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really it shuld be as soon as one is fully independent... also depends on your family and personal values. pragmatism is also key here, dr is no need moving out just to prove a point or go on an adventure.

1(farting),2(eating too much), & 10(fighting) are the only things on that list that really apply to me and not even for the reasons stated. i hate to see any lady fighting even in play(unless its me she's fighting with ), it just reduces her in my esteem. not that i would dump someone i love for doing any of these, although i dont think i could fall in love with a lady who fights or eats too much in the first place. farting is a normal thing tho so i can live with it but id rather she didnt do it in front of me and frankly i dont think she is the type so im good.

but some of the other points are frankly ridiculous and silly. she shuldnt wash her underwear in front of yu? yu dont understand the concept of having a life a partner then! yu are still looking for a plaything! why on earth shuld my girl/wife not watch movies n my presence? heck we'll be watching em together! some of these points are plain ridiculous and shows that the poster is not really matured/exposed.

.1 i do not condone your lax morals.
.2 the truth is that yu are wuss. how many times must this be said: "women dont mean evrything they say"? u r one of those guys that is too eager to please and ends up lookin like a boy which is really wat yu are in many different senses of the word. very funny story

jnr prof: @Killz, spot on! there's much more to a woman than how bootyliscious she is

learnt this the hard way brodas....beautiful soul over booty any day for me

thx!!

guys no comments at all?

caseless: Hahaha....."soliciting prostitute".....and u stil think u are a virgin? Anna nicole was a virgin, i guess.

it is not a bad thing to read well...he said he dint do the deed with the prostitutes....sheesh wats wron with you people do you guys even know wat a virgin is

Abbey2sam: Wrong!! @op you are no longer a virgin, after much pouring of sperm and you still have the nerve to open this kind of tread

step 1. sharrap

step 2. stand in front of the mirror and repeat to yourself "i am an ignoramus, i do not know anything"

step 3. go to school/read a book/enlighten yourself.


@ op yes yu ar a virgin but behave yourself before i change my mind!

[quote author=Subomi-luv]I'm sorry but this is as clear as it can get. If you do not understand that's not my problem [/quote]its so hard for you to simply say what i meant was this or that? your post says one thing but your subsequent replies are pointing in a slightly diff direction anyway carry on with your foolery.

Dyt: ^ I can c d frustration written all over u
Hahahhahahahaha
Sorry for ur loss

lol u can see me on nairaland? ok o...and wat have i lost??

telling your mother would be such a huge mistake. face the lady and tell your brother but take responsibility for allowing it to happen. then try your best too move out

[quote author=My_Time]Saw this article on d FB page of a friend who is a lady. I don't know what She has suffered from a man but Guys this is serious allegation. What Do u have to say?

Men!!!Men!!!Men!!!
So complicated,
So confusing
So hard to please.
So uncertain
So unstable
If u try 2 pls dem, u re cheap.
If u make love (sex) to them,u r a ho'
If u don't,u re playing hard to get
If u show dem,u love dem u re too emotional
If u don't show it , u don't love dem.
If u give them attention, u r bugging them,
if u don't u r with other men.
If u demand for attention,u r a nagging ,
if u don't u r not understandable
If u dress sexy, u re attracting other men
If u don't , u re awkward n local.
If u cook n wash their clothes U re desperate
If u don't, u re not a wife material.
If u go 2 club/party, u re too exposed
If u don't, u re naïve.
If u re beautiful, u can't stay wit 1 man
If u re ugly, u re not up to standard.
If u re independent, u re chasing men away
If u re dependent, u re a liability:
If u try2 satisfy dem in bed U re a sex addict
If u don't, u re making sex boring.
If u r pregnant,u want to trap them:
If u r not pregnant u r not a fertile woman or
might hv damaged ur womb:|
If u ask men for money U re too demanding
If u don't ask 4 money there is another man

What do men really want
does it mean they don't even know what they want?8-|
They can be so annoying and So hurting. GOSH!!pls answer dis question if u are a man pls be sincere,
WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
If u re a woman pls be sincere,, are the above allegations TRUE? Don't be bias.[/quote]i really hate it wen people reason like this. this is what i would call the peter and paul syndrome. you take two guys and assume they are exactly the same so when you try A with paul and he says he prefers B, you then move on to peter and do B but peter actually prefers A. you then go to facebook and say men are complicated. no! you are just not being intelligent! why would you assume that all men must have the same taste or desires? is this not the epitome of unreasonable thought process? wat you need to do is be yourself and you will eventually find a guy who likes things just the way you do them. gaddammit it aint rocket science!

besides doing an extreme form of B just because he said he doesnt like A is just as bad and im betting thats wat this confused girl has done to yield her confusing results. e.g: your bf says u talk too much so you then clam up and refuse to speak for a day. wen he asks y, yu reply thats wat he asked for but in reality he never asked you to stop talkin, he only said talk a little less. rant over.

Dyt: We are d salt of d earth

shut up your mouth!

[b][/b]

Orikinla: I must confess that she is not the only one, but she is the ultimate one.
I love all my female companions in Lagos.
Both the younger women and the older women.
We are bonding and making things happen.
Three are working with me and I am working with one ambitious one from the UK, she is only 21, but already an attorney and we are working on a new lifestyle and society magazine for the global village. Our synergy is awesome and come August our baby will be born with all the glory to God and God alone. She has already chosen the name.
And so I cannot imagine my life without these beautiful and wonderful women.

r yu for real?

comments anyone? would really appreciate yalls feedback. God bless you!

