₦airaland Forum

Fucklove:
Juliearth How far, do you still remember me

No sir! Pray tell!!

olukaygold:
I've done the needful,I've posted His details...maybe I'll go to the Bank next week to get his bank details but that's unnecessary since I've posted his Nl handler and Phone number

Getting his bank detail is necessary....infact more necessary than his phone number (which can be changed) and moniker.

olukaygold:
You must be Mad for saying this... This is the result when Sapa don hit you well well...My reasons of letting everything die down are because I don't want my account details and Phone Number to be tainted with any gbas gbos from here cus that's my Office,secondly, I'm always busy at Site working,I don't have time to dey watch TV but I bought the TV for my family,I blamed myself for not testrunning it before picking it up,I seen myself as a fool here,there's nothing I can do to the seller because my location is far from the His location and I've done the needful by Posting his details for others not to fell into his Trap.I still paid for the waybill but the dude never refund my money back despite picking it by myself...Pls before you type,firstly reason if what you'd say really have sense in it...you lack sense of Reasonings to be sincere...don't take my gentleness on the matter for granted.

I was pissed with you at first for not doing your due diligence, but later, I got to understand your kind of person.


Look, if you don't avail this scammer's details here, more people may fall prey to his scams. You owe it to everyone here to try. I am sure the customer care rep in the bank can help you pull out his details. Just find a way to convince them as to why you need the details.


Cheers!

KINGSATANREBORN:
I’m going to say it again, a honest Nigeria who make money legitimately cannot allow his money to go the drain especially when the perpetrator decides to be quiet and uncouth. The only set of people that does that are yahoo boys. They have this conviction that by midnight they’d “jam” an unfortunate white person whose paycheck will cover for the loss.

That victim is a fraudster that was scammed by a local fraudster.

Please don't make such conclusion. Some people don't like stress and even when you cheat them, they would hand over your case to God and move on. I would have been happier if the scammed guy dropped details, but his non compliance to that doesn't make him a criminal.

Iyajelili:
I'm interested in the Hoffner cooking pot but I'll not beg you for pictures. Why must I come to WhatsApp before seeing the pots?

People don't know that it is a marketing strategy to post pictures of wares here. Sometimes the neatness of an item is what informs the buyer to buy and not even the need for it.

Bluntdude:
Hello guys, good day. Kindly help me make the right decision.

I am an artisan in Abuja who works under a reputable company as a freelancer. My job entails me moving around much everytime. I've done this for years now and to be honest it's really affecting me. The stress of trekking, getting into vehicles and alighting incessantly is really wearing me out. I'm thinking of saving 3k per day for about 2 years to get a car to help ease my movement because in the past and even now, I've lost some customers due to my inability to meet up with some appointments. Most times I get home really exhausted not necessarily because of much work but because of the stress involved in getting to customers' houses and returning again daily.

Now here's the challenge... I planned on getting a land and start building soon before the idea of getting a car came up due to much stress of moving about. I'd really love to own my own house. So please I'd be needing advice from you guys... House or car? Which should I start with first? Really important. Thanks.

If you are not buying a car brand new, then you should take into cognisance the cost of purchase only. A car is a funny machine and if care is not taken, you could be losing so much to repairs on a daily basis.


Come to think of it, who chooses a liability over an investment? Even the resell value of a house is a plus as against a car. My take is that you build a house and then buy a car subsequently.

Op, you are prudent and disciplined. Keep it up!

ojesymsym:
This is one irony of life that I don't often understand. Many women die from child delivery in even very good hospitals in Nigeria yet you get to hear someone delivered inside keke, bus and in this case in captivity where there is little or no medical support around.
Why then do some women die in hospitals during child bearing

It is not the place or condition of birth that kills in most cases.

olukaygold:
Let's forget it bro...make God bless us more...I've counted my lost and moved on. I got my home theater from here,the person just dashed me cos it worth more than the price,I see that as a gain to the loss...Thank you all for coming out for me

I just learnt a lesson from your outlook on this issue. God bless your heart. However, you can spare future buyers from being preyed upon by furnishing this thread with his details.

olukaygold:
His contact
0812 648 4290
I don't have his bank details anymore because I've deleted our Chats,just pissing me off seeing it.

Wow!!! You were careless with this deal. Deleting chats and every other details of someone you struck a deal with without thoroughly testing the purchased products?? You can check with your bank to get his details.

