Paramount01: Hello nairalanders,hope you guys days was good? please advice me on the matter on my mind.
I entered a relationship very early in my life as back as when I was still in secondary school with a girl in my area, we never had sex until wen she finsh her secondary school we started having sex,we don't stay far from each others house so is very easy for her to come over to my house when my parents are not around.
We had sex countless time and what did you expect from people that had sex every time without protection, the girl was pregnant. As at the time she was pregnant I was already in my 200level at the university and she was still looking for admission when I heard about it I told her to keep it but she told me she can't keep it that her parents will kill her so I gave her money to abort it which she did, we continue with our love affair but now very careful till I am about leaving for service, when going I told her I will surely keep myslef for her and she should also keep herself for me till I come that if I hear any rumor that she is dating somebody else I will just cut off the relationship so I left, after a year of service in the far east I got a job and she can't come to my side due to distance I later came home after 1and half year, as I saw her, I observed somebody else has touch her, her breast was full of milk I ask her what happen she said nothing, I later found out that she was pregnant for another guy when I was not around and she aborted it so the milk is still in her breast I was mad within me she beg and I forgive her.
Note all through my stay during service year I never touch any lady I kept my self for her as the promise I made with her,I stayed like 2 months at home before going back to my base,has I left she told me she was pregnant for me again I was shock but told her am not ready to father a child now that she should abort it, she aborted it and we continue our relationship but I only come home once in a year.
My mind was not pure with her again so I now start giving other girl attention due to what has happen before, I now met this new girl, we attend the same Catholic, we started has friend not until I begin to pick interest in this new girl,I asked her out and she agree which make me to forget this my old babe totally, the old babe complain and I told her I am sorry I can't continue with her again that my mind is not with her again, she begged but I told her parents I am not interested again.
My wedding with this my new babe will come up August but my conscience do judge me that i don't treat that old girl well by leaving her. pls help, what can I do?
You are a wicked soul. After killing 2 innocent children and destroying her womb you now want to marry another woman. Who are you leaving that gal for better marry her before your suffering go begin.
RealistRedpiler: An average Banker living his life on a loan: Car loan House loan Money loan Dorime loan Has bleeped Many Nigeria ladies than other proffesion.
Ladies na the Neck Tire dey make una wet
I have banker friends who has countless of women.. I only advise them to Bleep the ladies merciless but avoid the Married one..
Last Friday, we went out.. Alex invited 3 girls and the one I was with thought I was a Banker, that's how I add free pussy though I gave her a little T-Fare It's always good to a give a woman money after sex to cancel any spiritual connection.
I was like, what if she finds out I'm not a banker Lol
Your wrong in that assertion that giving a lady money after sex cancels any spiritual connection, sex is spiritual, there is always a transfer in the spirit when the act is done. You give her you own and collect hers that's why u hardly forget any gal you have slept with. There is a soul tie
Rita005: Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states.
Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride).
A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind.
According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence, her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation.
Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.
I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.
Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in. Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet.
To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared. please I need advice on how to handle this situation. No
Thanks
Can you die for the so called man you are in lust with? If yes follow your heart If No respect your village n calm down ur man will find u.
post=109662324: Anambra State Governor-elect, Prof. Charles Chukwuma Soludo, has restated his vision and manifesto for the state, saying that his campaign promises are not mere political statements, but social contract with Anambra people. Soludo restated this, at the inauguration of 2022 Transition and Handover Committee in Agulu, Anaocha Council.Having a peaceful, progressive and prosperous Anambra State is the collective dream and responsibility of every one in Anambra. There is the need for everyone to own the growth and development of Anambra by contributing through selfless service.” “Anambra must be transformed to a mega industrialised economy state.
So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.
1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.
2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.
May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen
Go n fix the money in the bank till ur ready to use it
JiniBula6: Help me! Is this still gonorrhoea? I had unprotected sex with a girl in September and I got gonorrhoea. I treated with some harbs for long time and later went for injection in a phamarcy with some drugs. After treatment the gonorrhoea symptoms left leaving my penis hole open without pain. For some time now... I complain to the pharmacy and I was told it will close up by itself but up till now it hasn't. I didn't have sex since September till December 25th when I started again but now I'm steady on a condom.
The whole of my penis is wide open. Today I noticed a little purse coming out again as it became wider. I'm worried. I've searched online and I learnt it's Gonnocal Urethritis.
But I want to know if anyone here experienced this before... Please help.
