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RomanceRe: Will you a lady relocate back to Nigeria all for LOVE by Ladyjide(f): 5:09pm On Dec 10, 2010
190:
[color=deeppink]^^

apart from me i dont think there are any other rite men in nigeria

except woke and 170 who is equally good[/color]
so what does that mean?,
RomanceRe: Will you a lady relocate back to Nigeria all for LOVE by Ladyjide(f): 5:04pm On Dec 10, 2010
190:
[color=deeppink]You are born and bred in the United-states,

You met a guy who is well to do back in Nigeria

Would you be willing to re-locate back to Nigeria and live there

with him (Dating and eventually marriage)

Matured responses only

cock stay off[/color] grin grin
I guess this post describes me EXACTLY- born and bred in the United States-- I am not so open in dating some one that lives in Nigeria at this point- because it is almost impossible to do. Never the less I would be willing to move back to Nigeria for the right man if the situation was right! It would have to be some crazy good, off the wall , sheet clenching lovingbut I am willing and able grin!! Love does make you do the strangest things!!
RomanceRe: Relationships And Random Gifts: by Ladyjide(op): 4:58pm On Dec 10, 2010
Orikinla:
IT IS NOT.

I received random gifts from well-minded women in Nigeria and overseas.
My woman knows how to give and I appreciate her good nature.

Why should you return gifts after they have been accepted?
Except they are not gifts.

What makes a gift is not the price, but the thought.

If the gifts are meant to curry favour, then beware of accepting them.
Good point "curry favour"
RomanceRe: Wanted: More Ambitious Women For Nigerian Men by Ladyjide(f): 4:32pm On Dec 10, 2010
[quote author=Mr $ Cork link=topic=556846.msg7309514#msg7309514 date=1291994852]Well educated women always bring more stress angry(Known fact)[/quote]How so?
RomanceRe: Wanted: More Ambitious Women For Nigerian Men by Ladyjide(f): 4:17pm On Dec 10, 2010
Orikinla:
Wanted: More Ambitious Women for Nigerian Men

You wonder why many women and men are still single and searching in Nigeria?

We do not have enough ambitious women.

Most of our women have little or nothing to offer the men.

We need ambitious women who can make a great difference in our lives.

When I met Mrs. Peju Adebajo, the young Managing Director/CEO of Mouka Limited last Monday, I was impressed by her dignity, integrity, nobility and humility and I thank God for her husband.

We need more women like her in Nigeria.
Women who can make us proud, and not Liabilities.
Well----I guess I can only speak for myself, but

The same speaks for us women, there are a tremendous lack of ambitious men these days!!!!!

Most men have little or nothing to offer us women- and what little they do have to offer- is not worth the headache,
RomanceRelationships And Random Gifts: by Ladyjide(op): 4:09pm On Dec 10, 2010
More a question for the MEN. Is it uncommon or taboo in a relationship that as a man [b]YOU [/b]receive random gifts from your babe?  Not because its your birthday,Christmas,  but gifts just because,   Does it make you uncomfortable, especially if you are unable to return such gifts to her the same( meaning give her gifts just because ) ?  What are your thoughts??
RomanceRe: D Most Valued Thing In Girls' Life by Ladyjide(f): 11:19pm On Dec 06, 2010
Great question, for me it is my GOD and my family! If I could give away all the material things but still have GOD and family on my side. I am sure things will turn out just fine!!
RomanceRe: Does Love Make Women Do Stupid Things? by Ladyjide(f): 11:16pm On Dec 06, 2010
Love can make you blind sometimes--- especially when sex is involved!
RomanceRe: Ain't No Romance Without Finance! by Ladyjide(f): 7:40pm On Dec 06, 2010
Well to a certain degree yes this is true! For me my stance is come to the table as my equal if not more at very least. I respect a man who is trying, and is working hard to reach his goals as well! I do not need to be taken care of because i have my own but also you need to be a contributing financial factor in the relationship as well. Finances will most likely become a problem later on when marriage is put in the mix- especially in situations where a woman earns way more than her man- especially in most Nigerian households!!
RomanceRe: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by Ladyjide(f): 7:34pm On Dec 06, 2010
If we are in a serious relationship YES- or my Husband - Of course---- but just some guy I am dating HELL NO, !!!.
RomanceRe: What Would You Do When You Find Out That Your Lover Is A Criminal? by Ladyjide(f): 7:32pm On Dec 06, 2010
Is he wanted by the police for a reward? If so I am turning him then claiming it!
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner? by Ladyjide(f): 7:30pm On Dec 06, 2010
chika98:
Oh so you finally met someone? Good for you then. Wish you and him the best.
Ha!! YES!! You remember!! Only been a few months- so still early stages ! We all know how that can go! - but I remain optimistic with each new day!!
RomanceRe: We Were Born On Thesame Year by Ladyjide(f): 7:24pm On Dec 06, 2010
Not serious-------No one cares, marry her if you love her! Other wise dump her- an age difference of three months is not enough to break up a possible marriage- there are always bigger battles to fight !
RomanceRe: Victoria Secret by Ladyjide(f): 7:22pm On Dec 06, 2010
Get her a gift card so- she can pick out exactly what she wants in addition to the lingerie!
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner? by Ladyjide(f): 1:33am On Dec 06, 2010
Well- by a hook up, wink A friend introduced me to his friend, and history is being made! Those tend to be the best hook ups these days!!
RomanceRe: First Love by Ladyjide(f): 6:50pm On Dec 05, 2010
they are only hard to get over until you replace them, NEXT!! wink
RomanceRe: Black Girls In America, Is It True That It Is Difficult To Find A Man? by Ladyjide(f): 6:45pm On Dec 05, 2010
I began a post similar to this some time ago------but I am here to say, HELL yes it is difficult to find a mate in the US!!! wink
FamilyRe: Man, The Family Head. How Well Is He Playing His Role? by Ladyjide(f): 6:04pm On Dec 05, 2010
and what is the role of women? Do we play our role the same?
RomanceRe: How Do I Handle This? by Ladyjide(f): 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2010
ANGER MANAGEMENT!! You need to have a serious talking with her, and let her know, if she is not willing to change you might want to rethink the marriage thing! Can you see your self spending the rest of your life with someone who does not know how to direct their anger.?, Things will surely get worse once you add children etc,
RomanceRe: Why Are Men So Closed And Secretive When It Comes To Relationships: by Ladyjide(f): 4:58pm On Dec 05, 2010
Skidoc:
Well said! Infact men are hardly secretive.
I love that your quote in your profile! Very funny!! wink
RomanceRe: My Girlfrnd Refused To Invite Or Want To See Me During Her Birthday Party by Ladyjide(f): 4:56pm On Dec 05, 2010
No problems you think?? You may want to take a second look!!
RomanceRe: Why Are Men So Closed And Secretive When It Comes To Relationships: by Ladyjide(f): 4:41pm On Dec 05, 2010
obowunmi:
Who says men are closed and secretive. Just because ure dating someone elses boyfriend or husband, who only tugs at you on the mattress, does mean this applies to all men.

