Bornsinner7:
Damn the Mami too make sense..

The Bobbi alone fit feed the nation plus that small nyash wey be like today bread..

If you get this one as girlfriend. mehn!!. na this kind spec them dey use break Ramadan.. You go eat am for suhoor, till eat am for evening.. after you chop this kind type for earth.. angels go reduce the number of your virgins for heaven to maybe 50 ..

As a real niggarrr if you give me this one.. na to dey chop am raw twice on a Thursday till my engine knock

Lol >

Guy I swear you no well! Na woman you take dey break Ramadan instead of food?! Chai.

@Till your engine knock . I don laugh tire here.

Draslo:

Lesbian ke? Before Big brother she was dating one guy in Opebi. I've confirmed from multiple sources.


Single but unavailable and spreading your legs occasionally makes you a what?

Not defending her oo, just asking a question: when a guy is single and puts his diick in any available hole, that makes him a what?

Bornsinner7:
Damn..

If you win headies nobody go congratulate you..

A bunch of white people come together to organise a show where they give people a wooden piece... winning the piece doesn't make one the best.. you're only the best in the eyes of the organisers..

Bleep the Grammy's.. it is over hyped.. Eminem, jay z, Lil Wayne, Kanye West have all thrash talked about the show even though they were once winners

modified:
All these mf quoting me.. I never mentioned davido in my post neither did I say burna is a loser for winning it.. I don't do stanship.. I vibe to music I like.. carrying stanship for head are for people with low iQ.. all I'm pointing out is the way we are all celebrating the Grammy that is not even appreciated by their own people.. badboy timz, omay lay won headies but I didn't see all this accolades.. not even BET is celebrated like this

No mind Nigerians, people wey get sense for this our country no pass seven.

Biyonce:
Broke ass behaviour

Broke ass kill you dia!

Thief na thief. You think if a lady or anyone steals Dangote or Otedola’s ATM and withdraw money without their consent, they won’t be on their ass with both the police and the law?

To slap you dey hungry me I swear. Idiiot!

The future is female.

Zzor:
I don't like this woman, her sabi sabi too much, she will be doing as if she's the only one that knows how to do everything,madam ITK mtchewww

Kai! You need to see a doctor asap. Thought you said the future is female?? But why is a woman doing nicely at the top giving you headaches and heart attack?? May you not choke on your own bitterness. Kai!

Nuelito:
I wan ask one question abeg...

All dx illegal immigrants wey dey dx country called Nigeria....shey they are above deportation abi deportation no dey exist in dx side of the lithosphere?

Immigrants both legal and illegal ones are given security men as escorts....who did this to Nigeria?

Because Nigerians are unserious with serious issues. Only thing Nigerians are serious about is corruption.

emmabest2000:
Busty actress as in ....

Miosotis Claribel

Don’t ask me how I know

WestAfricaan:


But my Bible says the Earth and all creation is just 6000 years old. And the Bible doesn't lie

Who exactly wrote the Bible??

pozehnani:


How did you know this? I don't believe though unless you provide urthentic source.

What source did the missionaries provide you and your ancestors? Rubbish!

MetroBaba1:
How them take arrive at 70million years?

But like someone said up there, you believe in heaven. Jokers

Businext:
It takes an original to have a fake. The genuineness of Christianity is what is causing the rise of charlatans and fake clergy- whether evangelists, prophets, apostles, missionaries, pastors, deacons, Bishops, priests, venerable, all. Fake don't impersonate fake. Valueless things are not pirated, adulterated or imitated.

#Watch&Pray

Crap! Religion would always be the opium of the people. Brainwashed fellows.

SarutobiEky:
Why, the woman looks older than the guy Happy married life though.

And how is that a problem? If a woman is older than her husband is that an issue?

All these Africans with una 18th century mentality.

paulolee:
those wey get nor dey make noise bcoz moni no lyk noise n dts why dey no de play music for bank...

You no go kill person with laugh!

Na true you talk. I be neva notice am say dem no dey play music for bank.

And those wey really get the money no dey talk too much.

True true, money no like noise.

post=99899701:

Jesus is definitely coming back Mr godless
Jesus loves you, so do we!
We will always remember you in our prayers, godless.

Oya, chop Kiss


You too, Jesus loves you so much.
He died for your sins.
He cares for you so much.
Hugs and kisses to you too

Chai! The white man really did a number of a lot of my people. See brainwashing! Continue to wait for a white man with flowing hair and flowing robes to drop out of the sky.

Indeed, religion is the opium of the people.

Righteousness2:
From Africa to Asia to Europe to America and the Middle East it's from one Katakata to another.
From riots to Protest to Crazy weather patterns to Earthquakes to Volcanoes eruptions, etc
Even the deaf , dumb and Blind know that this Earth is Collasping!

