Oddfinder: Common shut up The lady was the one that took advantage of the man..i mean she was practically throwing herself at the man even though the man was reluctant..
I weep for your type of sociopath. So he is 28 and she is 21 but he never had the decency to guide the girl away from the pressure burden her work placed on her. He confessed himself that the girl was a virgin. You are more than dumb
onyi25: Big Brother Naija shine ya eye housemate and controversial lover boy, Saga, has finally reunited with his love interest, Nini.
Recall Saga didn't take the disappearance of Nini so well as he was spotted almost all through Wednesday morning shedding uncontrollable tears.
He continued banging on Biggie's door asking for her whereabout.
At some point he was almost ready to give up the game as he didn't care if his microphone was on him or not, he revealed that he didn't know what to do with his life in the house anymore.
Well, one can imagine the joy he feels now, having to finally reunite with Nini after 24 hours of torture.
While he was laying on the floor of the living room, Pere who heard Nini tiptoe back into the room quickly alerted Saga.
Saga rushing into the room found a sleepy Nini on the bed he shares with her.
He eventually joined her on the bed and his joy knew no bounds...
Iamagoodgirll: So I came across this post in a group
NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.
I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:
And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA. As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.
During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.
Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did. Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks. I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.
When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.
To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”
She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”
Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.
Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.
Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.
The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.
Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.
I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?
You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a man of dignity. But no you choose to take advantage of the girl.
Aketi don't mind the fool. They can implement hisbah and sharia effectively in the north yet want to scuttle anti open grazing law. Unfortunate people.
Early last year, my friend informed me that he just received his salary and few minutes later he got a debit alert of that exert amount. Then he asked for my opinion on what I think he should do.
From the alert, it neither a POS withdrawal nor an ATM transaction. It reflected like an over the counter transaction. Bit then I still asked him few questions
1. Did you give your card to anyone to make withdrawal and he answered in the negative
2. Did you carryout any online transaction and he answered in the negative.
3. Did your phone or some linked to the account get stolen and he also answered in the negative.
4. Did you issue bank check any one and he answered in the negative as well.
5. So what happened? At this point he narrated how someone called him two days to the day he was debited pretending to be some person from his bank. He said the person requested for his date of birth which he didn't provide, he did was basically rude to the person before the said person ended the call.
So I being IT savvy suspected an inside job. I told him the act must've be carried out by someone in the bank, a staff perhaps. I asked him to go to the bank the follow day to make problem and he did. He went to the bank shouting at everyone. He requested for his account statement, requested for information on who authorized the transfer, the channel the debit was carried out, threatened to sue the bank branch, branch manager, account officer, basically every person in the bank. He threatened that he was going to EFCC, he called his kid brother who is a lawyer.
The bank manager pleaded with him to calm down and come back the next day, that the matter was going to be investigated internally.
On his way home my people, he got a credit alert of the exact sum that was debited from his account. I asked him to continue with the case to prevent others from experiencing same but he refused and dropped the case. I was super disappointed though but that day my eyes were opened, I concluded that we have criminals in our banks.
Thieves full banks these days. Most of the fraudulent acts in our banks are carried out by bank officials. Everybody open your eyes. I'm no fraudster nor banker and I don't know how their system work but money doesn't just vanish from people's account like that without trace.
ebukajay184: Successful Nigerian blogger, Linda Ikeji took to her Instagram handle to share new photos of herself and her son, Jayce as they were dressed in matching outfits, IgbereTV reports.
She gushed over her son as she shared the photos with the caption;
adenigga: • Says populist anti-grazing laws by Southern govs not implementable
• Southern presidency can rebuild the North, Ohanaeze replies NEF
• NEF’s position capable of setting Nigeria on fire, Gani Adams, Yoruba groups say
Governor of Kaduna State, Malam Nasir el-Rufai, yesterday, declared that only a huge investment in the country’s education sector by the nation’s political leadership will avert the scenario in Afghanistan and stave off the deteriorating security besetting the nation, especially the northwest region. He spoke yesterday at a forum tagged, ‘Human Capital Development Communications Strategy Validation Meeting’ organised by the Vice President Yemi Osinbajo-led National Economic Council (NEC) in Abuja. Prof. Osinbajo was represented at the event by his Chief of Staff, Dr Ade Ipaye. Making his submission, the Kaduna State governor warned that if education was not put on the front burner by the political leaders, the scenario will not augur well in the region and will eventually become worse than the development in Afghanistan. “I represent the Northwest zone in Human Capital Development Council and as you know our part of the country is afflicted with the highest number of out-of-school children. Some of the highest poverty rates and some of the highest dropout rates are in our schools. “As if that is not enough, many of our schools are now closed due to the insecurity in our boarding schools, making our educational situation even worse. Our health statistics are not better. Our region is in crisis. “We have the largest population of any geopolitical zone in the country. That is both a blessing and a curse. A blessing if we keep the population healthy, educate the children and give them skills for the future. Because, if they’re not educated and are not healthy, they feel hopeless. This is what we’re seeing with our insecurity. Most of the bandits we arrest have never gone to school. They have no notion of religion, whether Christianity or Islam, and they have no hope.” The Kaduna governor further criticised the approach adopted by his Southern colleagues in