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blingxx:
So many no get sense I swear .. I shouldn't be saying this but some of these comments are from kids that where Abandoned by their parents at a very tender age that's why they see nothing wrong with op problem

Ops father still pays his medical school's fees, for the recoed. I'm sure he still house and feed them. Only he doesn't do it as much as ops would want. Man maybe irresponsible, but he hasn't abandoned his family. And perhaps, he has other siblings in school the same irresponsible father fend for.
Dude has his eyes fixed on the father's half a million salary. And how much is half a million with children in university, multiple school fees, multiple rents and allowances, and a father that drinks beer
At this point, I'll say, if the father can successfully see him through school, while still paying the house rent and feeding the family, man is legend. You have to cut the man some slacks considering he already picked up the bad habit of drinking, and perhaps his nagging wife drove him into excessive drinking who knows. Ops at 19 coming up with this much hate shows the mother might not be all that free of blame

Failure44:
I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

This is coming late, but I understand your father father still pay your medical school fees albeit not leaving you with much to cater to other needs,

I'll say your mind is wrong in lots of ways for no fault of yours: you're still quite young and experiencing life's many woes. Burying your father on a shallow grave brings shame and dishonor to the living. The dead has no shame. I'm sure you never thought of that.

You channel your energy wrongly. You judge your father and I'm sure the whole family do, and he has become incorrigible. We may never know the detail of what transpired in your family , but I can rightfully say building up this much hate on how to bury your father will do you no good.

My advice, ignore him completely and focus on your education. Driving big cars and flaunting big phones shouldn't be of any interest to you. Maybe you want to change your circle of friends if all they do is taunt you with all their ill gotten wealth.
Yahoo is not the way forward, just so you know. If you worth your salt, by now you can do any number of basic service to earn some money:
You can teach, you can tutor in the evening, you could learn any skills off YouTube and start getting paid...
Embrace your reality , your father is what he is. But if he can manage to see you through medical school, then count your blessing.

I'll advice you read the book: "Subtle art of not giving a Bleep" by Mason Mark. And the book, "Think and Grow Rich". If not for anything, you'll see life differently, you'll find energy to push and smile even the cloud of troubles around you.

Hate to break it to our bald friends, this will add not even a strand of hair to your baldness...embrace your baldness, groom your bears and go full skin. You'll hate not doing it sooner.

Secondly, ginger has been proven to be bad for the hair. Anyone interested can easily read up on that.
And deposition of all these mixture on your hair will leave you with more rashes, dandruff and itching.

The legend... My manest man. I love the man die

When a friend of mine met his wife, he was a taxi driver and she works with an insurance company , driving her own car and living quite comfortably.

Since she likes the guy and a being a born again, she gave him an order:
" I don't know how you are going to do it, but you must be the head of the family and that means you have to start making real money "

Well, to cut a long story short, today he is a billionaire with multiple estates in Abuja and doesn't joke with his wife.

It's natural for a woman to want to be looked after. If you reverse the order, in which case she makes the provision and you tell her thank you, over time, your authority in the house is going to wane and hers will increase.

Very commendable directive from inec. Talk to your friends, family, and girl friends...pressure them to go get their PVC.

Voting has consequences and not voting equally has consequences.

cococandy:
Elon musk is not a good person.

Regardless of how you feel about gay/transgender issues, don’t let it be the reason you root for him.
Even if he raised an army of nuns and priests who never go against what’s considered traditionally normal, he will still not be a person to root for.

Just curious , what exactly makes elon not good and the rest of these lunatics good?
Oh, I get it. Who ever calls them on their bullshit is immediately taged and canceled.

Gbest90:


Just pray he doesn't revive his form at Inter.

Cos it will finally make strikers hate Chelsea.

From Falcao to Torres to Morata to Giroud to Higuain and now Lukaku.

What's it with Chelsea and strikers.

Torres had a stellar and very successful career at Chelsea. Won everything Liverpool couldn't give him. So I don't understand your point. And same thing applies to Giroud

I would say it's a value miscommunication. But good thing you have an opportunity to trash the difference before marriage.

Some people would rather have a woman under them, and there is nothing bad with this, they just have to look for women who also like being under men.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Ok.. yeah cos no one respect the govt order everyone is free to do whatever he/she loves..when Deborah was murdered y'all was complaining and saying the law should have handled her..

