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"I recently snooped in my wife’s phone and discovered dozens of texts to her co-workers and some of our mutual friends — all saying awful things about me and airing petty grievances from our personal life. Among the topics of the texts was my unemployment. I recently gave up my nearly 10-year successful career in real estate to move to a new city and state so our daughter can go to a better school. I haven’t figured out my next move yet, but I’ve been actively applying and interviewing for jobs. I’ve received multiple offers, but none have been the right fit. My wife’s texts portray me as a deadbeat loser, and she questions why she’s stayed with me, lamenting what a burden it has been for her. I’ll note that our mortgage and our mutual bills have been paid for the last six months from the proceeds of selling our house when we moved, so my unemployment has caused her zero financial burden. I can’t get past the things she said and the betrayal I feel, and I am considering asking for a separation. But I am scared to bring it up because of the invasion of her privacy that led to me discovering the text messages. What is the ethical path forward?"

Cooolme:
Lol do you stay in Nigeria?


Why are some of you attacking me?
Let me give you a breakdown...
I eat #1500/meal 3 times a day
Gen fueling #1500 everyday
Data subscription
To mention few...
Y'all calling me 'liar' seems it's everyone that is poor in Nigeria.
I'm not even rich yet, just little expenditures everyone is shouting

You don't know how much you spend

It was a deliberate act. They tried it on Buhari's waec.

Don't be surprised Yakubu asked him to do so

God's above

God help us

“I was the youngest child in a family of three and the only son; my two sisters were one year apart but a decade older than me. When they were young, my father punished them by taking a belt to them. By the time I came around, he had changed his ways. I was almost always treated with kid gloves; he would go out of his way to ensure that he and I never had the permanent falling out that he had with his own father. I also had more opportunities than my sisters, as my parents became more financially stable, and my sisters moved away from home. “My eldest sister was always envious, and as the years went by, she sabotaged me by saying things about me that weren’t true. My parents were too conscientious, or passive, to take sides and wanted me to make amends with her, even though I was the one being gaslit. After my mother died, I saw in her journal an entry in which she expressed puzzlement over why my sister treated me so badly (something she never admitted to me while she was alive). “The final act came to my attention several years ago. There was some expense related to my father that my sister didn’t want to pay and wanted him to pay. I happened to be at his house when the item arrived, and I signed for it. Shortly afterward, my sister emailed me to ask if I had the bill of lading. I dutifully scanned it and sent it back to her without any text in the body of the email. A few days later, he died. In those final days, he seemed distant, as if he were nursing a hurt. “After his death, I went through his email to cancel subscriptions and services in his name and came across an email that my sister sent to him and my other sister but not to me. It was a forged version of the email that I sent to her with the bill of lading, in which she wrote, pretending to be me, ‘Can you get Dad to pay this?’ She replied, as if she were the hero, ‘I already paid it.’ “This was like a knife through my heart. I would never have quibbled over a bill nor have written about him in that manner. In my mind, he died thinking that I had, in this small way, turned my back on him. I also was appalled to think that my sister so treacherously connived to put a final wedge between us. “I’ve thought about this nearly every day for years, but I have never confronted my sister about it — have never even let on that I found the forged email. After it happened, I told my other sister what happened and how much it hurt me. Her reply was: ‘So what? You’re still going to get your share of the inheritance.’ Which wasn’t my point at all. “I’ve vacillated between keeping this to myself in order to reveal what I know at some opportune moment or letting her off the hook altogether and continuing to carry this burden. (I should mention that we live far apart and speak once a year, if that.) Is it better to tell her that I know what she did or to take this to my grave?”

[quote author=Olabrown241 post=119465369]I want to get a Belgium used or American used car, because I’m scared of Nigerian used but my budget is 1.8mil, what car can I buy? Need y’all advice Biko

Unless you want to be friend with a mechanic

They never see it coming

While Nigeria is everywhere.

Best of luck boy!

You are teaching her the cost of a real adventure that she will encounter after you.

Marriage is a luck but staying in marriage is a character

Craziness has become the order of the day

Dr Joseph Ladapo Wikipedia: Everything To Know About The Florida Surgeon General


Dr. Joseph Ladapo is yet to be featured on Wikipedia. Here are all the interesting deets about the Surgeon general.

Dr. Joseph Ladapo is Florida’s new Surgeon General and is well-known on social media and through his blog.

Ladapo is an American physician and health policy researcher.

He will be the state’s leading public health official and will currently oversee the medical field.



In order to battle the COVID 19 epidemic in Florida, he has to create a timetable. In the epidemic, he has established some new rules.

Dr. Joseph Ladapo Wikipedia
Dr.Joseph has a remarkable educational and service experience in medicine, prompting the state of Florida to recognize his abilities.

Ladapo received his Master’s Degree in Medicine from the world-renowned Harvard Medical School in 2008.

In 2011, he received his Internal Medicine licensure from the American Board of Internal Medicine.

Joseph is a physician and health policy researcher, to be exact.

According to UCLA, his main scientific interests include the cost-effectiveness of diagnostic and treatment technologies, as well as lowering the public burden of cardiovascular illnesses.