handling the open grazing crisis, insisting that the anti-open grazing law being passed by some states is not implementable. Condemning the politicisation of the matter with what he termed ‘enactment of populist legislation by the states’, he advised his Southern counterparts not to dissipate energy on anti-open grazing laws that cannot be implemented, saying ranching and not open grazing is the solution to the ongoing farmer/herder clashes. Speaking with newsmen after a visit to the National Secretariat of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Abuja, he said: “The Northern Governors’ Forum has already taken a position that open grazing is not a sustainable way of livestock production. “And we must move towards ranching, but moving towards ranching cannot be done overnight. We have to plan, we have to have resources and we have to implement it sensibly. It is not a matter of populist legislation or saying tomorrow this or that. It is not a solution. “What is unhelpful is the politicising of the situation with legislation that you know that you cannot implement.” Explaining steps taken by his administration to address the issue, El-Rufai said he has embarked on the construction of a ranch that will take care of over 1,500 Fulani families at the cost of N10 billion, revealing that the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has supported his state with N7.5 billion out of the N10 billion required to build a ranch. “We need billions of Naira. This is just one ranch that is costing us N10 billion. I have 14 grazing reserves in Kaduna State and I will like to convert them into ranching. Do I have 14 times N10 billion naira? I don’t. “If the Federal Government will give me N140 billion, I will convert the other 13 into ranches and make sure that nobody comes out with a cow or sheep in Kaduna State because I will have enough ranches to take care of everybody. That is the solution.” On the controversy surrounding the collection of Value Added Tax (VAT) revenue, he said: “We took a position in the Nigeria Governors’ Forum not to comment on the VAT issue because it is still going through the court process. And until the Supreme Court makes a final pronouncement on the matter, anything that you see today can be changed. “Even the states that have passed legislation, the Supreme Court can override them. So, I am reluctant to comment on it. But people think that VAT is a sales tax. It is not. VAT is a special kind of tax. And there are many ways to look at it and I am sure that at the appropriate time, the NGF will look at it and take a position. But until then I am reluctant to comment on a matter that is still going through the judicial process.” HOWEVER, the Northern Elders Forum (NEF) believes the north is rich and can survive on its resources without the “billions” accruing to Southern states. NEF Director of Publicity and Advocacy, Dr. Hakeem Baba-Ahmed, on Tuesday when he featured on Arise TV’s ‘The Morning Show’ breakfast programme, had said the region could survive without the Southern money. Reacting to the tussle between states and the Federal Government on the collection of VAT, Baba-Ahmed said: “I will advise that we wait to hear what the court says. However, even the fact that it has become an issue suggests that we really do need to address the fundamentals and the manner in which the federation works. “We have always supported restructuring. We have always asked for a major and genuine shift initiative either by groups or the National Assembly so that matters like this be addressed properly. If we don’t do that now, then we should get a leader that would do that in 2023. “The north wants restructuring; the north wants fiscal federalism. We are a rich region and we can live on what we have, even if we don’t have the billions that accrue to others states. Our poverty is not a kind of problem that we would break this country over.” RESPONDING, the Chidi Ibeh-led Ohanaeze Ndigbo, yesterday, cautioned the leadership of NEF to allow the rotational presidency to scale through in 2023 as attempts to thwart it will bring huge catastrophy on Nigerians, that will lead to disintegration of the country. In a statement in Abakaliki, the Secretary General of Ohanaeze Ndigbo, Mazi Okechukwu Isiguzoro, warned NEF to desist from the pursuit of abnormalities capable of sinking the unity of the country on the altar of ethnicity and nepotism but place the survival and restructuring of the country above all other considerations. He maintained that only a Southern presidency from the Igbo bloc will care for the North and redeem her of maladies and poverty ravaging the region. “It is obvious that the North cannot afford to offer remedies and antidotes to the myriad of problems destroying the region, especially, poverty, Boko Haram insurgency, terrorism, and banditry which was the self-made political weapons designed for capturing the 2015 presidency,” the statement noted. ALSO, the coalition of Yoruba self-determination groups, yesterday, chided Baba-Ahmed over his comments on retention of the presidency. In a statement in Ibadan, the Secretary-General of the groups, Dr. Steve Abioye, said: “For as long as the Northern elites continue to see themselves as the sole determinants of the future of this nation, then peace will continue to elude us as this will continue to breed instability and they will continue heating up the political space with their reckless and irresponsible statements. “We are solidly behind our governors who have unequivocally maintained that power must rotate to the South come 2023. No amount of intimidation or threats will deter us from achieving this.” Aare Ona Kakanfo of Yoruba land, Iba Gani Adams, also flayed Baba-Ahmed over his recent comments on 2023, saying the NEF chieftain’s outburst only exposed the domineering agenda of the North, capable of setting the nation on fire. Baba-Ahmed had on a television interview boasted that the North had the votes to retain the presidency and would not play second fiddle to any other part of the country, come 2023. Speaking yesterday in Ibeju, Lagos, during the maiden edition of Egbe Festival, organised by the Olokun Festival Foundation (OFF), Iba Adams also expressed concern over the growing debt profile embarked on by the Federal Government, saying such a huge debts profile is capable of wrecking the country. Source: https://guardian.ng/Northern-region-in-crisis-needs-help-to-avert-Afghanistan-scenario-El-Rufai-pleads
The north Nigeria has always had problem since amalgamation. They lack fundamental tools for civilization, progress and global integration. That's why we have the likes of hell-rufai and co in leadership positions
Iyaebe: The way I like this mike ehn,very faithful man,I have weakness for faithful and very decent men.I'll be everything you want as long as you are truly decent and faithful and rich too.But African men and their randiness have sworn an oath against faithfulness and decency,the ones that are somehow rich see it as a taboo to stay faithful and decent,it's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than to see a rich African man that's faithful and decent.
Career › Re: His Experience With Female Banker(marketer) by Kdon2: 2:02pm On Sep 23, 2021
