bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

Stop being a simp!

Peterobi90:
To think a 4.92 math graduate was about to fade into oblivion in a farmland at Ebonyi goes to show the school, the state, the country are all useless....

The US would out rightly grant him citizenship at the end of his schooling.

Nigeria pays no attention to such potentials. He is supposed to have been placed on a scholarship immediately after graduating by the state or federal government.

But no! Those in power won’t think of such but would rather host BBNaija winners and runner ups. Such a useless, visionless country!

Kebbiprince:
From Grass to Grace

From an Ebonyi farm to the USA. Sometimes it takes just luck to end generational poverty

Nworie has been liberated, be sure he has no business with poverty anymore

You couldn’t have said it any better! After graduation, he would be employed at a high level tech firm in the U.S or Canada; that is if he is able to resist the offer from the University to go for a post-doc and a lecturing position.

Na so poverty take comot this guy lineage so!

Monopoly is not good for business and the economy in general. Dangote is single handedly responsible for an increase or decrease in the price of cement in the country, if he adds 100 Naira to cement price the entire nation would feel it because there is always a ripple effect in other sectors of the economy.

Now he wants to move to oil. This is definitely not good for the common man on the street.

Lion26:
.. Hey Yo.. What your problem... toll gate bloggers.. you some real issue you know. what the heck is the news all about.. you guys gat too go malawi.. too go do some training.. you bring alot of unusual.. nonsense.. and posted up this shit called forum.. you do copy and paste all the time.. I mean all nigeria bloggers.. perfect example.. is that freaking thing called sphire.. or what the heck is that wack name.. you know. all of you gat a big problem.. they get married hunhunhun.. what is the world business with that.. is that an achievement to celebrate of.. how does that solve the problem. in and against your freaking good for nothing Country called nigeria though.. No Congrats from me too them.. cos the nigga just got hooked up by a hook... just being too the hungry lion in the zoo in Nigeria.. The Lion must be happy after playing all league I still gat fooled who keep me in is abode.. what a shame.. a slut remains a slut.. the guy isn't real nigga at all.. real niggaz fuvk and pay.. what nonsense.. you gat put the pussy that needs grammy awards.. too your self.. such a disgusting act... let guy get the hell outta the earth ain't useful no more.. I hate that shit called Female .

He yo..yes you.. you gat a big problem you know.. you wanna try too mentioned. me you gat some big issue.. you.. know.. hey what.. the hell.. you must be mad for trying to do so.. cod of what.. I am not gonna reply back too you... you gat some shit too say.. keep that too ya self am not gonna take that from you.. fuvk you all.. that say congrats or congratulations.. to this things.. am gonna get angry right.. cos of this shit.. I just read.. another soldier just fall... Rip Too You Nigga. I Mean REST IN PERFECT PEACE.

Please see a psychologist asap, your case seems to have gotten out of hand, Mr. American-wannabe.

kettykin:
This guys and their fetishes. Tufiakwa

The white man came and told your ancestors that their culture and religious beliefs are evil and fetish, they believed him. Here you are as living proof of the full effect and consequence of that lie.

AbelAbdul:
Please if you are or knows someone who specializes on 3D animations please contact me right now.

Thanks.

Hi. I am a 3D animator; I specialize in rigging and animation. I have sent you a PM.

sapphiere:
How come you know what happens?

You speak like a child. He may know not from personal experience but from the experience of others.

fulaniHERDSman:
But it's in order to plunder and pillage poor nations in the name of colonization
Britain is a terrorist nation that boasts of nothing but only robbed poor countries to exist.

Thank you! The hypocritical Brits ended up compensating slave owners for the end of slavery. And this one is here dishing advice about etiquette. Nonsense!

Nigerians and shortcut to making money enn!

RainOnMe:
Any sensible Nigerian knows there are no differences between PDP and APC. Same rogues infiltrating both parties. But on a subtle side, I still prefer PDP than the monsters of the day.

You are no different from the average Nigerian who knows there is no difference between both parties yet says “well PDP still better sha”.

Are you people cursed not to look beyond APC and PDP?

thatsleepboy1:
It's not worth celebrating at all. He's doing his job and that's why he was elected.

GOD BLESS FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF BIAFRA

GOD BLESS PDP

GOD BLESS ALL PDP STATES

GOD BLESS ALL SE/SS STATES

GOD BLESS ME TOO

You mind the idiots called ‘Nigerians’. Always celebrating and worshipping people for doing what they were elected into office to do; no wonder they always celebrate mediocrity.

Lexusgs430:
Oya do quick, born number 2........

Shebi na you go give dem d money to take care of the No.2??

Make una dey try get sense, una no go hear.

SoBright101:
One of the reason Africa won't develop is religion. You can't imagine fighting yourself over naming a street after what is not indigenous to your history, culture or tradition.
You even rejected a very nice name by the Bale "Ifelodun" for galilee or medina that does not in any way relate to your origin.

Is this not mental slavery

The mental slavery of those idiiots in that Oyo community ennn....I think they are irredeemable at this point.

What is she selling?

What products is she talking about?

Am I the only one who doesn’t know what this woman does for a living that makes her feel she would soon be a billionaire?

Is Nigeria and Nigerians cursed; we never produce anything scientific or machinery wise here in this country?

He is a former presidential candidate; it is his likes and all those enjoying ppwer and affluence in Nigeria that keep saying “let us keep Nigeria united”, simply because it benefits them. So anything that would disrupt the current arrangement, they would speak against it, even if Fulani herdsmen are in his farm raiding it.

But for the common man, Nigeria is of no benefit. It is best we go our separate ways; after all we were never one. Even Lord Lugard said it, “these people were forcefully brought together”.

whirlwind7:
No surprise here.

