₦airaland Forum

Mryacks:
Oh wow! Seems your hubby has a lot of "fantasies and "fetish" feelings he wants to explore. You are absolutely right to feel angry and disappointed seeing some of those things he has going on in his head while you play the loving loyal wife. But take a deep breath and calm down first okay. I think you should let him know you have seen those information and confront him about it. You guys are a couple so talk about it

His type of response will be really important for you to guage his level of deprevity. Maybe he is just playing with ideas but not acting on it, or he is neck deep in those kind of activities....anyway you see it, those are big temptation traps and embarrassing wrong moral antecedents by him.

PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.

He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.

But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.

Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.

Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.

The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.

She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.

I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.

He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.

HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

treesun:
https://businessday.ng/business-economy/article/trouble-looms-as-foreign-suppliers-reject-letters-of-credit/

Divoc19:
Moh Bad means I am very good in Nigerian street/music language. I don't understand how people who don't have idea of issues will always want to drag victims.

How about Falz the Badth Guy, he evil too?

We have other street skags like Mad, gba good. What does Tunde Bakare Knows apart from the physical bible

aieromon:
Currently, Nigeria is a net importer of crude palm oil from Malaysia, Indonesia and Cameroun as our production cannot meet the increasing demands in country. In Q2 2023, Nigeria exported N312m and imported 10.9bn worth of palm oil products.

Cashew, cocoa, sesame, soya beans, ginger and hibiscus flowers are the reigning forex champions.

Esude007:
This is Lona Farms Limited sesame section, we are working on 20 hectare, and the target is 0.5 tonne per hectare... A bag of sesame in kogi state goes for 150k during off season, and 120k during season. 10kg of sesame is required per hectare for planting, we are using broadcasting method. The sesame seed will be treated with Cypermetrin before broadcasting, to prevent ant picking, and it will be mixed with 20kg of sharp sand before broadcasting for even distribution.

Racoon:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/apc-explains-why-tinubus-meeting-with-biden-was-cancelled/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1695669640

Taylor92:
Na una sabi

Everyday I thank God say neither Naira Marley Sam Larry or Mohbad non was Igbo

This case for don bloody by now

Because to me I see every Igbo as my brother and wish to grow thick skin like them

Na only Mbaise people I no like

We’ve had a very bad experience with those people

saphiere:
https://fb.watch/ni38W3Rv6a/?mibextid=Nif5oz

naptu2:
Biodun Owoborode is a special assistant to chief Sunday Dare.

Biodun Owoborode, FNIA. @OwoborodeBiodun


https://twitter.com/OwoborodeBiodun/status/1706006750485196804

ThomasGitHub:
As unemployment is high in Nigeria, many Nigerians are traveling outside the country to get job and take care of their families back home.
True that... 20 billion USD/annum.




https://www.legit.ng/business-economy/money/1555407-nigerian-sends-20-billion-home-highest-remittance-sub-saharan-africa/

highchief1:
if I tell u wetin happen to my 7yrs relationship u go weak.we won best couple awards in uni.we were like 5n6.fast foward to nysc I paid her unplanned visit and caught her with a man in her house the relationship crashed immediately.this is someone that when I was close to her house I called her and was asking her how she was faring with my absence she said she can’t wait to see me bla bla bla.then to marriage.i stumbled into my wife’s chat on WhatsApp and saw a cleared chat.o asked her who is this and why was the message cleared.she said it’s our 2yrs old child that cleared the chat.i laughed.not deleted chat o but cleared chat.some adults uptil now don’t know how to clear chat but she said a 2yrs old boy cleared the chat.ok na who is the guy she said it’s her old uni friend that he ran into him when he visited her office.since that day,I removed my mind from her.we are happily married,but I can’t vouch for her anymore.i am not bothered by whatever.i cheat sufficiently so im living my life.in all this one day person go die leave both the wife and kids.i no see anything too special in this life.

Bhelamblog:
Martin Khafafa The Managing Director of Radio is currently being blasted online after an explicit photo of him having bath with 2 ladies leaked on the internet this morning..

