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LadyRosa2:
Yes!
Of she gets a very good lawyer,especially those hot head human rights/family lawyers, she gets ALL the kids. You will have visitation rights and will be paying for their upkeep.

If I'm in her shoes, my lawyer would have handed me those kids since.

Not if he has an equally good lawyer. There are numerous ways to discredit the mother from taking custody of the kids.

jk

Why not take an online program? There are lots of verified online universities that can give you a high-quality law education. They may be free of physical lectures but make no mistake, they are equally intensive and thorough.

If he's so optimistic, he should google up a top 50 list of precious rocks. If he can't find a similar rock somewhere in there, he should discard whatever stone he's holding promptly and focus on more productive work.

It's only poor men that go searching for luck.

bdon123:
U are a fool.we will not go to any useless youtube page.idiot

I see what you did there

[quote author=oliverwrites post=127219642][/quote]Just check on Amazon, lots of variety and the options can be unique.

AfahaAbia:
To me men who marry at that age are very big fools!!! Most of them hope to use their children as retirement plan!!!

What gibberish. When those who marry at 40 continue child-raising way into their retirement age, others who marry early are done with intensive child-raising by 60. Who then is using children as a retirement plan?

Does marriage stop you from making money? Working marriages actually enable you to save more by streamlining your expenses and focusing on more capital and forward-looking projects other than wasting it away every Friday and on girls you have no future with. You also get to pool your resources reducing the impact of expenses and investing more.

Zooposki:
What is love?

A feeling of affinity for a person or thing regardless of whatever bullshit they/it throws at you.

We4all:
I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but if you live with someone, you begin to look like them.

Your children's resemblance with you is because you live together and has nothing to do with you being their biological dad.

Source: Scientific or "Trust me bro"?

ademola2017:
In 2017, i expressed my deep concerns on nairaland about my now ex wife double dating game before we got married, her attitude towards me and how the relationship was one sided.

I got several advices to let her go but decided to give the marriage another chance but it eventually crashed in March 2022. We did all we could to save the marriage but to no success. We were done patching. No child was involved and absolutely nothing to show for the marriage after 8years of being together. I still feel the pain but it gets better everyday.
I credit myself for not cheating on her till our last days together and even months after our separation.

After several months of being celibate, I had sex with a young 25year old lady. I met her through a family friend 2 months before she got pregnant

Just one intercourse, she became pregnant. At first, i doubted it because I laboured very hard to father a child for 8yrs and with just one sexual intercourse, someone is carry my baby?? with me being very knowledgable about calculating ovulation dates and timely intercourse, it conformed so I had to accept the pregnancy as a sign from God.

Deep down, my new partner and I do not love each other but the respect for each other is on point. We have ZERO expectations from each other. We communicate well and have started living together in peace. No arguements, no drama and no issues at all.

I changed my mindset by taking her as my younger sister and she does same by taking me as an older brother.

It feels strange to be at so much peace with someone that I dont love at all. Our baby is coming and I am scared things may change when the true reality sets in.

What do you guys think?

So do you plan to have an open marriage or something?

I don't understand being stuck to someone you don't love for an extended period. What happens when you grow old? How do you want your family to evolve?

Will you enjoy an ideal family setting when your children see their parents relate as mere acquaintances?
Fwiw, you should know that you'd need someone close to rely on in your old age. Someone you know, love and have come to trust.

Next thing is the police invites her for questioning.

Tohsynetita1:
Am not talking about commercial export. What the op needs is just some thousand of dollars to travel out which small scale export could cover. my largest export weight is 100kg

I understand, I wasn't done when you mentioned, you can check again.

Tohsynetita1:
if you check my past post even here on "Travel" , there's a time I was looking for someone to do market research for me overseas, I have some one that does that in illinois, Chicago and Ohio but I wanted to extend then and someone was discouraging me that it can't be done. What can't be done, to go to African stores and ask if they could need someone to supply them some other African foods if it's not sufficient or they don't have at all. The worst they can say is " they don't want" will they beat? The task is a paid task o. But someone said it's not possible here in overseas, as if no be human being they live their. Even fellow Nigerians sometimes. FYI, I sent dried snails and honey on Tuesday this week. So, am not new to it.

