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emmaodet:
Lol but with that trend and action, that means divorce rate go sky rocket be that oooooo

just try Google what causes high BP in married men, ND u will b surprise to see that their wife is one of them, bro divorce or not, divorce is not meant to kill a person, since u feel ur position as a man is been seen As a trash then d best after much settling and it still changes nothing, it's to part way, that's the truth,

I understand fully well most women are turning into working class too to also beat their chest at their husband of what a man can do a woman can do better, thereby challenging the position of a man,

man way kw himself if such woman bring such around him just show her d door, Atleast she is well to do, and can survive on her own

Regiomontanus:
Thanks for sharing. Many of the foolish girls here are just opposing the topic without reading properly. They are even acting as if what the op said doesn't happen in real life. Some know that Martinez39 is speaking the truth and they have resorted to shaming language.

Many of these girls are like the kind of mothers in the op and they plan to do like the kind of mothers in the op so they are getting defensive.

I always believe in 1 thing, you can't hide the truth for long, u see those kids you think they wouldn't sit down to reason some days, definitely they will draw a puzzle between the father and the mother, and see how far each of them have contributed to their life /upbring,, that is why most of them have resorted (I mean the mothers) to bribing the kids with money to always be in support or favour of their actions, but still yet, the truth will be revealed someday, ,

To all the single guys out there,to every married man, to every hustler base in 9ja and outside 9ja,
pls and pls, create time for ur kids, it's very important,

I always speak from experience, I was at the backyard of my house the other day, and I noticed that my next door neighbor just had a misunderstanding with the wife and after the man left the house, the wife sat outside the house doing some hand laundry, with 2 of the kids around her, u need to see the way d lady was saying some harsh words to the kids about their father, I wouldn't want to say it, cus it was just not worth hearing such from her, I just went back into my room and I sat on my couch and reason that if this man and woman continues to have such a misunderstanding and while the wife spends more of the time with d kids, trust me, the kids will channel so much hate for their father, even thinking that their mother is the bread winner of the house, not knowing is their father ,,


So pls my fellow men out there,
always create time for your kids, call them, if u are base outside the country, do a Skype call with them,
often, if u can call them every day by evening call them because na old age matters o,
for u men who are within the country, calls check up on them via calls or chat, a 1 minutes call will go a long way in their thinking about anyone has said or told them concerning u

Speaking from experience, that's is what saved my own father that we still use to respect him till date, even though my own mother backlash at hime at his back ,a day never passes by my father doesn't drop a call on my cell phone, infact he call me pass mtn,
and dat is what I have actually used to prove my mother wrong,

I hate people that pretend,

emmaodet:
Bro, you sef see am. This generation is nothing to write home about.
The average lady don't want to be corrected, they don't want to be accountable to anybody.
They want marriage on there own terms and conditions.
They want marriage but still want to keep all the benefits of when single

life is simple, even as American b way we day imitate, the man is still the man of the hux

when the woman wan challenge ur action in a very annoying way, or use ur authority rub ground, just tell her to pack her things and go back to her parents house, ,,na man way day do like woman, women day dance on top, don't beat her, don't hit her just send her packing

theButterfly:
You had a "long courtship" and should've seen these behaviors in her. Her provocative dressing was probably what attracted you to her in the first place. If you didn't or couldn't stop her from "dressing like a harlot" [strong word] or being insultive during your courtship, it's going to be difficult - although not impossible - to change her now, after 3+ years of marriage.

this is the problem with some guys, how can u date a lady because u want to impress ur guys that ur babe is the hottest, na there op problem for start so,
during courtship this lady goes out with u on hot skimpy skirt and ur guys they hail u, op as ur report am to her parents e good,

and people are saying why will op report her to her parents, if I may ask who should he report her to, ?his parents, of course not,

Atleast the parents of the op wife should be aware say marriage don day tire their daughter o,they should not be surprised to see her with her load one day o at ther doormot

greatnaija01:
you all look at the wrong thing... WHAT IF THIS SO CALLED CUTE MAN.... changes after your sister gets pregnant... ?

WHAT IF SOMETHING HAPPENS IN THOSE THREE MONTHS that cancels the wedding.


See, PREGNANCY DOES NOT TIE ANY MAN DOWN.... your sister who likes clubbing is right to be scared. But her clubbing must stop... Its not a responsible life o to be clubbing at 35? And YOU CAN NOT TRUST A MAN YOU MET AT THE CLUB,

Juliet Ibrahim met her EX HUBBY in a stripper club... look at how it turned out... IT ENDED IN A BAD WAY.

