₦airaland Forum

guiddoti:
You both are stupid. How can you light up fire under your bushel and not being burnt? Cuddle will set man on fire naw.

I don't understand some human ,
I think primary and secondary school need to teach about the anatomy of human body as a subject

Gina2019:
Jeez! Who told u the goal of relationship is sex? I don't pray to meet someone like you...Grow up pls and change this crazy mentality of yours.

So we came to advice ourselves abi ,for 6 months na advise we still day advise ,

I pray I don't meet someone like u too ,,,

First I will not be so drunk to agree to such an agreement ,..I will humble walk away ,if I indeed wish to punish u ,I will indure ,na u go still tell me make we burst the blow-blow

Pedrotina11:
I think say nah only me...so he dey pain u too

E don stop to pain me o,,as e kw day pain people way day power ,I myself I have also started acting like a rich man too ,,make all of us day look the country like that o

Pedrotina11:
Gbam...too many ethnic groups....over diversification....Nigeria shld spit and it would be sweet in the middle.

Me and my neighbor can argue this ,what I used to knock him down is
WHEN NNAMDI KALU WAS FIGHTING FOR SEPARATION OF NIGERIA WHY DID THE YORUBA NOT JOIN IN THE CRUSADE ?

This was their reply

Reply: kalu was separation while sowere want Nigeria to be great again

And I asked him was it because he lost the election ...

Because how can you convince a man or an illiterate that a man who lost his election is now trying to fight the people in power ,,


Bro I don't trust any body ,even the sowore self

Even tinebu isn't even supporting him ,

If sowore wants to really win his campaign then he should be ready for blood shed ,, because during madela time many people died in the political sit ,assination took place ,

U expect peace in Nigeria when some people are still alive,,

Sowore never ready

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

I once wrote a comment some months back why dating a single mom is not the best and some ladies attacked me from LEFT and right,which is suppose they are single mom.


Trust me the head ACH is too much forget about taking care of the single child o,,,,,,

The mom is still emotional attached to the guy way give am Belle ,I will use pikin to write it ,,,,,,,

Most of our parents know this that's why they frown against dating a lady is dumbed by the baby father .

And asking the lady for sex is very very very easy , because the baby father already knows her weak point and things to use against her ,and definitely she go comply to meet an for any hotel of his choice...

back2sender:
What of innoson motors, the man no dey sell trucks again?

When I hear some one say sowore is fighting for the betterment of the people such as peace hope and unity ,I tell them it is not possible to know why

Igbo is there
Hausa is there
Yoruba is there

Each of this people speak different language that even inside hausa an hausa man can sell another hausa man ,and he will not even know they are selling him out ,he will still keep shinny his teeth ..


Make Nigeria go their individual way ,

FactBoyz:
true

I tell people ,it's high time community come to gether and develop their individual location
Nigeria government have nothing to offer the citizens,

Who still thinks about electricity in most countries ,but here on Nigeria that is what the politicians use to lure us ,(not me Sha , because I don't even have my name on Nigeria voters card database)

It's a pity

Gina2019:
So because she's not a virgin, she should just give her body out like that?

First why be in a relationship when you don't have the intention of having sex ,

There is something I will like to clear out , because I feel you might be in a relationship or probably married or not yet into a relationship just saying,

Man way go marry you go still marry ,forget all this after fuvking he started acting strange stuff ,

She should meet /Date mature guys and not some college kids who basically can't decide for themselves .

It gets to a stage in a man's life (maturity) having sex is the last time that comes to our head ,

FactBoyz:
That money used to buy trucks and importing them can be used to build a cargo rail track.. Dangote Trucks are dangerous on Nigerian Highways..

Meanwhile, he would have patronised Innoson.. Charity begins at home..

O... Nigeria is not united.. I forgot that.

na only in Nigeria you will see trailer dragging road space with smaller vehicles ,a well developed country tralliers don't even move day time ,and they make use of the right side of the road ,,,it pains me so much that our leaders that travels out see such development but they fail to implement such

dhammielare:
I kind of like ur reasonable manners.. It shows your level of experience.
Having sex with him doesn't keep him neither does it make u loose him. I can't do no sex before marriage and my why is Are we sex compatible??
Why marry you and realize I can't satisfy you or u can't satisfy me?? Then we start looking out and one of us will come here on Nairaland and be crying.. Why won't u know ur partner to that sex point first to know him deep deep down there maybe he's good for u or not

Exactly

Ryocaj:
U av no business being in a relationship if u don't wanna av sex..

