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Whatever decision you take, don't ever marry someone out of pity. Marry someone you have genuie feelings for.

naijababe:
Ok nau! I nor wan hear story o

Yes ma'am

You know how to catch me on this forum walahi

naijababe:
Yes baby, went down a dress size and now wear those fitted shirts tucked into my trousers and skirts with no bulging bits


@ Zemaye, I look forward to you joining us. Maybe we will do ripped together.


Kimoni, Damiso, kilode100, bukatyne, Herzumpther how was day one? I used 2kg weights, damn! my biceps are killing me as we speak.

EfemenaXY & Edwife, you are welcome to join us o, we are all in this together

Evening...

coogar:
this is sacrilegious....

Whose moniker is that?

coogar:
this is sacrilegious....

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damiso:
I said lets leave the Bible out of it because not everyone is a Christian.

I am looking at it more from the angle of free speech or everyone being entitled to hold their own beliefs even if it is contrary to what you believe.

Imagine the reaction if it was the other way round, and someone said children don't do well in Traditional mother/father families. I doubt it will even be news. People say marriage is crap all the time, people say Christians are nutters who believe that snakes can talk , people say all sorts that's why they say there is free speech. Free speech is not only for when the person is saying what we want to hear, free speech is sometimes having to listen to stuff that you don't agree with but being civil enough to disagree without trying to ram your opinion down the other person's throat.

In my opinion as much people say the west is a free world where everyone can believe or do what they like as long as they don't hurt anyone, its actually far from the truth. And in some instances that's a good thing as some speech can cause offence to others e.g. se.xism,racism and even homophobic hate speech e.g. all gay people should be shot . However, its beginning to cross the line into the force feeding esp from the LBGT lobby group when simply saying I believe marriage is between a man and a woman is seen as homophobia.

If I am not mistaken, I believe we are saying the same thing just that I see no reason to leave the Bible out of my explanation. I see no reason why everybody else should be free to expresss and practise what they want (freedom of speech) but Christians are expected and encouraged to keep any opinion based on their faith aside in consideration of others.

Pls lemme stop here before I am termed an overzealous or extreme Christian. issssshhhhh

damiso:
Let's even leave bible out of it.. The mainstream media can like to talk out of both sides of the mouth ehnn

How Damiso? If one leaves the bible out of it, one will either join them or run mad trying to explain it.
How does one begin to rationalize or explain all these end-time events? See ESPN bypassing true sport heroes and picking Bruce/Caityln instead. How else does one explain that madness?

Everyone was #jesuischarlie in Jan cos the attack was unwarranted and horrible. everyone was raking you can't defeat us , you can't take away people's rights to freedom of speech bla bla.

Fast forward to March Steffano Gabbana gave an interview that he felt children were better on the traditional family of a father and mother. He is even gay o but thats opinion and he was talking to anybody directly.Elton John sha made himself the gay parent advocate and waged a Twitter war within hours zillions of celebrities has joined and #boycottdolce&Gabbana was trending for days.like seriously another person is not allowed to have a different opinion? Did he say Elton John should stop being a father to his kids?No he just made his own belief known. Everyone tried to browbeat him into an apology for having a different opinion.

I am glad Steffano called their bluff when they were threatening to boycott his labels. Those guys are ready to devour even their own. It's as bad as that.

Same thing happened to Snoop Dogg who was bold enough air his views on Caityln and Akon, unfortunately, he still had to bow to pressure and brought down the post. It's a lonely world out there for anybody who wishes to speak what he believes. Kudos to Ben Carson.
The truth is now a crime

Is it really possible not to get external help when you have two full time working parents and kids?

Maybe it is but the woman will age and die quickly. It's meaningless to live that way when you can afford help

Networking and referrals is sometimes the key to getting a good help. And of course, praying to have the right person sent your way

Poor souls

RIP people

Marrying the girl off like she is a piece of commodity who has no feelings?

Constantly raped and confined to the four walls of her prison marriage

I pity the girl, she took the wrong steps to fight her freedom, now she has to pay

A lesson to all parents out there...

coogaluta:
since when did you start giving balanced views like the one above?
well, save the first paragraph

You noticed baa

I suspect that when Coogar has just finished eating, he gives you the most balanced view ever

any other time, hmnnnn

Caitlyn Jenner, gay marriage legalization, ISIS - these are just signs of the end times (shhhhhhhhhhh if you dare say this too loud, you will be called a conspiracy theorist or a holier-than-thou, self righteous......)

Combining what Coogar, Damiso and Lolad has said and you will have an idea of what's true happening. The true idea of marriage keeps getting unpopular everyday, woe betide you in the West if you have decide to champion what you believe in rather than modern day movements. And we haven't even started, humans are marrying animals, dolls, trees etc they call it marriage and want the same rights


...and Bellong has summed it up...

Rip

emzila:
Mature advice needed. There is dis lady i recently meet and fall in love with, she has a daughter of nine years from unprotected sex and for some reasons she doesn't intend to keep relationship/marriage with d father of her daughter. The problem now is dat her daughter is so use to her that she doesn't want her out of site. We rarely have moment alone, worst of it is dat she even create scene whenever she tries to keep off our present and this is beginning to give me concern. In as much as i don't see it as crime having a baby by mistake, i think i deserve a happy relationship like every other person.

You have very valid concerns bro.

If you are going to date her, then she has to create time for you two to be together. You both need to get to know each other naa.