Mature Minded Please. No insults
If they tell una to leave fornication una no go gree hear, just say ur last prayer n give ur mumsi ur ATM card n pin incase. Meanwhile Jesus loves you dearly and He wants you to open the door of your heart for Him to come in.
Efe42: Hello guy's good evening I'm kind off little weird asking such here but I need little advice guy's I meet this girl some year's ago let's say 2 but we're just friends back then, but time flies as there say probably fast - ward to November last year we meet again this time I took her my place of resident we talk alot the following day she came we had s*x.
So she keep coming and before then I've break up with my ex girlfriend she's too proud and she's always like what's trending and I can't take's her shit any more I call for break up but my current girlfriend is very cool and gentle but so attractive.
But now she said she doesn't want sex anymore that' sex is waken her in her spiritual life prayers really hard except if I'm ready to see her parents introduction!!
I've already told her I can't be in a very were sex is unavailable but I still love her Matured minds pls...
You want free thing without commitment. Go n pay her bride price and own her stop fornication.
NovesaTillie: Please I need only matured minds on this. It's a serious matter.
My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.
I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.
He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd. Should I accept his proposal?
Are you a FOOL? Betrayal is worst than murder, who did you even conceive it in ur heart to even play towards that extent, ur sister is still alive and ur thinking of dating or marrying his husband. Kaii who did this to us? Our churches has failed us.
Genesiszero: My brother has been a well disciplined man, he has married a woman whom he love dearly, sometimes I wish If I was a woman, I'll marry him! Gentle, calm, humble, educated, exposed with a very good source of livelihood. Doesn't smoke, drink or womanize And most importantly, God fearing. Maybe heritage from our dad.
But I never could have imagined it that what seems like a blissful marriage of my brother could end just like that. What is the problem? Social media! They had an issue, and she went and posted it there, from WhatsApp to Facebook and the worst of all twitter and some stupid women group which she seems to be a member of, may be there is some Judges there, come and see some people passing judgment even without hearing the other side of the story.
He warned her series of time not to ever post any family related issues to the media. I can remember while I was still with them, he always tells her if she ever has anything about him, she should call him and discus it with him or better still report to our parent. I don't know if it's a family thing for us or something, personally, I'm not too good with these social media of a thing.
To the best of my knowledge, my brother is the best and cool personality I had ever come in contact with, But these act of hers has been the height of it for him.
Brethren as I'm talking to you now, my brother has contacted a lawyer to prepare the divorce papers. Our parents and family members has called a meeting, we begged him for almost a week now but he stood his ground about the divorce, her family has come to apologize and beg for reconciliation for the both of them but to no avail, I spoke to him personally and begged like what you could ever imagine but our please fell on deaf ear. He personally told me that if his wife had gone to the court, he would've preferred it. If there is absolutely anything I know about my brother is him being a man of his words. She has done countless of things to him and She'll call us to apologize all the time and he'll forgive especially when my mom is involved. But for these I don't know what To say, she has cried and cried her eyes all out but for where It seems My brother has made up his mind, But if I may ask the ladies, why always the social media, going out there to claim the victims card.
Sorry I don't have much time neither am I good with telling stories, if not, I should have narrated what led to the whole problem but is a long epistle on it own....
Why is too hard to know what your spouse want and dislike. Note: he doesn't even want you posting his image in any media platform even on his birthdays, we're kinda some sort of reserved people in my family.
The marriage is three years old. Not everybody likes these social media of a thing.
Your brother needs Christ, no matter what the wife did as long as is not adultery divorce is not the solution. How can he not forgive his wife of her offence but his heavenly father forgave him his sin. Is just ego that is worrying your brother if he truely knows God's nature he won't be heady towards this very situation.
kripen: I transferred money to an account of almost 400k from an ATM machine of a bank. Since 3 days now the money has not hit the recipient acc which he even went to confirm, and me I have not receive the money back to my acc .
Please, is there any way this money can be lost without knowing where the money is. For now I called my customer care though I have not gone to the bank. He told me the money was paid to POS or withdrew from POS.
My question also is, can money go to POS without hitting account first? I confirmed the account with the name before sending it that day.
I don't want to lost this money. I need your help?
Did you collect ur printout after doing the transfer? Because that is ur only evidence against the bank. If the op manager wants to help u he or she can go through the camera of the ATM to confirm if truely you came to the ATM machine that day.
oldienavie: So I am 36 years and looking to settle down. I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady. She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want). She is 32 years old.
A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.
To the men, what would you advise ?
I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.
Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.
Follow ur heart, moreover you said she is the kind of woman you want to marry. Waiting for how long to get a younger gal fit make you reach 40.
Voice22: Delta Poly Students Use Convoy of Expensive Cars for their Graduation Party (Video)
Students of Oghara Polytechnic have raised the bar of celebration as they use a convoy of expensive cars for their graduation party.
A video has emerged online showing the graduating students celebrating their feat in grand style. Instead of signing out quietly, the students wowed many with the loud show they put up
In the video shared by @gossipmillnaija, the students were seen moving in a convoy of expensive cars.
Sirens could be heard blowing and attracting the attention of residents of the town.
A voice could be heard in the video saying: “Na graduation o! your school get level?”
Some reactions to the video:
@funnyfrosh wrote: Just imagine me not being a Nigerian � internet will be boring cus this country ehn, pple wey normal no pass 2�
iamrealebere wrote: Graduating without work, in a country that has over 200million people no be juju be that �♀️
ace_tlg wrote: Congratulations to them, but hope say some of Dem no go come back kon rewrite some courses sha ��
presley_pounds_ wrote: Una go go school graduate, come start to behave like who no go school at all, cause what is this
lifeofoghale wrote: After this, NYSC. Then the real world will happen. To graduate no be flex again my people. Just find hand work first. Have a fall back plan. The country doesn’t have plans for you. So plan for your self.
CHoccolaTE: Another thread for males to whine and nag as usual.
I can also create a thread about how I have been scammed by males or disrespected by males for no reason other than because I am female and conclude that men are scammers and rude/mannerless people. I can decide that all men are thieves and armed robbers and kidnappers and just because 90% of these crimes are committed by males.
Na men dey cause problem for this world pass women but they are the ones endlessly complaining of women.
KOPArespect: Good afternoon everyone, I was just on my own thinking of what to eat when a message pop up on my phone...the res is history
What happened to our values and morals? How on Earth will you borrow money instead of being remorseful for not having the money ready your ranting. Lord look upon us with your Mercy!!! Visit Nigeria again and do what only you can do in this country and it's citizens
post=109441000: I went to Onitsha yesterday to cover an event, for hours we were stuck on traffic, many that travelled for yuletide celebration had to come back to the commercial city on Sunday because of 4 days sit at home, serious this is madness
ChiomaCa: Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.
We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.
I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.
My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"
I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.
I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.
Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?
I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.
Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.
I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.
I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.
He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.
I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?
He needs only 3days dry fast and that spirit will leave him.
ChizzyBuna: I had a fling with one of my work friends. She lives 15 mins apart from my area We have been having sex for over a year She is a good friend.
Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest. I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked. The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much
Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked. I have to submit it and prepare their letters. I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year. If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious If my uncle find out, he might sack me. He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D
modified For those asking why they want to sack her Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley. I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her.. Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery. His wife has taken over as of January. Maybe the wife has a hand in this. And i cant ask her why..
Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here
Na ur kind be our problem for naija. Can't you zip up for once?
QuizPay: I will make this epistle to be as short as possible, forget about the grammar and focus on the content ...
Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this?
My fiancee Fines it difficult to cook (though she can cook and a very good cook), I am not the type that eat outside always (I love home food), I only do such once in a while. She cooks sometimes in the evening or at night but it's a no no in the morning, I have to make my dishes for myself before going to work and house chores is even the worst. l gave her 9.9% that's how worst in terms of house chores, her excuse is "my weakness is house chores, I will try to be adjusting blablabla.
She only tidy/clean when I complain, after that she returns to former ways except if I complain again. Any time she does house chores she won't let me hear words, I did this, I did that, you don't even appreciate me, I did that too ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home.
Although if I compel her to do things in romantic way sha she will do it but must I be compelling someone daughter in romantic ways always before doing what she needs to do ni. Also she works in a finance firm and leaves the house around after seven or 7:30am (House to work is close), back by 6pm but should this be an excuse to prepare dish for me, for someone that finds it difficult to prepare breakfast as Early as possible for just one person how much more when kids are involved waking up to take care of kids ecsetera. We agreed she will stop the work and I will set her up when we got marry and she promised after that she will be able to do the tidy and cooking very well . Planning to knot this year anyways, just a bit worry about this house chores of a thing which I have told her times without number...
The good part about her * She is faithful and literally tells me everything that happens to her on daily basis. *she can confidently give me her phone to work (this has happened twice, because I need to help in fixing her phone) , which I will give her updates about her callers, messages etc when she returns back from work and her phone has never be on lock. *She is open and transparent *She is supportive and submissive (with the time I have spent with her) *She is a prayer warrior (she can pray for 4hours ), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning.
