₦airaland Forum

CAPSLOCKED:
SO WHY DO YOU REVOLT AGAINST UBUNJA AND MARTINEZ39s WHEN THEY DISH OUT UNTOLD LIFE HACKS TO ENDANGERED MEN?
THOSE TWO SOULS ARE AMONG THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN ON THE INTERNET THIS MILLENNIUM, I JUST HOPE MORE MEN DISCOVER THEM.

lol, ubunja a baby daddy that carries wh0res advicing married folks and men who wish to grow old with their spouses . That is an irony. Lief hacks indeed .

As for you ,hope you have settled with your mother? ,cos we both know all this anti women crusade is fueled by hatred for your mother. Who knows what fuels the other members of your crew

Tookool:
Women are all the same everywhere ..... they detest humble men. This xo guy is a noise maker. I can never take any guy that shows off wads of cash on a regular serious. Dude lives his life on the social media

really? So your sisters detest humble men . The way you lots throw figures around I am tempted to ask how you got your statistics , judging by the fact that you don't even have the full census of all the women in your village both on your mother and your father's side

Even a crippled man will fight back ,mteeew we really now have stronger women and weaker men , rubbish. Thank God I don't have a brother like this

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

And I know someone who just wants a child even if it's a girl.I am sure God is more interested in the plight of such people not your case.

You have children ,this is the time to brace up be strong for your girls cos I am very sure your husband will get worse with his attitude towards you and the girls,I have seen this before so madam brace up and be strong. Be ready to fight for your girls and make them into individuals you will be proud of.


Also I want you to zero your mind on you staying married for long cos it's about to go down ,all the philandering ,he might even have a child outside in his quest for a male child. I am not a bearer of bad news but this is what I have seen happen twice and I am sure other people have had experiences.


If your daughters will turn out well and prove their father wrong it will be up to you. This is not the time to sulk and ask "why me" . People have been through this before and heaven did not fall. Tie your wrapper and arm yourself dear woman ,your daughters need you more than ever.

Surfondsystems:
I have an adult female Lhasa Apso for sale. Interested buyers should contact 08086887010

aww such a cute dog

WildChild00:
Edo State University Ekpoma is the home of cultism, out of 100% of students there 75% belongs to one cult or the other, it is so bad, even females are not left out, in 2005 I lost a friend in that sch, clashes, till date it pains me.


The way the cultism stuff works it's like an oath one takes, you can not leave, anywhere you are or sent to you must execute the task as told to do, another of my close friend in UK told me, he was traced there, by some of their members.

If the guy is a cultist like my mind is telling me ,then the op is in grave danger cos they can trace his cousin to his house .

WildChild00:
Those cult guys can be deadly, especially when to rival groups fight themselves, one has to stay way. Lolzzzzz you did well by sending monies for his xport to live, I nor fit shout

a close friend of my aunt one time was almost in the same situation,they traced the woman' s younger son from ekpoma down to their remote house in ikpoba hill ,dragged the elder bro out ,this was as early as 5:30 am in the morning and nearly shot him before anyone could know what was going on ,the saving grace of that bros was that one of the cultists knows who they were looking for and said it was not him, they told the woman to tell her son to keep running .


Since that time I don't joke with harbouring trouble makers ,na so dem for shoot person wey nor know anything to think the elder brother is this quiet gentle guy ,dem for just kpai the guy for nothing.

WildChild00:
Blood is ticker than H2o

My Friend sup?

I dey o.

If your read his post ,they were never close besides the op has to revert to self preservation mode if e set now forget o, cult people nor dey hear "i nor join" . I personally hate irresponsible people ,I have a cousin like that , he came visiting my parents when I heard ,i sent my mum money to give his for transport . Was so relieved when he left to stay with his friend .

You better eject him before the people chasing him traces him to your house and gun both of you down .


Oga do comot for my house ,

simple ,nor be crime.

He is jobless yet has the time to hang out till 12 am . People outside will be thinking your husband is a hardworking man hence he comes home late at night ,not knowing say uncle dey go live his best life while you slave away and still pay his bills .

Many people will say oh he might get a job connection there,I laugh, many guys are willing to buy you booze most times these guys will not be willing to discuss business with you. Business orientated men know the difference between drinking buddy and business buddy.

All I can say is I hope he doesn't end up bringing STD as sovenier for you cos night crawling and philandering goes hand in hand.

So humans now have crush as in emotional feelings for virtual reality characters oh my!, How low has the human race gone,smh

She is 14 and should be married according to northerners .I doubt this is pedeophilia under Sharia law ,why the fuss,or they now want to be claiming civilised now? .