The Respected and well reputable Kenyan is been dragged with lots of mixed reactions.

See Below!


http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/07/after-sex-photo-of-md-radio-africa.html

JooEeL:
Bro bless u. I face something of this dilemma too. As difficult as it is, sometimes the best is just to assume the worst happened. To keep trying to deify or assume the saintliness of a woman, especially not around, haa... O le wu. I was once in a relationship where I so trusted ma woman, but in the end when I found out she cheated on me, I nearly ran crazy.

Since then, Ive learned to cut short my expectations and frankly, should even do more. Dont trust too much; dont believe too much. If you plan to remain faithful, make sure to ask questions from her. From time to time, prod her. You better don't listen to the extremely foolish advice of people saying dont bother about what your wife does in her absence, dont investigate this, that.

From time to time, call her. Ask her how she satisfies her sexual drive. Ask her simple things like has she visited a man since you've been absent. Who has toasted her. Ask for screenshots of her home chat interface. More importantly, watch the body language. Most will deny at first. But if you persist (once in a while, I mean, not everyday o)... if she's the type with some form of conscience... you will spot the guilt on her face, in her voice...or she may just spit it out... (like in one of my older relationships). From there on, whatever you choose to do is entirely up to you.

Na nigeria cause all dis nonsense sha. Our women were not like this before. Poverty has made more women susceptible to cheating or prostitution before marriage. The rate at which people (men mostly) travel out just to make ends meet tend to jeopardise existing relationship and marriages...cos the tend of infidelity increases sharply too. I don't tend to justify men cheating but I can kinda understand because most men have greater financial input in relationships / marriages. But for a woman, after all d sacrifice and money wey man don do, come still go out to cheat...haa my brother, it's heartbreaking.

Ayooade:
Abeg me i wan join hookup o, I'm tired of living the good girl life, there's really nothing to gain from it...

Berrityga:
omo the day I regret my life ehhn. Nah the day I go tell one girl make she come sit on my face make I give am head. Omo the girl wan suffocate me, nah that day I know say I suppose join navy cause I sabi hold my breathe.

highchief1:
u no go survive am na.from der na fmc emergency ward bro.

Some girls are now into hookup just because of money they can earn doing an honest job. SMH..

If I talk now, they'll say I should mind my business.

Watch Video: https://fb.watch/gLvQQzdvbc/

leanonme82:
Source: https://www.channelstv.com/2023/09/25/breaking-tribunal-dismisses-rhodes-vivours-petition-upholds-sanwo-olu-victory/

Wisdomkosi:
The Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission (FCCPC) has said that it will issue a summon to Erisco Foods Limited over the arrest and detention of Chioma Egodi Jnr.

The Executive Vice Chairman/CEO of FCCPC, Barrister Babatunde Irukera, made this known on X (formerly Twitter) following the arrest of Egodi, who made a review of Erisco’s product.

“UPDATE: @fccpcnigeria operatives have confirmed arrest & transfer of the case to Abuja by the Police Force. She was no longer at the station on arrival,” Irukera posted.

“Working to determine exact current location & engaging Force HQ in Abuja. Summons being issued to @EriscoFoodsLtd immediately.”

The lady in question, Egodi Jnr, made a post on Facebook on September 17, 2023, where she said she tasted too much sugar in the tin tomato she bought, a product of Erisco Foods.

“I went to buy tin tomatoes yesterday (September 16) that I will use to make stew; I didn’t see Gino and Sonia, so I decided to buy this one,” she wrote.

“When I opened it, I decided to taste it omo! Sugar is just too much! Haaa biko let me know if you have used this Tin tomato before because this is an ike gwuru situation!”

The management of Erisco Foods Limited thereafter issued an official statement about the post Egodi made on Facebook about their product and also said they would take all necessary actions against any malicious attack on their reputation.

“The attention of Erisco Foods Limited has been drawn to a Facebook post by one Chioma Egodi Jnr on September 17, 2023, alleging that Nagtko Tomato Mix, one of the three tomato paste variants of Erisco Foods Limited, contains an unhealthy amount of sugar and therefore not fit for human consumption,” Erisco wrote.

