₦airaland Forum

bashydemy:
Like i said in my previous comment, Forget about those western nonsense that is ruining our sense of reasoning. A sane parent will never even want their son to get another woman if his wife is good wife and behave normal, You cannot expect parent most especially the mother to support a wife who disrespect her son in front of everyone always... for instance, I have seen so many cases even here on NL where a lady will say she don't her mother inlaw to be coming over to there house, Some will never wanna see any family member around their hubby.. Some will not want you to go out with your friends trying to control you everytime and in most cases this happen because the lady support of her mother... The only people you will be seeing around are mostly her family, Sometimes when any of your family come to say hello she will want to know their mission what they have come for.. some will even be telling you how much to give your mother, Someone will be acting funny when the hubby family come visiting and you want the family to just sit down and watch?


In my own case I call my wife when she misbehave saying she know my mother is controlling, If i want to go into any imvestment of buy any properties or do anything My (our Lives) why will always go and talk to my parent about it first so what's her mission in the house.. and my response is.. Woman you can't tell me what to do, I am performing my role as a husband and making sure you never lack anything.. But concerning my other normal stuff, Like my business, my investment etc i have to seek the opinion of elders and the most trusted are my Parent father and mother... then she will start nagging... I never get angry and my responses are always brief and direct and one of the response she always get is, Woman, I have known my Father and Mother for good 26yrs before i even know you exist so you can turn my back at them cos i get married to you. Shikenna.

thelish:
thanks for ur wisdom. you read like him but understood better, that is because u are wise. after some words of encouragement here, I feel OK n light. my husband even asked the reason for the happy mood unlike yesterday.

EfemenaXY:
Oh be quiet.

bukatyne:
Yeah!

Day 1 completed minus the press ups!

Chai! did 300g cans instead of 500g...

After a while, knew khaki no bi leather.

Dedicated to Chillisauce

Cc: cococandy, kimoni, naijababe, damiso, zemaye and others.

damiso:
Day 9 done& dusted ..

This was a picture I took before I started .. I had set up ,iPad in position but I was just looking like lucozade cos I was soo tired and having some cramps in my knees(still putting in some miles brisk walking to work ) . I just remembered naijababe and kimoni and I stood up

zemaye:
Nice gadgets congrats on the loss
Have you taken measurements, Jilian is known to chisel the Inches off o
When I did it sef na just 2abi 3kg I loss but the trim die

You want precise detail go for dexa scan cost not more than a 100 bucks
I am hoping to do one next year by God's grace
Or
Body calipers is better than scale guesstimate IMHO

mredwifeosband:
no is your front we had


pikin wey no gree learn lesson for house go learn am outside


na wetin just happened to you

hobii

thelish:
please I need advice on my marriage. my husband is lazy and always dependents on people for survival. Am tired of supporting a man who is not ready to stand. At a time, I had to start selling food for us to cope n pay our son's school fees. we are both graduates. He got depressed and discouraged after applying for several jobs. he graduated since 2008, and still jobless till now. I don't know how I can cope any longer. please matured people of nairaland should advice me. chair cover, efemenaxy, greatgod2012, its a pity osisi is not around anymore, cococandy, tallesty n many more I can't mention. thank u all.

naijababe:
Same here, tried to follow Nat yesterday but promptly switched to Anita after the second one. Did same today, maybe, I will be 100% team Nat by day 20

mabella2:
I made moi-moi with scent leave and pumpkin leave. It came out very delicious

kay29000:
Yea...easier said than done. Thanks anyway

kay29000:
Sometimes I think of how easy and blissful it would be to just end my life and live all these worries and troubles behind, an then I think of my family members and the grief I would leave them in, and I get pissed. I wish I didn't have any family so I could just overdose on sleeping pills and end it all...If not for my family, I wont be missed. I would at least be less trouble to all the people I have caused problems for. I am in so much trouble, and the harder I try to get out, the deeper I sink. I ain't getting older, and I have been thinking of just ending my life. How I wish I could just do it in peace.

BABE3:
which kind check? Chei coco... Upon all the checks and balance you'd think western men will be less shiesty. But surprise, surprise, Infidelity is still a leading cause of divorce in the west. If Infidelity is a leading cause of divorce, imagine the number of western wives that are still living with cheating husbands coz of the emotional stress of divorce....

Humans are the same everywhere. Yes there are laws here in the west compared to Africa but that's all on the surface. No difference between a modern african marriage and a western marriage; the bullshìt is just packaged differently.

The number of cheating men hasn't reduced because of those laws , btw. I can even argue that it has increased.
I've lived in the west for a while, I've never seen where a western wife divorced her husband coz he cheated once. The men usually get a pass; the women proceed to divorce if the man is unrepentant, or if he's rich, or if there are other issues apart from cheating.

Bottom line is, it's not all black and white. We (westerners and Africans) have more similarities than differences.

dayo23:
Dino must b high on cheap Crack, while posting this comment. will destroy him for mentioning Tinubu’s name. Everything Tinubu this Tinubu and that....Useless goats

opella:
I started today, 6 months post partum. So today is my Day 1. I pray I continue till day 30

naijababe:
Give me a hug sweetheart. I got an update without using my headmistress cane

pickabeau1:
Na wa o

una don turn here to political room

for action buffs...I recommend Run All Night

Ppmoma:
Read the healthy meals thread from pages 1-70..now I know I have hope. Hope I'm welcome to join you here also. I have to lose about 32kg at least plus this biggie belle no get part 2..price of motherhood..I so miss my sexy pre-marriage shape. I have downloaded the Jillian Michaels Level 1 and 2..going to kit up now and get into it. I believe we will all get there with patience. Choi..I so dislike being called 'Fat ...' :-

damiso:
Kimoni your belly is not that bad for 4 months post preggy naw.

If you see mine 1 yr post preggy sef you will run

dinachi:
These clowns are actually women who transitioned to men. They are transgendered men. Just look at the photos they have no dicks but the still have all the female reproductive organs like ovary, eggs and womb.