₦airaland Forum

Chillis:
You don't need it. But on one condition. Just do 20 push up for me

naijababe:
Oh yes, I forgot you belle is awoof proof

naijababe:
Awoof dey run belle o

damiso:
Lunch today .. Boiled sweet potatoes ,steamed Kale and Fish Stew (croaker fish)


This my church people can test persons self will eh today there was cake,meat pie(proper naija one) ,sausage roll(also proper thick naija dough) scotch egg,puff puff , buns,malt , chin chin fish gosh

I am proud of myself I confronted them and won .. Had just half a scotch egg(halved it with my daughter)

**come and join me sing hallelujah***

damiso:
I thought I was the only one my husband is always saying I don't get your fascination with murder I tell him , don't worry you are not yet 'ripe' for me to kill off (e never get plenty money naa ain't gonna top for anyone for Tassans must be millions something ) I even watch Columbo,Poirot ,Murder She Wrote and the likes.

Jokes apart though, CI is one intriguing and interesting way to look at the human mind . Don't watch it as much as these days get more of my crime and investigation 'fixes' from fictional series. All those real life ones were getting a lil creepy cos it brings it closer to home on what human beings are truly capable of.

salsera:
So we plenty!! Edwife damiso kimoni aaah.
Funnily enough I've moved on from fictional series to more factual documentaries cos at least I know some kinda justice was done. Interestingly enough I don't find factual ones creepy. Its the fictional ones that can get a bit creepy jor (they try too hard). Like criminal minds was hard to watch for me if not for the eye candy there hehe I for dump am tey tey.

Murder she wrote poirot those were my goto dramas in my teens oh coupled with the law firm based series.

modath:
Unlike spoken words, its almost difficult to glean a precise emotional state from written text, you formed your opinion from your perception I did from mine as well.. No one's
Is superior to the other.

Iffffffy's successive "I'm trying to be calm" response to 3 mamas (+ being someone I have an affinity to) was what broke my resolve cos it didn't look like it to me, I may be wrong, but it was not a response of someone feeling better.

& a lot of stuff on here, so many questions I waka pass, starbucks & waistbead's drama I watched in total ghost mode, so the part about suppressing feelings & listening to the mind that said donsay nothing I take objection to, there is something called tough love.

pickabeau1:
Why she no move on na

There's always a new love around the corner ..no be so?

modath:
I'm not wise,&not perfect, so the shade isn't necessary.

I also don't need to explain myself but i come from a place of love & understanding..

I have a friend whose husband gave her an infection that cost her some good childbearing years.., and they worked through it cos in Africa, women don't leave men cos of infidelity, even emotional abuse, some parents will send their daughters back, only in an extreme case of assault will the lady's parents be on her side like a cousin of mine...

I'm not validating his actions nor trying in any way to make Iffffffy feel worse, i also could have kept quiet like i initially planned to do (check my post, i was reluctant) but i just couldn't help it..

I'm not very old but I'm nearer 40 than farther from, so I've seen & heard stories, one of my friends packs condoms in her husband's bag when he has to travel alone & insists despite the man's objection that its not an encouragement, that its a caution that he has a wife & 3 kids who want him safe & sound.... I told her to stop but she told me she lost confidence in men the day their senior pastor made a pass at her(though long time ago).

modath:
I'm going to invite the wrath of some mamas & say i do appreciate the fact that your husband didn't get too carried away & omit to protect himself, you & our precious lil bundle...... Sorry to be blunt but just being honest about things...

bellong:
Tell him I can be his trustee...

The love of money is the root of all evil. Killing spouses because of money. What a wicked world.

salsera:
My favrite shows Kimoni
Women who kill
Crimes of passion
Serial killers
Child killers
Infact everything on crime n investigation channels.I've lost count of the titles.

My aunt and I Luv those type of shows..the rest of her family and mine don't get it.
I just love the detail that goes into investigation, the clues etc

bellong:


SOS alert....

I am sending 10 batallion soldiers to your husband as guard to avoid story that touches the heart...

Chillis:
English Breakfast .

damiso:
Or Shaun T

Chillis:
My dear, just small biscuits and barbecue
, sausages, etc . The 3kg just land.

After all my exercise.
that's why cheating is not adviced.
You could get carried away.

Kimoni I sight you. Well done. Now you will think twice while eating that shiken and chips.

Bukatyne. You did it! Shame no catch you. N'a tin tomatoes you use do your own weight

Berry increase the weight and work on your muscle arms

pickabeau1:
What is wrong with women these days

I thought they can easily move on if things don't work with the man they with

See this beautiful woman with a good job

cc: TV01 Timbuktou crackhaus naijababe Ewuro4 Kimoni cougar



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kaffy4bill:
My princess is here.. cutiereborn, u don get bday mate... bs much later, want to rest
Lots of luv

KnowAll:
U can only work effectively with those u feel comfortably with. Speaking d hausa.language to your subordinates especially someone like Buhari who is more accustomed to that language is to me more progressive than having to interprete instructions to someone who does not understand d language.

