stance? That man you quoted called me a bitter wicked woman so if you are standing read first.

I don't think you are a woman,a woman with disappointed kids would see why I am fighting for this... continue standing e go reach you.

So because I chose to air my views on this matter, I am not a woman? What is so unwomanly of me? Because if we are to judge by all the back and forth you have been on about for a while now, I would also say you are not a woman.... But lets leave that for now. That is not the bone of contention.

yehmy:
Make we no lie, when majority no like you for this life and dem don dey expect say make u do small mistake like this. Once you Bleep up it's finished.


God don't let anybody fucking shey yeye mii

Exactly what is happening here. You are wise. His onlinenemies jumped at this dispute to drag him.

kelvin1191:
I wanted to come into this matter but she called me a supporter and someone asked her to continue ranting. You can't spoil the man's reputation and still ask for settlement. Let her continue. In fact, she is doing well!

My stance exactly.

Foxie:
This is unnecessary. Did he actually scam her? They just have a misunderstanding as he actually gave her a tab, don't do this. I believe this issue can still be resolved. This man is someone's father, someone's husband. In my opinion this is taking it too far. Don't pour sand in someone's garri, life in Nigeria is very hard already. Kindly drop this down(I'll unquote you as soon as you do).

P.S: Before anyone tags me as his alternate moniker, I'm not, but I've transacted with him, and I only see someone who's trying to cater for his family. I insist, this can be resolved. Please let's be humane

This is one problem we have in this country. We are too quick to brandish our fellow men names and commit them to mother earth over issues that are not it. The ALUU 4 massacre comes to mind this time. Can these lots brandishing this seller a scam maintain same energy in calling our leaders who have been scamming us nonstop for years scam?

We tend to have a flawed sense of reasoning and judgement and that is why every and any di*k and harry can buy our hearts and our votes. Such a shame. Tagging someone a scammer because business deal got sour and both parties would not sheath their swords Is this not tantamount to witchcraft. If Jesus was to come in this generation, he would not achieve age 30. He probably would be killed before he attains age 15.

Poopypants:
Why are you guys petting and pleading with this pathetic scammer? Take his name, phone number and account name and number to the scammers section of this website, so a quick google search can show everyone who he trully is. Report his posts and tag him what he is all over the website. Don’t let scammers, ostracize scammers.

How happy would you be to put an end to a lagit man's hustle on grounds of claims that is this sketchy? Do not be part of the reasons why a budding business would crash. Please be guided.


I don dey observe this matter tey tey and you are not seeing things from my angle... Could it be that I am the proverbial old man?

081087n:
Yes ma, it's already looking like cheating to me..
Everyone has intervened and you admit to refund,now the woman said refund, you say refund time don pass, proof of broken screen we mo see, blood stains nothing.

No evidence from him about all he's been saying
But this woman has been submitting reciepts of evidence, pay her and let it go I thought he said he would send 35k and she should go and dash the tab to motherless homes..now he's chosen to do otherwise of what he said

I am not taking sides with anyone oh, but if I were the seller, the offer for refund would be off the table the moment she brought the issue here to "tarnish" my image. This issue would have been resolved off nairaland with ease, in my opinion. The seller would have lost a few thousands, but this dent on his rep (I am assuming he is legit since people have come out on here to vouch for him) would not have been created. If seller is a scam as we all are portraying, I think he would have backed off from fighting this course, deactivated and created a new moniker... Or even refunded to save face.


Madam buyer, ma'am, to some extent, I believe you, but I also believe that you took the wrong approach. You started dancing even before the band started playing. I have come to realize that vawulence doesn't solve a thing. You complained the first time and he obliged your requests, what makes you think he wouldn't the second time? It is normal to drag legs after a second complain, but he would have regardless. You did not come on here to demand a refund, you came here to "tarnish".


Let us not always be itchy to come here to discredit sellers, especially if what we ordered for is what we actually got. I understand that sometimes what we ordered might not do as much as we would want and in this case, it is still our fault for not understanding the functionalities of the item we are about to purchase... Should a seller be blamed for that?

Both buyer and seller should discuss offline and come to a reasonable conclusion. This time, drop your horns and ego aside.

