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 Family › Re: My Maid by keepingmum: 7:47pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Most LGA'S in plateau state are towns (mini cities).....so don't expect your typical timid unexposed teenager....yes she may live in and school in the village but jossites are not villagers in that sense....they are quite exposed because music is a common denominator/way of life in Plateau state |
| Family › Re: My Wife Destroys My Properties Whenever She Is Angry, Man Tells Court by keepingmum: 7:31pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
But he didn't pay her bride price naa? How can he file for a divorce? This court has no jurisdiction over their matter 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Father In-law Kidnaps And Abducts Grandson For Ritual And Black Mails Son In-law by keepingmum: 10:20pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Those pics look like introduction pics rather than traditional......anyhoo, it's just a sad case all around for everyone involved. But you need to answer oohhh Did you maltreat or beat your wife at anytime during courtship or marriage? Did you look after her needs without her relying on her family? How do you intend to care for a toddler whilst working? Abi you ll send the boy to live with a relative? |
| Family › Re: My Friend Is Sneaking Out Of Her Matrimonial Home. by keepingmum: 2:39pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Obviously the husband has fertility issues and isn't prepared to seek treatment or her in laws r giving her a tough time. You don't know her struggle ....you don't know what goes on behind those walls... If she walks away from the marriage support her as a friend and not judge her.....instead you are spreading her personal biz on social media. You should be ashamed of yourself.....may God deliver us from friends like you. |
| Family › Re: My Friend Is Sneaking Out Of Her Matrimonial Home. by keepingmum: 4:56am On Jul 01, 2017 |
A happy wife will not leave her husband. When a woman leaves , it's often because her husband has continuously made her unhappy. Don't judge a marriage because you ll never truly know what goes on behind closed doors. 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Beat My Mum (Picture) by keepingmum: 1:31pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Those look like defensive wounds/scratches.....did ur mum attack her daughter in law? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I M 100% Sure That My Wife Is Cheating On Me,but How Will I Catch Her With Proof by keepingmum: 7:53pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Wear red pyant, hit the gym, watch war room , pray and fast for your marriage, continually shower her with love, don't confront or harass her....when you do these things , she ll realise the good man that you are and will confess any digressions. Thank me later 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Please Help...is It A Curse To Earn More Than Your Husband? by keepingmum: 9:28am On Jun 10, 2017*. Modified: 1:56pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
I was once in your shoes and my question to you and your husband regarding this matter is this.....God forbid if you were to drop dead today, will your husband be homeless? Will he not pay rent? Will the kids stop feeding or schooling? If the answer is yes, then God help u but if your answer is No, then ur husband and his family have been taking u for a ride. Don't hide ur income, but cut the excesses and reign in on his self entitlement before it gets too far. Serve him one meat, if he complains, tell him that's all you can afford he should bring more money. When rent is due, tell him you had family emergency and so can't pay the rent either. Stop sending money to his family as well so that you lessen the burden and expectation on u. 7 Likes |
| Family › Re: Please Help!!!I want to file Divorce asap by keepingmum: 12:03am On Jun 09, 2017 |
My understanding of your issue with your wife is ....at the core, financial. ....my reasons below 1) Wife was a single parent at the time you met, you got her knocked up by CHOOSING to do without protection 2) She wanted an abortion but you REFUSED to consent to it. 3) Married her when you had no adequate savings and in between jobs 4) lost your job after marriage 5) you ego is preventing you from helping around the house hence you consider grocery shopping a big deal and demeaning to your title as the "Lord of the home" 6) Her child who was been looked after by the dad, you asked to come and join you in your home whilst you had no means of looking after him . 7) you have now left her worse off than you met her and you think she ll be happy with you? |