The irony of this is that if any of the rapsits had offered to marry her ,this would have been swept under the rug and she will be shipped to his house as his fourth wife.

Arsenate:
I'm perfectly fine sweetheart, thanks.

good to know darling.

healthserve:
Smh.

yes o e reach to shake head for Nigerian men with the way they throw jabs at women on this forum one would think they were saints .

healthserve:
Haba. Na so we cum bad finish

who's fault is that ? Stay online and be fighting gender wars while your brothers are busy ruining your reputation home and abroad one even said a few days ago that feminism is the reason men are now transgender and marrying old women and becoming gigolos . .

Smallhead:
You right on your own opinion but along the line you get it all wrong. You always make mention of 'Nigerian Men' this is a very bad notion you have about Nigerian Men.

We now in a globalised world Where whats happening in asia can happen in africa, what in America can happen in Europe, & Australia etc.

Anywhere you go that's the trend everywhere, men are all the same. The only difference is the Mindset, Motivation, Values and Beliefs system, experience, education, economy, demography and the languages.

Even women in civilised country prefer a Nigerian man that is doing good for himself. Humans or let me say Men are different, not all Men are Men.

What you need, is to be at peach with yourself.
change your mindset and orientation, you will just be fine.

You need to be with a real man to know this, you have only encounter boy's in the form of Men. Age is not maturity, there some men with a boy mindset. When you with a real man every other things in life will fall in place.

You talked about cheating, when you in a very healthy relationship your Man will fear, respect and love you.

Note* some men when having the opportunity to cheat, will cheat so even if you go find a new Man in form of the new Saint, it same mind in another body.

I hate infidelity, What i advice is that a real woman will own his man and desciplines his man, communicate with him and trust him, he will never let you down.

*though he is just human.

lol, I am just here laughing you know why? Even pastors are not left our of the infidelity ring, . I refer to Nigerian men because they are the ones I have lived with and grown up to see who am I supposed to refer to ? German men?

Nigerian men are probably the only ones in West Africa willing to marry a so called civilised lady his grandmother's age mate so of course they will be prefered .


I have seen alot in this young years of mine and nothing surprises me as far as Nigerian men are concerned. The drug dealers ,the ritualist na una get am,then the new trend now is sleeping with your daughters and raping babies . Abeg I nor fit talk.


If you hate infidelity,good for you,you are but one man in a multitude of many,you are in no position to hold the forte for others.


Have a nice day .

sassysure:
Hope he is equally writing the same to his abandoned daughter.
Mkpì

lol he is a clout chaser ,with the way he is vested in the child he has with Tonto one would think he doesn't have other kids same way tiwas ex husband uses their son for clout. Mteeew

Smallhead:
It shows you have really come a far way from nothing to the present state you are now.

From my observation, seems you flirted with peoples husband's and boyfriends in the past, who have favoured you in one way or the other to where you are now.

Base on your bossy attitude, seems you have had series of failed relationship in the past and you are now afraid, tired of being alone and empty then you meagle with intending boyfriends of average class, that shows you a little spice of Mr. Nice and responsible which you now gave them the title of 'goodman', 'fiance', 'boyfriend' etc.

My dear sister you only deceiving yourself the Man u presently dating now is having a better side chick aside you. If am lying investigate or if you so thinking he's your futur husband, why havnt him propose yet?

What you say, is who you are. Change your mindset. The way your wrote this write up shows much hatred to be totally submissive to a Man.

Mind you i knw girls like you. Even if you get so rich like you dream, your choice of having any man you like will surely hunt you, even when you find any, they can do all the sacrifices and sugar coating for your hard earn money and just for a short period of time and not forever. no matter how much you have in your bank account.

And at the end you will still need a man to head over you.

I donnot know if i will be available but you really need true love and need to be taken care of properly. You cost me my lunch break

lol, my friend go sit I a ditch somewhere, Mr observer . You wish. Failed relationships ke? I can't count how many men looking for a relationship I have turned down this year alone .

Nigerian men that can even sleep with mad women and rape babies are those the specie of men I am supposed to be scared they will cheat on me? Bro please. . I enjoy it while I can and if he changes I move on to the next one, even if I am married and shit gets real I will bounce ain't nobody got time for "let me stay for the kids".Even your father cheated on your mother, you all men are the same and I have long kept men on a leash like dogs and will never be surprised as far as Nigerian men are concerned


You lots are always quick to refer to how our mothers were the best thing to happen to the Earth and call it the good old days but guess what they were never good enough for your forefathers hence the reason they married many wives.So why then should any woman bend over backwards to please a man when even the generation of women currently still being praised today were never put in the pedestal they deserved .