See, if the man has money, let him do court wedding first... which is so cheap and then he can get her pregnant.


PLS BE WISE O.

that lady isn't going any where the moment she take in, I don't understand some girls o,if u see a man that loves u, don't u kw, this one say u must get Belle first, and he isn't even based in nigeria, that says it all,

but na wa for the op sister o,at 35 still clubbing, I bet u she has nothing upstairs

kuuljay:
you believe charm works but don't believe in God, you have chosen the side of Satan right?

u even get to exchange words with them, the truth is an average nigeria believes God will come down to save them, go to most homes in nigeria and trust me bro u will not see any body at home on Sunday morning, so when I see people come online to point fingers at pastors, I just laugh becus I kw they are hypocrites, ,,

even if na juju the pastor's they day use,make them too go do d juju, if u fit,

pastor do healing, una go vex

pastor advise, una go vex,

pastor do deliverance, una go vex,

I Have come to noticed that an average nigeria doesn't like to hear good news, they are always angry when u share good news with them, ,,if u are succeeding in nigeria hide yourself, na who kw of ur success

enemyofprogress:
Make him go mortuary now, if na respect dey hungry am

I pray u don't fall victim of a medical condition that will be difficult to solve, I bet na church way u that get mouth criticise,Na there u go spend most of the night praying for deliverance, ,watch your mouth bro, people insult doesn't mean u should join them, tomorrow is Sunday and I can bet u, ur people online insulting the pastor are going to be the first to attend Sunday service tomorrow morning,

obojememe:
some people are gullible to some extent and they will still fall victim even after several warnings...MMM comes to mind

I will never forget mmm,they make me use my final year school fees, Dem, na God save me, if not my village people for happy for my extension

SultanOfAbia:
If People tell you what they are facing in this life...
You go understand how crazy it is out here
I'm not condoning crime

with ur first statement,u are indirectly supporting crime,
there is something we call patience, endurance, those 2 terms exist in the bible, Koran and in science, if u lack those 2 things no matter how u become rich, u can't still be patient for the business to grow, ,,

there are lot of things we can do to survive, but we just lack patience, that's the problem with us, we kw wan suffer, but we wan eat and dine with d richest people,
Money way u suffer and sweat to get, u will value it more ,

for the professor issue, definitely the school will deny him, cultist that are killed in their university, the school also reject them as their students, who wants to have a bad reputation

Nigeria girls that don't appreciate what they have(nigeria guys) someone is fighting for us oo

ABCthings:
how will VPN save you from your ISP?

don't mind him,

Oceannaagent:
Funny how people come up with such idea
we are not North Korea

and who told u n.korea are the only ones with such law in their telecommunications, dubia too has it,why do u think 9ja people hardly go to uae to commit fraud? every of ur conversation they are aware of it,logging into website not been signed by them will not open, why do u think Facebook doesn't work in china? they have their own Facebook, where there have access to everyone conversation,
they there bro, we are just too backward

basiekanem25:
God bless you.A common man cannot buy his brand of cars

at all

he should start buy producing Kia shaped car not just diving in to jeep production, like someone said, his pr is doing a very poor job,

how many 9ja people fit buy new Toyota corolla, if not to wait after 15 years b4 buying, no job and he wants us to buy innoson jeep na wa o

babyfaceafrica:
why is innoson not marketing well?

when people don't buy ur products how will u market well?

yes he will have to reduce his cost of selling, but should it b at the detriment of his business becus he wants an average nigeria to have innoson vehicle in their hux,

my only question is within this innoson state, hw many people have this car as their personal drive?

shadeyinka:
The phrase "most Nigerian girls"! Is wrong. Speak of your own frame of reference.

You are a Yahoo boy and a club guy: you look for girls in your filthy environment: what do you expect?

I will submit that the average Nigerian girl is decent. Go to the right places and you'll find them.

and where is the right place if I may ask pls,

Fountainofyouth:
With the kind of disloyal men we have these days, it is very much allowed.

has there even been loyal men since the existence of this world,

many people don't kw what to write, becus the news is just too strange to comprehend,

dear blogger please try write out your our words and not lifting words completely from other sites as news for people

A country where the youths are not united, pls to who ever cares to listen, it's a completely waste of time fighting the government, we lack co-operative bodies in our society,

the only strong body I kw is ASUU, that's y there is one voice of no class,and everybody stays at home, the rest na wayo voice,

spirul77:
wait o, you Mean this kind many people dey online Thia time? una no dey sleep?

