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cococandy:
what do y'all wanna eat?

cutiereborn:
I rushed off to the hospital to see my doctor & she congratulated me and said should keep taking my folic acid and fesolate (iron meds).
She advised that if I was feeling ok, I can wait till 15wks to register for ANC, which I agreed to cos, God has been great to me!
Since this pregancy started, only cramps once in a while and maybe tasteless tonuge, but no sign of Mornining Sickness which was why the devil wanted to put fear in me if I was still carrying a child or not.
But God has proved Himself faithful despite my unfaithfulness which is why I can proudly say #TeamSeptember!!!
God is Awesome and should always be priased cos he alone is worthy!

kaffy4bill:
Sis, it's bn God oo. So sori for the long silence. There r times I cum in to check but can't type.
Tanx 2 all for bn dere
2day is my hubby n son's bday.. all adoration to God...
Love nd miss u all

Prouddad38:
Good morning mamas in d house,dis is proudmom using dh's. Phone. I can't post again or reply to post here since last nite ,when I want it will say 'u can't do that right now try again after a few hours' Pls what could be d cause? That being said,pls mama I'm going for my 1st scan today,can I eat bfore going? Pls help o

cutekonkolo:
Good evening buriful mamas in d ouse, abegn this my pregnancy package tire me o. Imagine! One minute, I wil be hungry like some1 who has not eaten for the past 10 years, after eating, na so belle go stand, to lie down, na wahala, sit up, na trouble, I wil become so restless, and if I no chop I no go dey alright, abeg sabi mamas wetin I fit do o, am 30 weeks. Nagode

LostMermaid:
I said 2 and 3 are related and you go and bring up what I wrote as thought number 1.

Are you doing that on purpose just to seem right, or did you sincerely not pay attention that I said TWO and THREE are related.

I feel like I've been writing in vain; and you don't read it properly; and then come again and write something else, just to prove me wrong.

The things below are clearly related to the thought of baby mama is evil, based on what my man said, and she might influence the kid, hence the kid might influence the whole family;
And also number 3 mainly emerges from the thought that baby mama tricked him -based on what my man told me again- and therefore she doesn't deserve to share such a bond with him.


!!! It's clear to see.

2. I also think, his child with his ex ( 4 now) might influence the children I will have with him in a bad way, if she came living with us. Sometimes I think it might be nice... but sometimes I think she will be an outsider, kind of like a secret agent; not exactly from the family; representing her mother, and maybe sometimes reminding her, or defending her. [/b]Kind of like a dark cloud above the happiness of the family. Keeping us from behaving comfortably, or keeping us from just being the family; like for example preventing me from telling my children how I met the love of my life, their father, my future husband, because she might get jealous or something. Lots of things like that.... What do you think about this?

My man said she might put her mother's picture in her own room when she comes living with us, or even a picture of the mother and my man and the child together (as a family!!?!!!) and he said as much as he wouldn't like this, he should be and also I should be ok with this... undecided

3. Sometimes it's also bothering me that she has a part of him... [b]That way she made herself "forever" remaining in his life, that way or the other. In a way, she still has power over him. As if, he, in a way, partially belongs to her. Despite him saying he hates her badly and everything and they don't even have a proper friendly conversation. He is the father of her child. And he's crazy about her (his) child! There's no stronger bond than that! cry cry cry

LostMermaid:
2. and 3. is actually highly relevant to what I heard about the baby mama. I was saying baby mama might influence the kid, and then the kid might affect the happiness in the family in a negative way. It's definately based on thinking this baby mama is a tricky woman who also cheated on her partner; someone with bad personality; so therefore might influence the child.


About 3; these feelings mainly emerged from thinking she TRICKED him into it. So even though he never wanted that; based on what I heard about her; she FORCED him to create a child together and have such a bond.

If it was his previous marriage and everything happened in its natural way but then their love faded and that's how they fell apart; I wouldn't be having these feelings...

I'm more OK with it now though.

Yet I'm surprised how you could think these are MY INNER THOUGHTS that were not triggered by what I heard about baby mama. It's clear they are!

pickabeau1:
Oh,,, i will say that was auto correct or did i mean it...

who knows

pickabeau1:
I have to admit he has presentation issues
But he said it on the thread all the while
Maybe i asked for further clarification

No need to be wandering

pickabeau1:
He gave a detailed break down

In his email to me

He mentioned the school fees was 27,000 with a late fee penalty of 5,000
There is a 4,000 for EDS - Enterpreneurial Development Studies


I guess if there was a delay beyond a certain date, there was an additional penalty

Ikani... do you now see the problem with lies
Everyone doubts you even when you are saying the truth

softysparky:
I have gone through her post severally and I think her problem is not about the slut of a mother but the child, I don't think with the way she reasons, she can ever bring herself loving that child.