You should be more focused on your life darling,cos I have mine all figured out, I have both plan A ,B and C , I know all the variables and where it is likely to tilt with different behavioral patterns ,so don't worry about me

What they decide to turn their region into is their business, I am more concerned about how they are migrating down south to forment trouble they are known for

cococandy:
Nairaland male haters today’s

After all the names they call her and wish her bad.

#itissweetinthemiddle .

they are shocked he guy is young and cute unlike their miserable asses . One even said she has reached menopause hence the heartache and wailing from these boys on this thread

People forget it's not just about bringing them home ,we likey don't even have the kit to test people for the virus sef. Where will they be quarantined ,where are the safety gadgets they have in place for doctors who will be monitoring the quarantined people? Judging by how reckless and laid back we are here,it will be a grave mistake to risk bringing them back cos we don't have any plans on ground to even quarantine them not to talk of combating an outbreak. Ordinary cholera did a great damage last year , and to think this virus is air borne,it's scary.

Smallhead:
How does it feel to you when a Man is being treated, pampered, cared for like a lady disgusting in your sight ba? You one hell of a feminist.

You so craved to be loved and treated right but you always fall in the hands of wrong men, which you call scum, etc

I don't advice any sex marrying older people buh lets be logical... if a young girl can marry an older man, why can't a young man marry an older woman?
Its their choice... so carry your feminist mindset comot here...

Try breakup from that your boyfriend or if you married, divorce your husband. Get a good man for yourself and have a good mindset towards men why enjoying a good life. Life too short to be lonely the few years you get to live.

Everyone only complain of the bad side towards men buh no one talks about the good things and good times they enjoyed together.

lol I do have a good man who is not a redpiller, thank goodness for that.

Now as for being jealous of men being pampered, if you go back to my previous coments I will gladly do that for a man so long as he becomes house husband,we will switch roles while I put my feet up and watch telemundo he will be in the kitchen making me dinner, slowly this generation is getting there and we surely will.


Atleast the ones marrying older women are nothing but boy toys so it's all good ,ride on boys . House husbands are very much welcomed in my world,I am all for breaking the dynamics.I always tell my fellow women,if you share the bill share the house up keep and everything else,let him mop and go to the market,go out and have fun and leave the kids with him to bathe and feed.That is where I want my fellow women to be woke ,dont let these me eat their cakes and have it,if he wants to be a Leach he might as well be a house husband .


Lastly dear women stop massaging these men's ego ,if he is not a provider,there is no point trying to massage his ego by using your money and making it seem he is the one paying for it. Many women do this alot and that is what is giving these boys the guts . If I pay for the bill,I will sure let it be known that I am the bread winner, ain't no shame in that ,it means I am a strong woman, proudly take the crown off his head and wear it but some women are ashamed to let the world know they cater for their family. I just don't get this logic. This has to change.

Good write up but as usual scanty comments

Smallhead:
See how greedy and jealous you are... u even envy such men... the world is changing... stay there dey dull urself... both boys and men are getting wiser by the day... who you wan dump ur trash for... *some women are very very funny you want a man to act fool and take all rubbish u thrown at him... am sorry oo. Is his choice to stay or leave... dnt blame him life too short cannot come and live short and live a regretful life and die in it. man need peace of mind even if his life is short.
Pls men be watchful who u marry stop marrying used runs babe, slay queens, fresh out from school, village or city girls. Pls marry someone that u knw very well, somone that can manage family when things not going well.someone that advices and bring reasonable solution to problems, someone that has a future which both of you can work hard and make a reality. This kind of woman can do anything to protect her home*marraige is not easy, women change dat why God give us men the wisdom to make good decisions.

lol I read everything and could not find how your long epistle relates to my comment. . Una funny for this forum sha . Your moniker suits you bro


Me envy makeup wearing men and the ones married to their grandmothers ,lawd this is so hilarious

He is shady, and I love it , the ones who must not be named know themselves .


He has told no lie.

Babalawo
Switzerland
Homos
Cocaine
Etc

Arsenate:
Women don't love their children like we were told. Obviously, if women have their way and things get rough like in this case, they'll abandon their kids without a second thought. I'm not angry or sad about that, I just want men to understand that and see women as the selfish and not-so empathetic gender that they are.

When you know someone is capable of disappointing you, you won't be heartbroken when they eventually do.

lol if we should take a cencus of cold hearted dead beat fathers I am sure you will be overwhelmed by the figures . You men just can't take what you dish. What else will you say again? Oh women are devils women are the reason the sun is too hot , women are the reason for Corona virus .