Pissing in the wind.
Note how MBS himself didn't get sanctioned. Just his errand boys took the brunt of it all.

So, what difference does declassifying this report make?
Fellow Arab countries (except Turkey) didn't even condemn it.

Because all of them including the U.S are hypocrites who go about a$$ licking the Saudis due to their vast oil wealth.

Quite unfortunate that the Nigerian government has turned IPOB from a group calling for self government and an honest break away from the country to freedom fighters/militia that would be engaging the military and security forces in a show of force.

We currently have a front seat to history in the making as we watch the official beginning of the break up of Nigeria. The Nigerian govt cannot fight wars on multiple front. Corruption alone makes failure for the Nigerian military almost certain.

gidgiddy:
They will always tell you that IPOB killed Nigerian Soldiers. But they will never show you the bodies, tell you their names or how the Soldiers were killed

They will only say that IPOB killed Soldiers because they know some people will believe whatever they are told, even without any evidence

Well said! These are the information I rushed in to see on this thread, only to be disappointed as usual by the Nigerian military. Just normal talk without any evidence.

LoydJ:
Na only deluded and mental Someone will tattoo his/Her fellow celebrity on his/Her body

The only person u could tattoo on ur body are your Parents cos they are Your Superheroes and your daily Inspiration and NOT all this Fake ass celebrity living a Fake life just for the grams.

The people who tattoo the names of celebrities on their body do it for a reason; all na hustle.

tsephanyah:
Bastard from the lineage of the most corrupt gene in the world. Come to Nigeria, I dare you. Attention seeking bastard just posting on twitter to stay relevant amongst your deadbeat criminals. You people are funny, posting stupid things against the government so that your White masters will not send you parking. Fools they all thought Buhari will give them shady contract to steal. After they realize it will not happen, they turn to political activists.

You continue defending Buhari upadan despite his obvious failures. Are your cursed?!

Jerryherd:





Ibos won't start campaigning for their own candidate now oo, it's Tinubu's matter they would focus on


.

When I say Nigerians are solely responsible for their problems, your comment simply confirms it.

Tueh!! Dem use suffer swear for una!!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Rest in peace.....

United Nations format and tools
If you are a niggarrrr and you know that format
Then I can bet my balls you are not a pussy ass moda fuckkking niggarrrr

You sabi d format broda. Kill high profile diplomat then use am as reason for air strikes and invasion of the country.

dynicks:
Where's rema?
Thought he said he was the future of music in Nigeria....

Omalay did the needful

blackmantis:
Why force children to take off Hijab it's wrong, very wrong.

You go to a Christian school and then want to practice a different religion. Didn’t you read the rules and regulations before sending you child to the school?

Its like going to a muslim school and wearing rosary around your neck or wearing clothes with Jesus picture around the school. What do you think would happen?

If the schools were public, yes, that would be wrong. But this is a private establishment and they have their rules and regulations which if you must attend/participate, you must abide by. Can’t you people take at least two minutes to read before writing rubbish?!

whela:
What does a Canadian want in Nigeria?

Could be here for business; could be work at a foreign company....many foreigners dey come naija to cash out, carry d money go back their country and in case you are wondering how, a lot of them get paid in foreign currencies.

Nwadiuto247:


It's life without Christ that is meaningless.

Christ is not real.

Shebi we are still waiting for him to come despite all the years they have been announcing that he would come and despite Pastor Righteousness bragging?

Chiminemine:
Hello guys. I just received one of the biggest insults of my life today in church.

So I went to church today and along the line, I decided to scroll through NAIRALAND a little bit because the sermon was a little boring. So as I was pressing my phone in peace ohhh, one usher just came to where I sat and taped me. as I looked at her, she stretched her hand out signaling she wanted to sieze my phone. At first I was confused because where I was a lot of people where operating their phones but she didn't approach them. I didn't want to insult her or create a scene so I just lied that I was sending someone an important text. Then she said I should be quick and put out the phone, That if I were in a lecture hall would I use my phone in the presence of the lecturer? So I obliged. I experience similar scenarios a lot in my life and it makes me sad sometimes. Sometimes, teenage boys would be interacting with me as if I am in their age grade. My peers wouldn't want to be around me because they would feel I am just a kid. I can't get a girlfriend because girls look at me like their younger brothers. this has turned me into a full time introvert . I am really hurt. Even my own father uses my statur to insult me at times . It's only by my thick voice that people can tell that I am grown up and thats not enough.

Guys please help me, I need advice. I am 20 years old and 5 foot 8 inches tall.

Usher make attempt to seize my phone? Just the look wey I go give am ennn...!

tsephanyah:
IPOB terrorist will now claim taraba is there ancestral land. Tell us how their portuguese corrupt gene (Jews) founded taraba etc. Deadbeat criminals with high inferiority complex bleaching to feel white. Ask lamidu cownu to add taraba to your wishful thinking maps. Even South South reject/hates you with passions. Amongst yourselves little money someone makes rather stole, scam or sells drugs will now run to Lagos or North to live, because what? Impossible to live in the village

What you wrote was absolutely unnecessary. No relation to the topic whatsoever. I am not Igbo or IPOB but I say confidently that your write up is simply filled with hate and tribalism.

merits:

The time is incorrect; supposed to be 00:10

blinking001:

She's among the demented fellows that brought this calamity of a government upon us...

How did she bring Buhari to power; did you see her campaign for Buhari? Was/Is she a member of APC? Did she sponsor Buhari’s campaign financially? Did you see her vote for APC at the polls in 2015?

Or is it because she protested against Jonathan and the inability to of his government to solve Nigeria’s problems?