YoungBlackRico: You people should stop crying, that's the point. If you like vote a 5 year old in your region na una headache be that. Leave people be with their choice. QED!
Is ur choice to vote whosoever you and remember whatsoever you sow you will reap
kingscare1: Let me start by apologising to him for undermining him, his influence and capacities. I tried to project other aspirants like Osibanjo and Amaechi, I believed that they are better aspirants due to the fact that they are younger, active and technocratic but it take more of those features to win a political election.
The new rule is to focus on winning first by any means possible than any other qualities, at last the winner is all that matters.
Bola Tinubu has proven truly that he is indeed the JAGABAN he is called.
I tried to analyse some of his silent traits that made him unstoppable before and during the just concluded presidential election that he won with a landslide despite being the most controversial, prideful, oldest, ganged-up and unwanted candidate due to his recent outbursts to both the President and his vice, still, won the election. Very heartbreaking from some of us and inspiring at the same time
As we all know that this man Ahmed Bola Tinubu is an extremely wealthy man in all ramifications of life's achievements such as business emperor, political stronghold, family, national leader, King maker, street commander, etc hate him or love him it is what it is.
Now, you can learn from some of his traits that I observed from him especially after winning the just concluded election.
1) Ruggedity: From the way he carries himself as the jagaban of africa, the calibars of people that clears his walking spaces and make up his entourage, how he gets cult-like followership in southwest, honored by day-to-day people on the street of Lagos including the touts of touts, also by respected people from all works of life and even the governor and governors trembles and rush to obey his commands.
Definitely, you cannot underestimate what this man is capable of doing to an individual or group of people.
jesusjnr2020: One Subtle Sin That Would Take Many Christians To Hell
It is unforgiveness because Jesus said:
Matthew 6:14-15 (KJV)
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Moreover, this saying of Jesus was in addition to what He had already said about forgiveness in His teaching about how to pray.
Matthew 6:12 (KJV)
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
However despite the emphasis Jesus placed on the matter of forgiveness, that He reiterated it to show how important it was, many who claim to be His followers still take it lightly, as if Jesus was making a big deal about nothing or didn't know what He was talking about.
The deceptive thing about unforgiveness is its very subtle nature. It seems as though it's normal and not a consequential sin as the others which could take a person to hell, hence many Christians taking it for granted.
However unknown to them, is the fact that it is perhaps the biggest and most influential sin of all, because it's a sin that has the capacity to retain every other sin one has committed, including those one had repented of, as God would not forgive anyone his trespasses if he doesn't forgive others theirs as Jesus had said.
And if God doesn't forgive a person his own sins because he doesn't forgive others theirs, that means the person is surely hell bound.
That's what makes unforgiveness such a dangerous sin.
julie90: I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.
Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.
Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.
I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.
I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.
This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.
The national chairman of the All Progressives Grand Alliance, Victor Oye, has revealed that a former governor of Anambra State, Peter Obi, vowed never to leave the party till death do them part.
However, Obi, who emerged as the governor of the state in 2006 and spent two terms in office, later defected to the Peoples Democratic Party in 2014. He became the Vice-Presidential candidate for the PDP in the 2019 general election.
Speaking about the defection and how APGA was able to win the Anambra election, Oye noted that Obi has not achieved anything politically since he defected because of the covenant he made with the party.
Oye stated that for Obi to achieve anything politically, he will have to return to APGA.
He said, “Remember that Peter Obi was in APGA and when he was with APGA, he performed superlatively well. The moment he left APGA, the APGA spirit left him. He has never achieved anything politically ever since. If he wants to achieve anything politically, he should come back to APGA; then, we will now re-ignite the APGA spirit in him.
“That is how it is done. Let me tell you, let him continue to jump from pillar to post, he cannot achieve anything because APGA gave him a platform and he took a vow that he will never leave APGA until death does them part. Now he left APGA; what do you expect would happen when you take a vow? A vow is a covenant and you must keep it. That is what is happening here.. He has joined Labour Party for Presidency, it will be a catastrophic exercise, it will not work.”
That man should go n sit down nothing like vow, how will you be comparing that vow with marriage vow, what he did was what guys do when they are with a lady on the bed. The man should wake up to reality.
Ibkhaleel: Southerners act like animals...anyway they are!
Who is Obi who knows Obi
Any candidate that d south hate is always the winner...mark my words...
You hate Buhari and he has won twice...
You hate Atiku and he wil win....dazzol!!!
This one just wrote like a cow he is, what has Southerners done to be tagged animal. Mind you everybody eyes dn open and next year election go shock you anú.
FERNANDEZISBACK: 31?what was God doing? Smiling as usual?so sad.. Can we now accept the fact that he doesn't exist cos if he exist he would have found a way to save those persons..
No sensible father will watch his kids stamped to death.. They are gonna insult me for sure but will never think about my statement..if God was truly alive why didn't he save those people...?
