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Slynation:
on a more serious note, it depends on how you approached her or where you met her, maybe you gave her hint that suggested you have made it in life, reasons for the billing... simply tell her to look elsewhere, na ATM they wan open ontop your head...!!

Bros, forget. Some girls no get shame.

Even if una meet for white house, girl wey go Bill you go Bill you.

To some of them, the thing na like sickness wey no get cure.

E get one girl like that wey follow me try this thing. She say make I help her add money make she take buy phone. She say make I give her not borrow her. You wetin I do?

I come compose sweet message, come tell her say I no get for the end.

Just because I like you and you like me too no mean say make you come become liability for my neck.

Bro, you self bill her. Tell her say your rent don expire make she borrow you money.

Your new wife obviously isn't ready to be a wife.

helovesnyash:
And your then cute light skinned kids move to a different country where they are automatically seen as ugly by their classmates because they have that prototypical "mr fat nose African look" no amount of physical conditioning can remove. Micheal Jackson with all his millions couldn't. By all means do aspire to marry up. It's not even something you're doing at a conscious level. Just remember this thing is entirely random. You might have only one "very good looking" child out of three even with the best of circumstances within your control. Personally my favorite heritable traits are good health, longevity genes, & the capacity for hardwork. And since I know I can't control absolutely how these traits are passed on to my offspring, I've opted out of the entire enterprise and decided to just go this life alone.

Maybe you think I'm a miserable ugly person. I'm not. Not to brag, people who know me personally know my look and ugly can never be in a statement. The only person to call me ugly is my baby sister and she does out of jealousy.

I'm also fair in complexion. So by marrying a beautiful, light skinned woman, I'm not marrying up. Shey you get?

If I marry the woman I have in mind, how would any of my children not be good looking? By the standards of good look, my parents are both above average. Unless in the case of a bastard, non of my children can below average and that's the goal.

Trust me, a good looking person is a good looking person anywhere in the world. Take it or leave it.

Goodlook is the most important for me, followed by health and others.

You can't control absolutely truly but you can control to a larger extent the kind of genes you pass to your offspring.

Himtulie247:
we

I dey tell you. Even though I don vow say I no go watch Utd EPL games anymore but I will watch this one.

Manchester United na addiction.

The only thing that can make me leave Lagos is to leave this country.

FirmTR:
At that age, the child should be responsible for what ever the outcome may be.

Even at tender age, some mothers still apply lightning cream on their children.

I know of a woman who did that to his kid. The cream the baby uses is bleaching cream. A baby for that matter.

That's why I want a light skin wife. For someone that rubs Cacatin, I'm fair. Marrying an original light skin lady would eliminate the menace of bleaching from my immediate children and that's my goal.

Uniquisite:
Bros, if you dey look for light skinned and intelligent lady,,, you go waka gan ooo

Forget that thing.

Light skin and intelligent dey everywhere.

If I wan marry one tomorrow, I know how to go about it.

FirmTR:
If your children ever find reason to bleach their dark skin, then you've failed in bringing them up well.

You can say that.

But people who bleach have their reasons, whether genuine or not.

Some people started bleaching at age 25, what can a parent do at that age.

Shey you will come and marry me?

Brian47:
I stopped reading when you said you had a crush on Steven Hawkins
Heh?

She probably said that to sound intelligent.

If Steven Hawkins was a woman, he wouldn't crush on Steven Hawkins.

No disrespect to the late scientist.

Datboredberri:
You dont get my point:

Of the two, intelligence is better...

Beauty is a plus...

I'm trying to pass a message that if you're beautiful, there's more to you that makes you more than beautiful...

You mustn't give up on love cause of ever-changing beauty standards...

Get it?

Try to be more articulate.

The question now is, why would you start an intelligence vs beauty comparison when:

1. Ugly people can be unintelligent.
2. Good looking people can be intelligent.

If you are not bias, the comparison should be between intelligence vs unintelligence or beauty vs ugly.

Now that's how to argue.

tensazangetsu20:
Imagine giving birth to a son like portable. I don't know why a lot of women believe guys look don't matter

Bro, for me o. By the time I would get married, my wife must be beautiful and light skinned. Original light skin o.

I don't hate black skinned ladies but I don't want to give my child(ren) any reason to bleach.

My goal is to make sure my kid(s) can say confidently "at least, I'm not ugly".

I don’t want them to console themselves with intelligence that almost everyone has.

Datboredberri:
Why should good looks matter to an unborn child?

That's my point!

Except for the entertainment industry (which even requires talent) beauty is of no benefit to the society...

Yes, one can be beauty and smart... But if you're not attractive (by societal standards) there's no great loss

No one breeds to have more intelligent children... Why?