Somebody tough and soft at the same time. Tough enough to put an end to all the insecurity challenge that has crippled this country. Tough enough not to "look uchey face" in taking a stand and stance. Tough enough not to pay heed to godfathers and political saboteurs posing as supporters. Tough enough to nip corruption in the bud. Tough enough to grant us true independence from the western world. Tough enough to grant each state autonomy, so they can generate income. Tough enough to merge weak states who can't perform. Tough enough to grant the judiciary and INEC autonomy. Tough enough to close all the borders get again, but not clueless to lack actions that would ease the resultant effect of this action. Tough enough to promote foreign export SK that the dollar would, overtime, lose its grip on the naira.....



Soft enough to understand the burdens of the people and support policies that would give the masses soft landing. Soft enough to make the country business friendly and attractive to foreign investors

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Its best you tell her so she can take actions to have the video removed. I also hope that this act of shame would help her turn a new leaf.

Kobojunkie:
This woman alone knows the extent of what her mental can handle and what she cannot. Her children are already struggling under the weight of what seems emotional abuse and going back to my own childhood, I understand exactly what they may be going through.

Emotional abuse lives with children well into even their old age. It does not end when the abuse ends and it may live with them for their entire lives if something isn't properly done about it.

Divorce, on the other hand, does not cause even a 100th of the damage that abuse does. And it does not breed a cycle in the way emotional damage can. A child raised in a divorced home is likely to snap back through some therapy and introduction to an abuse free environment. But a child who had to endure abuse will need several years of therapy and may not snap completely out of the damage until much much later in life.

My parents got divorced and I am a happier healthier being for it.

Lucky you! I still maintained that this situation can be salvaged. Please do not try any further to impose your view on me.

It is a bait, do not engage.

Kobojunkie:
Did you bother to read at all? The emotional abuse is getting to her and her kids, yet here you advice her to instead figure out her abusers triggers and what not? Are you folks for real abeg?

She should hold on to what is a Mrs title under the weight of what seems emotional abuse?

Okay, you want her to leave because her husband seem to have anger issues which he displays twice a year? If children were not involved, I would have prescribed divorce, unfortunately, that is not the case. Do you know what divorce does to children? This situation can be managed.

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

I know it is not my place to say this, but I would, regardless. Permit me to say that you don't have a problem.... Or let me rephrase, your problem is highly avoidable. When other women tell your their ordeals, then you would agree with me on this.


Please do not create an imbalance in the lives of your children by leaving that marriage. Children need both parents to have a balanced life. If you leave your kids with their father, what becomes of them when he marries another or his girlfriends maltreat them?


Figure out your husband's trigger(s) and avoid it/them completely. You may be lucky that he outgrows this vice with time.

Ramanto:
No matter how rich one is, one must still possess a certain level of rationality. There are some spendings that one must consider unnecessary.
For me, I'm yet to get used to cutting my hair 1000 naira every week. I don't cut any fanciful style, just a normal low cut which I may not even carve. I'm new in this state. In my previous place, I was cutting for 300 which was reasonable to me. Anytime I pay 1k here, I feel cheated. I can easily afford the money, but I find it more rewarding to give out the excess to a beggar instead of paying it to barbers. I have my own clipper now. Only that I can't cut myself.
Which bills do you really hate paying?

NEPA bills, reason being that, supply in this town (Minna) is below par.

Forget about being in a relationship for now and focus on your career. I believe that the higher you climb, the less tedious it would get. So that should afford you the window to date.

TOPCRUISE:
If you have a good voice and you want to know whether mammy water exist, go and pad a canoe in the middle of the night about 2 kilometers away from unilag or badagry lagoon front and be whistling or singing.

What would happen?

bolaji73:
Some people can be funny o.Guys pls, check this conversation and state what I said that is wrong.

This Monika,Olaide1295, posted that she has a TV for sale. I called earlier this morning,we spoke a Little and I promised to call back. I saved the number,Later, I dropped a message with the intension of Making more enquiry and the possibility of fixing an appointment.my intension is going to pick it up by tomorrow.
I noticed she was online then I decided to call on WhatsApp, Aunty just cut The call stating that I don't have permission to call her without informing her, chai..see trouble o!
I thought ok maybe she doesn't like WhatsApp call, I decided to call directly.. Aunty just flare up.. That infact she's not selling again.. Egbami! What did I do? The next thing Aunty block me.