Dr. Scott Rivkees has been replaced as the state’s top doctor by Ladapo.

Dr. Joseph Ladapo Biography
Dr.Joseph Ladapo was born in Nigeria.

He is a physician and health policy researcher by training, with a focus on determining the cost-effectiveness of diagnostic tests.

Ladapo got his MD from Harvard Medical School and his Ph.D. in Health Policy from Harvard Graduate School of Arts and Sciences after finishing his studies at Wake Forest University.

At the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, he finished his internal medicine residency.

Dr. Joseph Ladapo Wife And Age
Dr.Joseph Ladapo’s wife is yet to be revealed.

Maybe he wants to keep his wife out of social media platforms.

He seems to be a private person who does not like to share his personal information on social media platforms.

Joseph’s age is estimated to be between 40-45 years old.

Ladapo was born in Nigeria.

Joseph immigrated to the United States when he was five years old.

Dr. Joseph Ladapo Net Worth
Dr.Joseph Ladapo’s net worth is estimated to be between 1 million dollars to 5 million dollars.

However, his exact net worth is yet to be revealed.

The salary of a surgeon was $239,000 a year as of the year 2019.

The salary included $140,000 a year paid by the state for his role as surgeon general.

He earns a nice amount of money and is living a luxurious life.

Mewhizzp:
Eyyah.
.
You'll not Die in Jesus name.

Why you dey talk of die? By the way who no go die?

I know Bauchi must be among.....

Clap for yourself for this great achievement

OP from all indication you are the bad guy here, God saved this poor little filthy rat from your hand. He just beat you in your own game

I don't believe marrying more than one wife will land you in hell after this life

Olayetan:
Yinmu

The problem isn't the employer, the problem is with the employees, why work for a low pay from an emplyer when you can quit and find a better offer n leave the emplyer to look for who will take that peanut as salary.


Some will say half bread is better than none, but in this case, that none is better than half bread o

Tell me where to find the better offer?

Send 500credit card to 0813008893 and I will give you Lai Muhammad personal phone number

What is the difference between restricted account and blocked account?

hisexcellency34:
Why are they all denying?

they arrested the wrong suspects just shield malami but the real culprits are their in malami office taking coffee

Fear the northerners

Thank God, now she's not the guilty partner.
Time will heal the both of you. Wish you best of luck.


But I love that girl she's wife material

PoliticallyLeft:
Irresponsible parents

She will most likely deliver in the United States. Juju no dey cause maternal mortality for abroad.

If you no get money to deliver for America no follow snap pregnancy picture before village people dash you miscarriage .

I wish her safe delivery.

The way you dey take follow this "village people" make you no com jam am ooo

Check out your neighbourhood there is a girl there that doesn't need too much money from you.

Not good insinuation!!!

What was he thinking before

EnemyofGod22:
God and satan doesn't exist

Why are you selling/ forcing this idea on others? Why stick that to yourself, cause atheists don't missionaries.








Know this and have peace of mind

Why are you selling/forcing this idea on others? Why not stick that to yourself. Do you know why? Cause atheists don't have missionaries.

Nigerialabalaba:
Terrorist alert. We no go forget how you burn down Lagos o.

This na the AUTHENTIC audio below are nnamdi kanu's orders to ipob on live Radio during endsars Protests

1hr 35Mins
Destroy every bridge and kill all Police

1hr 46 mins
burn down tinubu’s hotel

1 hr 42 min
Burn down Nitel building and all Govt buildings in lagos, burn down Muritala Mohammed Airport

1hr 39 min kanu orders IPOB to Kill Army Officers and manufacture Weapons

1hr 47 min tinubu must go down

1hr 52 min
kanu Confirmed information that Cele and Orile police Stations In lagos are on fire and Is delighted

Orders ipob to use green white green and blood as the Nigerian flag.

Tells ipob to target tinubu and Sanwo Olu and their Children

1 hr 56 min
block every road kill Sabotuers

2hr.00 min
Destroy everything holding the Economy of Nigeria. Burn all pipelines

2.hr09 min
Kill the Army in Lekki [/b]Claims 15 people were killed in Lekki.,Set Dangote Trucks on Fire.

2.hr 15 min
[b] Burn down Every Federal Govt Building attack Police.

2hr 18 mins
Describes again how to make Molotov Cocktail bombs

2hr20min kanu asks where are the ipob People with Double barrel guns in Abuja?

2 hr 22 min
ipob will make an example of Ikpeazu and Sanwo Olu all tinubu’s nvestments should be destroyed

2hr 24min build bombs and lay them by the roadside

2 hr 32 min kill any Governor that declares Curfew

2hr 56min
kanu says tinubu’s hotel is on fire on his orders

3 hr 09 mins

burn everything tinubu owns and Dangote Trucks the war has started

Every Police Station must go down
destroy all Federal Government Property burn down Lekki Toll Gate destroy Dangote refinery burn every Pastors Church that supports one Nigeria



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ktk4uXmlOLs

So now tinubu is lagos in your mind?