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eni4real:
Stop trolling

come and beat me

Life is not written in black and white, we as humans get different vibe and energy from different people. Bottom line is when you find someone that rhymes with your vibe keep them. It's that simple all this list will only make you close minded to see beyond your nose.

FrLukas:
Of course she's a kid and we don't know the full story.
Maybe her compound is next door.

Maybe she was accompanied there by her brother.

Maybe the security guard of the bank is her dad. Surely there will be security guards at the bank at that hour, right?

We know how people like to sensationalise issues for the social media.

We don't know the full story.

Yes we don't know the full story,but a stranger took the picture which means there are people coming there to withdraw ,and even if her dad was a security there ,it still doesn't make sense to leave a child like that . If children can be kidnapped in busy church in broad day light what do think will happen in the dark with dim atm lights? Let's call a spade a spade. I still say it again if this country was to be a first world country her parents will be talking to CPS no two ways about it.

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OgunLaakaye:
Dude is even still struggling.

Not even an Evija, Brabus or Maybach in the garage.

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FrLukas:
You are comparing the life you live now with the life she lives with her parents.

no when I was younger ,we stayed in a face me I face you compound ,I used lantern to read in my compound not out on the streets,she is just a kid for crying out loud.

My question is where are her parents that she will be out that late? Even if her house is in the next compound,I will not let my kid be out that late. In sane climes her parents will be talking to CPS for child neglect.

But all your politicians are also in one form of secret society or the other. . If you ask me I will say he is on the right track to hold a prestigious position in this country someday .

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL.. E NEVER EVEN START.

NIGERIANS ARE VERY RESTLESS.
IT STARTS WITH CHRISTMAS. CHRISTMAS, CHRISTMAS, CHRISTMAS. CHRISTMAS HAIR, CHRISTMAS FOOD, CHRISTMAS CLOTHES. AFTER 25TH.... NEW YEAR, NEW YEAR, NEW YEAR.

UP NEXT IS VAL. THESE PEOPLE WILL NEVER REST UNTIL THEY WAKE UP THE DEAD WITH THEIR NOISES.
FOLLOWED BY EASTER. THEN THEY WAIT FOR A FEW MINUTES FOR SALAH, AND CHILDRENS DAY BEFORE THAT. THEN THEY DISTURB US WITH HALLOWEEN/INDEPENDENCE DAY.

THEN THEY TAKE MONTHS OFF TO RESUME THE CHANTS THE NEXT DECEMBER. THIS IS THE LIFE THEY LIVE, YEAR IN, YEAR OUT.
. [color=#000000]I WON'T LIE I'M TIRED OF THE WAY WE PUT MEANINGLESS EMPHASIS ON VERY USELESS THINGS IN NIGERIA.[/color]

I was lost when you mentioned Halloween, how many people celebrate Halloween in Nigeria that you are tired? Let's start from there , maybe you should have added "Thanksgiving " to the list of things Nigerians celebrate too . The way you said Nigerians as if it's only Nigerians that do these celebrations makes it ridiculous

eni4real:
Say NO to sugar mummies!!!
What can they offer in the next 20years?? They are only good for now under make-up!!!

Say Yes to younger ladies with good ambition in life!!! Grow old together!!!
She will still look fantabulous in the next 20years!!

Don't be naive!!!

are you telling me or your fellow boys? . You should be directing this comment to your fellow boys marrying ancestors for visa

eni4real:
That is an exception... Greedy guys see it as an opportunity for green card..
Trust me, they have plan B!!!
It is a Fictional marriage!!!

But doing it real in Nigeria, I mean marrying a Nigerian mama old enough to be your mother should be frowned at !!!

You will think like me , if your blood brother bring someone of mum age around ..

You will personally fight against it.. I can see your energy from here!!!

So how is it fathai's business with all this? So it's ok if they do it in oyibo land than do it Nigeria ,lol una double standards go kill una Las Las . useless boy toys .

eni4real:
I always pray for my fellow men..
Especially the single ones...

Any 30years old plus men have no business marrying a 50years old plus mama..

That is why men need to be mentored!!!

The 50years old lady is looking for companionship at her menopausal stage!!!

Men should not be so desperate to date women old enough to their mothers..

Those women are meant for oldies(ancestors )!!!

As a young guy, go for a younger girl with good ambitions in life!!
Hustle for the bride price!!

Never go through the easiest route!!!
Don't settle for less!!!

lol ,if she was a white woman will you say the same ? All we will hear is "it's a good hustle" ,una don useless reach like that for oyinbo women hand .