Well here we are with the hypocrisy..how about I say the Muslims handled her in their religious way since no one respects the law and everyone is thereby free to do whatever he/she wants.. nonsense and primitive nonsense..no wonder the Africa continent might never go beyond it's sorry state of corruption..dirt and backwardness..*spit..**

And what do you think the community head is for? The community head is legally recognized to settle civil issues such as this and this is very commendable.

The western system of letting the court judge over all issues obviously haven't worked out very well for us. Every society is unique and we must establish institutions customized for our unique problems and diversity.

Problem with eating cheap outside is that you'll never find satisfaction. The food hardly taste nice: sometimes, it's edible other times you can't look at it. And by cheap I mean bellow 1k per plate
Then if you must eat in standard restaurant, the cost is steep.

If you care about the quality of food and satisfaction, cooking at home is the only viable choice.

Hype. Nothing in this scewed up report of yours show the accuser (girl friend of the driver) was right and that the woman that drove out was guilty either. And nothing certainly shows the said driver sleeped with over 4 parents. Goes to show the extent people are willing to go to demonize marriage.

What goes around comes around. When men have become lovers ofpornography and devoid of love and affection for their partners, these things will ricochet.

Not holding brief for women, but just pointing out the flaw in your argument: these men complain when they take a woman out and she says no to sex on the first date, and even when she says I am keeping it until we get married, they flare up and trash talk her.

The sexually ravished lady you have exposed to all manner of porn and styles and clubs and even drugs, you think marriage will suddenly change her?

We get the kind of people we deserve. And no man who cheats on his wife has a right to complain when he inevitably destroys his own home...

cl0r0x:
Pls eat leaf and spare these poor animals, they want to be alive too.

Why leaf?
I'd think even leaves want to be alive

amazing. way to go. ive also thought about yhis and wondered why he hasnt done this long time. the market is large and customer return rate is about 2 years.
If the quality is high, he can give this Indians a run

patoski39:
pochettino reached the ucl final with average Tottenham,,, so talk another thing

Di mateo even lifted the UCL , where is he today?
Don't think ten hag has proven himself yet. It's one thing to manage a small team with young player, but managing egotistical and over fed lazy ass manu players won't be easy.

While I agree with your noble submission, we must also understand that Islam condones these killings and it was the honourable thing to do giving the circumstance.
But then again, people are quick to point to the Yourabs and other non Hausa Muslims and how peaceful they are.
The truth is these other tribes hold their native culture superior to Islam. The Hausa man has substituted his culture with Islam and practices to its fullness.

These killings will not stop because every core northern Muslim regardless of his education tacitly or openly supports this. The brag about it.It's not a Nigerian thing,
Saudi, Pakistan, Indonesia, Nigeria, ... This practice is norm.
The baton goes to the so-called liberal individual that thinks Islam is peaceful

The sad and disturbing thing is every Hausa /Fulani person I know supports the action of these killers and I know a lot of civilized and educated hausas

Absolute crap. Our grandparents didn't know jack about their women bodies yet they enjoyed successful and satisfied life.

Why on earth should these be a priority for a man? Are you her doctor?

Do you think what keeps dangotes, tinubu, elon and bezos awake all night is to figure when the woman mensurates or how to give her orgasm?

Let the women worry about their body. People have better things to occupy their head with

Wow...magnificent... And the western media want you to believe Russia is the poverty headquarters of the world and its people are dying of hunger...yet the cities are finer, cleaner and more modern than anything you can find in the west.
Fear western propaganda.

Mavrick2012:
Sir, league is 38 matches not 48.

I never said it takes luck to win league, i said it take luck to win ucl.

Oga, please where is Mourinho today?

Long time consistency is what stands pep high above all of them, even your Mourinho aka conference league lol.

Stop comparing a common conference league manager and pep

It doesn't take luck to win two UCL from two different clubs. Never. Even to win one can never be luck.
You'll have to play tough home and away matches for 90 minutes. Luck can never win you UCL.

Mavrick2012:
Yes, he won ucl at Porto by pure luck.

He should go back and win it again.

