₦airaland Forum

helinues:
The fake news must have been inspired by Oshogbo weed

Seun:
Dear Nairalanders and Advertisers.

Nairaland's server was taken down by our host's abuse team because of an abuse report that wasn't attended to on time.

After rectifying the error, we brought the server back for a few minutes, but they decided to take the server down again. Since then, we haven't heard from the abuse team, yet the support team keeps insisting that only the abuse team can help us.

So we had to transfer Nairaland to a temporary host in order to bring it back to you. A VERY time-consuming process. We are not fully back, even though most features of the site are working. We still have a long way to go. Additional downtime is likely; don't let it alarm you.

There's a lot more to say, but I have to go back to work to ensure that our return is permanent. Please forgive us for the stress we caused. We appreciate the love and support that you showed us during the ordeal. Nairaland is too important for us to let this happen again.

Best Regards,
Seun Osewa.

Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

Treasure17:
The guy is simply overrated. Still respect the doings of Davido, Wiz and Olamide compared to burna. Don't listen to his songs anyway.

taylor88:
Pikin wey I go leave run commot from house


If she block door I go brush am enter under fridge


All these people quoting me telling me I’m not a good father yen yen yen

How pikin wey you born go dey tell you she has two mothers and other siblings else where when no be say na group sex you take born am

OP don’t be deceived that pikin senior your grand mother

Carry the pikin go deposit as collateral use am borrow money from UBA

Next time you want to pour sperm inside your wife’s vagina pull out first taste the sperm for your tongue if the sperm taste shrine shrine you pour am for bed

Kuku beg her to dey give you sure odds

OP better be sleeping with cutlass in your hand any funny unusual breeze wey blow around 2am you machete immediately

You fit dey knack your wife thinking she’s sleeping one micro hand go just grab you for blockos

helinues:
It's unfair to mock Ikeremadu in his present situation.

Ike acted as a parent. Nobody is above mistake.

I just hope FG, ECOWAS assembly would do something even if to reduce his sentencing

TimFisher2:





Is not poisonous


Sometimes I allow it to bite me just to get high


Including centipede, termites and black spider


There is this feeling of sensation and ecstasy you will derive from the bite.


Pls note that it is very addictive... But avoid scorpion ooo

OsilaGama:
Lol
By then we believed that if we see any dog easing herself and we cross our fingers,it will remain in that position untill we release it🤣🤣🤣

Same thing when we see two hens fighting,and we cross our fingers together they will continue fighting untill we untangle our finger

LordviccoDaGuru:
Some people will get high BP tonight ooo Lawan Is Coming. Lawan Is a strong public, Lawan served Buhari whole heartedly and arroved all Buhari's request. He didn't know a pay day for him like this will come. Lawan was speechless at the Supreme Court today. His good works for Buhari fought for him. With God all things are possible. Any evil agenda towards Buhari God has been using Lawan to stop them.

Waterlilly:
whats dis one saying

Nextlife1:
No she was not like that when I meet her
And we love each other we have children together.

virginprincess:
,this is funny,anyway, she better acts fast before the dream becomes a reality because men can't be trusted.

Righteousness2:
Beautiful! Lovely ,and exquisite Earthly royalty at its Peak.
But let no one Deceive you, all these are vanity because N.aked she came into the world and N.aked she has gone.

Not a pin or a fin is taken away from here.
Infact what is in that box is dust. The queen is long gone to Eternity in Heaven or Hell based on who she Belived and live for.

If she made peace with JESUS before her death, it does not matter what you think or say about her, she is In Heaven now.
If she didn't make peace with JESUS Christ , she is right now burning in hell.

For us who are alive, What really Matters now and Eternity is the Genuie Salvation of our soul. It is only possible through JESUS CHRIST.

pansophist:
Hopefully the bank compensates him since his car was parked inside their premises, under their watchful eyes.

LordIsaac:
A very useless and senseless celebration, I must say. I say this because some of them do not know their fate yet! For example, why would I be running around with a CGPA less than 4.5? People without sense to comprehend the this submission should not quote me.

tony0806:
Sai Baba! Don Allah, ka ga ma abunda ka fara, ka fin ka ba ri gidan govmenti. Ni ma, na gaji

In God's name, finish what you started before you leave the government house. Me too, I'm stressed out

ayoolataiwo:
With the unseriousness of the opposition parties,APC will ve no problem winning the osun election

Moonshine101:
Hello Everyone!