Beauty is of no benefit to which society?

I'm not calling you ugly but only an ugly person would say that.

Beauty is of utmost importance, even to animals.

Again, not to attack you but only an ugly person think beauty and intelligence are mutually exclusive. In fact, in my time on this planet, only ugly people downgrade the importance of good look but when they go to the market, they break their banks to buy the most beautiful items.

One can be ugly and be a dullard just so you know.

Anto2001:
Tanks. Who fine face epp? As for me I like smart and RICH guys.

It's people like you that keeps breeding ugly people because of which stupid reason.

Do you know an innocent unborn kid's life depends on this statement?

Later on, you would give birth to an ugly child that would have to depend on beauty product for the rest of their lives.

Let's stop this rubbish.

Goodlook isn't synonymous to airheadedness.

Ugly look isn't synonymous to ingenuity.

I dey vex!

According to genealogy, the adopted son.

If you never had your biological son, the adopted son will be your first and only son. Shey you get?

MJBOLT:

Tinder Swindler
Scammers will either cash in on your ignorance or greed

Or trust.

Bros, you self you stingy small.

Leave that N3500. But no give any money.

Why she dey even bill you again?

tensazangetsu20:
Honestly looks can't be improved on. If you are ugly you are ugly. See Adams oshiomole with all his money. Like 60 percent of Nigerian guys have that look.

I don't know why people wanna date or get married even Jesus didn't get married or have a relationship when he was on earth. Like I said it's destiny. Not everyone will be married but people fight destiny. No matter how you fight destiny it can never be changed.

Facial surgery to the rescue.

Speaking of true desires, while some men put their girlfriends on monthly salary, this guy is reaping where he did not sow.

https://www.nairaland.com/6992103/girlfriend-did-it-again-why

plat0:
problem no dey finish.

But honestly bro in Nigeria, getting a lady to be interested in you without some form of financial commitment (or a semblance of financial buoyancy) is rocket science. Relationships are driven by money here, even friendships amongst the same sex, nobody wants to be friends with a broke guy or girl, it's so sad here.

That's why people do unimaginable things for money, you wouldn't blame those guys for thinking like that

That's what the OP is talking about.

I hate talking about relationships because it can be really complex.

Money can't buy true desire. It is very possible to get a lady without money, even without streess in this Nigeria.

But you must have what women want.

If you don't, you'll most likely settle for the ugly ones or keep buying love or she leaves you when sees someone that can offer what she wants. That's the reality, for women also.

Have you ever seen a woman randomly call a guy her husband or boyfriend, even without them dating. Or a woman expressing her undying love for a guy, or buying him things randomly? That's true desire, some men pay for that, might not be money tho.


The thread should be a wake up call for both men and women sha, you shouldn't leave the opposite sex until you have arrived in life because, it might be too late by then sha.

That's why I hate it when girls say they don't date fine boys, these people are the ones breeding non good looking folks.

But everything can be improved on;

Looks. Popularity. Money. Confidence. Muscles, so nothing is really set at stones except maybe the height.

Simran94:
Seen it already and it was great. You should watch The Curse of La Llorona first

To me it was horrible.

Simran94:
Must watch

355 (2022)
Fear Street 1-3
Candyman (2021)
Black Widow (2021)
Red Notice(2021)
Body Cam
The Legend of La Llorona(2021)
Till Death(2021)
The Marksman (2021)

Please don't watch legend of la llorona.

It's better you watch Koto Aye, Sunday Dagboru or Saamu Alajo.

This fucker should just shut up.

jonandez:
Was that a question or an answer

A statement, since there is no question mark.

Ronaldo is a team player.

Ronaldo na team player.

mhiztaNexy:
If you had the money and opportunity to changes this, what will you do?

C'mon kids, REST!.

Don't mind them.

Michael bleached because of vitiligo.
He broke his nose and fixed another.

Maxwell775:
As in.. Before she started living with me, I use to wear boxers when I'm home alone But now I dare not expect I wanna disgrace myself.

My erection fit tear my boxers. So I do put on jeans or joggers when I'm home with her.

Tell her this.

You stopped wearing boxers when she arrived.
She should stop wearing tight dresses as a sign of respect. Baba, forget her age, scold that girl.

She'll even respect you more.

meobizy:
Go and sleep, Nairalander. What do you know? Stay broke.

Ok.

Tinder Swindler.

iamL:
Black diamond: Legendary rewatch.

OG!

infogenius:
Well I feel that the man should expect that kind of reaction which was seen through her question because he came home late and that normally requires an explanation
I feel the man should have improved the atmosphere by simply telling her he's coming from work and he had a very stressful day. Instead of the response he gave.

Stop the blame game.

They are both guilty.