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Help2020:
A civilian hired soldiers to come and do the work of police, only in Nigeria. And tomorrow you will claim the politicians are the only bad people in Nigeria. Change your mentality dude.

I was waiting to see something like this. Thank you. This is part of what I am saying, men sympathizing with females just to do wrong thing.

Tomorrow, she could easily lie and manipulate the captain-sav-a-hoe to call the stupid fvcks(Nigerian soldiers) to beat up an innocent guy she is not liking...

Him go still meet him match some day.. Time will tell..

Mumu man..

McSquishi:
Do you know what penis envy refers to? The stage of development when girls realize they have no penis and thus cling to their father, blaming mom for the lack of penis...

so how does “penis envy” fit in response here?

Let’s use phrases we understand, please.

Keep quiet there, who made you an authority on phrases? Sigmund Freud, right

penis envy: Repressed female desire to possess a penis as part of their own anatomy.

Obaseki500:
I have never been this confused in my entire life...

I have a girlfriend that we have been dating for 6 years now... We are not married because I was not stable financially but now things seems to be much better and next year should be the year....I reside in Ibadan so she came in last year after her education to get a job, she's a nurse and we were staying together up till now.

Sex has never been an issue between us up until December last year. We sleep on the same bed and we live in the same house but we have not had sex since December 2020 till date. She's right beside me as I type this message. Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price. I just could not understand the sudden change in her attitude towards sex when wedding is next year.

She also locks her phone and even WhatsApp. Now, I am beginning to have doubt about marrying her.

Her weapon. Sex. Even after marriage, she is still gonna use it. Again, maybe she's tired of you and looking for a way out, I mean dumping you for some new dude.

Don't forget, females are big time opportunists.

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

Can some of you see why I don't support giving women same level of opportunity as men..

I believe Op is one of those men who want females to have their own money so that they could support their husbands..

This is just the beginning, men supporting women by giving them juicy jobs in a hope to collect steady juicy blowjobs are not free from the pain and betrayal the Op is currently feeling.
Most Women are not loyal. Stop helping them. They want independence only to betray you someday.

If men truly want peace of mind in their homes, they should limit the amount of money and reduce job opportunities for females.

Where is that Mr 9jafakeness who called me a crude and primitive misogynist.

He should come bite me. Pvssy Nigga. I'll only say it the way it is.

Even nature knows that, generally,the stronger genders(physical and intellectual ) are willingly and stupidly tolerating the manipulative styles of the supposed weaker genders. Una never start complain. No be today.

Men, y'all need to wake up from this pussified era of female resource control.

Zzor:
Yes she got help and was rushed to the hospital

By men or women?

Karlosorji:
How many times have you come out to protest better pay for the military? They are not magicians

What kinda stupid better pay are you talking about?

You mean, they should increase the monthly pay of a military man who currently earns better than the large number of unemployed and underemployed graduates and youths..

People like you just try to defend what isn't right just to massage the ego of a man with the weapon.. Just like the Nigerian gov' and the bandits.

If you do mean well and think straight, you should be suggesting ways on how government should provide jobs and the enabling environment for the idle civilian citizens to thrive.

People need stable income and meaningful life in order for crimes like armed robbery, banditry, terrorism and fraud to be reduced in Nigeria.

Instead of you to be saying things like, "money should be given to those without it in order to reduce lack which could cause a man to do desperate things just to survive" , you are here talking about increasing the pay of someone who is receiving something already.


So, how do you balance the haves and the have-nots ?

So make people dey watch how dem dey increase your salary why dem no get at all.


And you want make things go well..

D6thSense:
The Labor of our Heroes past will not be in vain

You mean heroes who got killed by few illiterates, Ill trained armed bandits and Boko Haram or the heroes who beat, kill and intimidate unarmed civilians?

LordKO:
I've no doubt that you're a hypocrite, citing your first paragraph "why are Nigerian Men so insensitive." Your husband isn't a standard for Nigerian men, so stop being as insensitive as your husband.

Meanwhile, stop whining and do what you know is the right thing to do under the circumstance, your husband tactlessness notwithstanding.

Wahala for any man whose core purpose of marrying a woman is because of her physical shape and beauty. An associate who married a slim woman five years ago has a balloon-like entity in the same woman today.

Yeee .. ballon-like entity .

Most young females are fat fvcks or potential land whales in slim bodies. The traits start manifesting when you finally wife them up.

You know, Naija struggles kept some of these females slim for a while until they got access to a kitchen and excess food to cook and eat at all times.

The lazy and ever hungry ones are so desperate to get married cos they see men as a way out of occasional lack of good food to eat.
So, they try to eat much to cover for lost times of good food and probably trying to satisfy their never ending long throat thereby not paying attention to their new ballon-like entity status .

ZINIIBANKS:
Where you're suppose to divert the solution to you didn't divert it there. Is nonsense you're saying
Is it good for someone to be fat answer me?
Go and meet a doctor and they will tell u the implications that comes with being fat.
My moms elder sister is fat doctors told her not to eat anything protein again like meat,fish,and so on .she didn't answer around last year August they wanted to cut her right leg up to her knee cause she was diagnosed of diabetes.
If not for God and some other confirm herbs that the Hausa man use for her ,her leg will be amputated by now. when someone tell u to work on your body they're not abusing you they're helping you cause when it's time to face the consequence it will be you alone .
You supporting the Op cause you both are females don't worry keep it up.it still these women that are quick to open a thread when problem set in.
My two kobo ✌.