I had to jump on your comment.

First, if you're exporting commercially, we are not talking about small quantities, we're talking bags and possibly tonnes of good quality stuff. The European market is quite strict on things like this.

2. Except you are a PR or have become a citizen, you can't run business in these countries...in literal terms, you can't move around hawking your food to African stores because you wont even be able to import (refer to point 1). Even if you manage to import and get caught, you will be punished. Other africans who have struggled to build their businesses won't want to jeopardize their business over a few earnings or they risk it and pay you stipends (Africans are good at exploiting).

3. Way forward is to liaise with a commercial/licensed exporter. Good luck sealing the deal with them because they will pay you in Naira not USD. The profits belong to the middlemen.

Can't say though, maybe you have a trader uncle can piggyback on

4. Last point/Disclaimer: I've not done thorough research nor dealt business in this sphere. What I've listed above is based on my brief encounters with stakeholders on both endss of the food chain.

Nice ride.

I'd rather buy a defender though.

FinidiGeorge:
Did you read everything, she already sent another driver, the vehicle too spoil for road... She should just send the third driver o... E be like say one evil force wan make the woman incur loss this December

, I read that part as well and sending a third driver was what I meant. Village people at work maybe.

Really gruelling experience. I was thinking you were out of this mess by now and sharing your experience. As soon as you said a road side mechanic rinsed your gearbox filter, I knew that vehicle isn't going anywhere. Sad to think you're still stuck there.

What are your plans? I believe you don't plan to start living there. Can you get another competent mechanic in the nearest town to come take a look at the car?

What is the owner of the merchandise saying? I hope those eggs don't rot under the hot sun. There's losses already as I can imagine. She should send another driver to save her goods before it becomes double debt on your head.

You can even follow the new driver back to town and get money and another technician to come back and look at the car. Better still get the driver to tow you and that car out of there.

Godspeed.

DKM123:
It's how the men just stood still looking like lucozade.. Are they not part of the protest again?

Cultism is evul and it's k!lling our young men but at the same time, this extreme
form of protest whereby women go naked is a traditional culture that should have gone with the stone age.


It's highly unnecessary. Cultures that demean women are always welcome by so called traditionalist.. You never hear of men protesting naked. Anyway, hope it achieves it's aim and get the conversation against cultism going.

Nobody forced the women to protest naked. Danfo drivers who strip naked in the middle of the street are also protesting.

The methods may look archaic but it's a heritage that we should respect and not discard for western ideologies.

Since the current generation is so lost on traditional morals and values, they hardly understand the wise ways of the elders. How many young fathers today can accurately give 10 proverbs off the top of their heads? I wonder how they will advise their kids..well they don't and we see the evidence everyday on social media and on the streets.

Naked women protests is an extreme form of protest.. almost equal to self immolation practiced in the East Asias. The situation is evidently at a critical level but as I would expect, no one will give a hoot about this protest.

Eloquency001:
I think that should be Segun Adisa or so.

Yes exactly. Thanks for the name.

A similar presenter took over from him, I can`t remember the name. he also had a bushy moustache as well. I think this genre of programmes still runs but they are no longer as popular.

Funfact: Yinka Ayefele worked for him.

princeemma69:
how possible is that? Is it by trading or he is doing some block hain stuff? I know one cannot make consistent profits in crypto trading weekly

Don't become a victim. Even if you want to join, a random comment should not be your motivation.

People don't share their money making secrets like that, once it's in the open, e don cast be that.

planetx:
The moment she start to move the money around, that will trigger an investigation. The best thing to do is leave it and not touch it even spending it is even less risky to getting caught. but not move it to a different account or bank.

I want talking about spending it, I was talking about saving it even if it is a fixed deposit. The money remains intact when the authorities come searching 7 months later and shes $600k richer. Both parties depart in peace with smiles.

Harddiskng:
You can see why some poor can never be rich. It is not a curse.

Money enter, your first thought was investment. It was spending it all??