My brother why will you say that ,don't you know they are giving themselves advice ,,,

But some guys still mumu Sha oooo,,,no sex b4 marriage hmmmmm


I remember planning such a package with a girl that was circumcised ,,bro I say make I use my mental state and physical strength fuvk this girl ,bro e just be like say I just day use my finger rub balloon ,,no senseation and Sense of feeling from her ,
. since then I don't even advise even my enemy's to take such a NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE WITH A LADY or else na market way u kw fit buy finish u go carry go hux o

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

The question I will like you to ask is ,is the op a virgin ,,if no then why punish the guy ,how can you turn a man on and walk away ,?


I still find it difficulty how some guys still agree to no sex b4 marriage o,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Thegeneralqueen:
It's so sad her husband left her in this terrible situation i hope she sue him

For what ?

So she should get compensated for sleeping with the gate man ,,?

Make me understand what type of sue are you talking about here pls

Ebenezar2020:
celebrating birthday is a sin against God.
celebrating birthday is tantamount to worldliness, remember the only birthday recorded in the bible led to the death of God's servant and prophet.
living a worldly life is being in an enmity with God.
you can see all these worldly celebrities always celebrating birthdays and inviting wh0res and brandishing all kinds of Strong drink and being intoxicated by it and sleeping with women and indulging in immorality and storing upon themselves Wrath.
JESUS is the only way to the only one and true God and Eternal life, Repent ye and turn away from worldly birthday celebrations.

Who be dis one self

Na everything be sin for your village?

Offpoint:
This is not what I need this morning, I need something that will motivate me and not something that will depress me and make me start asking God a "WHY" questions.

E-money should shove his golden bedroom down his azz or as well keep it offline.

Nonsense like this is the major reasons why 55% of Nigerian youths are into crime.

On this faded and torn mattress I'm lying down to type this, I've successfully impregnated 10 women effortlessly.

Golden bedroom doesn't equate to good sexual drive and doesn't deter village people from carrying out their assignment.

It will be more appropriatable if he shows us been bizzy attending conference or at work site not showing us how cute is bed room is last last if we extimate everything for that room na onitsha he for buy everything,,,

There is nothing golden about the room golden paint is wat any body can buy and paint his sitting room and call it golden room

Nicklaus619:
We. As a people undermine our intelligence, and the shitty government ain't doing anything to help, they will rather gift one of their numerous girlfriend 20 million naira than spend 1 million on this project
What a country

Make this one come UAE,and get a chance to meet with their Emirates,forget it ,his life is transformed for generation,.

This are the people UAE are looking for

SamOyovwi:
Corruption is the problem. If we can be free from corruption, we can. But with corruption still lingering in our government, we can never have a constant power supply in Nigeria

If the country wants to help them selfs they should start breakiyout of this govt give us light

I know of a community close to my side in Edo state for the past 3 years they use solar ,it was actually don by one man whose intention was to set up a company but things didn't go as planned so he switch to the solar grid that powers a whole community just imagine ,
And Gus's how much for their light bill ? 1500 every month with prepaid meter to get the work properly regulated


The best is to break out ,otedola fit start am
Adenuga fit start am creating a solar grid system.

But theses people are the major importers of generator's what do you expect

Malcolm123:
Shebi dat is if you are able to get to the front of the interview ...don't forget dat apart from labourers....most Oda jobs e.g engineer ....d company dey bring their staff from the country dey ar coming from
E.g if a Chinese win a contract you think na chinese engineer you go ...same for Iran,Jordan,I .......and even most of their engineers sef are from Western countries lyk UK,Germany etc

If we want table UAE matter for here we kw go sleep today bro ,,all Watin you talk I agree

But to be on a more safer side they should get a certification a reasonable one

Malcolm123:
There is no job in high demand for a black man ....no respect ....you think say because you are a doctor or engineer or accountant with just seal (authentication ) you ar good to go
Dis country is not dat complex o ...na to look tall building dey go your house o

Lol...bro those field you just called out if u are good you are good ,when I say good I mean before the interviewer finished asking u question u don give am back to back of answers ,,alayee,,na salary una go day talk about ,,but not all or not every one is favoured in that aspect ,,

They should just get some reasonable certification

Malcolm123:
You talk about multi national company.......

Well let me say keep saying my own ..i no not many ppl go listen ..... Dem go think person no want make Dem go dubai

Definitely there ar many foreign brand in Dubai ...... McDonald,KFC, Spencer,Tomy Hilfiger, lot of banks, foreign exchange companies , and lot more so much dat I can't remember sef .......buh wat we refuse to tell our ppl is dat...if you do general survey of workers of the above companies .......maybe lyk 2 black out of every 100 ...and even the black maybe from Sudan wey undertand Arabic


You can visit a whole mega mall ...you no see even one single black working there ....and if at all you see na lyk 1 out of 50

They will soon come for your head for speaking the truth just now

Masking:
Na d problem wt many people be this. OK why you dey rush now??