we are thinking of Nigeria problem, while some are thinking of suicide,

aremuforlife:
And this set people will come back to oppress the hard working people.and look down on them as if they are not working hard enough to meet up.
We need to change our orientation.

na u even day reason them o,
when I step outside my home,
I don't admire any vehicle that passes me, I don't even look back,

if u carry my babe becus say u don arrive, I go leave the girl for u,

I kw say money day jump from one hand to the other,if ur purpose of becoming wealthy is to oppress people, my dear I leave their matter for nature to take control,

na u they give them eye, I kw send u according to burna boy o

frbona:
Curiously
Where is he from?

it doesn't matter, the world community doesn't care which tribe he comes from all they see is he is a Nigerian, when am American takes a gun and gun people down and u see the news online do u care to ask if he is from Washington or Atlanta or Georgia,
or Wisconsin, wat comes to ur mind is he is an American , which state is he from isn't ur concern,

I believe u are educated start acting like one

Ijaya123:
6.
Slack battery terminal

dats what am experiencing right now,
and it is caused when u are fond of removing your battery all the time, probably because the environment where the car is packed isn't safe

zjescomltd:
may God help your life bro!!!! cos u're dead man living, waste of being!!;!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

are u better than him,
so because he weeds
drink
womanize
he is a wasted being,

freemanbubble:
This are weak men
That is why sometimes he good make man dey smoke or womanize or drink alcohol. If you dey do any of this three ehnnnn suicide nor go fit come your mind


Nothing go make me commit suicide

No matter what because me i dey do the three things. I dey carry woman, I dey drink and i dey smoke weed.

When i check my result last year
Na so so F i see

Fortran F
Pascal F

Immediately na im i call my guy make he buy 1500 naira weed
Na so i smoke all night till 2am
Devil punish Uniben na me them want frustrate.
Las last i go dey alright because nor be only school them take dey better

and it's the truth as a man u must do any of the 3
weed

womanize

drink ,

when I see people way no day do any of them, infact their behavior be like mumu / even their reasoning self day one kin

INDUSTRIALFAN:
what he does it have anything to do with scamming or stealing? No. America that you guys want Nigeria to be like don't they do such?

a thief that steals from his own compound or from his family is no body business, but when he extends his stealing to another person's compound nobody will take it likely with him anymore, that is why people are against this yahoo yahoo right now,

INDUSTRIALFAN:
no he has never. Why would he? He is from a wealthy home.

that's where people in 9ja have gotten it wrong, they think yahoo is the best means of survival in 9ja,

we need proper orientation of the youth both d up coming ones,and this can b don by d cyber-crime agency

Internet fraud has done more harm to 9ja,if the fraud is within the country it would have been better but defrauding other countries is wat is pissing the other nations off

princfred:
Exactly the point. Even at girlfriend level it does make a huge difference. Hundred nay mlions of girls have lost potential husbands due to sublimally imbibed misguided orientation from there so called girlfriend who may be secretly envying her relationship or even eyeing their bf. So many real life stories abound to that.

I hardly use people story as examples, I will tell u my own experience, I wish lady can tell, they think their friends are happy they have a perfect relationship or perfect marriage,

we are gradually entering an era where females will will b one begging for relationship not d other way around,
I kw very well for op wife to suddenly start to act in secure,then op needs to check d wife company's,

princfred:
Of course and that's very fine.
Yet a non stingy wive; a fine compliment otherwise the man can be made a goat if things go south for him financially by the very woman he made a queen.

If I may ask, is your wife from Rivers state and has she started associating with igbo women which precipitated the change ? Beware of her latest company.

Evil communication corrupt good manners,
dat is what is really destroying some people homes,
u just typed what I hadin mind,
it's ok for a married woman to be friends with another married woman,but d moment d friend is out of d marriage pls just cut or let me use a more light term, reduce the friendship, becus what influence will d friendship now be,ooooh finally I am free,or don't trust any man,i can move at my free well, nobody can order me around, I guess that is the discussion when ever they meet,


my mother best friend was a lady who was no longer married to the husband, and that was how my mother also left her marriage, all in the name of freedom,

show me ur friend and I will tell u who u are

[quote author=donbachi post=81754620]Guys make una hustle oo..so dat u no go wait for wife to submit
hustle good bro, but there is something u are missing, even if u hustle, u will indirectly increase ur wife lifestyle, becus u believe say na hustle go make her lve, I pray make we know hustle at the end with all d money, the woman still give u high BP,
try understand a girl even as u day hustle to nulture her taste, else u are in trouble, becus she go one day sound am give u say, I thought u said u are money spender,