The child is 9yrs and shouldn't be so clingy anymore. There are several ways to constructively engage s 9 yr old.

The lady needs to balance her time between her daughter and you. You both deserve her time. Pls have a heart to heart talk with her and voice your concerns.

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naijababe:
You don't even know the half of it. I have snacked, ate with cold garri and groundnut, made better okro but not to worry, the pepper sauce is on the list

datalossvictim1:
What are those? they look like worn out clitoriss'

that's exactly what it is - clitoriss'

datalossvictim1:
What are those? they look like worn out clitoriss'

that's exactly what guys call it - clitoriss'

Chillisauce:
Mehn you guys are trying. I don't have the patience and stamina for all these tiny, yet intensive exercise.

Give me 30min continous jogging
1hr cycling or 20min weight lift and I'm good to go.

Sorry I no follow for this exercise. I jump and pass

But kimoni should do this with you.

Kiki where are you?

Cycling I can't do, running I no fit, dont have that enduring stamina

But give me all these body twisting exercises, na you go tire o

Naijababe, I gat you on this one, let's show Chilli how it is done

Team yellow. I want to know the true thoughts of people

lovinam:
Hi all!! Hope you all are waxing strong! E hugs
Proudy!!! Thank God u don get brain lol. Don't forget your walks. It makes labour easy, I can't wait to read ur birth stories @ proudmama38 @ modath @kimoni @byvan3 @ chifreke @adaobi
Plenty drama go dey am. Rotfl @ some names I added. Love u mucho!!

bukatyne:
My mentions dey mess up.

I will have to look for it.

Just read it one day and it was bam.

I totally agree. I thought you saw it recently, will try and look for it too.

bukatyne:
Francis, please Let it go.

Even If you have proof a person had an alternate moniker or not, just forget it.

This is a virtual place and we do not know one another So there is absolutely no need wasting your energy here.

Drop your opinions, do some back and forth If you are inclined to and move on.

There is one almondjoy's guide to NL; very useful. I wish it could be sticked permanently on FP.

Some posters have no opinions and move from thread to thread; some will delibrately twist your poats to suit their purpose; some never air contrary opinion/avoid certain threads not to lose their fanbase/friends; some have different opinions per thread; some have different faces for different groups of posters they roll with; some like to be antagonists for the fun of it; some would insult you If you do not have same opinions; some posters would not just like your e-personality; some are very calm even When disagreeing with you; some would support their group either right or wrong; some want every other person's to follow their footprints (my way or the high way); some would have similar views with you; some would go from thread to thread heating it up; some think every other person. is wrong apart from their own little group etc.

Just enjoy yourself here and think of ways to better yourself in the real world and amongst the people that matter and care.

Have a splendid weekend

Hahahaha

Pls I have been looking for that Kanuwulia's legendary guide to NL. What every newbie should know. I thought it went with the tsunami. Pls could you help me paste the link somewhere and mention me. Thanks Buka

formerlyMbulela:
You have a preconceived notion about men. It negates open discussion. Just because I am a man does not mean I will support Wizzy. He is a dog.
My argument still stands even if she was a virgin. Usage of condoms denotes a measure of responsibility. Whether it is your first time or you are a public bicycle is irrelevant.

You keep committing the same offence - fallacy of hasty generalization. You should have enough evidence before you conclude on any issue/person.

proudmom38:
Are u saying Titus fish is not safe during pregnancy?

Yes. The very big ones (king mackerel) are a no no. Smaller ones can be eaten like once a week. Suya too is a no no.

proudmom38:
Mamas abeg make una help me on dis o,I don turn 'ijewuru' 4 house dis past wks...I eat almost everytime tho not in large quantity,even wen my belle is full I wil stil feel d urge 2 eat something..! Pls is dis normal or is anybody experiencing dis too?

Lol...

It's okay to indulge and spoil urself during pregnancy jare because you won't be pregnant forever

But also, don't overdo it so you won't blow up.

na so only you dey consume all my broda portion for the house ehnn, diarris God oo

mamafresh:
Mamas pls what kind of fish can I eat. Cos I read that some fish are high in mercury.. To be precise is croaker fish safe during pregnancy.

Avoid very big fishes, they are usually high in Mercury. Avoid mackerel too...think that's the one we call Titus in Naija

Croaker should be fine as long as it's not the huge ones

rezzy:
I've been following this thread for a long time, I'm just wondering how you guys eat those food you post.

My regular food are rice, beans, eba, semo with egusi or vegetable soup, bread. I don't like fruits.

I wil try to upgrade my kitchen by buying some kitchen equipments that will help me cook fast and eat healthy.

Thumbs up! That's the whole idea

You can check out the healthy food thread too, it's also very inspiring

At least, it inspires me a lot

formerlyMbulela:
Flawed example. Those who know her say the wizzy'd babymama na runs girl. Leave all that first time story.
In my books sex outside marriage without protection is an unforgivable sin. Together with nude pics and consensual sex tapes, they are acts you can never defend, in my books.
The pregnancy matter is obviously secondary.

I don't know her so I see no reason to discredit her story.

I am not an apostle of "them say....them say..."

She was a runz girl but wizzy was a virgin baa

bellong:
Stories of peadophilic priests abound. The testosterone can't be imprisoned for too long...

Wrong! Ask the Pope

bellong:
No.. NO..... NO...

Don't turn him to a paedophile.....

Naijababe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

***faints***

How did you bring in so many snails