What's up with Nigerian Doctor and the fast solution(amputation).
Losing a limb by any means is one of the worst thing any homo sapiens should experience.

I have seen and heard cases of them suggesting removal instead of researching and finding a way to avoid such devastating outcome.

Rhodaogunpeju:
Why are our Nigerian Men so insensitive.

I'm naturally a chubby lady with curves and I remember vividy how my husband used to praise my physique and say I'm his spec. According to him skinny girls are not his type.

We got married and I have given birth to two kids and I added weight a little, plus we were living comfortably so the good life was evident in my life and body.

The church we normally attend, the pastor's wife has 5 kids already and she's much older than me but she still looks moderate enough with little or zero stomach fat.

My husband seeing this woman has constantly been telling me to try and work on myself, this man literally wants me to be skinny, when we married I wasn't skinny, the blow was when he compared me to my Pastor's wife, saying I have just 2 kids and I added weight while our Pastor's wife has 5 and she's looking like she never gave birth.. I cried and I have been crying since..


It hurts so much .. It makes me wonder if this man still loves me?

I knew it was a tale of a fat fvck... Your husband is right and you're wrong. Your pastor's wife simply took care of herself. That's all.. Do the same and stop being lazy...

You females eat too much....

You see, when I say beat these females. Put some sense of fear inside them, una no go hear.. You people will be shouting "domestic violence"..

Domestic violence was coined to shame and control men from disciplining wayward and stubborn females while we could be their victims someday..

Such a game plan against the physical stronger gender..
Hey young man, if you don't wanna commit suicide or get killed by a supposed weaker gender, then listen to this. They(females) will always try to manipulate you cos it's part of their survival. They know you love pussy. So, they'll continue to use your pleasure for pvssy to weaken your sense of rational judgment

Way back., na who born our sisters/girls in the neighborhood to think of misbehaving where men dey or follow boys openly where her brothers dey..

Them go beat you(her) like goat, and the parents better no hear about am, cos na drama for her again, young and pregnant was a no no then.. Shameless things(females and young males) these days..

Society producing weak men by the day who only live to please pussy, either consciously or subconsciously ..

daroz:
Oh, it’s obvious you are still a broke little boy , when you grow up you will see things differently.

I tried to ignore your disgusting comment after skimming through the first one, but this very one is what got me pissed..

People are here trying to punish a thief but your soft spot for the female hole is making you to say rubbish about brokeness.

People like you are the reason why these females steal, commit crimes and would still trivialise the seriousness of the issue.

On the other hand, stupid fvcks like you would have killed, arrested or Lynched a man for the same thing.

Na so one divorcee kill her 27yrs husband for ughelli delta state then run go police station..

People like you go still blame the guy for his death.. No be una dey support not to beat women sometimes to put fear and humble them..

Two abi na three days after the visit of Coas to Yobe state.

Jokes on military... Take this fvcking war to the bush and stop worrying the civil populace with uniforms and assault rifle carrying in towns..


How long are we gonna talk about shittttzzz like this... Annoying as some stupid fvcks on this forum. I mean the tribalists, disrepectful females all in the guise of feminism and thirsty pusssy supporters....

cococandy:
this is the kind of trash that some of you consider virtuous. Eww.

You idiot, a man needs to slap the candy outta your Coco.

I look forward to see you experience hard knock for always disrespecting men who gave you comfort and good life.. You try to insult men not remembering the fact that men made a home for you.
If you continue to disrespect reasonable men just because of few rapists, your unattractiveness will suffer from the same rational men, soon.

You ingrate and privileged ass judge go someday feel the wrath of men you tag enablers based on your stupid rapist 1/10 theory....

9jaRealist:
Crude and primitive misogynists...
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Frankly Mr 9jafakeness, I don't give a fvck about you. You ain't no Realist. Just a pvssy supporter.

Stupid fvcks(men) like you are the reason why disrespectful females talk to men anyhow they like.

When she say men go burn me for street, you no see that one abi?

So my reply now made me a crude and primitive misogynist cos I try to beat the candy outta coco.

Maybe next time I'll try to be a refined and modern misogynist.

shogsman:
You better shut your mouth, I'm not about to be lectured by a lady who regards someone who was fuvked on national tv on a tv show aimed at unintelligent ignoramus as a celebrity.
Thank you KUSHME

Welcome shogsman.

cococandy:
They will catch you one day.

And I’m happy to inform you that it will be your fellow men who will gather to burn you in the streets.

I knew natural smelling pvssy like you would come up with a line like this. Females and herd mentality.. You guys are so cliche and stupid.

Reason, you helpless less males see every man as a potential rapist. And some thirsty stupid men continue to wrongly support these lying manipulative bitchezzz..

Second bold. "Fellow men".. You are damn right, we see that all the time. And that's my worry. Man vs man, only to protect stupid holes they wanna put their shlongs in...