I have a family issue but I don't have someone to speak to about it, so I'm very grateful for your inputs on this matter.

SOME BACKSTORY (You can skip this if you want):
I'm the youngest of my two siblings (26M). I have a sister and a brother. My sister's kinda okay. My brother (35) is a selfish, toxic and entitled person. He dropped out from the university, doesn't have a job and he steals from my parents like my dad's watches or property or my mum's jewellery and then sells them to buy weed or something.

One time he sold my mum's car and after some police and legal issue that basically went nowhere, she basically had to steal it back (The guy who bought it, passed away a little while after, so I guess that case is closed..), he once took my phone while I was sleeping because I refused to give him a different phone I had, that belongs to me after selling his own phone or something. It's like he acts solely on impulse. My dad (who's in his 70s now) is almost always on security alert when my brother is around. As for my mom, she just straight up enables him and bails him out of trouble every time, saying things like "He's your brother" or "God will change him" when I talk to her about it. My brother and I got into a fight, like a year before I left for university, because he wanted to look around my room to see if I had his usb cable despite me telling him I don't have it nor have I seen it. That was the last time I willingly spoke to him.

My family moved into a new house and I finally left for school (my brother stayed in the old house and my sister moved in with her husband after marriage, so it was just him over there). During my 3rd year, I called my dad, asking him for some money because I was broke, and during the phone call, my dad tells me that he's at the hospital cuz my brother and some girl just had a kid. okay.. I came back for holidays and found out that his baby mama (who's also toxic and insults people alot) and kid, my nephew, are staying with us, with my parents providing for them while my brother stays in the older house, renting it out to people (who messed up the house and compound to the point it just became a disgusting place to live in) obviously without permission from my parents (who don't even own that house, it belongs to my uncle). By the time I graduated and came back home, he was now living with us in the new house because free food and no bills, I guess.

I haven't gotten a job yet so I'm stuck here.

Recently, he's been staying away from me because I don't talk to him or even look at him.

BACK TO THE TOPIC:
Around a year ago, I had a serious wakeup call and decided that, if I was going to go forward in life I would have to better myself so I began a journey of meditation and self-improvement, and I think I've made some good progress. Now the issue is my brother---earlier today, I saw him scouting our house (after my parents went out) and I could instantly tell he was up to no good. I was cooking when I began to hear some noise from upstairs like he was hacking at something. He came downstairs and readied his car while my cousin who stays with us (19) carried the AC unit my brother was planning to sell.
Usually I'll just mind my business and avoid him because he's an adult-child (narcissist) and I think he'll just put his vindictive sights on me if I interfere, but this time I don't know what came over me..

I called my cousin and demanded where he was taking that AC to. I then asked my brother (first time in years I've spoken to him) why he was taking it, he just gave one nonsense flimsy excuse then I told my cousin to return it. When he tried to explain whatever, I didn't acknowledge his presence, I just ignored him and ate my food. He just stood there staring at me for like 3 minutes before he left while murmuring something.

The main reason I've been avoiding him for long is because he's toxic and I decided that family or not, toxicity is still toxicity. He's very exploitative and once he familiarises with someone it's like an opening to trample the person's boundaries. I think I confronted him today because the more you ignore bad/evil the stronger it becomes and eventually it will come for you except now it'll be stronger from all the experience.

The issue is, I don't want to relapse into my old life of toxicity by further engaging him if he decides to steal from me on get physical because he's the kind of person that only listens to actions, not words.
Please, what do you think I do?

iCauseTrouble:
Peter Obi won my loyalty the day he said ,AM NOT PROMISING TO FIX ELECTRICITY IN 6months but at least we can increase what we generate,that’s some level of sincerity not those telling us that they will fix power and crush boko haram in 6 months

Arisheloaded:
As funny as it's, the advices from well meaning Nigerians here were helpful and I'm better off today

Alhamdulilah

RYEOFARMS:
Our "G" litter male @ 4 & half Months.

Grof von el tsalach growing strong

Sire:Locke of kimix
Dame:Charis von el tsalach.

(He's available for a new home)