That ur Mourinho(aka conference league) has been decoded, am telling you,he can no longer win any of the major leagues again, except Chinese, Nigerian or Congolese league.lol

Mou' did it with Porto. Came to England and fought the establishment, winning the EPL back to back and would have done it thrice, went to Italy won the treble including UCL. Went to laliga won the league...
And you think those are luck?
At his time he was brilliant. Don't also forget he came back to Chelsea and won the EPL

Do you think you win a league of 48 matches by luck?
Maybe you hate him for whatever reason but that's up to you. For us, he is the special one, the happy one and the only one

Usually men like that just want to watch porn in peace. He Has got to that point where his physical other half cant tame his virtual unreal craving for big nyash, big breast, and novelty.

The poor woman is measured against all the professional porn stars and she obviously failed all tests miserably in his mind...hence the need for space.

Porn na your mate

It's easy to fix erectyle dysfunction if you are not interested in quick fix.

Quite porn and habitual masturbatiion, it will ruin your sex life, if not now certainly in the future.

Build your body... The penis is not that isolated from your body. A good leg and complete body workout will hit penile muscles, help your heart beat, and also help vessels dilate which is very important to keep erection.

Finally eat food rich in nitrous oxide... Usually fruits and vegetables. Just make this a habit and your body will fix itself...but of course, I don't see you quiting porn any time soon

Like tinubu, like Buhari they both wanted power at all cost. The goal is to get power. They have never sat to think of viable means of turning the country around. You cannot give what you don't have:
For 18 years tinubu controlled and dictated what happens in southwest, what real inclusive economic institutions have tinubu put in place all these years? He has the power to galvanize the southwest and put them on a progressive path, but he didn't do that and he will never do that because that will mean to give up his sources of bullion vans.

Most times we make the mistake of assuming because tinubu picked such people as fashola, and ambode and seeing how well they did in Lagos that he must be very good with making credible leaders. But nothing could be further from the truth. Lagos is so rich any idiot would make a mark as a governor , and Fashola's abysmal performance on federal stage highlights this.

Pray4meJC:
For privacy reasons, I'm an old nairaland member.

About 22 / 23 years ago, a classmate in secondary school lured us into the act of masturbation. Few days later, I started practicing the act and eventually ejaculated after tough stimulation lasting almost two hours. It got to a point I was almost getting addicted doing the unclean act.

Thereafter I graduated to pornography when internet was just starting in Nigeria.
I went further to committing adultery and fornication in the heart rather than with the body by peeping on girls and women having their bathe all to fulfill my lustful eyes. I even watched couple have sex by peeping.

Even though I have stopped and repented from these like 12 years back, I still find myself struggling with other bigger problems called wet dreams, unusual erections and wormlike vibrations in my body and sometimes body freezing at night for 30 seconds to 1 minute.

These wet dreams occurred 2 - 3 times in a week and repeat same in like manner every week compulsorily throughout the year and go on and on the following year. I have gone for several dry fasting and prayer deliverance to no avail.

I don't see myself having sex in the dream when these wet dreams occurred. Sometimes, when the wet dream is about happening I'm conscious and try screaming the name or blood of Jesus but it seems am just very powerless and before I know it, semen has spilled out and I will remain like that. Sleep is distorted and all efforts to sleep is impossible.

Sometimes, when I go to bed early by 8PM and I get caught up by wet dreams by 9:30PM, it means sleep for that night is gone completely. I sleep maximum 2 hours daily because this stuff has messed my mind and life up.

Whenever I lie down to sleep, different uninvited thoughts start forcing themselves on my brain both those that happened today and the ones of years ago. I always try deflecting them by replacing them with bible quote or singing praise to God in my head.

I woke up since 2:30 am today with a wet burser soaked in semen and started typing this because I couldn't no longer sleep. Afternoon sleep is very impossible for me as it has never worked for even 1 minute

I'm greatly troubled and worried because I read my bible and pray before going to bed. I dream about my former schools etc.

As I speak, this stuff has rendered me financially devastated with millions in debt. Could not obtain university admission 19 years ago, brain can't simulate, not married, no kids. Very recently this year my health (details withheld due to family members who might find this posts) is suffering as I can't do anything to earn a living as I easily sored tired in the heart.

PS: At night, every day for all these years, uncontrollable strong erections will suddenly start building up whether I put up underwear or not and I think this is more than the 'morning erections ' science talks about. This is pure spiritual manipulation for me. Same thing happens when I get close to some females whether matured or underage, stupid uncontrollable strong erections suddenly pop up without any sexual thoughts whatsoever to these innocent females. Unfortunately, these arousal is also a problem because it inhibits low self esteem, shame and quick withdrawal from whatever discuss I'm having to avoid the bulge being noticed.