Don't worry yourself. However, with all sense of reality, people like us don't see a woman's hole as a sole place of pleasure. So, I need you to know that both my lust and perversion are in check.
I don't even reason women in my daily life like that...




You see, if not for men( mostly betabux), I should be slapping stupid, disrespectful and lying females like you.

Some of us know that the love some men have for Toto, no dey make dem think straight. And we know that most average women know this fact, and they take advantage of it..

Why some men no send women manipulative style after fvcks, some of us just fvck and go. If woman no dey and we feel horn.y. We masturbate with our bae or model imagine and move on.

I no blame you. I blame men for giving you the mouth and freedom to talk to other men anyhow...


Lastly, in your case you won't die, but i am also happy to inform you that your stupid self will be mocked by women and men after street gangs(men) rape and maim you. You will live with bitterness for the rest of your life....

salford1:
I don't know her. After the so called BBN, Is she now an actress, comedian or musician?

. You mean Na the only three professions wey dem dey do after the show?

Kai, Just imagine the rubbish on first page..

Nobody address the situation of the topic.

Na just tribal fight. Na wa

This is no news to every right thinking homo sapiens.

The stupid fvcks of the Nigerian "harm-me" are quite aware of this. But their level of commitment is far from it.

The ambition of a regular officer is to be a general some day while that of the NCO is to retiree in peace, finding other endeavor to fulfill destiny.

Now, onto Naija standard, the combination of all these stupid fvcks parading themselves as harm-me claiming protection across territorial land borders, also minding their business away from any Lil to big crisis within the civilians territory( pun intended) are nothing but mere local rivals to Boko boys, bandits, cultists, amotekun, ESN and every other local armed carrying wicked idiots in the sovereign state of Nigeria.

The most thang you hear most of them blab are, "commando or reguz how far". That bloody civilian dey assume abi... Him don buy job abi..

Seeing the military every day in town around civilians is one of the stupid fvcks our security negligence through nepotism in NDA(gate way to generalship) has brought us thus far.

Again, so many harm-me officers and foot soldiers are stupid fvcks with IQs less than 70. And these are the same bloody harm-me empowered to be responsible for the safety of lives. So sad, what do y'all expect? A better security, huh. Jokes.

Nigeria for now. Na wa...

Killer instinct.


Use Combo. And I'll give you the ultra combo then.

After winning combo will shout "who cares".


Another bad biaach with the ultra combo.. ORCHID

Kalapizim:
This attack around the airport is not new. Last year we had to wait within the airport premises after landing because we heard some people were attacked.

Plying that airport road after 6pm is risky sef.

Funny part is NDA permanent site is close to the airport.

You truly sabi the area, this is really big a joke. A whole gate way to generalship oh.

I don't know about now, but the last time I was there, soldiers were deployed to protect the small town close to the FAAN quarters.

Soldiers wey na how to fvck dey always dey their heads.. Stupid fvcks..

Someone there once told me that, the stupid fvcks do tell the locals, "if we leave here una go suffer".

Ain't that a shame that bandits are bringing their operations right at their backyard.

Is adultery a criminal act?
If it is, then I wonder why? Cos a crime is an act harmful not only to some individual but also to a community, society, or the state.
How eh take be crime for two consenting adults to pursue pleasure/happiness?

Sotey state go come award money give another person.

Where those people wey sabi make Law self?

Mr Grant Harold. A stupid Pussy worshipper whose reality revolves around pvssy.

JustJesse:
I'm not gonna tell (◕ᴗ◕✿)

Lol. we know it's nothing close to STEM.

MeghaneMorgane:
Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much .

What the hell is wrong with homo sapiens, they always try to act smart just to complicate simple things. Why do we always pretend or look for ways to slow down on things we like..
No one is saying not to take precautions, but try to be real to your feelings(suffering/pleasure).
Oh, I almost forgot, you probably won't be looking real(cos, makeup and all that) on your first day/date.

So, what would you know about realness?

Tell him and show him you truly like him, it doesn't change who you are or what you feel. And if the guy is a sentient, he would respect that.

Be careful when you use the head to play games over heart desires.

I have little experience on this lovey dovey thing.

The girl came up straight after all the drama and said she's staying cos she loves me. I respected her for that. We are still together.

FFK. Though we have had meetings across party lines......


The above statement is a sellout already. A clue that the privileged man wants where it is happening ... Fvck Nigerian politicians mehn .

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damn, just when you think when will the killings stop? be it personal, gang and all the rest.

We have things like hunger and diseases threatening homo sapiens already. But man vs man seems to be the bigger problem.

Every day we go out and live for one last time. They don't want to see you eat, they want to see you suffer, they don't want to see you have erection or do any meaningful thing with your time and life.
However, I say respect to every individual and communities whether dead or alive who made civilization what it is today. Cos we still have alot of sentient beings out there who still believe in the human race.


The guyz wishing him RIP are showing signs of "promise to pay back in due time". More killings and the vicious cycle repeats itself.

shouting. greed greed greed of privileged men. Nigeria isn't generating more money anymore, also inflation is eroding the value of naira but many don't know..