Las Las una go dey alright,this is the modern world ,if you want to continue with the old dynamics ,go sit in the grave with your forefathers ,ain't no more slave and master relationship,what is good for the goose is good for the gander .


Shey he will be the one to collect bride price in the future,well let him work for it now while they are young ,that "whole abandon kids come back when they are grown to reap where you did not sow and collect bride price" is so played out,I guess the lady wanted to change the narrative,

Chukwurah003:
Yes!!!

lol. Nothing that you lots won't blame feminism for ,soon Corona virus will be associated with feminism

herakles:
I disagree! we don't have weaker men, we just have a system/society that is increasingly antagonistic to masculinity, and tends to favour feminism and the likes

oh feminism is the one encouraging Abuja fine boys to be looking for rich women to leach on many of them are even marrying their grandmothers age mates or is it feminism that is making more men drill asses and dragging wigs and makeup with women?

OcVoice:
An older friend, who could pass as a dad to me owns a bar and few a letout rooms for short sex or even a day booking.

He recently travelled to see his children abroad and asked me to come assist his wife once a while after work/hustle.

The first scenario:
I was there yesterday and I noticed a man in his 60's and a woman in her 50's, drinking and eating together. Their language was of the Eastern and I understood correctly.

After having some bottles, the woman talked about her husband who was on a business trip and her grown up children at the university and all. She locked her shop to come be with the man.

The man also talked about his wife in the village for a function and grown up children bla bla bla!

The shock:
The man was obviously trying to ask her out.....then she immediately told him that she wouldn't be interested in that. The man now asked what she wants and she said they should be fvck buddies. She said: "Any time my husband is away, I'll call u. "We would come here, drink and fvck well"
The man accepted and they booked an hour and went into a room!
Even though they are older and had grown up children, I still don't like adultery!

2nd scenario:

I noticed this last week.

I saw 2 beautiful kids, a boy (about 4 years) and a girl (about 2 years) playing inside the bar. I asked my friend's wife and she said one of her customer had issues with his wife and the wife left him with the kids.

From her story, the guy use to work and provide for his family, till he lost his job and the wife couldn't cope with the hardship. She abandoned her kids and went away with a rich alhaji. This guy has been taking care of the kids....bathing and feeding them, taking them to school and bringing them back, cleaning poos, etc. His rent expired and the landlord sent him packing forcefully, after some months. The reason he stays in the bar in the mean time.

Around 8pm that day, while he was out hustling, I saw the girl sleeping in an uncomfortable manner; hitting her head on the table while she dozed off, and I just thought to myself while carrying her on my arms so she could sleep well; she's innocent. She didn't bring herself to this world. She should be on bed sleeping now. She obviously hadn't had dinner.

Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don't want the man, can't u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them? Where is the love? Is marriage not in good times and in bad times anymore? I had to shed tears while pondering! I was told the man had no one in the city.

I waited till he came back and I spoke with him. He told me the same. I felt so sorry for him. He was looking so tired and stressed. I can't do more than supporting him financially with the little I can.

This has really been disturbing me. Pls ladies, if you know you're not ready to suffer with your man when things gets tough for him, don't bother going into marriage! Don't even bother. A rich man today could be poor tomorrow. Life happens....it might not be his making! Life is not always Rosy!

Our mothers suffered with our fathers when the going was tough, why can't we emulate it?

lol ,do you know the ratio of dead beat dads in this country? There is no written rule or constitution that states that only women are meant to take care of the kids in the event of a break up ,she felt the kids were better off with their father ,so let him do it after all if she had taken them and suffer for them he will still come in the future to collect bride price ,so let him work for the bride price he will eat in the future.

bluefilm:
Oga, wetin kwansign you na?

Go an' marry your own na and stop solving simultaneous equation on other people's lives.

Nonsense.

lol simultaneous equation

babyfaceafrica:
Most people Rẹ saying she is not beautiful, and they are right. However they didn't say they can't sleep with women who are not beautiful, so don't assume. Lots of men get married to average girls.... The writer of the news has very low taste of women qualifying this as beauty, when has yellow pawpaw turn to beauty

the myth here is the fairer the prettier,so you can't fault the OP, hence the bleaching culture we have embraced.

Lol I am here laughing at this thread,the hilarious part is guys saying she is ugly will gladly dress up to go meet her in a location if she offers them sex ,na so guy man take enter kidnapper den.The average Nigerian guy can even be lured by a mad woman. .


I remember when cult clashes were hot ,the dreaded hit men na woman dem dey talk control them enter location to fall them. Make una dey there dey form macho.