She is right about asking before you call on WhatsApp. However, flaring up after you placed the network call is totally off. Maybe she was having a bad day. Perhaps you can call at a later time and still strike the deal. No vex.

MrBrownJay1:
the man does not value you if A) he was cheating on/with you all along, B) he allowed the "other" babe to move in with him.
i suggest you therefore value your self/life and abort that baby, and look for a man who will VALUE you as his woman, with trust/respect/care and affection.

unless you can take care of this child (emotionally/physically/financially) by yourself for the next 18yrs, i suggest you ABORT!!!! ABORT!!!! ABORT!!!!

The other babe moving in with ease and his parents' allegiance to the other woman shows that this one is a side chic

Nksleek:
Delta Lady Accidentally Gets Pregnant For 34-Year-Old Man Secretly Dating Another Woman

As seen on Facebook this afternoon

Someone from my inbox is seeking for opinion and I have her permission to share.

According to her, she accidentally took in for her 34-year-old boyfriend that she has been dating for 2 years plus not knowing that he had another girlfriend.

She said the other lady moved in permanently to live with the guy upon hearing of her pregnancy.

Her own parents are already aware and disappointed but the guy’s family acknowledges his relationship with the other lady more than hers.

She further revealed that the situation is making her frustrated, apprehensive and depressed.

What can she do?

Source: https://www.facebook.com/100041566351018/posts/834631637932374/?d=n

I think she forgot to tell you that she is/was the desperate side chick whose plan was to use pregnancy and snatch the man, but it failed. Congrats to her. I would advise that she buys Pampers and baby clothes in bulk from now.

pocohantas:
I like to think there is no right and wrong to this question. I might be wrong though.

A job well done is a job done on time....

Damscodammy1:
Sir how come abt ur name.3 diff tribe.

Poetic way of depicting unity in diversity.


Weldone, op. Its sad to say that towing the path of academics in this country is frustrating. From my experience, I would not advise anybody to tow this path in the country unless if it is the last and only resort. If possible sign up for PhD abroad. Know this and know peace.

Achinakaa:
welding is capital intensive, if you are good technically, you would learn in due time, I don't think not having having educational knowledge about it would be a hindrance.

There are contracts that you can't bag if you do not have the papers to support. I do not think multinationals can award a welder without papers a welding gig even if he is very good.

GreatAxeMan:
I think a more mundane reason is that pronouncing P and S as a consonant cluster, sounds a bit like PISS

Funny! You are not far from the truth. The mundaneness of your thought was perhaps why the English carved out these deviations. Note that this rule doesn't apply to /PS/ alone. Don't forget mn, kn, pn, kn, and so on. Most words starting with these diphthongs are of Greek origins and it was easier to pronounce them in Greek. The English, however, knew there would a whole lot of tongue- biting experiences if modifications are not made. Thus, the reason why these deviations exist.

Ulunne777:
Ihere GI emegbuom megbuokwa ndi new GI!

You can stay oppressed for all I know and all its worth.

elotajohn1:
See as you dey pieces another man language.... Can you read a book written in your local language?

I cannot even speak my language. It is of no economic value to me.

sorosoke101:
When it comes to silent letters, English has many. They are there, standing firm, occupying space and charge you for extra ink but not pronounced at all. Many people hate them for being there and they fuss about why for god’s sake they are not pronounced. Well, there is a reason why they are not pronounced. The word PSYCHOLOGY was borrowed from Greek, where this combination of sounds is allowed. But would be difficult or impossible for an English speaker to pronounce those two sounds at the start of a word. So in English we kept the spelling but made the initial /p/ silent. Because no English speaking people would want to pronounce a P and S together because it will sound gibberish. You are free to add yours let's see those silent letters.

Its a consonant digraph (two consonant sounds blended together to form a sound). By rule, digraphs create a new sound altogether (e.g sh, ch, th, etc) or not (as in this case). If a digraph assumes the latter in sound formation, it takes on the letter sound of either of the sounds. Thus, in this case, /PS/ by rule is sounded as /s/ or psi as this case.


One would be tempted to ask that if the letter sound is not pronounced, why then keep it there? Removing such silent sounds would constitute a breach in English language etymology.

Graceconnect:
Is this a confirmed information?

Yes

Kobojunkie:
Finally, some answers!

I didn't even know it was a she... poor woman!

Poor woman! Isn't death an escape route to the impunity in this country?