Elections are around the corner. Let us be mindful of how we move and the company we keep.

I pray that she is found.

niyiforeal:
you can get a less expensive logistics company out there make more findings, it’s because of the value of the phone they are charging you 30k

Judging by the nature of item to be waybilled, I would insist he sticks to either DHL or GIG logistics. the max GIG would charge is 5k and maybe 10k for DHL.

JAccksnow:
Lol. Not at all bro.
The sender is actually my sibling. I asked her to make enquiries from gigm and peace transit and she was told 30k. The device is an iPhone 12 tho.
That's a lot

I think for peace mass transit, before they waybill an item for you or to you, they would ask you or the sender what the item is. They tag it as standard practice in case of loss/theft/accident. However, I think there is more to that, which is why you have to pay 30k for the phone to be waybilled.


Your sibling should price it down. In saner climes, cost of waybill is determined by weight of item and how big it is.

[quote author=Mihzwhitesutana post=110415546][/quote]Pardon me, sis. I sent that PM a long time ago and even forgot I did. Checking your posts made me to remember why I did. I sent you a PM in respect to the "lump" issue you experienced. I noticed same and needed clarity.


Hope you have excised yours and its benign?

Superboss:
You are absolutely.
The worse decluttering places are Instagram in and this nairaland thread.
What I do on these pages is just browse and feed my eyes.
For some of us who know where to buy some of these items at a much cheaper price than they are placed, we dont bother bargaining with these greedy sellers here.

Same thing I do here and there(mostly there) to feed my senses with latest designs in furniture and electronics. The fully padded upholstered bed I recently made (brand new, built to taste and to last) was made at far lesser price compared to what is obtainable here and these used items decluter pages on IG.

Asquare84:
hi naira landers,

I worked in one of the financial institution in the country, sometimes last year I was promoted to head the department at zonal level, (good News right).
here is the problem and challenges I have been facing on the job, I have almost six superior that are above me in terms of ranks, but I was made to supervise them. this superior don't send their report to me or seek my opinion on anything.

I know they are not happy with me. my regional manager on sensing that this may be a problem recommended that I should be promoted ahead of all my superior yet our management is not saying anything about the recommendation of my regional manager.

most of this superior lobbied for this position but I was picked because of my ability's to deliver on the job.

experience peeps how do I handle a situation where I am supervising my superior yet they are not reporting to me or can I issue queries to them.

Congratulations!
You got that promotion because you deserved it. Top management chose you over those lobbying because they trust your work and worth... Do not put them to shame.

Do your work diligently. Do not command respect from your former bosses, earn. Treat them with respect but do not be complacent with any form of insubordination or lacklustre behaviour from them.
Above all, pray and be wise!

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second.... the bible said if your right hand causes you to sin... so why are here twisting that to mean he should send the gal away?
Is the gal the OP'S right hand?

You false preachers are some or the worst abeg!

Wisdom is profitable to direct (in this context, understand).

humblesteve:
The question is why is he ashamed of what he does?
I too know he’s not a scammer and know the origin of what transpired but am still surprised he’s not proud of his side hustle. Lol wahala be like bicycle

You knew he was not a scam, but did not stand up in his defense because, according to you, he is not proud of his hustle... Doesn't that make you as wicked and culpable as the accusers? Learn to be your brother's keeper.

hotwax:
She really deserves more.

Good one. Some are getting gifts, while others are getting receipts of their men's wanton chivalry to other women.

Nedangel:
So this girl ( 15 years) was brought to my house by my wife after my wife gave birth a year after. My wife said she really needs someone to help her, but I kicked against it. After much pestering from my wife, I agreed.

I sooo much have feelings for this girl.
I have fought it so much. Some times my wife is out/ travels and am alone with her and kid when am back from work. But this strong feeling comes up and I feel like having her. Most times I find my self thinking about this girl. It's to the point that my chest pains me.. When I ask my wife for s*x, Most times & always she says she's tired.

Please it's really affecting me, it's eating me up. I need suggestions/ advice from my well meaning Nairalanders. Thanks allot.