“While this claim is untrue and unfounded in its entirety, we wish to put on record that Erisco Foods Limited, from inception Is built on the vision and mission to manufacture and promote healthy, wholly Made-in-Nigeria tomato products with the commitment to feeding not only Nigerians but also Africans with healthy foods.

“Our Initial reaction was to ignore and disregard the post which was obviously intended to mistead our esteemed customers and discredit the image of Ensco Foods Limited, as previously instigated by some elements and syndicates who are uncomfortable with our increasing market dominance as a leading indigenous manufacturer of 100% natural tomato pastes. Considering, however, that Erisco Foods Limited has built a reputation as a credible organization committed to due process and the good of humanity, we have decided to bring the said publication to the attention of relevant authorities.

“In light of the above, we wish to reiterate that Erisco Foods Limited is solely committed to the production of healthy tomato products, including other products that have the full regulatory stamp and approval of NAFDAC and Standard Organization of Nigeria.

“While we recognize the rights of our consumers to make genuine observations about our products, we want to thank our esteemed customers for their continued patronage of Erisco Foods Limited. However, having built our reputation on healthy and quality products which have earned us both local and international awards, including the National Productivity Order of Merit Award, we will take all necessary actions against any malicious attack on our reputation.”

Egodi was arrested and whisked away to Abuja by the Police Force, as confirmed by the FCCPC boss, Irukera on X (formerly Twitter) on Monday.

“This has come to our attention @fccpcnigeria & we are engaged. Saw statement & deepening learning of the circumstances right now,” he posted.

“We have a team seeking to clarify arrest/detention status of the subject; & activating regulatory process to secure explanation from @EriscoFoodsLtd.”

Source : https://9newsng.com/erisco-foods-arrests-woman-for-saying-there-is-too-much-sugar-in-its-product/

spyder880:
It's been long ooo, projects are moving swiftly, just crossed this bridge to see this one i am building for a Nairalander somewhere in Enugu, and on returning, the bridge has collapsed.

See link to the house I went to see below........

https://www.nairaland.com/7516888/making-captivating-5-bedrooms-duplex/16

spyder880:
I just passed this bridge some moments before this happened.

Originalsly:
The man has US Permanent Residency.... he is not a US Citizen ... he is still a Nigerian Citizen and has to use his Nigerian passport. He is treated like any other Nigerian at whatever PoE. I guess he was expecting to be treated as an American. Whatever fuss he made ... adds to the hassle of Nigerian passport holders at that airport. This is nothing new .... not introduced because of Tinubu .... Buhari ... neither Jonathan... we have been causing this upon ourselves for yearsss and are continuing to do so.

skj1377:
Include bank ladies in bulkrooms and front desk/customer care

Gafferde:
@ojay_obin

Do you think he is right?

You can add yours too.

kumbhuru:
Stay away from Lagos and visit any northern state, you will do it at the normal price of 25k.
Ogun, Oyo State is better than Lagos anyways

remsonik:
Last year when I wanted to get it in Oyo state,they said the backlog is holding till December from September and if I need it urgently I was advised to go to Ekiti state,Ondo state or Osun state. A friend did it in Ekiti and another in Osun state and they got it in less than 2 weeks .

I have seen someone who did it for grandma in Ilorin Kwara state and got it in less than 1 week

siofragspot:
That's correct. Three flying sisters


https://www.nairaland.com/7782541/three-nigerian-sisters-all-pilots
Yoruba Amaka


Amazing Nigerians

2mercy:
https://dailynigerian.com/tinubu-spokesperson-ajuri/

FreeStuffsNG:
K1 De Ultimate completes 7-day seclusion rites



https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2023/09/24/k1-de-ultimate-completes-7-day-seclusion-rites/

Obakoolex:
Mad people heard BUA and dangote proposing to reduce cement price they didn't believe and call it scam.
Now marketers that is not the producer said it will be sold for 9k YES! they believe that... just because they like negative news always and want Nigeria to fail under Tinubu.

If you belong to this category you're sick in the head.