Microwhy: I ordered for sneakers on Aliexpress and GTbank debit 3X, they reversed 1 and keep mute on the 2nd over-debit. This time, I no get strength for their wahala, na so I hang their matter for God hand.
Dominion791: I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description.
There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation.
I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father.
For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion.
I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone.
What do I do now?
@21 you done begin chop watn ur papa dey chop time to take responsibility you dey fear. Young man welcome to the club of fatherhood. Your parents will be proud of you
Kipling: Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.
I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.
I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.
Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.
Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.
Go to God in prayer and make peace with him, then u embark on a 3days dry fasting.
Proudpolygamist: My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations. Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son. Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.
Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else. She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings. I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room. The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk. I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough. The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek. You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen. In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us. I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.
One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face. I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives. Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.
Or11: I will get straight to the point. I get messages all the time from people in Nigeria asking for money and the surprising thing is it's abled bodied men who beg. Some of them act like big boys on social media but codedly begging using every excuse to ask for money.
I wonder why they can't go and work. Ok there are no jobs but what happened to being an entrepreneur. Anyone can be a real estate agent, car sales agent, shipping/clearing agent or just learn a handwork.
I don't go on Facebook anyone because as soon as I go online, the next thing is *beep beep*, a message comes in that reads "baba every red, pls send anything I go manage am", " My dstv sub don expire, na weekend, borrow me 20k, I go pay you back on Monday ", " My pikin get asthma, abeg I need money buy inhaler", "bros pls I travel go village and spend all my money, I need funds to travel back to Lagos and many more.
What is going on in naija abeg?
See it as a privilege cos not everyone have the money now to help
missimelda01: So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.
The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.
My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).
I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’
I'm angry, disappointed and confused. What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.
P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.
Both of you are in lust not love, love seeks for the good of the another.
Kuriosmynd: So I went to a bar to relax after church and from the crazy NIgerian heat of today. ...........
One of the bartender, cheerful, pretty and shinny ebony tone; tall, straight shape with very sexy size shape of an ass came with her baby girl. This little girl is about 7 years from my estimation...but frolicking about and taking in the bad expoure of such ambience.
The problem I could quickly deduce is that this bar is a very notorious one, infamous for immoral kind of gals and guys who many times have no inhibitions about public display of affection...smoking , kisses and all sort. It houses a bar too , where hornny sexual duos come to relieve their inordinate appetite.
I began to wonder the much influence such place could have on that innocent 7 year old kid. Look at the risk, look at the future and psychological implications, and in all of these this baby mama probably do not care or is blinded by the poverty that brought her there in the first place.
My advice is this: Young gals should try to empower themselves first, above personal pleasure, instead of having the dream of being a baby mama. Many a times, the kids are the unfortunate and innocent recipient of such ills.
Really sad. I can only imagine what will become of those kind of children..Hmmmmm Babymamaism is more problem for the future.
From church to bar how come? What has light n darkness have in common?
I have been in a relationship with my gf for the past 8years and this year I planned to Marry her.
Last year, I took her to my sis to learn her business which she did and my sis showed her everything in 3 months, which should have take upto a year for someone to complete learning. I begged my sis to show everything about the business and take her to where she buy her goods. I finally opened a shop for her after 3 months and she started doing well.
There is this a guy she usually talk to but always tell me he is just a mere friend who makes her laugh only not until recently I suspected something must be attached. I had argument with her this December which resulted slapping her slightly twice. I really felt bad and quickly apologize and also told my people to beg her on my behalf.
But since then she has been acting so strangely, so recently, I call this my girl and the guy pick up and told me she is busy and I should not call her anymore, I was shocked and think this is actually a joke, he told me he knows I'm dating her and he is dating her also and nothing I can do. I was really heart broken and down that day.
But she later chat me that it's nothing to worry about. So recently, I went to pray about this and it was revealed this guy has charmed my GF and he is planning to destroy her. Four different spiritual people said same thing that the girl has been charmed and they had turn her against me by this guy.
I know I shud move on but i really love my gf and I don't want her to regret this later, as I was told she will eventually see the reality soon and will definitely wants to come back. I'm just so sad this is happening to me right now.
Please do you think I should fight this to the end or just leave and watch how this guy will destroy her. The guy has nothing and has been collecting money from her and even tell her to leave the shop I rented for her also.
1. A real man doesnt beat his woman. 2. Since you said you got a revelation, what stops the pple that gave you the revelation to break the charm or whatever the guy is using on her?
Comradewhy: That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid. Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.
Your comment is where the whole stupidity full. So a young man cannot protect his sister in peace again, and your here calling it stupidity. What is wrong with us in this generation? The teenager that brought the issue here should be flogged 24 strokes what do you want to do with Facebook and WhatsApp ain't you meant to be doing something meaningful with your life must you carry your problem to social media? Your parents or other elder siblings no dey? As a teenager you dn already begin come social media when u become n adult n finally marry wahala do plenty oh.
4tomandchi: 8 GROUPS OF PRETENDERS AND DANGEROUS PEOPLE. YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE (NOT TO HATE THEM) IN 2022.