Go and tell your brothers marrying their white ancestors as for madam fathai she is happy ,you too be happy for her ,and for her age she looks good.

eni4real:
IVF is not fun .. Many many injections.. Don't be naive!!!
51years old bride?? I see companionship only here!!
I hope the man is 50 years old plus too. Equation balanced!!!

And if he is not how is that your pain tho? Only men are allowed to marry ladies way older than them? You seem so disturbed by the idea of a 51 years old bride , . Again ,stop behaving like those village wizards a 51 years old bride is worth celebrating or you hate good news?

eni4real:
She is 50 years+!!!!
Don't shy away from the truth

I am sure she has children and is more concerned about companionship so why bring that up to begin with . Mind you, IVF has defied nature ,be wise .

I will speak from my side , since it's on a budget

a good hair care product e.g leave in conditioner
A good make up product , a foundation even nude3 lipstick sef
A set of pants
A bra
A shoe

If you want to go extreme a scented candle will do.

As far as I am concerned I only value gifts I can actually use

eni4real:
The older, the Menopause!!!

says a man with no spermatozoa , even the ones that shoot blanks will come online and be yarning dust

Bonnet the one wey dem dey hawk here for 150 naira abi? , this your list na foreign list , except you are gifting me a live aleovera plant nor bother , tea mug ? . The only thing I will say is out of the way on your list that I will appreciate is the Chihuahua ,lol make I nor talk again.

BornagainXtain:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I'm ashamed of the hypocrisy of my fellow Christians as regards the kind gesture of governor zulum on the igbo teacher. None of we Christians saw nothing wrong in the kind gesture despite the governor being Muslim but if a Muslim commits an atrocity we Christians are quick to demonize Muslims as terrorists. We really need to change our ways for christ sake

GOTV na here you come land now? Muslim terrorist

implementing:
Of course it has to be the road leading to thier church ..the earlier everyone drops religion the better this life starts making sense

Modified

I worship satan I'm not a Christian nor Muslim...PM me to join our whatsapp group and have all the wealth you need

that you don't know worshipping Satan is also a religion shows how slow you are . And by the way I think you should share the wealth first for your family and extended realitive .

Ayelala and ogun will do tag team and crush you there

seunmsg:
Segalink is a liar and a con man. He can only deceive people like you and not me.

And about helping others, I don’t need to make noise about my good deeds. People like sega that needs social media validation can keep making noise about pockets of good deeds they did.

Now, get the fvck out of my mention.

sharap there ,if you have helped people I am sure they will not hold back in singing your praises ,lol bad belle go kill you las Las . I am here talking about his good deed ,who is talking about yours? Or na ghosts you dey help

My Friend I don't know what transpired between you and him, na your headache be that but his work speaks for him ,now i say again shut up there , Audio helper

seunmsg:
You’re just a shameless liar like the crooked segalink that you asslick. The Uba Sani video is still online for everybody to see. No GUY was seen with him. He was not caught in any sex romp with anybody. He simply came out of a bathroom naked. The 3 seconds video doesn’t suggest anything. Stop lying to get useless likes on Nairaland.

you dey mad? Never in your life refer to sega link that way else I will beat you when I see you , I have never met sega baba, but I know how that man helped me without even knowing me before ,so please for your own good you better put respect on his name . .


Evil people like you who can never help themselves not to talk of devoting time to help total strangers want to spew trash you better shut up there.

Joystark:
I like this shirt.

me too ,her outfit is classy .

bily:
Don't even bring the white man into this when it comes to finances... So much cultural differences it will be like comparing apples to oranges.

How many Nigerian men will invite you for a birthday party in a restaurant and at the end everyone will pay for what they have eaten? This is normal to them. They are the real definition of OYO.... On your own.
You think it will even be up for discussion who pays for wedding gown if it were a white couple? The wife already knows she will buy her wedding gown.

My question is why should the way a couple handle finances be pitted against house chores?
These are 2 separate things.
Money should be about survival and chores should be about individual strengths and timing.

Overseas, it's not even a topic up for discussion, it's whoever is at home that takes care of the house.

If a husband is doing morning shift like 9am-5pm and a wife is doing a 3pm to midnight shift, obviously the husband will be the major person taking care of the children and home front(btw this happens a lot overseas). This should have no bearing on how they chose to handle their finances.

If the family needs to split finances on percentages, it should have absolutely nothing to do with who does what?
If we wanna be progressive, then we should be, no point in picking and choosing.
We can't be clamoring for equality and still be holding on to the mentality of ' your money is our money and my money is my money '

this mentality will fade when divorce laws are stronger and women can rest easy in their matrimonial homes knowing they cannot be sent packing one day by their husbands for not cooking his favorite meal ,lol as I have seen women sent out to the streets for the most absurd reasons.