| Family › Re: Married Women Attacking Guy On Facebook Because Of DNA Test(full Gist) by keepingmum: 7:06pm On Jun 07, 2017 |
Fact is a lot of the men chanting in support of running dna tests are not the biological children of their own fathers......but wetin I sabi 1 Like |
| Food › Re: Where To Buy Choco Milo Cubes In The UK by keepingmum(op): 9:57pm On May 23, 2017 |
Oga since u r in 9ja try nestle depot or any wholesale store in the major markets of your locality |
| Properties › Re: WANTED --- 3 Bed To Buy In Abuja by keepingmum(op): 9:58pm On May 19, 2017 |
rheether:Drop ur contact or email me pls |
| Properties › Re: WANTED --- 3 Bed To Buy In Abuja by keepingmum(op): 11:47pm On May 18, 2017 |
rheether:How many rooms? |
| Properties › WANTED --- 3 Bed To Buy In Abuja by keepingmum(op): 10:48pm On May 18, 2017 |
I am interested in buying a 2 or 3 bed house in Abuja ....I am open to areas like Kubwa,,Nyanya, dutse, Apo village/extension etc As long as the price is reasonable, the land docs are legit then I am interested. Ideally I will like to pay in installments and would prefer to deal with the owner directly please If you have a property to sell that's affordable and you are willing to accept installment payments please email me via my profile |
| Health › Re: The Late Chisom Anekwe: Another Perspective by keepingmum: 10:49am On May 18, 2017*. Modified: 2:05pm On May 18, 2017 |
Pre-eclampsia is a VERY SERIOUS life threatening ailment that poses a significant risk to the life of mother and baby therefore should be attended to with urgency. Keeping a patient with Pre-eclampsia for more than 24hrs without treatment (most likely CS) is tantamount to manslaughter! !! Most definitely negligence and in my world, you will not only loose your medical licence to practice, you ll also be looking at a referral to the CPS for criminal charges. Maternal mortality is very high in Nigeria and a large contributing factor is negligence and the itk/inability to listen to patients by doctors/nurses as well as the ability to learn from mistakes AND the stupid risks that doctors often take with patients lives Nigerian doctors/nurses are arrogant, unwilling to learn nor listen and like to play god over someone's life. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
| Family › Re: She Ran With Our Children Birth Certificate Should I Be Worried? by keepingmum: 12:30pm On May 14, 2017 |
MossLuv:Oga so you can drive the mother of your kids away for cheating? Yet you were seeking help as a 2 minute noodle man that you is to bang your new side chic on your other thread. Anyhoo, you are not recognised as the father of those kids because you haven't paid their mum's bride price. So you can gerrarahiamehnnnnn 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: I Want To Be A Armed Robber Because Of Oppression by keepingmum: 11:56pm On May 11, 2017 |
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| Family › Re: I Want To Be A Armed Robber Because Of Oppression by keepingmum: 11:32pm On May 11, 2017 |
So you are still doing your NYSC Your motivation are a won bad gangs/ armed robbers So what should those who graduated 10 years ago without a job do? You can't even motivate yourself using positive role models rather YOU CHOOSE to be driven and motivated by miscreants of the society. You are choosing a path that brings pain/hurt/suicide to families and other individuals. The people you intend to rob/swindle you don't think they have responsibilities? Has it occurred to you what sacrifices they made to get whatever little/much you think they have that you wish to snatch off them? No wahala, I hope you have watched a lot of these jingle justice videos because that will be your fate soon. 9 Likes |
| Family › Re: Am I Still Married? by keepingmum: 1:02pm On May 11, 2017 |
Babe sorry to burst your bubble but you are VERY married. Orthodox churches like the Catholic/Anglican/Methodist are recognised by law as having powers to conduct a marriage as they have licenses ....unlike most pentecostals that don't hence the insistence of the church that intending couples go to the registry. I suggest you file for an annulment if the marriage wasn't consumated or a divorce. If you are abroad, the divorce process takes no more than 8wks especially if your ex spouse doesn't contest it 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I'm Worried. Pls Help! by keepingmum: 7:47pm On May 09, 2017 |
Report your suspicions to the police and they will come and conduct a random search on the flat 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Amy Okpocha's Birthday: Basketmouth Celebrates His Daughter (Photos) by keepingmum: 1:55pm On May 03, 2017 |
This is his side chick's daughter |
| Family › Re: Help Me!!! by keepingmum: 3:19pm On May 02, 2017 |