Modified: Christian extremist are really insecured..look how they keep insulting their God without bringing logical proof and statement.. My statement remains the same..GOD IS MAN-MADE AND HE DOESN'T EXIST..HE WAS CREATED BY HUMAN TO DECEIVE GULLIBLE PERSONS..THE EARLIER YOU UNDERSTAND THE BETTER..STOP WAITING ON A FOLKTALE BOOK TO CONTROL YA LIFE..
If he doesn't exist I don't think you would have been alive, you sleep everyday and wake up is a prove that God still exist, there are laws that govern nature and each time we break anyone there are consequences.
Gottiii: I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.
I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.
I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.
The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.
Aify3000: When we started the relationship, I was satisfying my girlfriend. She always praised me and said that I am better than her ex.
But at a time, when we are having sex my joystick will just fall down. It happened for one week and she got angry and told me if my joystick keeps falling she is definitely gonna break up our relationship.
What should i do now? She said since i dont have money and i cant give her sex, what is she doing in the relationship?
Children of these days no dey fear sacred things. You are fornicating and your bold telling us to advice you on how to perfect in the act of fornication. Kaiii I weep for my generation.
Iamdbull: Finally nairaland family have a chance of being well represented at the big brother Naija, as your favorite boy Dbull on this one has registered please pray for me that I get chosen. I promise to come and do giveaway here and represent nairaland Wella. The name of my fanbase is #BULLIONAIRES.
Here is an exclusive interview about myself that I did while applying
Abetterperson: I met my boyfriend sometimes last year, I really love him, he's caring and we complement each other quite well. His the first son of his family and his dad is quite absent in his life.
he started working at the age of 15 to support his family and has been working since then to support himself and his family, in simplest terms he carries a lot of burdens. The problem I have with him is that he is addicted to weed, he doesn't let it control him, he functions well but I just have a problem with it.
Please how can I stop him He says it stops the pain but I don't want it to destroy him.
His parents didn't stop him na you wey just meet am less than 10months. Aunty take it easy
Pray4meJC: For privacy reasons, I'm an old nairaland member.
About 22 / 23 years ago, a classmate in secondary school lured us into the act of masturbation. Few days later, I started practicing the act and eventually ejaculated after tough stimulation lasting almost two hours. It got to a point I was almost getting addicted doing the unclean act.
Thereafter I graduated to pornography when internet was just starting in Nigeria. I went further to committing adultery and fornication in the heart rather than with the body by peeping on girls and women having their bathe all to fulfill my lustful eyes. I even watched couple have sex by peeping.
Even though I have stopped and repented from these like 12 years back, I still find myself struggling with other bigger problems called wet dreams, unusual erections and wormlike vibrations in my body and sometimes body freezing at night for 30 seconds to 1 minute.
These wet dreams occurred 2 - 3 times in a week and repeat same in like manner every week compulsorily throughout the year and go on and on the following year. I have gone for several dry fasting and prayer deliverance to no avail.
I don't see myself having sex in the dream when these wet dreams occurred. Sometimes, when the wet dream is about happening I'm conscious and try screaming the name or blood of Jesus but it seems am just very powerless and before I know it, semen has spilled out and I will remain like that. Sleep is distorted and all efforts to sleep is impossible.
Sometimes, when I go to bed early by 8PM and I get caught up by wet dreams by 9:30PM, it means sleep for that night is gone completely. I sleep maximum 2 hours daily because this stuff has messed my mind and life up.
Whenever I lie down to sleep, different uninvited thoughts start forcing themselves on my brain both those that happened today and the ones of years ago. I always try deflecting them by replacing them with bible quote or singing praise to God in my head.
I woke up since 2:30 am today with a wet burser soaked in semen and started typing this because I couldn't no longer sleep. Afternoon sleep is very impossible for me as it has never worked for even 1 minute
I'm greatly troubled and worried because I read my bible and pray before going to bed. I dream about my former schools etc.
As I speak, this stuff has rendered me financially devastated with millions in debt. Could not obtain university admission 19 years ago, brain can't simulate, not married, no kids. Very recently this year my health (details withheld due to family members who might find this posts) is suffering as I can't do anything to earn a living as I easily sored tired in the heart.
PS: At night, every day for all these years, uncontrollable strong erections will suddenly start building up whether I put up underwear or not and I think this is more than the 'morning erections ' science talks about. This is pure spiritual manipulation for me. Same thing happens when I get close to some females whether matured or underage, stupid uncontrollable strong erections suddenly pop up without any sexual thoughts whatsoever to these innocent females. Unfortunately, these arousal is also a problem because it inhibits low self esteem, shame and quick withdrawal from whatever discuss I'm having to avoid the bulge being noticed.
Lastly, a year before I got myself ensnared in all these evil activities, I was already developing memory loss and a single headache that almost took my life prior to all these. The headache can be best described as "sawchain and hammer " tearing the skull to pieces and lasted for hours and resistance to drugs. That was the first and last time I experienced such and any other for that matter.