Folks! KING JESUS is Coming Quickly !! Don't be Caught Unawares!

Always posting rubbish post. This your Jesus would always continue to “cum”. Over half a century he has been “cumming”. Shey we dey here, all of us go old, we go die, your Jesus neva still cum. Nonsense!

paulolee:
for some its bcoz the married woman have less risk of getting std than the single runs girls dt are carless and easy to get
some believe married women and are easy to maaintain bcox dey hardly bills guys bcoz they do have husbands to kill with billings
and some believe dt married women are suffering from lack of care, sex n attention from their ever busy husbands..

Who ever thinks married women have less STDs is just preparing himself for early death. There are more STDs and abortions among married women than single ladies.

It might shock you that the risk of an olosho or runs girl getting std is low compared to a married woman because an olosho would always make sure she uses condom knowing fully well that she sleeps with multiple men.

But a married woman would most likely get std from her husband especially if he is randy and married couples rarely use condom except when they are doing family planning.

If you wan knack woman, married or unmarried, make sure say you hold your side except say na you one and only partner.

wirinet:

I am not looking at it from only the biological perspective, I mentioned physiologically, psychologically and otherwise.


You sound sexist. It's should be how many children should a family have and not just women. The number of children a woman should have does not entirely depend on the woman but on her family, most especially her husband.

Now the number of children a family should have depends on the needs of the family, and believe me, it's does not depend mostly on family fortune. I have some billionaire friends who have only 2 children. Meanwhile there are some mechanics, petty traders and other low income earners who have 5 or more children.

women had been getting married and having kids irrespective of financial ability since the time of Adam. In fact the fact that you have financial ability at the time of marriage does not guarantee financial ability throughout marriage. Most families have a period of financial instability. Even Bill Gates and Elon Musk got married before they achieved financial stability.
What is more important than immediate financial ability as you call it is financial vision, financial planning, hard work and of course luck.

When you marry a good, compatible and loving woman, instead of a slay mama, you can start from zero and end up a hero in a very short time.
The two could complement each other to achieve great things.


From your comments it's obvious you don't have any kids. If you do, you would not belch out "it takes another 10 to 15 years to raise children before they are old enough find their own paths in life". Some children find their own path early and leave their parents before their 18th birthday, some are still dependent on their parents well into their 40s. The critical time for raising children is from birth until they start primary school. That is the time they need at least one of the parents the most. By the time they enter secondary school, they should be fairly independent (and I don't mean financially) to be able to take care if themselves. For the western world, children in universities are required to have some degree of financial autonomy by working part time. It's only in Nigeria that a university student would expect his or her parents to pay tuition fees, house rent, feeding money, cloth money, and everything else until he or she finishes master's or PhD.




Even the Omotola Ekeinde we are talking about got married at about 18 years, birthed and raised 5 children, pursued a very successful career in acting and now at 42 her last born is 18 years. Would she have had such a successful life if she married at 35?

My wife was 24 when I married her and by 32, after 3 children, we are through with child bearing. After our last born entered nursery school, she started a new career in baking. I opened an eatery outlet for her last year and she is doing really quite well despite the pandemic.

You make it sound as if the moment you stop having children and the last one gets into nursery or primary school, then its hands off from their welfare. You still have to provide financially for them till they can hustle and cater for themselves. Is that money going to fall from the sky or you would keep hoping for miracles to take care of them?

You mentioned Omotola, she had a man who is a Captain and a pilot, which obviously is a good paying job. That is why she was able to have five kids and still pursue an acting career and be successful. She should have tried that with a carpenter or mechanic who earns very little from his job. She definitely won’t be the person we speak of today.

Having kids is different from raising them. Anyone can fvcking give birth to children, it doesn’t take too much effort, so long both partners are fertile. But it is in raising them that I speak about, that is the true test of your financial strength. That is the crux of the matter here.

I am saying you cannot go have a child when you are unemployed, that is an eternal poverty sentence. Also, it would be unwise to have kids more than your income can sustain. You can’t be earning 50k monthly and go have five kids, and be saying to yourself that kids are a blessing in themselves and be hoping for miracles that God would take care of them; you would die in perpetual poverty.

My point is cut your cloth as it fits you. It would be unwise to have kids when your financial means is barely even enough to take care of yourself. Wait, double your hustle and when you have enough investments and savings, then you can settle with a partner and have kids. It is not enough to be of age to start bearing children, there are other factors involved especially financial.

And yes, I don’t have kids because I don’t want to bring them into this world to suffer or to have one my kids wait for his/her older sibling to finish university before he/she can apply for admission.

