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Tosinville:
In united states? Why don't you wanna live wit him right here in nigeria?

Tosinville:
Ladyj, well as a matter of fact no qualify nigerian women excludin those ones abroad dat as already make some money dat r only lookin 4 true love but as far as nigeria is concern, NO MONEY NO HONEY lol dats nigerian girls motto so i don't need to bother openin ma own thread askin dat kinda question cos ppl do pretend here as a qualify nigerian men/women but in real life they're foul lol

Tosinville:
(*¿*) well if someone here tryna tell me in an indirect way she's the right girl then i disagree. Gbam!!!

Tosinville:
Ladyj, yeah! u r right in some kind of ways but as a nigerian guy also, i have deal wit some of 'em nd to call a spade a spade, 85% of naija ladies are after money nd b4 u can meet d right girl dat is not after wat u got then u wil hook urself up wit an uptown girl, and if she fall in love her parents won't let dat rltnship grow nd later end it wit u jus because u r from downtown or they find out dat u r not from a good nd wealthy background etc. . . . . Thats nigerian stup1d mentality for u and i aint blamin those naija material girls tho cos d situation nd economic of dis country is not helpin matters.

kaykaybaba:
, one of the most sensible posts I've seen in the romance section. Its all been said over and over so without bothering with advice I'll just say 'all the best!. I wish u speedy success in your search

Mr Temple:
Now I wish 2 pick d right girl.

Tosinville:
Why dudes keep complainin dat nigerian girls r too materialize? So obsessed wit money. Na poverty? Make una change o! cos dis is jus like a bad records.

manoy:
LOL
Am your dad

davidylan:
ladyjide, just a piece of advice . . . i doubt you will find the quality men you deserve here. Many of them quit posting especially on this section long long ago. If you came here before 2008, you would have snagged a decent one ages ago.

oYaTo:
<sub>hmm. .ladyj actually knows what she wants in a man. .men with such qualities are really rare. .




oh!! we have a winner here. . sure ladyj wont less this chance slip by</sub> 




     

emiloba:
@Ladyjide I don't mean all ladies just most naija babes beside what if I am honest , hard working , caring , Godly, ambitious  etc what next ?

Pafuri:
Why Naija women prefer Naija men:
‎1. He understands your accent.
2. He knows that when you suffix every sentence with 'now', its not a command, e.g. "Come let's go now, "
3. When you guys go out, he pays and doesn't expect a refund, not even of the tip.!
4. He understands why you have to send money home - probably doing the same himself!
5. He doesn't see your kid sister staying in your house as an inconvenience/ cramping his style.
6. He doesn't think you should put your parents in a home.
7. He eats 'Gbegiri and Amala' and doesn't think it's 'yucky' or 'spicy'. In a nutshell, he loves your cooking
8. He gets your jokes.
9. The way he licks his ten fingers 'cos that Ogbono soup with Iyan hit da spot, Oh Yes!!!
10. He has gotten his education or he got something going on.
11. He may be a baby daddy but he loves his kid and takes care of him.
12. He can have a bus load of conversation without him saying much 'cos his momma taught him that.
13. He loves to see you shake that backside to Sir Shina Peters, the original "Back That backside Up" master.
14. He will settle an argument and say sorry while maintaining his man status.
15. I am IN charge but he is THE charge, we understand that.
16. He knows where he is from. Living in NY does not mean you are from NY.
17. He thinks you're so pretty without makeup.
18. He calls you native endearing names like "Nne" or "Omo"
19. He has respect [not to be confused with obedience) for his elders(important).
20. The way he gets embarrased and says "I beg oh" when you compliment him.
21. The way he says "I love you baby" may be very fake yet sound so TRUE!
22. The way he eats meat with his bare hands. For some reason it is sexy to me.
23. The way he calls you his wife in front of all his friends.
24. The way he says "Shey you get am" when he thinks you are not paying attention, but you really are.
25. The way he knows that it is you calling and answers the phone "Hey Baby!" without looking at the caller ID.
26. The way Naija men look when they are all decked out in native? There is nothing sexier than a dark chocolate man in lace o!
27. Pronounces your name like say na im born you.
28. The way he flows from Ebonics to Pidgin English to Akata with ease.
29. He is just at home at your office picnic as he is at the Naija reunion.
30. The very satisfied look on his face after eating one of your meals and the way he glares at you while picking his teeth with the tooth pick,and you both know that you are his next "meal".
31. He appreciates the art of yanshrolling when he sees one!
32. Keeps you from doing wahala by buying a stickshift vehicle he knows U can't drive!
33. He saves you money on groceries a la "limited diet". Just cook the stew and he'll figure the rest? Eba, Amala, Fufu or even plain old White Bread!
34. No need for bosom implants to impress him!
35. No need to go kill himself trying to maintain a six pack. He knows u know say big belle is sexy inside Agbada!
36. He knows to allow you like three hours to get ready for a party!
37. He will not complain when you waka with headful of rollers inside house but quick to let you know that aint nothing sexy about that when you want to go outside.
38. Your singing while doing housework is a classic reminder of wetin he dey miss when he dey carry Akata woman! It also remind him of hiis mother.
39. His lunch (Rice, Beans, Dodo, complete with carefully selected assorted meat) wey you pack for am na something u know sey im no go wait "Palam" (gobble up!) when him reach work
40. He thinks the small gap between your front teeth are actually sexy!!!!
Finally; Cool Cos He Is Just A Naija Man Period!!!"


I love my Naija man. No one else will do.

emiloba:
many nigerian babes don't consider us good enough because most naija ladies are money consious so they really don't get to meet the good guys . the principle is no money no love

TewMuch:
^
No way jose, drama free zone.

DaRapture:
Yes, name calling is ignorant,  hence the reason I referred to you as ignorant for referring the "MAJORITY" of us AA as ghetto,  thus making you ignorant of the truth.

TewMuch:
Away from overly sensitve, overly independeny lady jide. Who want palaver and drama?

DaRapture:
You are ignorant.

funkybaby:
babe, you get time oh.
na poem abi adage wey the guy post you dey try analyse?

anyways, any good news regarding your search? 

Mr Temple:
@ Ladyjide,

Luck is by chance, Preparation is creativity by one's self &
Opportunity is an avenue 2 determine one's value, goals
& achievements.

All dis makes Preparation d crossroad where Luck meets Opportunity.

TewMuch:
^
Sure for your age group.Sooner or later you will realise that relationships are give and take.If the tables were turned and the man needed something the girl could help him with, and she refused. He will dump her.I will do the same to a woman that is of no use to me.

TewMuch:
@ Lady whatever
U lack comprhension skills and your rant was crazed. Did I ever say he should buy the world for her? She is putting herself through school and he said she's a hard working person.He can help her to where it is sensible, nothing wrong with that. He is also looking for sex from her as well right? Why can't they have a celibate relationship then.Finger's are not equal, sometimes people need help.But not to the extent of doing everything.Not every woman can do miss independent like u. Go back nd understand my comment.

Elpieda:
and i dont date Nigerian men because they are corrupt, scammers, 419ers, polygamous and big time cheats,