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Herzumpther:
I don't want wahala o. we don't have strength for wahala in my family that was why I asked her if she wanted me to take the pics down but got no reply. I would have taken it down gently.

Life is not like that my dear, you can't live your life pleasing everybody. Just be yourself and be good.

You have no AGREEMENT with him!!! And you consented to NOTHING!!! Job referrals are given everyday and it doesn't tie anybody down.

And I do not even believe he has the power to fire you where you are as long as you are doing your job well.

But enough of the silence, now is the time to reply his messages sternly and tell him you don't want any relationship from him. And pls, keep his messages and your responses to him. They might come in handy.

Chillisauce:
Incase you dont know, she cooked the cornflakes by adding boiled water she prepared to it.
btw, wetin concern you, wey your own food wey you cook?

Epic response

Herzumpther, pls be urself and don't let anybody get to you. I noticed you have stopped posting pictures Com'on babe

EfemenaXY:
Yimu.

See how this woman don dey claim!

Happy New Year Osisi

Ours had the kerosene tank inbetween the two burners. Those old days mehnnnn

A big shout out to all the moms and dads here. I have been a silent follower for some months now but proudad and Proudmum brought me out of my quiet closet. You guys make me smile. Same with Clinik and Sammie. Pls I am also begging on behalf of the dads. After seeing Proudmom's pix, I understand perfectly what proudad has been going through - not with the sexy smile and gown who would wish for it every hr?? Biko, Proudmum and clinik, make una do something!

God bless you all real good.

Exactly, why don't you add a little money to what you have and go for an automatic??

If you need the car so badly and you have a regular income stream and some excess cash, then you could take a loan. Your excess cash will serve as equity and there will be a domiciliation from your salary account to the loan account. Also insist that you be allowed the option of prepayment or part termination without any charges accruing to you for doing so. Hence if the loan is initially for 2 years but you get some bulk cash before that, you can always use it to reduce the loan and end up paying off the total loan before the 2 years given by the bank.

Fixed deposits and Tbills are short term investments but should be invested with a long term horizon if a substantial interest is expected from them.

babyosisi:
This girl is fast becoming my favorite female nairalander
There is just something beautiful about your personality

She has a beautiful and humble soul, I can't seem to find the right words myself...

Bless you Herzumpther...(I had to copy and paste this ur name o)

It's not about the amount on the cheque, it's about how much she is truly worth. If she can prove she is worth more than that to the judges, then so be it.

Hahahhahahahahaa I feel your dad a lot. In his own time, there was probably nothing like winning a phone from a radio station so he can't fully come to terms with it. Also, he may feel your inability to secure an IT placement is pushing you to become desperate.

In all of this, he has not erred and neither have you. You just need to communicate with him more, give him all necessary assurance that you are still a good son despite ur trials and he will be happy to let you be. You can't solve the issue with him by using force!

Insist you can't pay this much for a jobless wife, if they really want you to pay so much, they should get their daughter a job to increase her value, then you will gladly honor the engagement list. mtcheewww

What exactly is the problem btw ur wife and mother?

It is well with you.

Why are you really scared of seeing her on Monday? oh maybe the promise you made to be there for her at all cost?? And she don carry am for head

My dear, you have to reverse that promise immediately, and you won't be apologetic about it cuz she knew you were married. Why would you even visit her in her house sef? without ur wife? Hope water never pass garri sha

Pls do the needful and save ur family. She is not worth the unhappiness in ur home.

"He doesn't need money, he needs a job - Oh i love this couple" . With their positive attitude and undiminished hope despite all odds, success is knocking at their door already!

chronique:
Nice but the quantity is already a turn off for me. It's too much.

But it's not for you alone naa? See the long list of people that will descend on this luvly chin chin, anyways, good you are out of the list already you won't be missed

Akposy, thanks jare but errhmmm the chin chin still remain?

sinorte:
I know quite well that it's never going to be an easy and comfortable choice to make. Our intended movement to Ikorodu is not a matter of trying to cut cost. We would be paying as much at Ikorodu as we we're at the moment - 300k per annum. Our experiences where we're staying presently is making us to ensure we get as much value for our money at our new apartment. And this Ikorodu apartment is offering just that!