There are a thousand and one reasons why the level of poverty in Nigeria in particular and Africa in general is high. One of the major ones is poverty stricken couples and average income earners bringing in kids to this world when they do not clearly have the means to cater for them. Most have to give up a lot personally and focus all they have got to raising those kids, this means shelving their personal ambitions, dreams and aspirations aside.

I have a friend who had to give up studying and start doing food deliveries because he went back to Nigeria, got married and soon after they had a kid. Dude couldn’t cater for wife and kid despite the scholarship he was getting from the government as well as his side hustle doing deliveries. So he had to quit school and focus on the delivery business full-time. He told me point blank, he couldn’t continue making excuses when his wife would call him asking for money for upkeep for her and their kid.

I just shook my head and took the lessons I could from his situation. This is just an example of what I meant when I said you would end up sacrificing your dreams and aspirations in order to raise a family.

I am sure he had imagined himself as an engineer because he was studying software engineering. But now all that has gone the drain because he rushed into what he could not handle. Because before you know it, another visit to Nigeria, second baby would come. Then he would start trying to bring his wife and kids abroad. But his own personal dreams have been sacrificed for his wife and kids. Please don’t tell me that is the true definition of love. Lets not go there.

Even after giving birth, it doesn’t end there. You stop bearing children doesn’t mean it ends there. You have mouths to feed and bills to pay for a family. In this day and age, having a job is not enough, one needs multiple streams of income in order to meet today’s financial demand and more so if you are raising a family.

Achieving one’s objectives in life as an individual should be paramount first before getting married and raising a family. This is one way to avoid mid-life crisis and divorce issues. One would also avoid having to start seeing his/her kids as investments and hoping they take care of you when you are old as repayment for setting aside your dreams and goals in order to raise them.

I would leave this matter here. Peace!

lilvicky68:
Sometimes I dey wonder wetin these people dey take us as...wicked politicians and thieves in disguise

It is not just the ruling elite that are corrupt, but Nigerians at all levels of life irrespective of religion, tribe, or political affiliation. The average Nigerian breathes, eats, sleeps and loves corruption. Because everyone is looking for quick and easy money.

aprimama:
Zaha should understand that at a time in history, complete segregation existed, where he couldn't even have been able to share a dressing room with a white man. This war would be won gradually, the EPL is making a statement against racism through the symbolism of taking the knee. If you think because racism persists, then we should discard the campaign, then you need to look back and evaluate. There's progress bros.

Look at it from this angle. His not taking a knee is a protest on its own against racial discrimination and the lack of action on the part of the EPL authorities. The rarely take any action when a player gets racially abused even on social media except issue a statement condemning it.

He was racially abused a few weeks back on Twitter but nothing was done about it. His not taking a knee is a form of protest and a show of defiance saying to the system: “you tell me to take a knee before every game, yet very little is done effectively and practically to put an end to this menace”. Pure and simple.

flamingREED:
This is how atheists and feminists would kneel begging for their lives in the day of judgement while the Christian believer would stand tall!

Which. day of judgement are you talking about? The one that has been ‘coming’ for almost a century now. Even the Nairaland’s resident pastor has stopped blabbing about judgement day and all that bullcrap.

SouthSouth1914:
A black man always trying to prove a point when there is none!

To slap you dey hungry me, I swear!

From your statement, I am very sure you have never experienced racial discrimination based on the colour of your skin. Even if you have, you are one of those black people who go about licking white people’s a$$. Modafvcking house niqqa!

Coldie:
Black people. To your surprise there won't be an outrage, but if he had been white they would have accused him of racism this and that.

With the way black people are annoying if the roles were reversed and blacks were white's and whites black we for show them pepper

You no just get sense at all!

His not taking the kneel is a form of protest on its own against the authorities who do nothing when a black player is racially abused. If nothing is done, whats the need taking the knee?!

Pa3cia:

You guys age like ogogoro cuz una nor get wetin una dey use body do, how many pikin you una dey drop, abegiii.

Giving birth to children is not the reason women age faster than me. I have seen women wey no even born but nature still took its cause. So no need to give excuses. Its just how mama nature works; let us all just accept it. Have you seen RMD or Idris Elba?

Pa3cia:

Same applies to your gender, yourself inclusive

...so no need to kill yourself over man mata abi? Except he has money in abundance of course.

But at the end the truth is, women age like milk, while men age like wine. Simple fact of life.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Congratulations

For all those wishing they bang the hell out of this girl

Just take it easy.......the amaka and Sandra in your area is good enough....if care is not take them sweet pass even this Erica

And funny enough.....there is a particular niggarrrr out there tired of banging this same erica

I dey tell you! No matter how beautiful a woman is, there is always a guy in her present or past who is tired of her and can’t even stand her presence. So no need to overwork one’s self on top woman mata.

wirinet:


I support her even though the assertion that "27 years old is a married woman in Europe" is not entirely correct. In feminist leaning Europe ladies enter their 30s or even 40s pursuing a career rather than a family.