These are her exact post and worries.....


since he loves
me so much and wants to spend rest of his life
with me, since I'm the woman he's in love with;
then if he makes a child with me, he should love
that child more. More than the one he made with a
slutty ex by accident, who is still behaving in an
evil way.

I like that little child, but sometimes I find myself
resentful that he loves the child of such a slut so
much. And then I think; if he's gonna love my child
at the same level; then what's special about
it...What's special about having a child with the
one you love and all?

2. I also think, his child with his ex ( 4 now) might
influence the children I will have with him in a bad
way, if she came living with us. Sometimes I think
it might be nice... but sometimes I think she will be
an outsider, kind of like a secret agent; not
exactly from the family; representing her mother?
and maybe sometimes reminding her, or defending
her. Kind of like a dark cloud above the happiness
of the family. Keeping us from behaving
comfortably, or keeping us from just being the
family; like for example preventing me from telling
my children how I met the love of my life, their
father, my future husband, because she might get
jealous or something. Lots of things like that....
What do you think about this?


3. Sometimes it's also bothering me that she has a
part of him... That way she made herself "forever"
remaining in his life, that way or the other. In a
way, she still has power over him. As if, he, in a
way, partially belongs to her.

freecocoa:
You've said it all, who cares about the ex here, we are talking about the child biko.

aisha2:
Read through page 7 when she said she tried to be friendly with the woman and the boyfriend was mean to her afterwards making it a we must both hate my ex campaign.

I initially thought it was her till I clearly asked the questions so I could know the source of her aggression that's when she opened up with the angle that the man keeps fuelling the hate with several stories and doesn't even allow her get a closer view of who she has been made to hate to get a different point of view

LostMermaid:
"Handling" something doesn't always happen like in a second; for some maybe it does; some can lift a weight the moment they see it. But some need to try and build strength for it, until they are able to lift it.

I'm trying to build that strength.

"Way of thinking" isn't something constant in our minds; we can change our point of view, we can change our thoughts; if we want to.

And obviously, I want to, I'm trying to, that's why I'm here.

Instead of telling me "I can't handle" you could instead provide HOW one can handle, HOW you would handle, or someone else. That would be a more productive, and affective comment.

Otherwise, "you can't do this, you can't do that, move on, quit...." etc. Saying all these are the easiest thing. And they never help one grow.

aisha2:
The guy is actually the one feeding her all the hate. Worst still when she attempted to be nice to his ex he flared up and was mean to her.

The man is the one with the issues in all this
The ex has moved on and is married, He is the one still.telling stories and making babe here hate the ex as a sign of loyalty to him

Herzumpther:
Make show you use 2 leaves (a big and a small once), for beginners it's best to use 2. I use one too sometimes, especially if my beans is much and I have little quantity of leaves.

Hernyolar:
Dearest mama's...how una dey? How's the pushing ministry?

Congrats to the vigilante mums...may ur LOs always be a source of joy to you...

Just finished my exams today...true true,exams n pregnancy na two parallel line oo...I tnk God am free now...and baby is free to come now..

#I rep team February#

ocelot2006:
Sure...care to explain why she was made not just Minister of Finance, but Minister of Finance and Coordinating Minister of the Economy? That is practically the highest post on the FED and a very FIRST in Nigeria.

3cycle:
The head is the fish, I don't bother about the body but the head makes me reach orgas!m.

funmz:
@beedam I lost my beautiful daughter last October at 42 weeks due to induction. She died 2 days after birth because of oxygen-deprivation as a result of the stress she went through from the induction. Imagine going through that hellish pain and still losing the baby. May it never be your portion in Jesus name. I think there are natural ways to induce labor. You can research on it.

beedam:
Few hours to enter February and my baby still cross leg dey chop all the food wey dey come im way? Okay o! I dey wait am.

Team February, where una dey? Na ur time to shine be this o. E no easy to reach full terms. I pray all will go on well in Jesus name. Amen

Experienced mamas,please can you tell me all you know about being induced? Read about it on Google though but I want first hand information on it. How e dey be? Please I need info as dem talk say na from 41 weeks dem dey induce for my hospital.
Thanks in anticipation.

Chillisauce:
I don't like putting my amala in my soup, and I don't want it to stick on the plate. So I put small ewedu under the amala. Sounds crazy, but I don't see any way round it