And like I said ,I personally have no issues with bills, I know a woman who is the bread winner of her house yet all oga does every day is sit at home like an lmbecile and expect her to come back and cook for him . Honestly it irks me but it's her choice.


If the family does split the financial contributions it has everything to do with who does what cos you can't compare the amount of time on the hands of a fulltime house wife to attend to her family to that of a busy working woman.I know you get my point but just want to drag it on for the sake of argument and take one for the team.


Bottom line is boys on this forum have been advocating for women to bring something to the table , my question is are they ready to follow the Dynamics of this type of relationship to the end? You can't have both worlds,if you want the White man's type of relationship be ready to act like the white man , have a nice day.

akpoguma1989:
Mrs holy Dan though, you do not have what to say so keep quiet, na people like you dey Bleep for one sachet of indomie

you must be very naive not to know it's a guy behind that moniker but then how will you know when sexism has clogged your brain

bily:
This type of equality you are preaching is not practical and may even be considered impossible.
Simply because some roles are much more suited to each gender.

Will the woman be expected to carry heavy loads, wash car, switch on the generator, fix plumbing and electrical issues etc?

Of course you can argue a man doesn't have to do all those things cos he can pay people to do it, but the same argument applies to cleaning the house and other chores that women have generally been conditioned to do.

That's why I believe all these equality arguments are baseless and each gender should do stuffs in areas of their strengths. It shouldn't even be an issue.

Many times I wake up in the morning and I sweep/vacuum the floor while my wife is asleep cos I walk barefeet and can't stand any grit under my feet.

Cooking is not a big deal, anyone who gets home first or anytime at home can cook.

Rules on finances are based on discussion and on the current situation in the family.

At a point I was footing all the bills, At some point, wife was footing all the bills at another point, it was based on % of each persons monthly income.

I really don't understand why these things have to be an issue, I honestly don't.

And yes I don't see anything wrong with asking your wife to handle some of the wedding expenses if she's capable

I think you should direct this answer to your fellow brothers here always spewing trash about Nigerian women. You claim these equal opportunity for parenting is not possible but white men are doing it with no hassle or do they have two heads from Nigerian men? I have sat back and seen how boys on this forum are quick to throw jabs at Nigerian women but the fact is these boys can't even do half of what the white men do .


You talked of plumbing , electrical and stuff ,lol oga your house na construction company? And what's there in turning on generator when I have changed fuel hose that my dad wanted to go and call a gen mechanic for ,lol.


I am glad you said "women have been conditioned to do certain chores" which means it was society that came up with it. An unwritten rule we were born into in this part of the world.


The truth is it is an issue because the modern man wants to eat his cake and have it. The duties of the modern woman has doubled,she now has to work and still take care of the house yet these men have made it seem like the modern woman is according to nairaland boys "not up to the standard of foreign women" oh well if you want the attitude of a foreign woman be ready to act the part of a foreign man .


No one is saying a woman should not contribute to her wedding but when you make it look like it has to be equal oh well be ready to give off that equality in other areas ,that's my point. There has to be a balance,if you want equal opportunity and financial contributions the be ready to spread it even.

Isn't ticketing a form of tax? I am confused

Khaleell001:
How old are you?
let's start from here.

allah akhbar ,

Sets off a bomb


*boooooooooooooooom*

Khaleell001:
How do you know there are my terrorists mentor if you are not one of them?

These lies arw what you think you can use to fight Islam?

I pity your condition.

lol ,pity your family cos I see you bombing yourself for 72 virgins soon

seanwilliam:
with this attitude you cant last long in Africa matrimonial home save western world

well ,i was responding to what you wrote, except you have had a change of mind . If you want women to pay equal bills in an African marriage be ready to take equal responsibilities of both the home and parenting ,it's that simple else you guys should stop spiting trash about Nigerian women when you are no where near white men in reasoning or attitude either

So long as it stays in the north,una headache

Khaleell001:
Go and ask Nathaniel Samuel idiot!

how about we ask shakau first or isis and iswap founders ,I heard the US just goned down one of your terrorist mentors

seanwilliam:
you have said it all..
1. you are submissive , I'll take your full responsibility.
2. You are not submissive, you take care of your responsibility
3. You want gender Equality, then we practice Equality in financial contributions too

Many women are not against equal financial contributions atleast on my part but also be ready to share equal chores and parenting ,we will share baby carrying days and cooking days . You can't go to work and I go to work and you will come home and raise your feet up to watch football while there is food to cook and kids to take care of .

Be ready cos there are days when you too will close from your work and go straight from there to the market to get food stuff for the house . This is how equal opportunity should be fair and truly equal .