(1) Thomas Group- They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but don't really believe in you. They keep on delaying your vision and mission. (John 20:24-29)
(2) Judas Group - They walk with you, eat with you and possibly live with you but are after what they can get from you or elsewhere. They are not loyal and can easily betray you. (Matthew 26:14-16)
(3) Demas Group - They walk with you and possibly live with you; but once you start facing challenges and difficulties, they run away and forsake you. (2 Timothy 4:10)
(4) Korah Group - They pretend to be walking with you but when GOD begins to bless you, they will be jealous of your success. They challenge your influence and authority. They have issues when others acknowledge you. (Numbers 16:1-3)
(5) Ham Group - They are close to you, yet they expose your secrets and unclothedness. The day you made a mistake or committed an error and find yourself in a sinful situation, they tell everyone of your weaknesses and exposing you to ridicules. (Genesis 9:20-24)
(6) Absalom Group - They are very close to you. They are impatiently ambitious. They detest your rising profile. They secretly position themselves to hijack and cut off those who believe in you and win them over by saying that they are better than you. They say all things about you, as being unfair, insensitive, wicked and incompetent. (2 Samuel 15:1-6)
(7) Gehazi Group - They are excessive greedy and insatiable. They collect money behind your back. They ask for financial assistance and make people to feel you are not taking good care of them. (2 Kings 5:20-24)
8 Diotrephes Group This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vs 9-10)
NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches.
On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Shalom, Peace. This is the most dangerous group. They have a voice and influence amongst the people. They can come up with fabricated stories that could destroy your image and position. They are highly territorial. They are the false accusers and forgers of lies. (3 John vs 9-10)
NOTE: These groups of people are found everywhere: In Families, Friends, Businesses, Offices, Work place and Churches.
On the flip-side, do you belong to any of these groups? If you do, kindly remove yourself from such a group because these groups are not for decent and righteous people. God loves you. Shalom, Peace
I disagree with you on the first one. Thomas may not have believe what he was told but that doesn't mean he doesn't believe in Christ. He didn't want to build his ministry on what he heard, he wanted an encounter with the risen Christ.
englishmart: In the old, people like Solomon, David, Jacob, etc married more than one wife. God is still God and doesn't change. Do you think He now sees something wrong in marring more than one wife?
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Stop asking stupid question read your Bible for yourself and know.
Francisanointed: Pardon my grammatical errors A lot of people who regretted getting married to their spouse can attest to the fact that they saw the "red flags" but they insist on continuing the relationship and getting married. Why do people do this ? Married men/women, single ladies/guys,what make/made you to think of marriage even after the red flags A girl continues a relationship or marry a guy that beats her often,cheats on her unrepentantly,abuse her and disrespects her. A guy continues a relationship where he sees the girl cheats,lies and disrespect him. Sometimes you know there are things you can't naturally tolerate but you tolerate them in relationship and eventually when you get married,you want those things you tolerated in your marriage to stop. That is impossible! I know you can't marry someone that is 80 percent a version of you. But you must know what you can cope with
Why do people get married with someone they saw "red flags" ?
I will make this as short as possible. Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,
I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can. While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.
But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything. She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.
What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.
I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.
But right now am seriously confused it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.
I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .
What could be her reasons and What should I do?
As she never born the thing dey affect her psychologically...
Train up a child in the way he should go so that when he is old he won't depart from it... This is as a result of lack of home training, some persons are not qualified to be parents. The heart of man is desperately wicked. Kaii I weep for this generation!!!
Nigeria's grim socio-economic situation has seen many plunged into poverty as prices continue to surge and basic utilities such as power and fuel remain scarce.
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The good people of Imo are the major beneficiary right now.[/quote
Una dey flex for there now you know how much we dey buy fuel now na #250 Bros and salary no increase. As e be Bros manage urself as we for here dey manage ourselves hoping say one day things go better.
surebona: Ok, our relationship was not that serious because I was still bringing up my ex into conversation so she found someone that was willing to marry her, she got married and few weeks later she chatted me up that her man is not capable of getting her pregnant due to complications and that she want me to please help out, that the man agreed to her getting satisfaction outside..
Me confuse o. Abeg which kind wahala b this one and I no even know weten I wan cap dis bani like dis o.
My friend is working with one the top five bank in the country, she Resume the banking job two months ago , So when her employee ask my friend to submit her account number for her monthly payment she mistakenly sent a wrong account number for her Employee.
The problem started when her first salary came , her other colleagues have all received their salary while my friend didn't see her own, My friend now call salary Unit and The told her that her salary has been paid . My friend now crosschecked her account number and she discovered that she gave her employee a wrong account number.
Her Bankers colleague now check the account and the saw the money in that customer account but that customer withdrew all the money immediately the money enter his account.
They have been calling the guy to return the money but he refused ,the Bank manager spoke with the guy but he posting them and he has refuse to pick calls.
The bank now call his next of kin to tell him what his next of kin has done.
silverkings: Good day all. One of the new generation banks employed me as a contract staff in marketing department. Digital sales product executive precisely.
Please what do i expect? How demanding is the job?
I candid advise is that you should start looking for another job cos that one no be work na slavery.. Talking from experience
I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28. Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.
The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.
I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.
Her hubby took her to Abuja.
Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.
I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me. she travelled down to Lagos to see me. I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy. I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came. She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing. She informed me the baby is mine.
I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.
The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.
Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.
How can I handle this situation?
Oga carry ur cross, when u were busy going into her 4x you know even respect the fact say na person fiancee now chemistry done lead to biology and your here asking stupid question. No let me vex with you..
kyber: I asked my girlfriend what is happening in Ukraine and this is what she told me (pictures)
She told me she doesn’t know and what is the meaning of Ukraine ?
I laughed so hard ehn and I was like really?
Was she just playing dumb or what?
What do you think?
She be olodo. Make she leave telemundo, zeeworld and Nollywood. Let her develop herself so that she can be informed. This one shame me on her behalf!!!
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