Find a man who doesn't confine you to the walls of his bedroom.

Not all men are closed or secretive. Some men enjoy showing off their babes/caught fishes.
True talk!!
RomanceRe: How Confused Women Are? by Ladyjide(f): 4:39pm On Dec 05, 2010
Well, not all women fall in this category , but I am guilty of some
CultureRe: The Name Amari by Ladyjide(f): 6:50am On Nov 29, 2010
No answer on this - but a beautiful name indeed!!
RomanceRe: The Pretty Girl Who Does Love And The Not Too Pretty Girl Who Love You by Ladyjide(f): 12:36am On Oct 23, 2010
Specialist900:
just knowing now.
huh
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Lazy by Ladyjide(f): 10:45pm On Oct 22, 2010
At poster- you should have discovered these things before you married her- now you made your bed so lie in it--- or Leave her,
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men Should Marry As Many Women As They Can - Dr. Umeham by Ladyjide(f): 10:41pm On Oct 22, 2010
This would never work for me! I am stingy and dont like to share my man!
RomanceRe: The Pretty Girl Who Does Love And The Not Too Pretty Girl Who Love You by Ladyjide(f): 10:22pm On Oct 22, 2010
well- I am not a guy-- But someone told me a long time ago when approaching relationships- Only love those that love you more- Prevents you from getting hurt, Take that how ever! wink
RomanceRe: Is It True That I Am Insecure? by Ladyjide(f): 10:21pm On Oct 22, 2010
kokoye:
Bros yee, this your post tooo long for friday afternoon o.

abeg you fit summarize am small? thanks  wink
Say that again!! My eyes started to cross trying to read it!
RomanceRe: Lies And Dating by Ladyjide(op): 1:30am On Oct 22, 2010
kokoye:
^^^

good move.
Gpp
funkybaby:
get better bawo? grin
we've parted ways.
Good Thing!!
RomanceRe: Lies And Dating by Ladyjide(op): 12:11pm On Oct 21, 2010
funkybaby:
@post

experiencing the same thing as well.

when i find out or when he comes out with the truth, he has an explanation for telling the lie in the first place.

yet, he claims he is madly in love with me  undecided

he is always quick to tell me that no man is 100percent honest  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

most recent was the final straw. he lied about having to attend a party at another city as an excuse why we could not hook up, when actually he had a friend visiting him at his place. Later, he comes clean that he didnt attend the party but says nothing about the friend that was with him (which is the reason he lied about the phony party) and lied that he was alone  huh

next, he is quick to say i do not trust him.

abeg, who in her right senses will trust a glaring liar?  undecided
Its hard to trust someone who lies over and over again- Liars are cowards. So girl do you forgive him, and stay with him- hoping it will get better?

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