Myself and my wife both know that the Ikorodu option would come with its stress. But, yours sincerely, I'd gladly consider 2 or 3bed option in 'town' here that wouldn't eat into my pocket too much, and one that'd offer me the option of 1yr rent.

Maybe there is something we don't know, what value are you talking about really? Closeness to some family or school? the large and spacious rooms?

I lost an old colleague of mine last year who was living in this ur new area, maybe her death had other issues, no one can really say but she just slumped and died on her way from work one day. She had been stressed out and weak for a while.
Another one is always having issues with his bosses cuz he loves to close early to meet the boat, while others don't mind working late when there is work to be done, to him it's a no no.

Anyways, it's ur choice but think am well sha.

Why don't you get a 2 bedroom flat in a closer location? On the long run, I think the physical stress and other side effects accrued from living far from ur workplace is costlier than the savings you will be making.

Will she be taking the boat to VI from ur new location? That's shorter but very expensive as well and if she will be going by road, that's suicidal, I don't encourage it at all. The long hrs in traffic, the dangers on the road, the long absence from home and kids...to me it's never worth it.

Idowuogbo:
I swear! She is goooooood. I'm part of her likers association . Ma'am,u see the babe abacha? That shyte was turning me mehn

ID, me and you who like better thing pass ooo she is just too much.

Herzumpther:
thanks ma'am.

I use to have food business in mind but...... I will just keep believing.

Happy new year ma'am.

Happy new year dear! My best wishes to everybody at home.

Don't worry, we'll talk soon.

Herzumpther:
My new year.

Today my mum snapped me when I was pounding , washed and carried the mota on my head returning it to the kitchen. funny but fun.

My new year once again..... I pray my pics uploads without giving me problems, its a new year o.

Happy new year everybody.

Waoh! You are my role model in this section. You know, If you enjoy cooking this much, you could make a business out of it - food for thought.

Happy Birthday! God bless you

tron23:
@ evina should I stop paying my tithe for the next 3 mths and settle my bills? Yes or no? That's my question. Because wifey is making it seem like am a sinner, she says we should trust in God, fine I agree, but I need to make plans.

Your request amazes me. You want people with different views and religion to tell you something that has to do with your personal faith?? Who does that? Don't you think each person will advise you according to his/her own personal beliefs that may be in contrast to that which you believe? Don't you have people of similar faith that you can seek advice from? smh

Good luck as you get all the validation you are seeking to do that which you have already purposed to do.

One of the taboos of our land, rest in peace little angel.

Give it to Lagos State that has banned kids, multiple persons and pregnant women from taking bikes.

Not 100% compliance I agree but we'll get there.

lol... true to a large extent. Swallow is the name of the game

Op, you say you live in the Eastern part of Nigeria and you still think your mother can file for bankruptcy?? I can't seem to reconcile these two statements.

Anyways, the problem with the family is not really the loan, the problem is you and ur siblings' wrong perception of who is responsible for the loan. The major reason the loan has grown so high is that you have all assumed it's ur mothers primary duty to repay back the loan. Sorry, it is not!

Pls, you and your siblings should henceforth have a change of orientation, you are all responsible for the loan and she is just a mere middleman who took the loan on your behalf. Once you guys see it that way, I can assure you the loan will be fully repaid in a very short time.

Too bad this thread will end up this way...

Nmeri17:
I just wanno be happy

And happy you WILL be!

edwife:
Many more to come,Happy Anniversary

May this night be blessed with the fertilisation of twins.......iseeeeee

@ Cococandy :Happy anniversary! God bless ur marriage.

Edwife, you want her to multi fertilize, to top up and born quadruplets baa. Ok ooo Iseeeeeeeeeeeee

Mynd44:
One shepe bottle standing on the wall
One shepe bottle standing on the wall
If I drink shepe and accidentally fall
I will just get up and drink shepe some more

Hahahahahhahhhahahahhahhahahahh

This cracked me up real bad, I can't even explain why