That thing wey dey pursue you for naija go still pursue you go back.

The name on your brother certificate match the one on your passport? Why fraud dey hungry you?

You beta calm down arrange yourself b4 you reason travel

Exactly....
I just pray he sees this before going ahead to book flights,,calm down ,get knowledge,ask people jobs that are in high demand in UAE and get certified ....and elevate every other black persons around you instead of entering the same predicament they are right now ,,

I just graduated I wan travel out ,bro develop your self and get skilled in at least 4 different field

1kworks:
If what she was accused of is true, then I'd say she deserves the embarrassment she got.

There needs to be some kinda consequence for people who date married people (both males and females alike).
I believe that's the only way it will be curbed cos all these stories of how bad marriages are these days are scaring the shit outta the unmarried people who are eager to get married.

There is a solution and divorce is the solution
But the bad part of divorce is ,when the husband doesn't even have property that the woman can take along ,so last last we go learn to forgive ..

vincentjk:
That hole has been doing more harm than good to men nowadays

For real man
Guys need to wake up ,,

richPHAROAH:
thunder fire you there for quoting me. soon u go come post how ur wife forced you to eat shit

Go fuvk your self,,if ur parents gave u a hard feeling while growing up don't rob it on ever ones face

Go take a chill pills ,asshole

Mac2016:
The weight in marriage is enough than to add the travails from a scornful woman. I can't stand it for long...

For real ,I don't take non sense ,I go just leave the hux for u ,I will purposely delay in renewing the rent while away so that next time she will value my presence

naijazee2:
So soon I hail ooo Teebillz but what really happened

I will not be surprised if he made advances to sleep with her ,
Wat pains the most in life is begging a lady for sex and she says NO
While she gives one quite dude steady even inside the elevator

Mac2016:
Sorry Sir. No solution! You accepted it before and coped with it. If you try to be dramatic now she will think youre just being harsh or influenced.

My father always said if a woman becomes too possessive ,and wants to be over controlling like she is older and eldest than you as a husband,just quietly pack some few bags and leave the hux , since she feels she had a big mouth,she and ur family members are going to have a big fight of where is our brother ,, trust me ,go to churchs and see women praying up and down claiming they don't know their husband whereabouts but they receive alart to take care of the kids every month ,while some don't even bother to send money at all ,,

What kills faster in a man's life is a troublesome wife

richPHAROAH:
u bastard. why the Bleep will u be calling ex. u are lucky she never smashed it on your head . if she was the one that called her ex, u will be the forst to jump to nairaland to make a topic , my wife is cheating on me with her ex. idiot

Why are u pissed of bro ,
Is your ex tagged as ur enemy after a break up from a relationship that didn't go tru,,

Am sure u will call your ex if she is the one that has the power to sign your job offer letter and even ask for a cup of coffee together ,,piss of you hypocrite

olabrinks:
You missed the part where you cheated on her probably before marriage or after hence why she’s acting this way. No woman is going to behave like this out of nowhere.

Sis some ladies or some female are just naturally jealous,this one own bad pass hell ,
Wat men hate the most is not giving them a breathing space ,
He goes to work ,comes back 4pm ,he is about to eat because u are able to get hold of his phone u start asking who is Bella or why was ur phone busy for 10mins at 2pm

Weekend that the man is supposed to rest ,u insist we must go to antenatal to gether ,I don't kw am not married but your husband going with you almost all the time to antenatal done to make other ladies feel jealous in the clinic pls make me understand ,,,

And if a man still wants to cheat trust me ,he will do it with you even smelling it ,,

Learn how to drive she say no ,

Am very sure even bring in an house help into the hux ,the wife will one day say the husband is sleeping with the maid

I advise people these days to always install CCTV camera inside and outside their hux very important

Freestainworld:
Our people perish for lack of knowledge, if you have such amount of money, what are you traveling for when you can invest the moneyhere in Nigeria and make millions within the space of one yr, we have the population.

Oga shut up

MechanicalEngr:
Thanks for this comment, 30K in this current hardship is not realistic except you are staying in the village.it is better to double your hustle as a single guy to ensure your family is stable and have the basics (Good shelter & food). But if you have a partner who is fully aware of your current situation and has that drive to work towards getting out of poverty with you then get married to that person because the energy and support will be the driving force to take you out of your lowest low.

Even in d village na the same thing,like some one said ,gold is the same price every where depending on who sells it for you ,

Village people too don wise up