I must applaud you for exercising self control, but I can sense that that won't be for long if the problem is not alienated. The bible says if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.
Your best bet is relieving her of her service. Let her go!

prophetwis:
Please let us not criticize for criticism sake ,the guy is a perfect gentleman, I personally went to his house and got few of the items on sale, I met his three lovely kids and mother in law. I took my time to ask him the reason for people calling him a scammer and found out that he has a personal issue with one of those here ,who started the name calling . The guy by all standard is comfortable and has a genuine reason why he is letting go of most of his stuffs.

Thanks for putting this out on behalf of the seller. I think its very wicked to accuse somebody of being a scam without tangible evidence and holding on to that line of thought even when facts to dislodge that thought have been provided. It won't cost us anything to admit being wrong when we are. As much as we want to keep this place sane, we must be human while doing that

Sicilyjoe:
They will first lie to u with market price at 180k then Declutting price 130k

I blame those who fall for their antics.

Iyajelili:
Oh my God! I bought this exact size for 79k in 2019. This country is almost finished!

Wow! Wonderful!

Sicilyjoe:
Good price for new fridge of LG products, some people will come here and tagged used one of this product at 150k

I am telling you. 150k for a product they most likely bought at close to half the price.

Iyajelili:
I use the LG fridge(for more than 2 years now and I don't have any complaint). An average generator will power it . How much is it now please

Okay ma'am, thank you for your input. This size details for 140k

Zino1011:
Will advice you go for a deep freezer

That would have been a perfect buy, but I do not like the fact that it doesn't give its users room for organization

ebab:
The LG is good... I have been using it for 3years plus now with no issues but I don't know of the other one...

Thanks boss.

Valto:
u shouldn't waste time in grabbing the LG linear smart inverter compressor fridge. it super chills, and saves u money on electricity bills. the LG fridge consume about 50 to 60w only, while the haier thermocool consumes about 110w to 140w

Thank you boss. Does it form ice easily and retain it for long?

Rexraph18:
Wardrobe for sale..

Reason for sale: there's no use for it.
I bought it off this thread some month ago, moved houses and the new place has a very large wardrobe, now there's not even a good place to keep it as it has been under the staircase for months now.
Caretaker is complaining I should remove it, so anyone interested can come, inspect, pay and carry it.

Price: 15k (not negotiable)
Location: Nta Road, mgbuoba portharcourt.
(The estate behind Nta premises)
Mode of transaction: pick up only, I can't waybill.
Pictures attached.
Pic 1: previous place before moving out.
Pic 2: present Location.

Number for contact is on my signature.

Attaboy!!! This is truly a clearance sales deal. Happy sales, man.

Good morning, guys.


Not meaning to deviate, but is this refrigerator (picture below) a good buy compared with the normal compressor haier theromocool refrigerators within this same range? Note that I am entitled to 10 hours of electricity per day.

investorcj:
Ya a foooooooool.after all the abortions done for your sake u want to run.remember karma is a bitch

Op created this thread to seek validation for his action from uncouth nairalanders like the fellow whose comment is above yours.


I am not justifying your ex's action, op and I am also not vindicating you... Deep down you know what is right. Do it!

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Sis, no!

BigBashiru:
Polygamy is what makes sense for a man in gjhs day and age....

Carry on with your beliefs. I am sure op and other peace-loving individuals here know better.

BigBashiru:
I agree he should marry the 32yo girl and then with time also marry a younger girl and so hv 2 wives

...Elixir for an explosive exothermic reaction.

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

I can deduce from your writeup that she gives you peace, so go ahead and marry her. Marrying a youngster her its perks, but best believe that the baggages outweigh the benefits. All the best.

Authority1o1:
Okay...

Recently, I found myself getting more interested in understanding the human emotion. Superficial knowledge on some subjects in Affective Science has been helpful, but hasn't satisfied my quizzes.

Envy is a dangerous emotion. When it comes, impale it, lest it transcends to jealousy. You weren't born to take a life, you didn't even resolve to it, but these emotions will overpower you and hand you a saber. They're things of the mind, and the mind is in control of you.

Again, downplay your achievements if you must. You don't want to arouse envy; you don't want to end up watching your back forever.

You have summed it all up in a piece. Kudos to you!