What treatment does your hubby need? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Should I Consider Divorce? by keepingmum: 1:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
Mr perfect husband, you were told severally on that thread dt 3x a week is more than reasonable but e no do u. Since u ain't hearing what you want to hear then u keep populating the site with variations of your libido satisfying needs to your contentment. You even disrespected her mum by typing out grievances on towards divorce on WhatsApp and then have the guts to be angry she didn't respond. Don't you have elders in your village? When you wanted to marry was it through WhatsApp you expressed ur interest to her family? Go through my posts on nairaland and u will see I rarely post X2 on the same thread as I don't engage in exchanges/arguments 8 Likes |
| Family › Re: Should I Consider Divorce? by keepingmum: 12:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
Oga you are the problem. You have an ego and you believe only you can be right. Pls divorce her you hear? Rather than communicating with her to diagnose why she doesn't find you srxually attractive and resolving it you choose to rape and then divorce your wife. Mr prince charming, sir lancelot , knight in shining armour!! You spent time sexting and chatting girls and even hooking up with them yet you want to divorce ur wife cos another man gives her attention...mtsheewww. please put her out of the misery so that another man who will understand and appreciate her will wife her 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: My Husband Still Confesses Love To His Ex-girlfriend by keepingmum: 8:49am On Apr 23, 2017 |
Confront ur hubby Report his ex to her hubby as well Raise the roof and call a family meeting and report Don't pray or keep quiet or cry if u want to 'save' ur marriage 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: Strange Income Husband by keepingmum: 12:55pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
U deserve better than a gold digging man who is supported by his family to constantly break his marital vows in the sight of God. You have survived without him these past years, you can do so moving forward. Tell your family to refund his bride price traditionally and also file for a divorce in court if you had a church/registry marriage as you hv bn separated for 2yrs and he has now remarried. Be rest assured karma knows his address and it would visit him 1 Like |
| Family › Re: My Aunt's Husband Accused Their Neighbour Of Fathering Their Son by keepingmum: 6:29pm On Apr 08, 2017*. Modified: 6:46am On Apr 10, 2017 |
So you want her to go back to him  23 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by keepingmum: 11:57pm On Apr 05, 2017*. Modified: 11:16am On Apr 06, 2017 |
So the only reason she's considering a divorce is because her husband called her and her siblings orphans? NOT because of the incessant DV, emotional abuse and all? Should a third party prevail she will be happy to remain as long as he apologises abi? She should well done!!! The I must remain MRS crew, the god forbids divorce crew, the I don't want my Shildren 2 grow up in a broken home gang Pls tell her 2 remain in the marriage, after all she is a working nurse, she can cater for herself and treat any injuries inflicted on her by her beloved horseband. ......the day he bangs her head on the wall and she dies, she ll get automatic ticket 2 heaven for upholding her vows as the good long suffering Christian wife that she is ......she can also serve as guiding angel 2 her 4 children who will be maltreated by their stepmum incessantly... . Shielding them from eating poisonous food as we see on nollywood 97 Likes 10 Shares |
| Celebrities › Re: JJC Skillz's Children Arrive Lagos To Spend The Holidays With Their Father by keepingmum: 4:58pm On Apr 03, 2017 |
Continue announcing your moves. till kidnappers come for their share |
| Family › Re: HELP!!! I Am Getting Depressed! by keepingmum: 5:57pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Then partner with someone who already does because you have no customer Base. When you have no customer Base and have not worked to earn money for these machines, eventually you ll abandon the biz or sell off the machines at giveaway prices. Learn to start small is all I am saying |
| Family › Re: HELP!!! I Am Getting Depressed! by keepingmum: 4:46pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
You don't need 5 machines. Start with one machine within your home and as your biz grows, you can invest and expand with more machines and a space. Option 2, go and partner with someone who already has a space whilst using ur machine. 2 Likes |
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