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purples25:
Sorry if this is offensive as you may be a male. I blame men for this. They are the ones always out and about looking for sex partners.

I believe if women are not pressurized, and they have all they need, plus the right responsible partners they want, only few will be promiscuous.

purples25:
I hope she knows that she's just a page in your book of life, and just an option in your heart.

'My new girlfriend'. No be wife o. And the blood has been spilled so happily.

She should also know that that moment in your house was her wedding. All those gifts you got her are her wedding gifts/bride price.

BarrTheKing:
My new girlfriend just visited me unannounced today. I told her yesterday that I won't be going to church today because I was feeling fever.
Today she came and I was surprised because she didn't tell me she was coming. My babe cooked and we ate. She washed my cloths, took bath and layed beside me on the bed.

That was how I made move on her and she accepted. We romanced for long before I finally felt the urge to push myself in. I was amazed to find myself struggling while she have a loud sharp cry. What I saw next was blood flowing out.
I bought her many things before she left.

Jeweltz:
I have a little bump on my chin. 🥺

Katcall:
does your penis point up when erect?

SunmibareARC:
God Bless your parents for bringing you into this life; God Bless you for not disappointing your parents; God Bless your offspring/ potential offspring who will tap from these your blessings...

Eyinju112:
I had done this before, but for the wrong person.. That bastard was a liar, a very good one… I thought I was being kind I never knew I was been played. He had different fake stories to hit me then😂😂😂 if guy man hit me story, he’d burst into tears and be like he’s tired of living, and he wanna take his life… you see those statements are my weakness. I don’t wanna hear die😂😂😂 I’d send him money even to flex his friends so they won’t know he had lost his job and broke😂, infact I don’t have a car but I was fixing his car anytime it developed faults. Ano get car but I Dey buy tyre 😂😂😂 Omoh I don mumu oooo😂😂😂😂
Well God loves a cheerful giver, he was extorting me then but God never made me had the feelings, he kept blessing me. I wasn’t hurt because I spent on him, I was hurt because he lied about so many things that I can’t forgive. Till tomorrow he’s on my dm begging for forgiveness.

Lesson learnt is I don’t bankroll men anymore. I’m gonna spend on you if you spend on me. You’re broke, I’m also broke…. You’re generous damn it I’m spoiling you.

Wande22:
Just finished fufu with Egusi+Okro soup

Goodlady:
When they have money, cheating starts

wonder233:
1. No. I wouldn't have.

2. I didn't have any suspicions at all initially. It wasn't the first time she had told me she was going for work related events overnight. The last one before this was Easter period, where she said they told them to wait behind on Thursday overnight to Good Friday evening for "meeting". I didn't suspect anything. Didn't call on video, nothing.
I only got suspicious in this cos she was even the one that mentioned the girl being around - someone I could see in my front!

3. About the guy's identity: I don't care to know. That part has nothing to do with me.
I didn't ask. Initially, she by herself said he's an old friend, later when her mother came, she said its a colleague she just started talking to in the office. Neither scenario means anything to me. Thats not my problem.

4. Marital status. Again I don't know and it has nothing to do with me.
When her mum was questioning her, seems its a single guy.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Chidi2022:
My gee...How far nah... You no get prophecy for me?

Chidi2022:
Ewu , i am not a man... And as you wish it for women not to have joy in thier homes, it will start from your loved ones...
God bless Morroco.

Lamanii22:
This your answer doesn’t correspond with what I asked 😏

wonder233:
Yes. I've already started the divorce process. The incident happened just last friday here. Yesterday, I went to the registry where we did marriage to inquire how to nullify. They said I have to go the high court. Went to the high court, they told me how to file proceedings, that the process takes about 3months.
For the traditional, I have informed her mum (her dad is late), so everything is on track.

Videocaller:
Guys, Good evening, I’ll be brief.

So I met this girl last year and we got talking. We started dating in December, around Christmas period. Things have been going great. She is 2 years older than me.

For some context, she’s an Alpha female and I’m a sigma male- so it’s been like a 50-50 relationship.


Fast forward to this month, she said she wants us to move in together. I currently stay in a 2bedroom apartment (where one of the rooms is my office and the other is my bedroom) and she stays in a self-con but she is rich enough and she’s hardworking.

She is suggesting we move into a 3-bedroom apartment and she will be the one to pay the rent.

I’ve worked my way from a one room apartment to where I am today. I’m skeptical about the move. Matured minds in the building Biko tell me what you think?

Eyinju112:
😂😂😂😂 the last part though

Eyinju112:
me too. Because the way she’s always the first to comment some jack shit on every post made it look like a sort of guy is hiding behind that name and seeking attention badly.

Octopusssy:
Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

doggedfighter:
Desperately in need of children but couldn't reproduce so his loving father came to the rescue.


It's still in the family.


No big deal .

VinnyBaba:
Ogbeni, Shut up and Learn!

In this Day and Age, a Guy MUST know how to Clean his Apartment and even Cook!

If you do not know how to do Domestic chores, You will Embarrass yourself one day.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

lajid:
I’ll try

lajid:
I’m 5”5, I’ll be 23 yrs this July and I think I’m a little over 50kg, I think around 53 or so. I feel very awkward, I’m good looking but then most people see me like one small boy.

Anytime I go somewhere some will give me that small boy look. Also I can’t stand among my mates cause I look smaller.

This has made me an introvert kind of, can’t relate with people very well especially female genders cause they look so big.

Even at my place of work, some just look at me like this small boy, but some of those guys my age are bigger with beards that you will think they are 26.

It’s not easy really. I’m been looking for ways to gain weight fast and work out so I can build muscle, too bad I can’t do anything about my height as I heard one can’t grow taller much at my age again.

Any idea to look more bigger?