Where do I go from here? Depression is real when solutions are being defiled.
There is a principle you are not obeying. Principles are not respecter of persons, you can't tell me you have prayed and fasted then it didn't stop.
I can boldly tell you that you have not fully secured your eyes and ear gates. During the day what do watch n listen to, just 3days dry fasting can end any kind of addiction talking from experience and from testimonies from others.
My humble advice is kindly mind what enters your soul through your gates.
janejjjjj5000: Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.
Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.
He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.
NijaDueprocess: Please I needed help to evict a stubborn tenant. After I left the country and handed over my property to a lawyer, a tenant has refused paying his rent for almost two years without reason. The matter has been in court for almost two years without success. The court keeps adjourning the case. The tenant refusal to pay the rent has pushed other tenant to start owing too. Please kindly suggest the best way out of this situation. Location of property: Abuja.
[quote author=West1side post=112134636]You igbos are just too foolish for my liking I swear. What is the big deal in anyone hating this bastard Pandora kleptomaniac. Even Jesus was hated so why can the collosus in failure be hated ? Do igbos not hate Tinubu Fashola Lai Oshibajo.
I make bold to say that it will never be well with the entirety of Peter Obi household. Make your papa come arrest me say I hate the Pandora kleptomaniac bastard criminal.
But Tinubu is you igbos problem so you can continue the hate to continue growing ba ? Did I not tell that many of you igbos are simply mad
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You problem is a mental one I never knew before. See a doctor son
West1side: Can any human believe that doctors were on strike for good 13 months when this oloriburuku pandemic Pandora kleptomaniac bastard Peter Obi was governor yet the lunatics from Igboland will compare the achievement of this bastard with master tactician like Bola Ahmed Tinubu that paid Lagos state workers more than FG.
That is aside Anambra state university that was on strike for virtually the length n breath of the duration of this same Pandora kleptomaniac bastard.
How many failure of this fool will one post before Igbos can open their eyes to the foolishness of this collosus in failure ?
Obi is not ur problem, stop the hate for you to grow old. Ofe nmanu
Milli10: I had this girl who was once my girlfriend. We dated for seven months, and what we shared and had then was magical. On the sixth month of our relationship, she told me she was going to travel to our neigboring state, Owerri and never knew when she was going to come back
I granted her wish, but when this girl came back a few weeks later, she became the opposite of the girl I used to know and love. She would promise to come visit me in my house but would fail to come.. This continued for days and I got tired of the "incessant promise and fail". I had to give up on her and move on with my life
It's been three years since I broke up with her( yes I broke up with her cos I thought she herself had lost feelings for me that's why she never wanted to come and see me again), and in between those years, my friends told me she's married cos they would see her baby bump when she was pregnant..
Just last week, she sent me a friend request on Facebook and started telling me how she has missed me and would like us to meet again. I checked her Fb profile, I got to realise she's got two kids, and in a relationship with the man she was pregnant and delivered for.
This girl has been on my neck, looking for ways to see me again. She says she misses me everyday and wants to have sex with me, and guess what folks? I'm gonna give her what she wants in full package regardless her marriage or single mum status.. I don't give a f**k what people have to say. I'm gonna give it to her how ever she wants it cos myself, I have missed her t***. "Who never f***ed up, should pls don't bash me"
Why are you telling us now. Whatever you sow you will reap 100%.
emmanuellex: Hi guys. Please I need your advice. About 3 years ago I found out she was in my friends house while she told me she was going back to her family after visiting me in my school.
I hacked into her WhatsApp messages due to my suspicions with how she often keeps her phone from me and I saw the chat between she and my friend telling him that she missed her period.
I love her so much and I decided to let go due to her statement about what she did was because I also cheated on her with a friend of hers. There was no evidence that I ever did such.
Everything was going fine until this year 2022 when I discovered she’s doing thesame with another guy.
slimfit1: Whoever is close to this man, tell him to keep quiet. Even Buhari kept quiet has his people kept on killing. Dialogue with them, they know you, you don't know them.
Is it that you don't understand English or you can't read? Kindly rewatch the video
FamilyAdviser: It was destined that Jesus Christ will come and save the world, one of the stringent policy attached to his coming was his death which he accepted wholeheartedly when every other Angels declined.
We all know the story of how Judas Iscariot Betrayed Jesus: For instance in Luke 22:4-6
4 And Judas went to the chief priests and the officers of the temple guard and discussed with them how he might betray Jesus. 5 They were delighted and agreed to give him money.(G) 6 He consented, and watched for an opportunity to hand Jesus over to them when no crowd was present.
In Matthew 27:3-5,. ... ' So Judas threw the money into the temple and left. Then he went away and hanged himself.
Did Judas Iscariot Betrayed Jesus or help him Fulfill the Scripture??
Only you ask question still answer the question again, watn u want us to now answer? Judas tells the chief priests and elders, "'I have sinned,' he said, 'for I have betrayed innocent blood