Having said that, I support that ladies should be encouraged to marry and have their children early. It makes family planning easier. When I say family planing, I mean not just about having children, but also planing for the children's education and wife's career.

It should be considered that women are physiologically, psychologically and spiritually different from men. Women's biological clocks run faster than that of men. A woman getting married in her 30s has less than 20 years of child bearing left. Furthermore, a woman bearing children late 30s and 40s present extra risks both to mother and child.
I advice us to encourage our daughters to reduce slaying in their younger years and get married and start a family, so that by 35 they are through with child bearing and can still pursue a career.

So you are only looking at it from the biological angle and not the financial. Okay lets deal with the biological first.

How many children should the average woman have? 2, 3, 4, 5, 6?? In these hard times, it is sensible not to give birth to more than three kids. So you telling me a woman who starts giving birth in her 30s can’t have kids without issues before she reaches menopause? Really?

Secondly, are you saying women should get married and have kids irrespective of their financial ability to take of the kids because all they need to consider first is their age? There is a lot to having children than just age, you do know that.

I advice us to encourage our daughters to reduce slaying in their younger years and get married and start a family, so that by 35 they are through with child bearing and can still pursue a career.

I cannot take this advice of yours nor give it to others because having kids is more than just bearing them, you also have to raise them. Even if by 35 a lady has finished bearing kids, raising them would take another 10-15 years till they are old enough to find their own paths in life. So your argument of having kids makes family planning easier in terms of not just spacing of the kids but also their future and then having a career as well does not stand.

If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. If you have kids and you are not financially capable or ready to take care of them, you would end up forfeiting the remaining part of you active years to raising those kids which means you would have to shelve a lot of your dreams and aspirations in order to cater for those kids. I have seen it over and over again.

To sum up, my point is that one should only get married and have kids when they are financially capable and ready to commit to that 18+ years of nurturing and raising them and not because you are avoiding having them in your 30s. Marriage is nice and kids are lovely to have but if you don’t plan properly you might plunge yourself into perpetual poverty. This goes for both men and women.

Queenlovely:
27 Years old and yet to be married.

See my children, I have to tell you this as an old woman, Take your future into your hands, the future is not bright in this country..

27 years old is a married woman in Europe. but in Nigeria you are just waiting for jamb result.

most of you want to get married at 30, yet you don't see how possible that is, considering your current income.

Travel out of this shithole

For those ode asking if marriage is an achievement, when suitors comes for your sisters, chase them away oh

ode

Which Europe wey 27 year old be married woman? You sure say you done ever go d Europe wey you dey talk about so? Europe wey full with divorced and unmarried women. Go Tinder, Bumble, Badoo, e.t.c, go see how dem full there dey find fun and companionship.

Besides since when did getting married become an achievement and a determination of a person’s success in life? Na wa oo. Try get sense na abeg!

I swear enn, to slap you dey hungry me!

Psaml611:

What do you have to gain if you show me how to mine cryptocurrency from my phone??

You all make it seem so easy as if it is really that easy and you won’t be benefitting from it in one way or the other.

“Mine cryptocurrency straight from your phone” as if it is so mineral resource in Congo.

GrandFinale2021:
give who puna?
I don't do transgender and I'm also homophobic make e no be like na my fellow man I make love with especially as she come resemble Ronaldinho so.
Tufiakwa

I laugh in Brazilian! Na una type dey do those kind things for secret come dey deny for public. Abeg leave mata

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Ibori loot delta dieeee
But na the same ibori....Delta people dey praise and worship

Is there something am not understanding

Nigerians simply love to suffer. We get orgasms from seeing ourselves being slaves in the midst of abundant natural and human resources.

GrandFinale2021:
Nonsense
If to say her breast dey intact she for gree share am

Gbam bro you said it all
truth is bitter bro the earlier she realizes that the better for her.
She still con draw tatoo join.

Dalil8:
No be u go dey tell us say u beautiful, na we go judge.

Madam u no fine again, u no even fine before sef.

Mastakija:
Gone are thise dayz when she was flaunting
Her profile picture is a proof

But if she give una puna, per usual una go chop.

Chai! Who do this kind thing to una?!

Bitterness is a slow killer; it eats you up from the inside.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad.....just imagine....10 years old

But I nor know why people go dey comfortable make thier kids dey do house help follow another person...knowing fully well that the world is full of shit

I can never try that rubbish.. ..

Because so many Nigerians give birth to children that they cannot take care of believing that God would take care of them. And happens among both educated and uneducated people.