Lastly, a year before I got myself ensnared in all these evil activities, I was already developing memory loss and a single headache that almost took my life prior to all these. The headache can be best described as "sawchain and hammer " tearing the skull to pieces and lasted for hours and resistance to drugs. That was the first and last time I experienced such and any other for that matter.

Where do I go from here? Depression is real when solutions are being defiled.

I bring you hope. Here is something that's guaranteed to work: your brain need detox. You need to reset your brain to the way it was before you encountered porn, and luckily there's one thing guaranteed to work.

I'll leave you a link to a book that's guaranteed to work. This will reset your brain and you'll heal. This is the only thing that works. It's a small book, you have nothing to lose, but your freedom, healing and happiness to gain.

I must also advise you change your lifestyle:
Start eating properly, sign up to a gym and push your body. Disabuse your mind from the thinking this is spiritual, it's not as you'll soon find out. And if you keep with that spiritual notion and consequential powerlessness, you'll never heal.
Here is to your healing. Just read the book and give your testimony.


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Usually even little girls quickly learn of the power they posses to blackmail...
This usually come from their parents repeatedly reminding them to report any uncle that touches them in certain areas...

People just have to be careful. Playing with children has become risk all thanks to the sick pedophiles littered around the society.

BloomingDale:
For your second enslavement. Equiano is the name of a famous slave boy that was captured and sold to Europeans during the first Trans Atlantic slave trade. Lolz

actually this captures a bigger truth than most are capable of seeing. treat every googles gift with a pinch of salt an extreme

BloomingDale:
For your second enslavement. Equiano is the name of a famous slave boy that was captured and sold to Europeans during the first Trans Atlantic slave trade. Lolz

actually this captures a bigger truth than most are capable of seeing. treat every googles FREE gift with a pinch of salt an extreme caution.

Fairmedia:
Hoodlums invite their kins from all over, so they can make a place lawless if given the chance, this is what is gradually happening in the East, soon it will be too late.

I'm from the southeast, but just like the North looked the other way in the early days of bokoharam, because the majority of them thought the ideology synced with theirs, sadly we are also doing the exact same thing: looking the other way because in the mind of the people, ipob is fighting for them. But nothing can be further from the truth.

God forbid these criminals get their way, the southeast would be done for. We want change, but it matters who brings that change. The Ayatollah did it in Iran, the Kim family did it in North Korea, and host of others, these countries got worse.

MadamVanessa:




Uselesss idiotic propaganda . They wish that IPOB are terrorist just as their northern bandits, Iswap and Bokoharam. But no, IPOB is not Islamic terrorist Organization that unleashes mayhem on people, steals people's properties ask idiotic FG for a huge ransom which the idiotic uselesssss FG pay with alacrity, rape people's daughters and wives all around the country, chase afonjas out of their ancestral land to the point the seek succour in a poor and low country like Benin republic.

IPOB agitates and seek for equity and fairness. No matter how idiotic useless propagandist try to paint IPOB as terrorist Organization, we know the truth about this group, we're not subscribing to any foolish talk.


Mr propaganda wont you get tired?

Don't support these guys pls. I wonder what kind of people support the operation of these guys that go about causing havoc and sowing fear into the heart of hapeless residents.

Just like bokoharam, if the political power in the south east don't band up to forcefullydecimate these criminals, we will wake up one day and the south east will be inhabitable.
Just imagine the audacity at which that idiot threatens Soludo and some of you still thinks these is not a problem?

This is not time for being emotional or looking good in the face of others, we need to curb this menace now before it is too late

Commenthin:
Who is confuse or more confused?

The West and Europeans granting male and females to change sexual identity or the trans-genders themselves?

If you allowed them change their identity and even have more human and professional rights than Blacks, Christians, Muslims, etc.

Why are you still identifying them as male or female and wouldn't allow them play in female sports? If you have granted and accepted them their change rights, they should fully be allow to participate.

World leaders are more confused and hippocrates than they want citizens to perceive them. #KnockJobs

Exactly this. If society now agrees that gender is social construct and fluid, then this would be violating the Rights of the trans people.