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Mobolajizx:
Hello nairalanders,

I need your help and I have to be brief . I created this Monica to hide my identity. I married my wife 3 years ago. Just last year, I noticed my wife now bedwets . I have tried all available options but it keeps getting worse. I love my wife and family and please help me get through this mess. God bless you all.

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Mynd44
Seun

Please you guys should help me.

Oga what options have you tried, how long did u try them for so that we can eliminate that from our suggestions

Love them regardless.....never judge someone just because they sin differently from you

I will love £10000 for Christmas this year, dear Santa

I hope and pray u r safe and that you made it back home wherever you are Blessing oware

My God deliver us from such deadly and foolish advises like the op's
But a man can divorce his wife for
Inability to bare children
Not cooking and cleaning
Not been submissive
Been social and keeping late nights
Not accepting his excesses and his choice of a 2nd or 3rd wife
Talking back at him and/or retaliating when he hits her
Not attending the same church as him
Not agreeing to more children
Not tolerating his bullsht and that of his folks.....

And whilst at it remember murder, theft, bullying, defiling the mareige bed, sleeping with another individual, lusting after another, cheating ur biz partners, boss, bribery etc are all sins.....na the same hell fire una go follow enter

Did he rape someone's child for a curse to be placed on him because an ailment of such on the genitali is quite rare to be caused by poison

I hope when your mum or relative ask for a sleepover with your child you ll maintain the same stance sha...

But he was considered dead by all so what's the issue? No where did it say his wife killed her child. She moved on and Mr i must go to the abroad is throwing a pity party

But shes already separated from the man....shes shouldering the responsibilities of x2 men by herself and you are still criticising her.
Did she spend the brideprice or waa it not ur folks the money was paid to?
Your family should gather the brideprice and refund it to the man if you are that bothered.
Instead of you gossiping about your sister on the net you people should be querying why a full grown man cannot look after himself and one child. Hes not even responsible for his daughter yet you want your sister ro return to him.
By law, they are separated and whatever shes doing isnt cheating....the irresponsible man has money for cigs and drinks but not for books for his only son!!
And there are male species on this thread supporting that behaviour?
If you must seak to ur sis then address that irresponsibility first as thats the cause of the symptoms your sister is displaying today.....otherwise mind your business....

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When shes tired and ready to leave, she ll leave....shes just a lazy lady looking for a man to sponsor her existence....people run from their homes to other places within the same town/city or change to another state. She wants to "run" to the abroad....mtshewww....person wey no even get tp to go see her family?
She never chop brain resetting beating yet.
Even if she leaves, she ll definitely return when he "comes back to his senses" and begs her simply because she is one of those women whom abuse is not considered a deal breaker

His life, his choices.....just advisr ur dad (whenever he brings up the topic) that you wont be responsible for the care/welfare of any young children......men like that often expect older kids to shoulder the financial responsibilities of their reckless ways

Everything is just downtrodden.....everyone looks downcast

Can you pls explain how children will be home tutored via TV ?
If you say via the internet i can understand but via NTA, Channels, zeeworld?? I am not understanding

If they are home because of financial challenges, i hear the govt schools on lagos are free ...why not enrol them so they can benefit from peer learning ad well as enhance their social skills

Learn to mind your biz and accord your mum her respect by not invading her privacy.
Your dad is a disgrace of a man and your mum has feelings which your dad has failed to fulfill both physically and emotionally.
She has found that outside via multiple men and how she satisfies herself shouldn't concern u......i repeat stay away from her phone

Can someone help me with this x2 different dreams please.
1st dream I saw a colleague who died this year and I was so happy to see her, I hugged her and we exchanged pleasantries.....i then walked away whilst she was chatting with other....this dream was early last wk

Today, I dreamt and saw my late sister, she was looking darker in colour but I again was excited to see her however people around me started pointing out other people that had died that they recognised.....we spent a while in their midst (the midst of the dead and living) playing/hanging out and I honestly can't remember the rest of the dream.

Words of a manchild

This is wife number ?? Because he has 4 wives

How can you be having unprotected sekx when you clearly can't look after the one you have?
If you manage to get help here you should be thinking of stocking your home with enough food to last the next few months with a breastfeeding mum and toddler rather than trying to feed people who wouldn't share their pot of soup with you after the naming.......and whilst at it , pls go for family planning

Your arrogance in refusing to publicly apologise to your wife for the years of constant battering is why she insisted on leaving you

No SANE pastor will advise a spouse (male or female) to return to a marriage/environment where their life is at risk

During any divorce, spouses often ask for their share of. Marital assets so she wasn't asking for your will

You cannot force a woman to remain married to you

Your poor reputation and character is the reason nollywood ostracized u

Madam poster but you have been advised enough from your previous post on this matter

Send me an email

Bubu is in his personal house in Surrey...he only comes to Abuja house in London to entertain guests

Pregnancy nose

So gani fawemni/fetus keyamo etc no dey pay?

The money your bf sent to you for abortion that you collected and refused to do, use it for your antenatal

You don't want to live with her yet you don't want her to Leave? You have repeatedly abandoned her physically and financially.
You have repeatedly made plans without her yet you say she is the one that nags and doesn't hear?
As long as your child is under 18yrs, you are REQUIRED by law to provide financially for that child....whether you remain with the mother or not

https://www.nairaland.com/3881070/friend-wants-chase-me-out


Op remember how you were angry with your neighbor who asked you to move out of his house after he accommodated you for months despite your jobless and self entitled state?
Yet you can't house X2 relatives for a month but your neighbor who isn't even remotely related to you fed/housed you for months on end and all you could do was to come online and bash him

Your son might currently be abused hence his knowledge and questions.
I suggest you ask him questions along those lines, is there someone who asks him to pull his pants? Is there a female who pulls her pants and asks he fingers/sucks her?
Child abuse is real and is currently rampant so don't rule out the fact your 4yr old could be a victim

Remember the Pastor isn't going 2 live with the person ooh....

He's a mad man....u give her belle yet you no pay bride price...she born reach three yet you still no pay
You con join beating on top person daughter?
He's only begging because he has realised that some e actually values her.....he clearly thought no man will value or love her after x3 kids....shame on that man...tomorrow if she dies in his house and the family says come and marry the dead before you can bury her he will start claiming tradition abuse......yet he can cling on the part of tradition that says the man is the head of the home....mmtsheeeeewwww

Dude had meningitis and the hospital couldn't figure it out