Moreover all these 11 or suppos3dly 12 appointments does not need approval from d senate, so it makes sense to appoint peo0le u can flow with without any grammer.

bukatyne:
Day two done

Minus the press ups

Goodnight y'all

mitchelle1989:
pls I need the link to the healthy food tread, I want to be inspired too

bashydemy:
Now this... seems you know me and the problem i faced before separating with my wife... Well let me tell you this, In any case where your business, careers etc is crumbling and you were asked to go and beg your wife then your wife has 98% hand in your problem, She want to ruin you completely cause woman never think with there brain, I satisfy my wife with everything that even our neighbors in my area (Women) always jealous about her and i get to know after we separated and mind you none of this people has even come to ask me about it since Feb 2014.. My wife and her mother take me through hell between 2012 and 2014 and she never hide it ooo she give me condition if i want things to get back to normal and you know what i always tell her? I always tell her let keep it going this way, No matter what if i go out and make #1.000 before i remember you at home i go don spend #800 for my self so madam keep it coming am equal to the task.. I also tell her someone who spread his/her hand to block you from passing can unlock where the hand reaches.. Mind you between this 2 years i did not see my mother, She always call me to come see her and i never go i keep praying for things to be alright mind you the day i see solution to my problem she move out the next day without me even knowing cos i wasn't around now tell me what do you have to say about this.... and mind you i went to my mother and she pray for me over naked.. She pray to God to deliver me from whoever is behind my problems cos they never know when she conceive me nor when she give birth to me and about 2 month after all lost came back in folds.. Now the woman that left house without my consent is begging to come back.. Now if i am your brother that cannot perform my brotherly role for you over 2yrs caused of her what advice will you give me?

bashydemy:
Her family and mine never have same goal if not parent will connive with to buy land and started building house without my consent so they have mission and it failed.

bashydemy:
You got it all wrong again, 90% of ladies of recent time will never want her inlaw around most especially mother inlaw. if the wife see the closeness of the mother and son especially if they discuss something privately she will always want to know what they talk about. Now please tell why is it private? If they want her to know what they discuss they would have invited her to the meeting in the first place. Again I choose her to be my partner and am only helping her you know why? alot of better girls than her are roaming the streets with no hope of getting man to even call them, Go to Redeem, Winner's, Christ Embassy etc you will see them there getting old and still praying for a hubby reason for you woman to be serious and calm.. Stop mingle in affair that they did not call you.. You will never see man man i mean complete man to be asking what his wife and mother discuss behind him.. A man who will be thinking of how to make money will never even have time asking except she say it herself someone like me? I am a kind of man that never mingle in affair you did not invite me to, Sometimes i see my wife acting somehow and when i ask her what happen or what's going and she said nothing i will never ask her again.. i believe if there is anything she will tell me and if she say nothing happen then to me nothing happen even if she like make dey cry blood as far as she no want tell me so be it and my wife know me for that...

Now tell me how taking care of my mother, Seeking advice from my mother because she is more expose to life than me and my wife, or discuss with my mother privately make me cause discord between them or make them rival? Like i said we need to drop this yeye western mentality and all will be well because all this is happening because you want to have equal right as your hubby you wanna know how he make and spend his money... Mind you my dad always said don't let any woman know your worth cos the day she know that day is the beginning of your downfall because from that day her down will pass your supply.

bashydemy:
Don't give that concept of marriage crap, You ladies come up with this same story she is your other half and the most trusted partner but you will never confide or tell him about your day to day life, 95% of married woman will share anything private in her life with mother before she even think of her father not to talk of her hubby... Mind you i never get a new mother in marrying her but a partner I have seen alot happening in relationship even way before i got married, I have seen a case where the wife will kill her hubby so as to inherit his property... I have seen alot within me mostly my friends not that close and how that got hook up with that mess called marriage....I have a friend who work hard and make money, We advice him to buy land and start building house but the wife say no she want them to stay in Lekki and uptil now the guy never buy half plot and could not afford even the rent anymore if the guy has seek his parent advice instead of the wife things would have been better for him now and mind you at the end the woman left him when things went bad for him..

I have seen lady got married to a guy without any kid yet the guy bought her a Rav4 2013 model, bought a storey building and convert it to super market for her at the end her family advice her to victimise her hubby and make sure she know her hubby worth please tell me why did they want to know or what are their plan? mind you my guy is very close to his parent and share the story with them and today they are not together anymore.. Now tell me with all this story up there if those guys happen to be your brother what will be your advice for them in first place...

5minsmadness:
Babygirl said she couldn't talk until he started going on about his mother of 26yrs and your reply was "he is a typical African man,their concept of marriage no be here" meaning you also disproved of the importance of the 26yrs issue.

Or did I misunderstand you?

naijababe:
Damiso, you can understand why i have been b1tching about the side lunges.....it hurts like hell

Day 10 completed. I was team Nat all the way today. Yay!!!

5minsmadness:
But a typical oyibo man will discard his own mother of 26yrs for his wife and you think its a good thing. OK.
Wait till you become mother-in-laws.

babygirlfl:
My thoughts exactly. I did not know where to start so did not reply until this morning when he started going on again about 26years. Thank you for this.

bashydemy:
And who will loose at the end? You won't be surprise one of her friend that advice her to leave will say yes to the hubby..... I said this and i will always repeat it, No woman no matter how much i love you her will threaten me with breakup that will make me sad... I will be so happy that one problem just left me.... Can you imagine my wife telling me my mother and her got sick sametime and i send money to my mother and did not send money to her mother whereas she has about 3 senior brothers.. can you imagine.. So i should abandon my mother and take care of her mother? My mother that i have known for over 26yrs before i even know she and family exist.