Even if its money market for those 7 months. When the bank comes for the principal, you simply give them back. The interest is enough never to be poor again.

But trust a single mother of 4 children. You already know her decision making is absolute rubbish. I hope she suffers.

Just imagine 0.83% monthly interest on $10.7m over 7 months: that's about $600k free money with no guilt attached. Now she loses everything and gains deportation and blacklist as extras.

They are too expensive.

African talent will take less pay for much more work.

Siberia01:


I wish we could be having such innovations down here...
The white race are really trying



We practice conference tech no doubt in Nigeria....

Conference upon conferences

No results

My thoughts exactly, I have ceased attending all these conferences as they are a waste of time. The zoom ones are worse. You have experts just come around and advertise their businesses. At most, they argue and bicker among themselves but everyone forgets whatever was discussed as soon as the conference is over. No solid roadmap, directives or plans. Everyone returns to the status quo or their private enterprises.

How about free internet in select parts of town or in schools, or just getting a desktop computer for 100 public schools.

Different strokes for different folks but not a bad effort in itself.

C350 indeed.

With the reasons provided, she better stay in her own if she's living a comfortable life.

A man abandoned by his wife and kids because he was broke won't call them back because he's now rich 8 years later. He would rather look for a youngling or slayqueen to live out his fantasies.

He's not rich, he's simply looking for a support mechanism and he will parasitize her once again.

udede:
I need a lady that want to go into contract marriage with me for some years. The aim is to have children but if along the line we realized that we are compatible enough to spend the rest of our lives together in love, then so be it.

I also need advice on this from people who are into it.

In other words, you need a breeding pig for your progenies. The world is on a highway to hell.

I disagree. The husband can stay stuck in the sitting room and refuse to enter the room during a quarell. Besides, the couple will be planning to have extra buddies in 9 months hopefully: baby, mother-in-law etc. Should they be changing homes every year?

My aunt (and her husband) for example moved into a 3 bedroom right from the wedding and stayed there for 12 years before moving to their personal building: Master bedroom, Guest room and third room for storing wedding gifts. As the kids came, they changed room function to baby's room and so on. Besides, 3 bedroom apartments tend to have more living space compared to crampy self-contains.

For me though, I kept moving every year from a one-bedroom, to a 2 bedroom and then a 3 bedroom.

Stressful.

First, I must commend you on your resilience to get back up. Thats about half the journey. Now you need to concentrate on activities that can feed you on a daily. It is when you have that sorted to a comfortable level, you can start contemplating tertiary education; which is not bad in itelf, it only takes time to mature.

I will also sound a note of warning here. Don't get greedy or impatient. Do not try to poach your boss's customers, or try to quickly open your own store, it can send you back to zero really fast. You have to take measured steps.

Take weekends as well, you need it. Don't work 24/7 every week of the month, you will break down and the lose that extra cash on medication. The job is just the financial aspect, feed your spiritual and physical self as well. Go to church, get good sleep, try to eat and use needed medication.

Your story sounds like a life with a strong spiritual undertone. I hope you look into it more seriously. Don't fall victim of fake prophets however.

Who in God's own earth will not pick calls or answer text messages. Why the hell does she have a phone then?

You've got to have some self respect man especially at the age of 30. Money or a funny attitude is not a do all for meeting ladies but logical common sense for sure goes a long way.

Read the signs early on and save your resources once you realize it's an unprofitable venture. Why waste emotions, efforts, money, time on a lady that doesn't dig you?

Besides, corpers are one of the hungriest girls I ever met, no more pocket money from home so they devour any gullible sheep around them like wolves.

toygod2:
Sorry ,I’m not asking this from a bad place.
but what’s the essence of buying these type of vehicles?

They are efficient work trucks that offer a bit of everything ranging from car to vans to flatbed benefits.

They can carry 'some' load, tow (depends), move at a relatively higher speed for urban or long commutes, go off-road (sometimes) or just be a daily driver.

In the case of this example above, it also has the benefit of lower fuel consumption compared to bigger trucks from Dodge or Ford.