About me Me: Am I.T guy, In aspects of earning I earn thrice more than her but I find it easy in doing house chores, (my mama taught me well you know) do dishes and tidy up things myself, (that was how she knows me) and always putting things in place, provides everything needed, supportive etc...Am the kind of person I return home late sometimes because after leaving my official work, I check in my personal business before going home.. So something 9pm or 10pm or 11pm (depends on traffic) before I get back home.
To married people, Councillors, experienced people in the house, , I will like your contribution in terms of House chores issue and wife responsibility etc, It can help me or some people out there in this kind of similar situation. Thank.. (no insult I beg.)
Una never marry but una dn dey live together? That's co habiting my brother. Repent
LotaTee: She leaves for work by 7.30am and you still want her to cook for you and do house chores?Are you a slave master?You want to kill somebody's child because she agreed to date you?Abeg abeg, if you can't cook for yourself then hire a help.This shouldn't even be a problem talk more of bringing it to nairaland.
stampo: Good morning fellow Nairalanders. This is real matters that needs your advice..
A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.
This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on. During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.
During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.
My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him.. My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.
The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.
Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.
edunaragold: After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.
Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.
Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.
Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.
Young man you are not wise. Go and bring your wife back and stop talking rubbish.
Akaegwu: Tinubu is the best man for the job. He succeeded in removing criminal gangs from the street to motor parks and garages in South western Nigeria. He can do same with bandits, terrorists and kidnappers across the country. Vote for him, he will stop medical tourism because all the government hospitals in Lagos is world class and he's a very young healthy man in his early 50's. He will not blip Nigerian resources because the one stolen from Lagos is enough for him. He will be better than buhari. He is Buhari's pro max,ie same product with little improvement in the erea of gathering political criminals across the country country as against only northern political criminals. He will turn Nigeria to world powers. Same has been achieved in Lagos where agberos are the real powerful tools ready to conquer the world. I stand with Tinubu.
matrix199: Don't forget Jesus was a Nazareth(had dreads) and was not judged using his hair type. But then, our society has stereotyped dreadlocks as a sign or show of irresponsibility. We think low cut or bald portrays responsibility which is not necessarily true. 99% of criminals and terrorists paraded were not wearing dreadlocks but low cut. So, as a school owner, i'll give every applicant a fair treatment and later make them understand how the society sees things and how the way they see things may affect our business. A sensible dreadlock applicant would reason out my explanation.
Thanks but i do not agree with your assertions, and as such i will speak for Japan. 1. Japan is relatively affordable. tuition in National universities is 600,000 yen annually. and masters programs are 2 years research program. 2. Japan offers competitive international education. do not take my word for it, simply google and check the QS world university rankings. 3. All schools in the world will take your money. The issue is what would you learn. Masters programs in Japan are research based not course work. 4. everyone is racist. English and factory work becomes the only job option available to you if you refuse to even learn basic japanese. in the IT field in which i suppose robotics belongs to , you don't need to be fluent to get jobs in that field. Infact with a college degree and experience , it is far more easier for you to get a job in IT field and in Factory. I know some many foreigners working for micro pressor and semi conductor companies in Saitama and Hiroshima, with basic japanese language ability. if also in doubt check LinkedIn Japanese job page.
In summary, would it be tough, hell YES, Would it be worth it, SUPER HELL YES. Would you look back and say i am glad i chose Japan to study... HELL YES with all the struggles japan will throw at you.
So you Sabi all this one you come dey ask. Mtcheew
aminusodiq: try uk... I can add u to a nairaland group where u can get direct information on how you can do it on your own... Most of the guys there did it themselves.. I backed down cos i dont have enough
Romance / Re: My Conscience Is Judging Me. Please Help Me by kwasoly(m): 10:52am On Jan 25, 2022 
Is this a red flag or not or its just what it is, or what is your take in this? 
ecsetera. Her suggestion is for us to hire househelp (and house help is a no no for me, even if I will take in house help not now). The house is even small for house help to come in. Sometimes, she dodges cooking by trying to convince me to buy/order food while coming home etc, I do that sometimes but most time I decline and tell her to prepare food at home. 
), though she skips Sunday sometime because of resting. And Sometimes, i am tempted to tell her to reduce prayer at night so she can cook/tidy things that need to be tidy in the morning. 