[quote author=Subomi-luv]If they bash white women, White men will get upset and will defend them
If they bash asian women, asian men will get upset and will defend them
If they bash latina women, latino men will get upset and will defend them
If they bash arab women, arab men will get upset and will defend them
BUT if they bash black women, they well feel better about themselves (self esteem boost) and No one will challenge them since black guys don't care. In other words, black women are just easy targets since they don't have anyone protecting them, even black men will add to the bashing which is quite sad :-(

It is the MANS job to protect his WOMAN. A woman should not be the one protecting both of them.[/quote]going from this post and your replies yo point aint clear. pls clarify if you mean to say Black men as a whole do not protect black women as a group or black men individually do not protect the women in their lives? if it is the latter then that is completely false and i dont know where you got it from. if it is the former then if everything you said in your op is correct then i believ you shuld be asking what is wrong with black women not why wont their men protect them. not that i necessarily agree with your premise there

please check this out.....i think y'all might just be surprised...i cant say more check it for yourselves


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CL-rZQpz0Rc&feature=youtu.be

its a natural instinct because at that moment you are focusing on the other connecting person and opening your eyes will distract you. the brain really cannot focus on more than one very important task at a time so your eyes sort of lose relevance at that tym(partially scientific). ever tried have a conversation while driving on a very busy road? as in a really dangerous crossing or something. chances are you ended up with something like "sorry what where you saying?"

Kaleni: My brother's wife use to show uneccessary affection for me, when we are at home she use to sit down on my kneel and in the process she will make sure her buttock touch my thing. Even she use to touch my thing and she will make it look like as if she was just playing with me. She even go to the extent of peeping @ me in the bathroom. I'm seriously fedding up with her but I know fit raise my voice on her and I cannot tell my brother. Pls for God's sake na who I go tel nw. Pls I'm in serious dillema, advice me on what to do..

listen friend, you have been guilty of tolerating and thus propagating your sister inlaw's unreasonable behavior because you enjoyed it. how on earth does your brothers wife develop the familiarity to sit on your lap? without even talking of the other behaviors this alone is grossly out of place and unless she is mentally imbalanced or an ex hooker, no woman would suddenly develop the boldness to do such when she knows exactly what is at stake(her marriage). the truth is that you may not approve of this behavior but you do enjoy it. now that your conscience is disturbing you, please ask the lady to stop because you don't think it is right. that should make her afraid of what you would do the nest time she tries it.

edit: part of the reason you are afraid to tell your bro is because of your complicity in the indecent behavior isn't it? that is also why the lady is being so bold...may God deliver you from this trap

dmcdad: What makes it irrelevant

cuz poster wants to know why those who r shy r shy...not why those who are not shy are not shy...geddit?

dmcdad: What makes it irrelevant

cuz poster wants to know why those who r shy r shy...not why those who are not shy are not shy...geddit

girls whose personality i like but i'm not attracted to physically, younger girls (18 and below) whether attractive or not

dmcdad: Its not always about shyness... Personally, I don't feel enthusiastic about approaching women. Other times I feel they are a burden, so there is no reason to approach any. Its just in my nature anywayz.

guy this your post is irrelevant to the question asked.

@ poster, this behavior you describe is likely to be more readily shown by men who were not sufficiently loved by their parents, did not grow up in a loving family, were never made to develop any sense of self worth. with luck some men grow out of this but the good majority of people with such issues end up being timid for most of their lives. this sort of man is headed for one of two extremes: either he will be controlled by his wife or he may end up a wife beater. the issue here is not about the girl...its about self perception and the fear of rejection. such men are so afraid of rejection because it reinforces the feeling of inferiority.

ok but wats the practical difference between 10:27 and 11:00 p.m?

how bout yu mind yo bizness? just saying

lol middle separates easily tho...does this mean we are destined to be schizo's?

its clear most of yu dont really know the meaning of "crush". "omg he's so cute!" "wow that girl is sexy!" thats not crushing on someone....crushing would imply actively thinking and fantasizing about being with the person and actually having feelings for them. celebrity or not that is wrong when you have a partner

xynerise: . I was caught nake.d by my mother-in-law the day she visited us when my son was born . I tried to run from my room to my wife's room when she came out from her room and caught me about to knock on my wife's door. . No be small thing o . The rest is history

erm so do you mind explaining just a little bit more? as in why exactly wer yu running from your room to hers naked?

Bright De Gea: Am a Sourthern guy but grew up in the north, Kano to be precise, of cos we've stayed in face me i face u house, compound consists of different tribe of people, there were children in the compound, we occupied the last room close to d compound's back door, dere's dis yoruba woman opposite us she has a daughter name 'Yemi' we play hide and seek, and each time i find her during play i will fck her everyday, wen playing a drama she will be mama and i will be d papa, guys it will be strafing all the way, one dey nobody ws at home, other kids went out to go play in other compound remaining me and her in d compound, so i signal her as usuall she came into our room and i pulled her pants down, we were stroking each other on the floor, all of a sudden my mum walked in, i was so shocked cos i taught she will be coming home late, suddenly d girl burst in tears crying and begging my mum nt to tell her mum, so my mum drove her out and warned her neva to come to our room again, my dad came home and flogged the heck out of me, a week after dat incident Yemi's parents moved to anoda house. Dis is just number 1 of my escapade in face me i face u house i will drop the other 3 unforgetable experience i had

how old wer yu two?

bro the real question is wat does she want to do? is she fully aware of your state? is she declining these offers specifically because she wants to marry you in spite of your present state? this lady has taken bold steps which has cost her a lot...she wont be happy if she has sacrificed so much for you yet you cant makeup your mind if you really want her

ok i think understand...poster is referring to his so called "school daughter" not his real daughter. well it was very terrible for you to have done this and im sure she is a young girl. keep the baby and turn to God...it may not sound like practical advise bro but try it